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Podcast Host - Southern Tea Intro Host
A Southern girl, a proud boy, mom, and someone figuring it out one day at a time. Join me each week as we dive into honest conversations about motherhood, relationships, family, personal growth, and everything in between. Expect real talk, genuine laughter, thoughtful perspectives, and conversations that remind us we're all learning as we go. Because at the end of the day, the best conversations are the ones that we have together.
Lindsay Chrisley
Good morning and welcome back to another episode of the Southern Tea. This is going to probably feel same but different because I don't feel like
Hunter Prestridge
there were a lot of issues
Lindsay Chrisley
went through an entire rebranding and I want to be clear with that rebranding process. I have dates, I have calendar invites, I have all of that.
Hunter Prestridge
If you guys want to see it,
Lindsay Chrisley
would be happy to provide it.
Hunter Prestridge
Now there's going to be some people that's going to hate on it and
Lindsay Chrisley
be like, oh, she went through this
Hunter Prestridge
rebranding after the recent events. I didn't.
Lindsay Chrisley
Takes a long time to do that stuff if you are methodically doing that and if you're putting time and effort into doing that. And so I want to hear your perspective on that. I am joined by my assistant and also best friend Hunter.
Hunter Prestridge
Hey, you guys would love to hear
Lindsay Chrisley
your perspective on that because I think a lot of people probably are going
Hunter Prestridge
to say, oh, she's rebranding because of the events.
Lindsay Chrisley
That has nothing to do with that.
Kristen
Yeah, absolutely not the case. She definitely started this rebrand prior to the events that we're currently working through. And we had started it months before, actually, thoughts of talks of photo shoots, all of this stuff. And it just during the hiatus, she was able to really pinpoint and finalize some things that she wanted to do to make this better for the audience. And so that's been the situation. And none of it's not been because of any type of event that's happened in your life. It's just because we wanted something new and thought you guys deserved to see a different side of us, a more authentic side. So.
Lindsay Chrisley
And I think because people were so used to I involve people on this
Hunter Prestridge
show that are so intricately involved in my personal life.
Lindsay Chrisley
So it's been Caroline, it's been Kelly,
Hunter Prestridge
it's been you, it's been Kristen, it's
Lindsay Chrisley
been all of the people. And I want to very gently say, without giving a ton of details, because there are certain parts of stories that are not mine to give. If someone is no longer involved in my life, there is a reason for that because I am making better choices. And over the past five, six, seven weeks, I have made a choice to remove myself from certain people's lives that do not align with where I'm going. And I think that's fair.
Podcast Host - Southern Tea Intro Host
Right.
Kristen
That don't benefit you.
Hunter Prestridge
But it's not just a benefit, right? It's. It needs to be a mutually beneficial.
Kristen
Absolutely. That's what a relationship is.
Hunter Prestridge
Relationship. And if, if it's only a one
Lindsay Chrisley
sided relationship, I no longer am going to participate.
Hunter Prestridge
Participate or adhere to those terms.
Lindsay Chrisley
That's not to talk shit about anybody. That's just we all go through seasons of friendships where we're friends when it is collectively mutual, and then a season of life where it's. That no longer serves me. And so we've got to get off the bus there.
Kristen
I agree. I think it's very healthy to outgrow friendships. I think, you know, you've got certain friends that you will have forever and for always and you know exactly who those are. Unfortunately. I do think that there's also friendships that come into your life at a certain point probably because you need them and they need you. And then you guys go through that and that comes to an end. It's human nature. And I mean, I have done it many a times and there's been certain
Lindsay Chrisley
friendships that even when I've got out of them, I grieve those friendships while also knowing it's not healthy for me
Hunter Prestridge
to continue those friendships. Right.
Lindsay Chrisley
I, I can grieve that process knowing, oh, I could have picked up the phone and called that person. I could have picked up the phone and called that person and they go
Hunter Prestridge
directly to the Internet. Right.
Kristen
Which is unfortunately what happens.
Lindsay Chrisley
That's unfortunately what has happened in my situation. And I want to be very clear. People talking about my friendships, it's not because I'm a bad friend. I feel like I'm a great friend.
Hunter Prestridge
And unfortunately I feel like I am too open. And I am.
Lindsay Chrisley
I will invite anybody into my house. And Hunter has said that, like, these
Hunter Prestridge
people need to be vetted.
Kristen
Absolutely. On top of that, I mean, this is your safe Space. This is, like, where you raise your son. This is literally your peace and your sanctuary. We can't just have anyone coming in
Hunter Prestridge
and so anybody talking about stuff on
Lindsay Chrisley
the Internet, whether you're like, oh, such and such. Is not following such and such.
Hunter Prestridge
Okay, great.
Lindsay Chrisley
There's a reason for that. It's also not worth my time to discuss it because I have invested so much time, so much energy, so much everything into those relationships that if someone wants to come out and talk and not do it through an alias, do it because I'm here. I'm here. And I know what the truth was. I know what was done, and I'm
Hunter Prestridge
gonna leave it at that.
Kristen
Yeah. I mean, if they want to come for you, they better come with receipts.
Lindsay Chrisley
Come with the receipts, because guess what?
Hunter Prestridge
I am the queen.
Kristen
Correct.
Hunter Prestridge
Of receipts.
Kristen
Yep.
Lindsay Chrisley
With that being said,
Hunter Prestridge
there is an entire rebranding that is being launched when the. This episode launches.
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Yes.
Lindsay Chrisley
That's a new face. Not a new face outside of me.
Hunter Prestridge
Right. It just is going to look like a face lift.
Lindsay Chrisley
That was in a time that I did all of those photos prior to my downfall with David. And I want to be honest about
Hunter Prestridge
that, because I was scrambling at that moment.
Lindsay Chrisley
I knew that I wanted to do something different for my show. I knew that I had to turn over certain assets to this rebranding company, which I very much trusted. And I knew I had to go
Hunter Prestridge
and put on a brave face.
Lindsay Chrisley
And did I want to do it?
Hunter Prestridge
No, I didn't want to do it,
Lindsay Chrisley
but I signed up to do it for that day. And it gave me a little peace in the moment of uncertainty. And I want to encourage everybody who's listening to this that, like, there is always something, some sense of peace that you can find in all moments of uncertainty.
Madison
Right.
Hunter Prestridge
Like, it sucks.
Kristen
It does suck. Life sucks.
Hunter Prestridge
When you're going through,
Lindsay Chrisley
you can always find, like, something small to make you breathe. And that was something small that made me feel a sense of. I can focus on this community right now, in this moment, and I can give them what they deserve to be given. And I don't have to focus on any of that.
Hunter Prestridge
That other stuff, right? Like, absolutely, yes.
Lindsay Chrisley
Did I think about all the other things after the fact that I did that? Yes.
Hunter Prestridge
I would be a liar if I said I didn't. I did. You know I did.
Kristen
You did.
Lindsay Chrisley
But I put on the brave face
Hunter Prestridge
and I did it.
Lindsay Chrisley
And I ran across. I was just scrolling on TikTok last night, and I ran across a tik tok, and I think her Name's Uncommon Karen and she reports on me and Kale all the time.
Kristen
All the time.
Lindsay Chrisley
All the time.
Kristen
She's been popping up on mine and
Lindsay Chrisley
it's probably cuz our algorithms are very similar. I'm sure she got a lot of hate for the video that she posted. Because I am human, right? I read the comments and it was a, a photo from the tour date
Hunter Prestridge
that I went on in Charlotte and it was regarding my weight.
Lindsay Chrisley
I have always somewhat struggled with my weight to some degree. I talked about it in my parents federal trial. I testified to that. Like I have done all of those things. But I think that when you are coping with something, you find a coping mechanism and it, you latch on to what you can control. I'm not saying that it is healthy by any means. You have not directly come to me and said, hey, your weight's concerning, but in a roundabout way you have meal prep for you.
Kristen
So I'm like, are you eating all of this?
Hunter Prestridge
Yeah.
Kristen
What do we need to do? More protein based, like, what do we need to do?
Lindsay Chrisley
And I think people don't understand that if you haven't been through certain situations, you, you don't understand that your weight and your intake can be a control mechanism that, that you latch on to because you feel like you can control nothing else. I have been through so much over the past six months and that is not to minimize anybody else's right. Like when I say there are so many people going through so many harder things than what I'm going through that you could look at me and be
Hunter Prestridge
like, oh, that's a blip on a map.
Lindsay Chrisley
But with that being said, like, this is my life and this is something that I'm dealing with. So, so you're viewing me, I'm gonna shout out Uncommon Karen because she got a, a huge backlash for commenting on my weight. But I believe she got a huge backlash because she says so many things about me and Kale. And I think she listens to the podcast and she gives her perspective on the thing. She's like, oh, well, I don't agree with her here and I don't agree with Kale there. And I don't fair.
Hunter Prestridge
We're putting ourself out there to be
Lindsay Chrisley
scrutinized to some degree, right? And so she's valid to, to have those opinions. We can't, we can't control what somebody who's tick tocking and posting on Facebook or whatever they're doing. And I'm not trying to control that. But I think where she got the backlash was because she's done all of those things, and then she's like, oh, I'm actually concerned for Lindsay's weight because I didn't realize the gravity of what she's been through. And I don't think anybody will ever realize the gravity of what I've been through other than the people who are with me every single day. And you can speak to that?
Kristen
Yeah, I absolutely can. And, you know, the truth is, is I could see how it's alarming to the people who are not in your life every day, but being with her practically every day. We don't see each other every day, but we talk nonstop. So, you know, she's. She's in a really good state of mind. I will say that. And for what?
Hunter Prestridge
I would say a better state of
Kristen
mind for what she's going through. I would say that she's in a. Okay, yes, a better state of mind. I don't think that this is something that is over with by any means, but I do think that through the negativity and, you know, the really unfortunate things that have happened, I think that she's trying to make the best out of it and trying to learn lessons in each thing that she's done. And, yeah, so I understand how people would have a perspective, but I also think that their perspectives, some of the ones that I read, are often incredibly wrong. So. And we could. That could be a whole deep dive.
Lindsay Chrisley
And I mean, it's okay because I have said so many times, people take
Hunter Prestridge
what they see on social media, right?
Lindsay Chrisley
And they dissect that stuff.
Hunter Prestridge
And we do put ourselves out there
Lindsay Chrisley
for that to be dissected, of course, but people also think that we put
Hunter Prestridge
ourselves out there with intent for it to be dissected.
Lindsay Chrisley
And that's also not the case. Like, when I think about things that I want to post, and I know it's ignorance when I say it, I think about my personal friends who are following me. I don't think about the collective. The collective of all the other people following me. And I should be more mindful, but also to the point that I'm more
Hunter Prestridge
mindful that I'm censoring myself, that I'm not being authentic.
Kristen
You're not. And that's what people are here for, is to see you in your authentic state. So.
Lindsay Chrisley
And like, I want to post the
Hunter Prestridge
things that are authentic to me.
Lindsay Chrisley
And what people have to say is what people have to say, and take
Hunter Prestridge
it or leave it. Dissect it, hate me, love me, do
Lindsay Chrisley
whatever you want to do I do want to say I've never discussed anybody's weight ever on a public platform or privately? I would not do that. I'm glad that Uncommon Karen came to the point that she listened to me, thought I was a fraud, saw photos of me that were not posted by me, and came to a different conclusion.
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Lindsay Chrisley
This has been hard.
Hunter Prestridge
Yeah, it's been really hard.
Lindsay Chrisley
And people in my real life have seen me navigate all of this stuff and it has not been beautiful.
Hunter Prestridge
Like there has been nothing about this
Lindsay Chrisley
that has been a glory moment for me.
Kristen
It's been life changing and altering.
Lindsay Chrisley
It has because it's made me think different. It's made me truly navigate in a different way. It's made me think about myself differently. It's made me think about the things that are broken in me that need to be fixed. It's made me think about things that were good about me that were misused. It's made me, it's tested my character in a lot of ways. It has impacted me in a way that nobody actually understands. And I have seen so many people DM me and say, oh, well, maybe it'll make you think differently with Will dating somebody else. No, because my intentions were always pure when I was reviewing those situations.
Hunter Prestridge
Right.
Lindsay Chrisley
Like that's not. We can say a lot of things, but my intentions have always been pure. Have I come across as crass? Yes. Have I come across abrasive?
Podcast Host - Southern Tea Intro Host
Absolutely.
Lindsay Chrisley
Yes. Would I change the way that I handle certain situations?
Hunter Prestridge
No.
Lindsay Chrisley
Because I know more information than what other people know. And so when I'm navigating certain situations and I'm talking about those, it's not for me to out his side of that situation because he's not public facing.
Kristen
I agree.
Hunter Prestridge
And so I'm getting the end of the deal.
Lindsay Chrisley
When I'm talking about that stuff, it's like, why are we fucking people who want to have kids but they can't have a kid with you? Why are we fucking them?
Hunter Prestridge
Why are we leading them on?
Lindsay Chrisley
Why are we doing any of that stuff?
Hunter Prestridge
I love the fact that he's with
Lindsay Chrisley
a girlfriend now that has two children. I love that.
Hunter Prestridge
Yeah, you heard me tell him that tonight.
Kristen
I did. I did.
Lindsay Chrisley
I love it. Because there is a level of understanding.
Hunter Prestridge
Don't put somebody in my child's life that is not going to remain.
Kristen
Yeah.
Hunter Prestridge
And that sounds like a hypocrite because
Lindsay Chrisley
I have been in situations, three different
Hunter Prestridge
relationships that did not remain, but the core.
Lindsay Chrisley
The core of that situation when we're doing vetting.
Madison
Right.
Hunter Prestridge
If someone came to me today and
Lindsay Chrisley
said, hey, my goals are to be with you and I know that you have a 13 year old, but I want to have a kid within the next year, get the out of my
Kristen
house, it's just not there right now.
Hunter Prestridge
It's just not there.
Kristen
Right.
Lindsay Chrisley
For him. It's not there ever.
Kristen
You weren't joking when you said you were gonna get diabolical, were you?
Lindsay Chrisley
No, I wasn't joking because I'm gonna be honest, like, and it's not to out anybody.
Kristen
No, it's not outing, but it's just facts are facts. And I don't know why people want to speak around them and pretend that one thing is the case when.
Lindsay Chrisley
But also I've been.
Kristen
Goes back to receipts.
Lindsay Chrisley
I have been. And I understand when people say, oh, she's like breadcrumbing or she's this or she's that. Yes, I absolutely have done that. And I will acknowledge the fact that I have freaking done it.
Kristen
You also have to at a certain
Lindsay Chrisley
extent, but to some extent I have to be careful about certain things that I say. So if you guys want to know the whole nitty gritty and you want to continue hearing my co parenting stuff, either I have to fall on the side of I'm gonna keep that at bay or I'm just gonna tell it all.
Kristen
Yeah.
Lindsay Chrisley
And then I can fight with my ex husband in our real life and y' all can hear about it next week.
Hunter Prestridge
Like, what am I supposed to do?
Kristen
I think it's healthy to err on the side of not cautious, but honesty. And I always do that too. It's almost, it's definitely one of those things like speak first, ask for forgiveness after the fact. I live like that. And I don't. No, that's necessarily a healthy thing. But I'm also not going to lie or tell mistruths for somebody else.
Lindsay Chrisley
But to some degree I'm a liar
Hunter Prestridge
because to some degree I am a
Lindsay Chrisley
liar by omitting certain parts of the truth because I'm giving my parts of
Hunter Prestridge
the truth and I'm omitting stuff to protect other people.
Kristen
You may be a lot of things, but a liar you are not. And I understand the omittance in protecting people. That, that is understandable. You know what I mean? You, you, you live in the, you know, the public facing eye. Right. So you understand what it's like to have really negative things in the media. And so with that And I don't
Hunter Prestridge
want anybody else to have to face it. Right.
Lindsay Chrisley
Like, I have struggled so hard with my relationship with my ex husband. Because yes, he signed on when we started doing Chrisley Knows Best. Like if he says he didn't sign the contract. Liar.
Hunter Prestridge
You did.
Kristen
Right.
Lindsay Chrisley
You did. You also signed a parenting plan. That cannot prevent me from having Jackson on tv. Which. Watch out. Why are we now scrambling at this point?
Hunter Prestridge
Because you know what?
Lindsay Chrisley
I'm actually going to get diabolical because you overheard a conversation. Not overheard. I had it sitting here with Jackson and you.
Madison
Yes.
Lindsay Chrisley
A couple of weeks ago. Yes, there is an opportunity for me. Jackson wants to be involved. Express that he wanted to be involved. But since the general public thinks that I'm such a bitch. Was I a bitch in that situation?
Kristen
No. I think you called just to try and speak about it in a dual parenting, but not in the same household.
Lindsay Chrisley
Knowing. Knowing damn well in my parenting plan. I did not have to do that. I'm going to go above and beyond because I feel like that was the right thing to do.
Kristen
It was. It was being honest and being transparent.
Lindsay Chrisley
And I'm not gonna blindside somebody. No, I wouldn't do that in a relationship. I would not do that to my co parent.
Kristen
Because you don't want to be blindsided
Lindsay Chrisley
and I don't want to be blindsided.
Kristen
Correct.
Lindsay Chrisley
So I'm gonna give the courtesy.
Hunter Prestridge
Do unto others as you want done to you.
Kristen
Absolutely.
Lindsay Chrisley
1,000%.
Hunter Prestridge
Did that end well?
Lindsay Chrisley
No, it didn't.
Kristen
But you guys have moved past it now.
Lindsay Chrisley
Am I still going to do what
Hunter Prestridge
I want to do?
Kristen
Absolutely.
Hunter Prestridge
Absolutely.
Kristen
Yeah.
Lindsay Chrisley
Yes, I am. But is it out there in the open and was there a conversation? Had.
Hunter Prestridge
Yes, there was.
Kristen
Yes, there was.
Hunter Prestridge
What am I supposed to do at that point?
Kristen
Nothing. At least you were transparent. You told him the opportunities and discussed the potentiality of it. Jackson explained, expressed his part.
Lindsay Chrisley
People want to talk about how I've been mean to every girlfriend that Will has had. Well, I don't know of many, but the ones that he has had, I in fact have been mean to.
Hunter Prestridge
That is a fact.
Lindsay Chrisley
They also wanted children. They also never, as his mother ever addressed me, but was willing to be around my child, which is concerning. Yeah, I would never be around somebody's child without the mother knowing.
Kristen
Meeting and having a conversation ever, one on one.
Lindsay Chrisley
Now, in the three relationships that I was in, one mother I met pretty early on, pretty kosher, no issue. The second one I asked to meet and also requested that that mother know that there was somebody around them. The third situation, the mother knew because he put me on FaceTime. Pretty much off the rip. So she knew that you were there,
Hunter Prestridge
That I was there.
Kristen
Right.
Lindsay Chrisley
I also requested that mother to meet her and went to her home to meet her prior to ever traveling with that child. Because that's the courtesy that I would have wanted for me as a mother. I can't ask for something and then do something different and expect a different result.
Kristen
I agree.
Lindsay Chrisley
I can't do that's.
Hunter Prestridge
A hypocrite.
Kristen
Others do unto others, right? Yes.
Hunter Prestridge
Unfortunately, when I met that mother, I found out a lot of information that I didn't want to find out. Nonetheless, still met her, still put on my big girl pants.
Lindsay Chrisley
10 year age difference of her and me.
Hunter Prestridge
Lovely person.
Kristen
Yeah.
Lindsay Chrisley
Don't have anything bad to say about her.
Hunter Prestridge
Probably didn't like me.
Lindsay Chrisley
Well, I wouldn't probably like, you know, if somebody addressed me in that situation,
Hunter Prestridge
I probably would be like, oh, well,
Lindsay Chrisley
you're gonna around and find out because you're with my ex husband.
Hunter Prestridge
You know, like I already did.
Kristen
Right.
Hunter Prestridge
She essentially did say that.
Lindsay Chrisley
But with that being said, I at least put on my big girl pants
Hunter Prestridge
and said, hey, like, we're going to the beach. This is what we're doing. I want you to put a face to a name. If you need anything. Here is my phone number. She will not be in harm's way.
Lindsay Chrisley
Please reach out to me if you need anything. If he doesn't answer the phone, call me.
Hunter Prestridge
And you want to get to her, call me. Yeah, that's what I would want somebody to do to me.
Kristen
Absolutely.
Lindsay Chrisley
Which is why I move forward doing that.
Hunter Prestridge
So if anybody says anything different, it's a lie and I can prove it.
Kristen
Oh, yeah.
Hunter Prestridge
And I am the queen of, of receipt.
Kristen
Hallelujah.
Hunter Prestridge
The queen of receipt.
Lindsay Chrisley
Moving on from that.
Kristen
Speaking of the next diabolical.
Lindsay Chrisley
No, there's been so much diabolical stuff that's happened. I'm just like, what?
Kristen
It literally has been so much the
Lindsay Chrisley
past couple of months, and I'm like, I just want to rebrand, have a new show, have a facelift, like, also take 95 vacations. Which, you know, that's another thing that I need to address. People saying, oh, well, she took five weeks off, I took five weeks off. But I also took a pay cut when I did that. So like, I'm actually sick of that not being addressed. And it should have been addressed by other people, not just me. I took a pay cut by doing that. And that was a choice. And people want to say, oh, I
Hunter Prestridge
don't live in reality because I can
Lindsay Chrisley
take a pay cut. No. I've governed my life to be able to choose that. So I took a pay cut because that was in the best interest of my mental health. It was in the best interest of my child. It was in the best interest of my co parenting relationship. It was the best interest of any business relationship that I have.
Hunter Prestridge
It was also in the best interest
Lindsay Chrisley
of myself to be able to figure out legally what I need to do. And not just one situation, but a multitude of situations.
Kristen
Yeah, I agree. I think you. I think if, if you had not taken a break, it would have been a much different outcome. And I was pushing for that. I was like, it's time to step away for a minute.
Hunter Prestridge
And everybody was pushing for it.
Lindsay Chrisley
Everybody was pushing because I am very much. I'm my biggest critic. And when I get to the point of anybody can say anything to me and think that they're telling me something about myself, but I already know it.
Hunter Prestridge
Right.
Lindsay Chrisley
So you're not telling me anything. Yeah, I already know it. And I'm marinating on. On it and I'm sleeping on it and I'm laying on it and I
Hunter Prestridge
won't leave my house.
Lindsay Chrisley
And people will come to do a wellness check.
Kristen
Like, absolutely.
Lindsay Chrisley
I. I don't think that people understand. Like, I'm kikiing around.
Kristen
Yeah. You're not just having.
Hunter Prestridge
When was I doing that?
Kristen
You're literally. When she says hiatus, it's a hiatus. She's. What is it? It's like, what do they call it? It's like bombarding yourself into the house or like barricading yourself in the house.
Hunter Prestridge
That is.
Kristen
That's your aesthetics. You just want to peace. That was me and binging Netflix.
Lindsay Chrisley
Like, I was never leaving this house. People think that I was just negating my job. And I say job because I love what I do. So when I'm at my happiest, it doesn't feel like a job. Right.
Kristen
Yeah.
Lindsay Chrisley
People say I was negating my job. No, I had business conversations to make sure that everything was covered and took a percentage cut to make sure that was all covered so that I could do what I needed to do. And it wasn't like I was just kikiing around this town where I was just like, going to lunch or I was going to a massage or I was going to get a facelift or a boob job or Pilates or any of that. I wasn't doing Pilates.
Kristen
On pause.
Lindsay Chrisley
It went on pause.
Kristen
Yeah. The whole time.
Lindsay Chrisley
I was not even going to do that. And and that is my sanctuary.
Kristen
Correct?
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Lindsay Chrisley
I took time to myself with no outside influence of anything to wrap my brain around what was going on. I needed to create new eating habits, I needed to create a new schedule. I needed to create boundaries. I needed to do all of those things and think about what was going on. There are multiple legal situations that are going on. It's just not one legal situation. And I think that people don't understand that. And I keep bringing up on common Karen, thank you for acknowledging the fact that that I, number one am not a liar. Like I am struggling, I am in a struggle moment. Like I can acknowledge the fact I don't look well I haven't looked well for a period of time. I went through a full blown crash out. That was somebody that. And you know this, that was somebody that. I genuinely thought that we were going to raise our children from two different marriages. Right. And like I could have loved her like she was my own, because I did. And I genuinely believed he loved him like he was his own. I genuinely believe that we could have meshed those lives so easily. We did a lot of things that were the same. And you and I have had private conversations about that. That like that's what's causing me.
Hunter Prestridge
Sorry, the birds.
Kristen
To grieve the way that's what's causing
Lindsay Chrisley
me to grieve the way that I'm grieving. Because it doesn't just end one night. Right. Like, yes, inevitably, what ended up happening, within about two hours, an event happened. Police got involved and then were bound by the government to not be able to communicate. I want people to resonate with that. Like, it's not a choice. Like, I can't reach out to him. He can't reach out to me. If I did that, I would go to jail. If he did that, he'd go to jail.
Kristen
Yep.
Lindsay Chrisley
It's a very serious matter and I have taken it very seriously. But with that understanding of it being very serious, I want people to also understand that like there are emotions that are around that that have nothing to do with that. I loved him and I also love him. I want nothing bad to happen to him. The situation is what the situation is. Media reported on what they reported. I'm not commenting on what was reported.
Hunter Prestridge
Right.
Lindsay Chrisley
That's not my place. I will backtrack that. It's not, it's not a position that I'm going to take because I personally feel like this is. State did what the state did and that had nothing to do with me.
Kristen
That is the fact.
Lindsay Chrisley
That is the fact. And so because of that, I can honestly say that that was somebody that I have to grieve because I was in love with that person. And I can never apologize for being in love with somebody.
Kristen
There's no point in for what? For apologizing. Anyone who would ask you to apologize for that is.
Hunter Prestridge
But I feel like a lot of
Lindsay Chrisley
people want me to apologize and they're
Hunter Prestridge
like, oh, tooth or oh, blah, blah,
Lindsay Chrisley
like whatever they want to call it. Like, I don't, I don't know.
Hunter Prestridge
Just like what my team tells me. Great. Like they can all feel that way
Lindsay Chrisley
about them or about him.
Hunter Prestridge
You didn't sleep with him. You didn't do life with him. You didn't shower with him, you didn't
Lindsay Chrisley
say bedtime prayers with him, you didn't go to church with him, you didn't
Hunter Prestridge
do activities with him, you didn't travel
Lindsay Chrisley
with him, you didn't do any of that stuff.
Hunter Prestridge
And that's not a defense for him.
Kristen
It's unfair for somebody, a third party.
Hunter Prestridge
And you struggle with it a little
Kristen
bit and a watcher to give an opinion and then expect you to live off of, based off of that opinion.
Hunter Prestridge
But you've struggled with it a little bit because some stuff that I say, you'll check me and be like, no, Lindsay.
Kristen
Yeah, I do. But I've also had a situation very similar to this in my life and people can say what they want to about that, but it took me a long time to get over said individual. And they always say it takes half the time or is it like double the time that you're with the person to actually get over them?
Lindsay Chrisley
I don't know. We'll go to our listeners for them
Hunter Prestridge
to tell us that statistic. Like, I don't know.
Lindsay Chrisley
But what I also want people to
Hunter Prestridge
understand is that it has nothing to
Lindsay Chrisley
do with the trauma of what happened. Like, I felt that way about him
Hunter Prestridge
prior to anything happening. And I think that's why I struggle with it so bad, because I don't
Lindsay Chrisley
want anything bad to happen to anybody
Hunter Prestridge
that I have ever loved. That goes for my parents, that goes for my siblings, that goes for my
Lindsay Chrisley
relationship that I was in and future relationships. I want nothing bad to happen to anybody. Even if somebody has, has crossed me
Hunter Prestridge
in any way, like, yeah, good for you, like, you got your lick on me.
Lindsay Chrisley
But I, I don't want anything bad
Hunter Prestridge
to happen to you. I want you to move through life and do it now. Does that mean that I'm not going
Lindsay Chrisley
to say my side?
Hunter Prestridge
No, that doesn't mean that.
Lindsay Chrisley
Does that mean that I'm not going to have a position in this?
Hunter Prestridge
No, it doesn't mean that.
Lindsay Chrisley
But does that mean that I genuinely
Hunter Prestridge
want to set you free and you to go on to do whatever you're going to do? Yes, yes, yes, I do. I want you to thrive in whatever you're going to do. Please don't create the same mistakes that you did when we were involved with
Kristen
each other, with somebody else.
Hunter Prestridge
Please use. This is a lesson. If I was a lesson in your story, use it. Yeah, but move on from it.
Kristen
But guess what? That was also a lesson in your history.
Hunter Prestridge
And that was a lesson for me, though.
Kristen
That's what I'm saying.
Lindsay Chrisley
Like, I.
Hunter Prestridge
And people will say I'm crazy for saying this, but, like, at the end of the day, I wouldn't say I'm thriving by any means.
Lindsay Chrisley
Do I think that I'm coming more into myself, myself than what I was?
Hunter Prestridge
Yes.
Lindsay Chrisley
I am coming into my authentic self. And I feel most comfortable where I am right now.
Hunter Prestridge
And do I think I will continue to grow? Yes, I do.
Lindsay Chrisley
There's always room for growth. With that being said, I want nothing bad to happen to anybody that's ever
Hunter Prestridge
done anything to me because that's their own story. That's for their.
Lindsay Chrisley
That's for them to tell, not for me.
Hunter Prestridge
Yeah, I can tell my story about
Lindsay Chrisley
what happened to me.
Hunter Prestridge
Their part of it is not my business because they're. No, they're no longer a part of my life. Right. Like, it's removed. And so when I see certain things where it's like, oh, well, because I get. I have a team. And, like, can we speak to that for a second? Because people think that, like, I'm looking at stuff, and, like, I genuinely am not.
Lindsay Chrisley
I had apps deleted.
Hunter Prestridge
They're like, oh, she's lying. Because she knows what's being said here and she knows what's being said there. I had apps deleted for over a month off of my phone.
Kristen
Yeah. All socials were gone.
Lindsay Chrisley
All socials were gone.
Kristen
So, like, the only way she would be finding anything out is if we were advising her of that.
Hunter Prestridge
Like, hey, something this is being said has come out. Or do you want to address this? Like, and there are certain things that I've just come to the realization that people are gonna say whatever they want to say. Right? Like, they're gonna talk about my weight, they're gonna talk about my lips. They're gonna talk about my relationship that doesn't exist anymore. Somebody sent me a comment. One of my girlfriends sent me a comment yesterday that was like, we saw Lindsay and David at such and such place. No, you didn't. No, you didn't.
Lindsay Chrisley
I can promise you you didn't.
Kristen
No.
Lindsay Chrisley
Hunter knows my whereabouts and where I was.
Kristen
Wasn't anywhere near David.
Hunter Prestridge
I don't know where he's at. I don't know what to say.
Kristen
Would say that.
Hunter Prestridge
I don't know if it was. Do I think that some people, like, say stuff to try to, like, strum up, troll?
Kristen
Absolutely.
Hunter Prestridge
Other comments, Right. Like, do I think some people do that? Yes. Do I think some people take a part of the story and they add certain aspects to it and then that's where, like, the rumor mill gets started. Yes.
Kristen
Also. Yes.
Hunter Prestridge
Do I think that some people do. I think that some people are just generally commenting on what I'm saying and they don't agree with me, which is fair, right? Like, fair. You don't agree with me.
Kristen
Yeah, that's fine.
Lindsay Chrisley
Some people
Hunter Prestridge
will comment on stuff and be like, nope, I agree with everything that she says. That's great, too.
Lindsay Chrisley
The whole point of this podcast is
Hunter Prestridge
for it to be an open discussion and for me also to share my life. Right. Like, it's not for people to agree or to disagree. This is what I'm doing, and this is how I'm handling it. Like, you don't have to agree to love me and you don't have to disagree to hate me.
Kristen
You don't even have to listen.
Lindsay Chrisley
I mean, you don't.
Hunter Prestridge
But I'm speaking because people are. Yeah, right.
Kristen
I mean, we're grateful for the listens, but if what she's saying you disagree with so much. I mean, my God.
Hunter Prestridge
With that being said, I've actually just
Lindsay Chrisley
gone off on a tangent and I
Hunter Prestridge
have a whole list stuff actually, like
Lindsay Chrisley
this Confidential, Savannah x Kristen.
Hunter Prestridge
I don't know who created this.
Kristen
I did. I had a little fun with the. What's it called? The prop.
Hunter Prestridge
Wait, so we have to talk about the rebranding for a little bit because
Lindsay Chrisley
I feel like that's important.
Hunter Prestridge
I've come up with different segments of things that I feel like you guys will absolutely love. And I want to be clear that I want the audience, whether you're listening and you hate it and you're listening because you're a hater or you're listening because you love us and you're just giving constructive criticism. Like, that is totally fine. I want you guys to be honest and say, hey, we don't give a
Lindsay Chrisley
fuck a about hearing about that.
Hunter Prestridge
Great. Like, perfect. I want to hear it because I want to provide what you guys want to hear.
Kristen
Correct.
Hunter Prestridge
And I have a ton of life, like me getting kicked in the face before I got on here, you know, so accidentally.
Lindsay Chrisley
Accidentally, but.
Hunter Prestridge
But happened, you know?
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Lindsay Chrisley
tea the next thing that I'm going to get into on this episode, I don't even know how to start this
Hunter Prestridge
because I wasn't necessarily involved in the first place.
Kristen
So let's start there.
Hunter Prestridge
I wasn't involved in the first place. Like Kristen was a 1099 employee for me. She was a W2 employee for Kale. She worked a set amount of hours for me and a set amount of hours for her. We all know that obviously ended in January when we got sent resignation letters abruptly. I also was not a part of what emails were going on there. I was on the receiving end of what transpired. Right? I want everybody to be able to
Lindsay Chrisley
follow Bouncing Balls because you're going to
Hunter Prestridge
have to follow because you're going to
Lindsay Chrisley
have to follow them.
Hunter Prestridge
There was a lifetime special of my family that happened sometime, I don't know when, sometime in 2025 I was referenced and a storyline on this lifetime special that I did not participate in, which I think is actually in my opinion somewhat fraudulent.
Lindsay Chrisley
Because if you're going to be talking
Hunter Prestridge
about somebody, then at least give them the ability to give their perspective.
Kristen
Our statement. Statement.
Hunter Prestridge
Or a statement like you didn't reach out to my council, you didn't reach out to me, you didn't do Any you just flippantly went and aired this narrative. Right. Great. Love that for y'.
Lindsay Chrisley
All that happened and I decided to
Hunter Prestridge
do a two part crossover special that I filmed in September of 2025 which aired in October. Let's fast forward to July of 2026. Kale found emails on Kristen's work email that she was working to some capacity for my family members on paid company hours. And how we know this is because we have Google calendars. We know what's going on at what time. If anybody thinks that we're just out here flippantly living and we don't have calendars, that's also an insane take.
Kristen
Insane because you live off your calendar.
Hunter Prestridge
If it's not. No, if it's not on my calendar, it's not happening.
Kristen
Yep.
Hunter Prestridge
Like that is the rule that I live by. If you. If he called me tomorrow and said, hey, you have to do where's it on my calendar?
Kristen
Right. No, not doing it.
Hunter Prestridge
Reschedule it.
Commercial Narrator
Because.
Kristen
Right.
Hunter Prestridge
I don't. Your emergency is not mine.
Kristen
Correct.
Lindsay Chrisley
July 15, 2026. The podcast Talking about certain things regarding
Hunter Prestridge
Kristen comes out July 15, 2026. Savannah Chrisley also publicly comments and the
Lindsay Chrisley
comment was, to my knowledge, on a Tick Tock post.
Kristen
Is that Tick Tock post?
Hunter Prestridge
It was sent to me, by the way. I was not a part of any of this. I never allege anything on the podcast that I was just.
Kristen
You can go back and listen. You will see that she didn't comment anything on it.
Hunter Prestridge
I have no reason to.
Kristen
Right.
Hunter Prestridge
Because I frankly don't care. So allegedly this was posted on Tick Tock to set the record straight. The email being referenced was an email Kristen sent to meta Representative on May
Lindsay Chrisley
30, 2025 after my publicist asked if
Hunter Prestridge
she could help us get in touch with someone else.
Lindsay Chrisley
Meta. My mom had lost access to her
Hunter Prestridge
Instagram account after being in prison for nearly two and a half years and was simply trying to regain access. That is the only communication that took place. My parents were never in contact with Kristen and there was never any email exchange between Kristen and my parents. My publicist reach out to a professional colleague for assistance within meta contact.
Lindsay Chrisley
Nothing more, nothing less.
Hunter Prestridge
Any suggestion otherwise is simply false.
Lindsay Chrisley
Facts matter. It's important that false narratives stop and
Hunter Prestridge
then that cuts off where the screenshot cuts off. Let's take this all the way back
Lindsay Chrisley
when Savannah started her podcast.
Hunter Prestridge
When I reconciled with my parents prior to them going to prison.
Lindsay Chrisley
October of the year that they went
Hunter Prestridge
to prison, we did a family crossover. Was supposed to Be Julie, my dad. Dad and me. Savannah decided to launch a podcast.
Lindsay Chrisley
With that being said, I agreed to
Hunter Prestridge
my dad that she could have a segment on this crossover to launch her podcast. What benefit does that have to me?
Kristen
None.
Hunter Prestridge
Because I have established audience in this, this space. You don't.
Kristen
You're helping your sister out, right?
Hunter Prestridge
You might have clout and tv, you might have clout with maga, you might have clout with the Trump. Like you don't have clout in the podcast space, right? So you took that as an opportunity and you, you ate off of it, right? With that being said, all happened, whatever coffee combos gained zero additional audience from that, we have the analytics. So if anybody else wants to say that that show benefited from that, that is a lie. And we can prove analytics. Numbers don't lie, people. Do you? This all comes out and I sit silently because again, I didn't make the statement, I didn't air it out, I didn't whatever. Allegedly, Savannah was in Kale's dms. I get it. You have Instagram, but you also know she's my business partner, so it seems kind of sneaky. While you're in my business partner's dms, if you have an actual issue, come to your sister. Don't go to my business partner. But you know, this is what we're dealing with. Dealing with. July 28, 2026. But someone accidentally, and don't say I'm breadcrumbing, because I am not, I'm being very careful. Accidentally forwards an email to me that shows an email thread from April 2026 that in fact Kristen was working with Savannah. I'm not going to read all the emails because that. This was supposed to be confidential, but they removed their confidentiality when it got sent to me regarding Savannah's contracts with the podcast network.
Lindsay Chrisley
So while it might have worked with the pardon on using certain terms of
Hunter Prestridge
such and such, wasn't doing such and such. No.
Lindsay Chrisley
In fact, you should have been ballsy
Hunter Prestridge
enough to say I was doing that. And since I'm such bottom of the barrel human being, and since I'm so irrelevant, why did you use me as
Lindsay Chrisley
a storyline on your Lifetime documentary? Why do you constantly bring me up?
Hunter Prestridge
Why have you used after no longer working with us, but met through me, my publicist, who is no longer my publicist. I have a better publicist, but use my publicist that you met through me.
Lindsay Chrisley
Use me to launch your podcast. Also used my contracts that you paid
Hunter Prestridge
nothing for that I paid attorneys fees for for that contract. And you used It. And now you backdoor a situation on an assistant. Good luck. That's what I can say to you. Good luck to you. Because I. I can genuinely say I never wish ill will on anybody. And I would never wish anybody the situation that we were left in. That's what I can say. And for anybody who wants to question
Lindsay Chrisley
or if you want to come out and make a statement, I have all
Hunter Prestridge
of the emails right here, sister.
Lindsay Chrisley
So what you gonna do about that?
Hunter Prestridge
Call my co host a liar? Say we're misrepresenting facts? Saying that we are. What did she say? We caused speculation. There is no speculation because the speculation is over. The speculation is over. Also would love to know, since you're moving on and you have a man in your life, are you going to
Lindsay Chrisley
change your last name? Because that'll be an interesting play.
Hunter Prestridge
Moving on right along. Most unhinged text of the week. I know what mine is. It's official. I'm questioning my sexuality.
Kristen
Oh, yeah? Yeah. Well, it's.
Hunter Prestridge
And I want to address that because,
Kristen
I mean, damn, you in that dress was crazy.
Lindsay Chrisley
Hunter had fomo.
Kristen
Major fomo.
Hunter Prestridge
Because he was not with me in charge. Scarlet.
Kristen
I was literally sitting there eating sushi and fried rice, drinking a bottle of wine. Like if I was in a rom com live, live, watching the Instagram reels. I had major fomo.
Hunter Prestridge
Had fomo. So he was like, send pics or whatever. So I sent the pics that you guys saw.
Kristen
Those are the ones that she sent me.
Hunter Prestridge
Same photos y' all saw exactly that, by the way, that were allegedly edited.
Kristen
Don't you think if we had edited them, we'd have edited the trash can out?
Hunter Prestridge
There was no edit to the photo. I sent him the same photo and he said, questioning my sexuality as a joke. We thought it was funny.
Kristen
Or was it a joke?
Commercial Narrator
Whatever.
Kristen
It was a total joke.
Hunter Prestridge
I. I say I Madison post the photos. She selects the order of what these photos. I just dropped everything into a Google Drive and it's like a dump, right? Like, post whatever you want. This is like my week. She post it. Becky goes on and comments and says something to the effect of, what is this about? Yeah, it creates a ton of speculation, as if it was regarding me and Becky. That didn't have anything to do with me and Becky.
Kristen
Had nothing to do with you and Becky. It was literally me and you.
Hunter Prestridge
So I'm upset because Becky also has a wife and people are like, oh, Lindsay's getting a piggyback ride from Becky. Like, they're so inappropriate. They're Blah, blah, blah. I also want you guys to know that Becky is the kind of friend that she knows I've been going through a ton of. And the first time that I saw her, when I walked into that green room, she put her arms out, she put her hands around me, and she said, I love you so much. Are you okay? Took care of me the entire time. Knowing that was the first time that I was going to be in public after all of the events took care of me. So if anybody has a problem with Becky giving me a piggyback ride and being a big sister to me in that moment, that's actually really up. This is also the same person. When we went to a rooftop after the show and got food. Nobody was drinking on that rooftop. We were all sitting around having a good time, eating appetizers, talking about diabolical stuff that nobody needs to know about. We walk back in, and there was a table of roughly 14 men sitting there. Don't know. Could have been a conference. I have no idea what was going on. Becky grabs my hand and she says, I get sick of men looking at women like that like it's a meat market.
Kristen
Becky's a real one.
Hunter Prestridge
She's a real one. And, like, like anybody that wants to come for her, knowing that she has a baby, also knowing that she has shared so many intimate details of her life that, like, she has mentally struggled since they had their son, and her wife has mentally struggled, and they've had struggle in their marriage since their child was born, but they're, like, actively working through it. And then to put comments out like that, like, that's so, like, we are. People don't understand, like, the intricacies of the friendships or, like, what those look like, because you don't see them every day.
Kristen
Well, they don't also don't see the behind the scenes. So what they're saying is, like, they either see you guys in a podcast, right. And that's where you guys are talking and, like, kind of expressing yourselves in that. And then they also see you guys in pictures and then just want to run with a perception of it being something when it's really not so.
Hunter Prestridge
And it's just sad to me because, like, I would never want to want.
Kristen
It's deranged, for sure.
Hunter Prestridge
Like, Also, we were FaceTiming her wife.
Kristen
Yeah.
Hunter Prestridge
And, like, Leah knew everything that was going on.
Kristen
The fact that people try to come between relationships when you're in the public eye is.
Hunter Prestridge
It's just wild to me.
Kristen
It's so up.
Hunter Prestridge
I mean, I Get the lore. Right? Like, I get, I get it. But at the same time, I'm like, okay, if you guys are actually invested in these podcasts and you're actually invested in the communities and you're actually invested in the host as personalities, you know, actually what's going on? And, like, that's not it. That's not it. Like, that's not what's going on. Like, we also were the ones sitting there leaving Charlotte looking like a hot mess, trying to grab lunch. Becky was on a zoom call for her nine to five. And I'm sitting there trying to figure out what's going on with my life. Like, eating meatballs and eating meatballs. Like, that is what's going on. And so I think sometimes people assume based off of what they think that they see or they make themselves see something, and it's like, that's actually not it at all. That's not what you're seeing. Like, and I do get it. Like, to some degree, I have to take myself out of this position. Right. And I'm like, okay, if I. If I was out of this position, what would I think? So I get the lure.
Kristen
Yeah.
Hunter Prestridge
But at the same time, I don't because I'm like, we're literally willing to come on here and tell you everything about our lives to the degree that we can. And nobody will listen to that either.
Kristen
No.
Hunter Prestridge
So then what do you do?
Kristen
You just keep. You stay true to yourself is what you do. And you just keep telling me the truth.
Hunter Prestridge
And I'm like, I'm still going to get piggyback rides from Becky.
Kristen
Like, I'll take a piggyback, Ms. Hater.
Hunter Prestridge
Like, leave me alone.
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Lindsay Chrisley
rules and restrictions may apply what's your most unhinged text?
Kristen
So my most unhinged text was from my partner, my fiance. He texted me and said, said Benson Boone's Instagram story is gonna make me repent tomorrow. And so I literally go to look
Hunter Prestridge
and I'm like, are you look at Benson Boone?
Kristen
There's the Spidey mask though. The Spidey mask sent me. I was like, so are you trying to tell me you have the hots for Spider Man?
Hunter Prestridge
You know what? I was really hoping so that him
Kristen
and Alex Earl were about to be together.
Hunter Prestridge
I was really hoping that he and I, Alex Earl, after that music video, I was hoping that like love would strike and they would be together.
Kristen
We don't know everything. That's the whole point.
Hunter Prestridge
But here's the thing. I think he's a vibe total. But I don't think he's clean cut enough for her. Like when I look at her legs or her ex, when I look at her ex, I'm like, okay, it's giving NFL.
Kristen
He was NFL. NFL.
Hunter Prestridge
No, I know but like I'm saying like her vibes are giving NFL. Or maybe like an executive or like
Kristen
I could do baseball.
Hunter Prestridge
A baseball player. Like yeah, yeah.
Kristen
Not, I mean, no shade to Benson. You're hot. We know it.
Hunter Prestridge
But Benson's a vibe.
Kristen
Yeah.
Hunter Prestridge
Like got a great bod.
Kristen
Correct.
Hunter Prestridge
But then unfortunately yesterday when I was looking at the news and I saw that he was kissing an Australian model,
Kristen
I said I missed that completely. I know.
Hunter Prestridge
I was so upset.
Kristen
I'm too busy in this reality to Live in that reality.
Hunter Prestridge
I was like, oh my God, why'd you have to do that?
Kristen
Damn it, Benson.
Hunter Prestridge
You should have just like let it Alex call us. Let it marinate.
Kristen
You know, we'll be your new matchmaker.
Hunter Prestridge
And then now Alex has like her new show coming out on Netflix. I'm like, that could have been so good. Like her and Benson Boone, like still be good. It could have been. I'm not saying it's not going to be good. What I'm saying is it would have been better if it would have been them. Like anytime you're connected to a musician,
Kristen
like for sure lifestyle.
Hunter Prestridge
And one that looks like that with a spider man mask.
Kristen
Right? The spider man mask sent me.
Hunter Prestridge
Let's go.
Kristen
Absolute full send.
Hunter Prestridge
Let's go, sis. Okay. Weekly crash out.
Kristen
Okay, so I just got done pet sitting one of my siblings houses and I had gone out for a night on the town and got home a little late and was just gonna casually take a shower.
Hunter Prestridge
A night on the town is crazy.
Kristen
Well, it was a little night on the town. And so I get back and I'm like, I'm gonna take a shower, right? So I let the shower water start. I'm waiting for it to get warm. I'm like, okay, I'm gonna lay down and scroll on TikTok for a couple minutes.
Hunter Prestridge
Oh, if you guys want to see what the. Lay down and scroll on tickets.
Kristen
Tick tock looks like fell asleep in the bathroom floor.
Lindsay Chrisley
Hold on.
Hunter Prestridge
Lay down and scroll on Tick tock looks like.
Kristen
Either way, sorry about the water bill. I woke up literally to someone in the house having to turn the water off. My phone had died.
Hunter Prestridge
Oh, I found it.
Kristen
I still feel very guilty about that.
Hunter Prestridge
Lay down and look on Tick tock looks like this. Oh, but you forgot to tell them that you called me and told me that you had this dream.
Kristen
I literally thought I was having a like a raunchy sex fantasy dream. And that's like there was like a sexy plumber in the house or something like that. Nope, it was a neighbor. It was a neighbor. They had asked to come and turn the water off. I felt still feel really guilty.
Hunter Prestridge
Well, my weekly crash out was me just actually leaving my house and going to Charleston. And I thought I was doing good. Right. I'm like, everything's in place at the house. We know how I am. When I leave the house. It like needs to be in place.
Kristen
Oh, for sure.
Hunter Prestridge
Leave the house, get down the road, get triple dipper chilies. Like doing great.
Commercial Narrator
Dead.
Hunter Prestridge
Get there, wake up the next Morning realize hair and makeup. We thought it was booked.
Kristen
It was booked.
Hunter Prestridge
Evidently they claim it wasn't. Whatever. Come two and a half hours late. Great. We're like, we're vibing. Just gonna make a bagel, gonna get an Alani, whatever, Start some laundry, get all ready, go upstairs, change my clothes, start recording or go to start recording on the couch. I'm like getting set up. I've got my blanket, I've got all the things. I look down at my phone and I have this email that was not intended for me.
Kristen
This one.
Hunter Prestridge
So needless to say, we were scheduled to record two episodes that day and. And we both crashed out and we're like, no, we're actually, we're not doing this. So we're gonna pack up right now and we're going to Charlotte. So that's what we did.
Lindsay Chrisley
Yep.
Kristen
It was a crash out moment.
Hunter Prestridge
Because what was I supposed to do about this after my co host been called a liar?
Kristen
We responded cute and cunty.
Hunter Prestridge
Should I read the. Should I, Should I read the email?
Lindsay Chrisley
Hold on.
Hunter Prestridge
I can find it better on my phone. Good evening, Blank and affiliated parties. Just a friendly reminder that Blank is no longer affiliated with Lindsay or Kayl personally or professionally in any capacity. It appears these emails were sent to the incorrect address. For your convenience, we've included the messages below as they seem to be intended for the appropriate party. Should you have any questions or need further clarification regarding this oversight, please do
Lindsay Chrisley
not hesitate to reach out.
Hunter Prestridge
Going forward, we kindly ask that future correspondence be directed to the appropriate recipient. Regards, Hunter Prestridge for Lindsay Presley.
Kristen
Hello.
Madison
Hi.
Hunter Prestridge
We also 6cc's cuz we're not doing BCC. You know what I mean? Like BCC seems kind of sneaky. Like sneaky like I'm not trying to do a sneaky link type situation.
Kristen
Guess how many responses we got back?
Hunter Prestridge
None. Zero. Because I want to know how many people shit their pants. You know? And it's also like, why are we out here lying?
Kristen
I know.
Hunter Prestridge
Don't lie on my name.
Kristen
Nope.
Hunter Prestridge
Lie on yours. But do what you're gonna do on yours. But don't lie on mine.
Kristen
Absolutely not.
Hunter Prestridge
And also don't come from my co host. My business.
Kristen
Agreed.
Hunter Prestridge
You know what? Because now we're getting into the.
Lindsay Chrisley
We're getting into the situation of torturous
Hunter Prestridge
interference of business and that's a loss lawsuit. So.
Kristen
She's also a loyalist, so.
Hunter Prestridge
Who? You? Me? Yeah, I'm a loyalist. People who are loyal to you 1000% but do not come for my Business partner. Do not come for my business. I'm saying do not come for anything that my name is attached to. Because if you think that I won't slap a lawsuit, you're already aware I will.
Lindsay Chrisley
Because you have a notification. I will.
Hunter Prestridge
As of October of 2025, respectfully, each of us have to share an opinion that might be controversial. These are some examples. So we're going to go off the examples this week and you guys can write in too of like what you guys would like us to debate. Parents don't need to volunteer for every school event.
Kristen
That's more for you. I am not a parent.
Hunter Prestridge
Here's the thing, until Jackson got until about fourth or fifth grade, he wanted me to volunteer for every school event. So I feel like as long as your child wants you to participate, then like you. I don't want to say you should. Like, if you can. Yeah, then volunteers. Right. If you have the availability and you can, then do it. But when your child starts saying, hey, I just want to hang out with my friends and I don't want you to see me, okay, I'm going to bow out. And then like, like, maybe I will ask for like the. What's that?
Kristen
The thing where you on a field trip type vibe?
Hunter Prestridge
No, I chaperone a field trip. Like, he knows he
Lindsay Chrisley
we went to Chattanooga.
Hunter Prestridge
I'm there. Yeah, like the class genius or whatever it's called. Like where you sign up for stuff. Like you can either sign up to be a volunteer or you can sign up for like donations. So then I started when he was like, mom, like, I'm too old for you to like watch me all the time. And I'm like, okay, then I'll just volunteer to like send the items. And then you get to the point where your child is in sixth and seventh grade and they're like, yeah, but I want you to bring the items. But I don't want to take it to school because I don't want to look like a loser.
Kristen
And it's like a loser.
Hunter Prestridge
Okay, well now I have to go in to the school to drop off on a little cart in the front desk. Like, so nobody knows that we gave it. Like, I don't care that anybody knows. I just want to like sign up for something. Cuz I don't want to be like, I have the availability that I could go anytime, right? So I don't want people to look at me. And I know that's like something within myself, but I don't want people to be like, oh, well, she's not coming. But, like, she has all the time in the world.
Kristen
Depends on if it was on her calendar or not.
Hunter Prestridge
I do have all the time in the world.
Kristen
You don't. You are booked and busy. You are not just sitting in the house.
Hunter Prestridge
I am booked and busy. But, like, I will tell you to cancel something.
Kristen
Oh, well, duh. Like, we would know in advance and we would. We would just move something.
Hunter Prestridge
Just move something. But if he doesn't want me, if he's like, mom, like, I don't want you watching me, my friends. Number one, I'm questioning, like, why you don't want me to watch you, because you probably do doing something stupid. Number two, like, I kind of get it. Because he wants the freedom.
Kristen
Yeah.
Hunter Prestridge
But then number three, like, I've got to do something to offset, like, now, if you don't want me to volunteer for the time, then I need to volunteer for the product. Respectfully, shoes belong outside. Number one,
Lindsay Chrisley
I know you wear shoes
Hunter Prestridge
inside your house, and I don't like it.
Ad/Promo Voice
It.
Hunter Prestridge
And you know why? Because I've read so many studies about all of the germs that come from a shoe inside the house. You're bringing that inside the house.
Kristen
I don't.
Hunter Prestridge
Why are you doing that everywhere in the house? If you're wearing them anywhere, it's transferring. Well, because if you wear them in the kitchen and then you take them off, then you're walking barefoot somewhere else, and then you're walking back in the kitchen and you're getting all the rest. Remnants from what was on your shoe.
Kristen
That's fair enough. And I understand the fact that it's gross. However, let us know how many of you actually take your shoes off and make sure they're off the entire time in the house.
Hunter Prestridge
Also, tst, fam. Listen to Hunter when he says, what is my rule about my house?
Kristen
Oh, yeah, no shoes in the house.
Hunter Prestridge
I don't care who you are.
Kristen
I take them off.
Hunter Prestridge
Also, if you are a contractor coming into my house, you're getting those little booties. Those little booties, because. What do you mean? Like, I don't know where you've traveled.
Kristen
Well, any good contractor is going to come in with a pair of booties.
Hunter Prestridge
Your whole life has been on the bottom of those shoes.
Kristen
That's true.
Hunter Prestridge
Like, that's foul.
Kristen
It is gross. I need to do better. I hear you.
Hunter Prestridge
And that's why Jackson and I don't get sick a lot. Which I kind of get sick a lot, but I think that's my nerves.
Kristen
Yeah.
Hunter Prestridge
You know, I Think that's anxiety.
Kristen
So respectfully, I don't understand why people drive with AirPods in okay. It gives me the ick so bad when I look over and somebody has AirPods in okay.
Hunter Prestridge
But let's play devil's advocate on that. I'm waiting cuz David used to do that when we were dating. Okay, okay, whatever.
Lindsay Chrisley
I don't want to hear your whole conversation.
Kristen
That's fair.
Hunter Prestridge
So like put in your AirPods and you're talking to that person. I have no business knowing what that person's saying.
Kristen
That's fair. But I guess like usually when I see them, they're usually by themselves. So it's like, are you doing that so that you can still have music playing in the background and then have a conversation here?
Hunter Prestridge
I saw a girl yesterday when I was at the Apple store and she
Kristen
had like, which was a whole diabolical situation.
Hunter Prestridge
Hours wasted of my time. No disrespect to Apple.
Kristen
No, cuz we love your product, but.
Hunter Prestridge
Love the product. Hate what I went through yesterday. Some girl came in there and she had like outdated AirPods. Whatever. She had Apple Care on them. She paid $1.49 per month for Apple Care. She brings them in every single month and trades them out. She looked across, across the table from me while I was sitting there and she said, I bamboozled them every month because I just get new. I just get new AirPods.
Kristen
So she's scamming them.
Hunter Prestridge
Why are we scamming Apple? Like for, for 1.49. Like why are we scamming Apple? Like I am not a part of this. I don't want to be a part of any scams. We know scams. I've been a part of scams. I don't want to know about scams.
Kristen
Yeah, we're good.
Hunter Prestridge
Like I'm, I'm good on this. She said, yeah, but these AirPods are going to be outdated and eventually they're going to say, oh, we've got a new version so we can't have that AirPod. So I keep coming back every single month because I have Apple Care and I keep getting them. And I'm like, you know what? You're the reason why you are. You know how bad I wanted to say you're the reason why all of our gets shut down because you bamboozled expensive. You bamboozle the system.
Kristen
Yeah.
Hunter Prestridge
And it pisses me off just like
Kristen
a lot of people in.
Hunter Prestridge
You know what, people wearing AirPods driving down the road doesn't bother me unless they hit me.
Lindsay Chrisley
You Know what I mean?
Hunter Prestridge
Like, unless they crash into me and they're wearing AirPods. Okay, fair.
Kristen
Well, then it's a way bigger deal.
Hunter Prestridge
Outside of that, I don't care what they're doing.
Kristen
That's fair enough.
Hunter Prestridge
Leave me alone. Respectfully, not every tag needs a response. Agree.
Kristen
Agreed. 100. If you don't respond to me either asking me a question or no, like,
Hunter Prestridge
you text me this morning and you were like, let me know whenever you get out of church.
Kristen
Yeah, no need for response on that. You called me as soon as you got out of church. Or it's like, if somebody responds and, like, you're having a conversation and they just respond like, okay, I'm not responding to that. If you. You've ended the conversation. So therefore I'm not going to put any more energy into that. Also, you and I both really suck
Hunter Prestridge
at texting, so I suck at a phone, period. Honestly, like, if. If you need me, come.
Lindsay Chrisley
Actually, don't come to my house.
Hunter Prestridge
But if you need me, don't even call us.
Kristen
But
Hunter Prestridge
I would have a greater response. Somebody ringing my doorbell.
Kristen
Yeah.
Hunter Prestridge
Than texting me like, I'm old school like that. Like, pick up the phone, call me. I know if you're calling me, chances are are it's an emergency because anybody who is close to me knows don't text or call.
Kristen
Yeah, agreed.
Hunter Prestridge
For what? Like, so what are we texting about?
Kristen
The amount of times I've asked this lady to do something on her phone and she's like, how do you do that? For example, downloading apps or logging into them. Do I have a passcode for that? And I'm like, I don't know.
Hunter Prestridge
I just did it today.
Kristen
I know it happens.
Hunter Prestridge
I'm like, what's the password? Passcode?
Kristen
And I'm like, I. Let me go to my laptop.
Hunter Prestridge
I'm like, I never had a username for that. Like, I don't know who she is.
Kristen
Right. Exactly.
Hunter Prestridge
Yeah. I hate. I actually hate technology. I hate a phone. And if we could exist, like, my dream life would be to live in this house, hang out on my back porch and have a landline. Like, if I hear it ringing in there, I'm going to go get it.
Kristen
Line is insane.
Hunter Prestridge
I'm gonna go get it. Why not? Why not? Why is that insane?
Kristen
My mom still has a landline and I'm like begging her to get rid of it.
Hunter Prestridge
If I could have a landline, that would be great because I know somebody actually needs me in that moment. Like, even my ex husband, he'll just Pull up and I see the notification. It's like, camera detected in the driveway. And I'm like, damn it, it's Will.
Kristen
I mean, that's what I would do, you know, if you didn't respond to me any fast enough, I'd first get on the.
Hunter Prestridge
That's what will.
Kristen
See, if you were at home and if you weren't at home, that's what will us. Then I'd hit the streets.
Hunter Prestridge
She's like, she's so annoying.
Kristen
Literally, just show it. Shows up.
Hunter Prestridge
She's so annoying.
Kristen
Walks in the house, kicks his shoes off.
Hunter Prestridge
Kicks his shoes off. Oh, he knows better. I know he knows better. Okay, respectfully, RSVP deadlines matter. Yes. But I'm not doing it.
Kristen
Yeah, I'm not a fan of a.
Hunter Prestridge
I'm not a fan of rules.
Kristen
Chronic invitation. Not a fan of those.
Hunter Prestridge
I just get lost in the sauce, you know?
Kristen
Like, well, if it's also coming from, like, a number that's like, 2, 4, 5, 7.
Hunter Prestridge
You lost me there.
Kristen
Yeah, I. I would rather in the mail. Plus, I think it's like, a real invitation can be so beautiful, like, the way that people make them. I'd much rather that than something on.
Hunter Prestridge
I mean, I love that, but I thinking, like, let's think about the economy. Right? Like, okay, it's easy to do an Evite paper. It's easy to do an Evite, and I get that. I respect it, but at the same time, I don't respect it because I'm never responding.
Kristen
Yeah.
Hunter Prestridge
I'm just showing up.
Kristen
That's fair. Honestly, if you want to invite me to a party, just text me and be like, hey, party at this address at this time for X, Y, and Z and all the time.
Hunter Prestridge
Yeah. And I'm bringing a gift or, like, an apple appetizer. Like, no, I always am. I'm like, what?
Kristen
Can I bring, like, a gift?
Hunter Prestridge
Yeah.
Kristen
Like, if I'm coming into somebody's home and they're hosting, it's a host gift.
Hunter Prestridge
But, like, the Evite thing where it shows up, like, 2247.
Kristen
Yeah.
Hunter Prestridge
This is the last one. Being busy is not a personality trait. And I disagree because I feel like we all have the same 24 hours in a day. It depends on you as a personality of what your capability is within those 24 hours. Right. So I only have about eight hours. That.
Kristen
Well, you sleep for about eight. Right. Nor, like, anywhere from seven to eight. So that takes. Math is not my strong suit. So.
Hunter Prestridge
Yeah. So if I have eight waking hours, that's to 16 at that point.
Kristen
So then 16 hours in a day,
Hunter Prestridge
and then I didn't look at my phone for the. The other time.
Kristen
Right. It really flies by. And being. I think being busy can totally be a personality trait because.
Hunter Prestridge
No, because there's so many people that I know that are, like, super busy people that just, like, make it happen. I'm like, how are y' all doing that? Like, how are y' all doing all of those activities?
Kristen
They fit it all in.
Hunter Prestridge
Yeah, but I'm not a fitter inner, you know, I'm like, is it on my calendar? Right, but how do you get to be a fit? Because those are actually the good people, like, the fitter inners.
Lindsay Chrisley
Those are the fun people to be around.
Kristen
I. I do that.
Hunter Prestridge
I want to surround myself with people that are like that, but I'm not like that.
Kristen
And here's the truth. I am one of those people. I will fit something in at any point of the day if I can. However, the moment that somebody changes the schedule based off of being fit into my schedule, I'm pissed and don't want to go anymore. Does that make sense?
Hunter Prestridge
Wait, re. Say that.
Kristen
Okay, so say, for example, you text me, like, last minute after. I've already got a full day of. Not you, but just someone text me. And they were like, hey, do you want to swing by and have, like, happy hour from 2 to 5 tonight? And I'm like, yes, I have that 2 to 5 available. And then I get a text message at like, 2:30 saying, hey, I'm not going to be there till 3:30 or 4:00'. Clock. I'm probably going to leave. That pisses me off. Because I fit you in.
Hunter Prestridge
But why are we available for the whole time?
Kristen
I'm not.
Hunter Prestridge
Is my whole thing I need to know the exact time. Like, I don't need a time frame. I need to know like, three to five or. Yeah, that's four to six.
Kristen
That's what I'm saying. No, you're expecting to sit there from four to six with that person.
Hunter Prestridge
Well, I'm not doing that. Well, I'm doing the time the one time.
Kristen
So you're doing from like four to
Hunter Prestridge
five, the one hour. Okay, yeah, that's the one I'm gonna do. Wait. Okay.
Lindsay Chrisley
Before we end this off, I've heard rumors from Madison.
Kristen
Oh, God.
Hunter Prestridge
That you were a yes man to
Madison
me,
Lindsay Chrisley
and I want to get your perspective.
Hunter Prestridge
I'm not gonna speak.
Lindsay Chrisley
I just want to get your perspective.
Kristen
I am far from a yes man. The amount of time she calls me and she's like, hey, I'm thinking about doing X, Y, and Z. I'm. I will literally tell her no as of today.
Madison
Huh?
Hunter Prestridge
As of today. When we were in my kitchen and I was like, I think I need to contact. And you were like, no.
Kristen
Yeah. I am not a yes man. I do not tell her yes. I mean, there are some things that of course I'm gonna tell her yes to. Like, if it's not really she wants my opinion more or less a request that, like, it needs to be done on a deadline, then yes, I'll say yes. But if there are situations where I think it is not in her best interest, I do not say yes.
Hunter Prestridge
And that is also I want people to understand that if something is not in my best interest and I'm making a choice, I'm making it. And I'm. I am literally not consulting anybody. I am consulting myself.
Kristen
They've also time times when she's consulted me and I've said no, and she still goes and does it also.
Hunter Prestridge
Yes.
Kristen
Yeah. Which is perfectly fine. I mean, she's a human. She can do whatever the hell she wants.
Hunter Prestridge
Wait, so we have to before we end this out, Because I feel like it's going to come out anyway, so we might as well just address it. So how we met and then you were supposed to be working for somebody else, and then you worked for me. Because I feel like that, like, brings this whole episode together, and I don't. I don't want to look like a scam. You know what I mean? Like, that's fair.
Kristen
So I met Lindsay at a restaurant I was working at, and she frequents that restaurant or frequented.
Hunter Prestridge
It's the only restaurant that I frequent.
Kristen
Yeah, well, past tense. But I met them there. And then through that, I also met David. So I previously. I still have a 9 to 5, but I previously worked in the insurance industry. Industry. I did all types of things, and then I worked in it for, like 10 to 12 years.
Madison
Right.
Kristen
So David literally was saying that he had this opportunity come up and that he wanted me to be the agent of said insurance company. So we go through the works of it. We are basically at the point of signing the contract. It seemed like a great deal. I was very excited to see do it. I felt like it was a new venture in my life and was thrilled. And then I kept feeling, you know, that, like, gut feeling. That's like, I have a bad feeling about this. I have a bad feeling about this. I don't trust something about it. So I consulted with Lindsay Cuz she and I had gotten tight and she
Hunter Prestridge
was like also, this is why. While I was still with David.
Kristen
Yes, yes. She was like, you know, I. I'm not going to tell you what to do. You've got to make the decision for yourself. And I kept hounding her and hounding her and I was like, I need you to just tell me like a yes or no, like give me advice on this. And she was just, you know, like saying. She basically just said if you are having reservations, it's not.
Hunter Prestridge
Yeah, like trust your gut. Right. Like if you have reservations about something, don't do it.
Kristen
Like then. And then I started working for her and that was also probably part of With. Oh yeah, with. Excuse me, my bad.
Hunter Prestridge
With.
Kristen
With working with her. And so I started working with Lindsay and then he got all pissed off that she stole from me.
Hunter Prestridge
Cause now I replace. Now I replace you for him. So on that note, Hunter's gonna tell you guys where you can find us for the video portion of this.
Kristen
So full video video episodes are now available on Patreon at patreon.com forward/cw. Lindsay Chrisley. Use code WELCOME Y' ALL for 30 off your first month for a limited time.
Hunter Prestridge
You also can follow us on Instagram. The link will be posted there. You can also follow the Southern Tea Group on Facebook.
Lindsay Chrisley
And if you have not subscribed to the show, you can do that from any podcast app.
Hunter Prestridge
Wherever you get your pods, always first at podcast one. We hope you guys have a great week and we'll talk to you soon.
Kristen
Good night.
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Hi there, it's Becca Tobin. I am currently the mother of a four year old, which means I have been through it. But I still have questions and maybe even a few answers. From surrogacy to toddler chaos, I have learned a lot and also not nearly enough. That's why I decided to launch Baby Gang, a six part series from the Lady Gang where I'm getting real about fertility, parenting and all the stuff nobody actually tells you. I'm bringing in some experts for the tough stuff and some other celeb moms and friends for parenting survival stuff. It's honest, it's messy, it's emotional. And yes, we are definitely laughing through it. Because whether you're in it, thinking about it, or just curious, we've got you. So join the baby gang wherever you get your podcasts.
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Guests/Regulars: Hunter Prestridge (assistant and close friend), Kristen, Madison
Release Date: August 5, 2026
In this candid and wide-ranging episode, Lindsie Chrisley introduces the rebrand of "The Southern Tea," addresses recent personal and professional turbulence, and discusses growth, boundaries, public scrutiny, and authenticity—both as a podcast host and as an individual. Alongside her core group (Hunter, Kristen, Madison), she opens up about ending friendships, navigating co-parenting, coping with public speculation, and confronting false narratives. The tone is forthright, southern, irreverent, and heartfelt.
[01:10], [02:01], [06:17], [09:10], [39:49]
“Takes a long time to do that stuff if you are methodically doing that and if you're putting time and effort into doing that.” (Lindsie, 01:38)
[02:55] – [04:40]
[07:50], [10:20], [12:44]
“I don't think anybody will ever realize the gravity of what I've been through other than the people who are with me every single day.” (Lindsie, 10:53)
[15:52] – [24:54]
[42:20] – [50:14]
[25:17], [30:10]
[31:36] – [36:44]
[37:14] – [38:43], [49:41], [51:00]
[50:14] – [79:44]
[77:11] – [80:51]
| Segment | Timestamps | Description | |---|---|---| | Rebrand Announcement & Rationale | 01:10, 02:01, 06:17, 39:49 | Why the show is changing, what prompted the change | | Friendship/Relationship Boundaries | 02:55 – 04:40 | Why certain people are no longer in Lindsie’s life | | Public Criticism & Authenticity | 07:50, 10:20, 12:44 | Handling scrutiny and maintaining self-image | | Hiatus/Mental Health | 25:17, 30:10 | Taking a break and resetting after burnout | | Family/Podcast Drama | 42:20 – 50:14 | Behind-the-scenes business/conduct conflict | | Grief and Personal Loss | 31:36 – 36:44 | Coping with legal issues and heartbreak | | Rumor Handling | 37:14, 38:43, 49:41, 51:00 | “Receipts,” addressing and debunking rumors | | Lighthearted Segments | 50:24 – 79:44 | Unhinged Text, Crash Out moments, hot takes | | Team History | 77:11 – 80:51 | Kristen’s backstory, team loyalty |
Lindsie repeatedly reminds listeners:
Southern, self-effacing, sensitive when appropriate but always ready to clap back—Lindsie and friends keep the tone engaging, a blend of open diary and tongue-in-cheek shade.
Episode Takeaway:
The “Time for a Rebrand” episode isn’t just about new graphics or a show facelift—it’s about a host putting herself first, learning from past wounds, and facing public and private chaos with candid humor, audacious honesty, and an unwavering commitment to living out loud for her listeners.