Podcast
The Tangle with Kyle Ridley
Hosted by Kyle · EN
I’m Kyle, a former morning show producer who spent a decade researching and booking guests, and prepping my anchors to interview them. Of course, there’s only so much that can be said in a 5-minute TV segment, and so many questions go unasked.
Now I’m away from the control room and ready to take the mic, speaking with those who fascinate, inspire and challenge me. And the best part: there’s no commercial to cut to when we the dish gets good!
I’ll be joined by my best friends and some special guests you might know along the way. We’re diving in deep and swimming in the shallow, so there’s something for everyone. Join me as we rant, rave and ramble through the tangled webs of life, love, loss and so much more!
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Tangled in Gay History, 'Hacks' Afterglow & Being 'Fruitful' (with Guy Branum)
4d ago01:05:52Tap to summarizeComedian, actor and author Guy Branum joins Kyle to discuss his illustrious career, including his work on “Chelsea Lately,” “Hacks,” “A League of Their Own,” and more. Guy shares insights on LGBTQ history, comedy evolution, and his new show, "Be Fruitful," heading to the Edinburg Fringe Festival. He also offers a deep dive into culture, community, and personal growth.Chapters“What the Old Gays Remember”The evolution of representation in comedy and writers’ roomsComing out and the impact of the InternetIntergenerational connections and gay historyNavigating hope and activism in challenging timesFinding community and identityCrafting a comedy hourExpectations of the Edinburgh Fringe FestivalVulnerability in comedyNavigating love Impact of the 1984 Tony AwardsPop culture reflections “Chelsea Lately” days Mean vs. edgy humorThe Fashion Police era“Hacks” “The Comeback” Rapid fire filmography
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Tangled in Giggles, Grief & Gratitude (with Mr. Malone)
2w ago00:52:27Tap to summarizeIn this heartfelt and humorous interview, Mr. Malone shares his journey through grief, community, creativity, and gratitude. Mr. Malone speaks about reviving his podcast, “It’s a Gay, Gay, Gay, Gay Podcast,” the loss of his beloved 16-year old dog, and remaining grateful in the face of hardship. Through it all, Mr. Malone showcases his infectious humor and joyful outlook. Follow Mr. Malone on Instagram and visit maloneintuitive.com.ChaptersReconnecting and reflectionsCommunity and connectionGrief and lossGratitude and personal growth Art and expressionIntuitive readings and life’s stageTangles Connections and kindness Dating and relationshipsHumor and intimacy
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Tangled in Sex Positivity, 'Twink Death' & Otter Birth (with Zach Noe Towers)
3w ago00:56:30Tap to summarizeComedian Zach Noe Towers joins Kyle for a wide-ranging discussion on comedy, sobriety, sex, mental health, and his new standup special, “Twink Death.” Make sure to follow Zach on Instagram and check out his special on YouTube. ChaptersNetflix festival experienceSobriety and “Twink Death” connectionComing out journeyEarly gay explorationComedy aspirations and challenges“Demon twink” era and identiyRelationships and thoughts on LTRs Navigating modern dating and appsSelf-discovery in relationshipsSex positivity Mental health and medicationCommunity and collaboration in comedyInfluences and mentorshipTangles
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Tangled in Unapologetic Humor, Newlywed Life & Jim Carrey Vibes (with Heather Shaw)
4w ago00:37:22Tap to summarizeComedian Heather Shaw joins Kyle to discuss her debut standup special, “Alright, See Ya!” Heather also discusses her unique approach to comedy, touring across the US, political comedy, marriage, sobriety and much more! She also shares insights on crafting comedy, navigating social issues, and building community as a queer artist. Follow Heather at heathershawcomedy.com, Instagram, and watch her special on YouTube. Chapters Debut standup special, performed in WisconsinLiving in LouisvilleMarried life Political comedyCrafting an hour setComedy and social mediaFamily dynamicsBuilding community Jim Carrey doppelgangerSobriety Tangles
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Tangled in Brotherly Love, Virginia Roots & a Jackrabbit Tour (with Dermot & Kieran Mulroney)
May 2000:36:22Tap to summarizeDermot and Kieran Mulroney discuss their musical journey as brothers, the formation of their band Jackrabbit, and their influences from childhood. The dynamic duo shares insights into their songwriting process, the excitement and nerves of performing live, and the themes of their music, including heartbreak and storytelling. The brothers also look ahead to their upcoming tour, the joy of reconnecting with their roots, and their personal experiences that shape their art. Dermot also offers a sneak peek at season two of “The Hunting Wives” and the highly anticipated sequel to “The Family Stone.” Check out Jackrabbit's tour dates and follow them on Instagram. ChaptersMusical beginnings: a brotherly bondThe birth of JackrabbitInfluences and inspirationsVirginia rootsHistory with friend and fellow musician Charles EstenDermot's gig with Alanis Morissette Songwriting journeyPerforming live Heartbreak and storytelling in lyrics Life on the RoadCurrent tanglesRapid fire filmography Returning to the DC area
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Tangled in Sex Advice, 'Monogamish' Life & Pegging (with Dan Savage)
May 1201:13:09Tap to summarizeThis week, Kyle sits down with the legendary Dan Savage! The renowned sex columnist, activist, author and podcaster shares insights on sexuality, community, faith, and the evolution of gay culture, non-monogamy, marriage and so much more. Dan also discusses the importance of LGBTQIA history, the intricacies of polyamory, and, of course, pegging! Follow Dan on Instagram and check out his website and podcast. ChaptersThe birth of peggingFaith, spirituality and personal beliefsComing out experience and challengesNavigating relationships and finding communityThe role of the internet in LGBTQ+ connectionsThe importance of historical awareness of LGBTQ+ rightsMarriage equalityBuilding and finding your tribeMonogamish relationships and communicationThe dynamics of event sexualityCelebrity crushes and evolving tastesThe evolution of non-monogamy Power dynamics in relationshipsBreaking up with a thirdBody image and self-perceptionEmbracing agingHopefulness in chaos Current tangles
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Tangled in Banging Dudes, Starting Therapy & Being an Acquired Taste (with Rory James)
May 600:59:55Tap to summarizeComedian and podcaster Rory James joins Kyle to discuss his Boston upbringing, coming out, dating adventures, new comedy special, and much more. Rory also shares insights on vulnerability, authenticity, and the evolving comedy landscape. Check out Rory’s new special, “Acquired Taste,” currently free on Prime Video. ChaptersRory James' upbringing in Boston and its influence on his comedyJourney to stand-up comedy and honing the craft The role of vulnerability and honesty in comedyInfluences including Judy Gold, Sherri Shepherd, and Lisa KudrowThoughts on crowd work, social media, and evolving comedy landscapeExperiences with dating, relationships, and living with exesLove for women, music, and pop culture icons like Mariah CareyThe importance of authenticity and self-awareness in his craftLove for "The Comeback" Podcasting Current tangles
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Tangled in Gay Awakenings, Hairy Chests & Non-Monogamy (with Eric Williams)
Apr 2901:06:22Tap to summarizeActor, comedian and podcaster Eric Williams joins Kyle for a deep dive into LBTQIA+ life, pop culture, podcasting, marriage, and much more. Eric hosts the successful “That’s a Gay Ass Podcast,” which is nearing 300 episodes. He’s a bold interviewer and candid interviewee, sharing stories of bullying, coming out, mental health struggles, and living in an open marriage. Make sure to follow Eric on Instagram @ericwillz and wherever you get your podcasts. ChaptersThe power and influence of “Sister Act 2: Back in the Habit” Early influences and childhoodCelebrity crushesComing out stories and experiences with bullyingHairy menMarriage, open relationships, and personal growthGrowth through community and connectionSelf-acceptance and authenticityReframing rejection and setbacks as growth opportunitiesPodcasting lessons Current tangles
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Tangled in Reflection, Recovery & Resilience (with Ty Herndon)
Apr 2200:51:38Tap to summarizeIn this heartfelt interview, country singer-songwriter Ty Herndon shares his journey of coming out in Nashville, addiction, sexual abuse, and healing. Ty documents his harrowing and inspiring story in his new memoir, 'What Mattered Most.' The pages are packed with authenticity, faith, and resilience from a country music legend who has lived through trauma and transformation.ChaptersThe journey of writing a memoir Recording the audiobookEarly life and coming outFaith and spiritualitySupport from family and fans The impact of music and advocacy Embracing authenticity and overcoming fearThe impact of Chely Wright Gay in NashvilleLove, loss and personal growthRape, trauma, growth, healingAddiction, relapse, recoveryFinding hope Coming out to CherThe joys of marriage Current tangles
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Tangled in Marriage, Fatherhood & 'Choreplay' (with Jordan Carlos)
Apr 1500:57:19Tap to summarizeComedian and author Jordan Carlos joins Kyle to discuss his new book, “Choreplay: The Marriage-Saving Magic of Getting Your Head Out of Your Ass.” Jordan shares his transformative journey toward a healthier, more intentional marriage. From breaking down toxic beliefs to embracing therapy, Jordan reveals how small shifts can lead to deeper intimacy and personal growth.Chapters The marriage-saving power of getting your head out of your assMindset shifts from being a busy “man-child” to an engaged partnerChallenging outdated gender role beliefs about chores and responsibilitiesThe importance of consistency over grand gestures in relationshipsHow to recognize and shed the default “she does, I don’t” settingModern masculinity and the journey away from ego-driven performancePractical tips for building trust, boundaries, and emotional availabilityThe role of therapy, self-reflection, and discipline in personal changeCreating household maps and routines for mutual reliabilityTips for better sleep synchrony and shared bedtime habitsCurrent tangles Connect with Jordan Carlos:Instagram
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