Podcast
The Tangle with Kyle Ridley
Hosted by Kyle · EN
I’m Kyle, a former morning show producer who spent a decade researching and booking guests, and prepping my anchors to interview them. Of course, there’s only so much that can be said in a 5-minute TV segment, and so many questions go unasked.
Now I’m away from the control room and ready to take the mic, speaking with those who fascinate, inspire and challenge me. And the best part: there’s no commercial to cut to when we the dish gets good!
I’ll be joined by my best friends and some special guests you might know along the way. We’re diving in deep and swimming in the shallow, so there’s something for everyone. Join me as we rant, rave and ramble through the tangled webs of life, love, loss and so much more!
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Tangled in Sex Advice, 'Monogamish' Life & Pegging (with Dan Savage)
2w ago01:13:09Tap to summarizeThis week, Kyle sits down with the legendary Dan Savage! The renowned sex columnist, activist, author and podcaster shares insights on sexuality, community, faith, and the evolution of gay culture, non-monogamy, marriage and so much more. Dan also discusses the importance of LGBTQIA history, the intricacies of polyamory, and, of course, pegging! Follow Dan on Instagram and check out his website and podcast. ChaptersThe birth of peggingFaith, spirituality and personal beliefsComing out experience and challengesNavigating relationships and finding communityThe role of the internet in LGBTQ+ connectionsThe importance of historical awareness of LGBTQ+ rightsMarriage equalityBuilding and finding your tribeMonogamish relationships and communicationThe dynamics of event sexualityCelebrity crushes and evolving tastesThe evolution of non-monogamy Power dynamics in relationshipsBreaking up with a thirdBody image and self-perceptionEmbracing agingHopefulness in chaos Current tangles
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Tangled in Banging Dudes, Starting Therapy & Being an Acquired Taste
3w ago00:59:55Tap to summarizeComedian and podcaster Rory James joins Kyle to discuss his Boston upbringing, coming out, dating adventures, new comedy special, and much more. Rory also shares insights on vulnerability, authenticity, and the evolving comedy landscape. Check out Rory’s new special, “Acquired Taste,” currently free on Prime Video. ChaptersRory James' upbringing in Boston and its influence on his comedyJourney to stand-up comedy and honing the craft The role of vulnerability and honesty in comedyInfluences including Judy Gold, Sherri Shepherd, and Lisa KudrowThoughts on crowd work, social media, and evolving comedy landscapeExperiences with dating, relationships, and living with exesLove for women, music, and pop culture icons like Mariah CareyThe importance of authenticity and self-awareness in his craftLove for "The Comeback" Podcasting Current tangles
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Tangled in Gay Awakenings, Hairy Chests & Non-Monogamy (with Eric Williams)
4w ago01:06:22Tap to summarizeActor, comedian and podcaster Eric Williams joins Kyle for a deep dive into LBTQIA+ life, pop culture, podcasting, marriage, and much more. Eric hosts the successful “That’s a Gay Ass Podcast,” which is nearing 300 episodes. He’s a bold interviewer and candid interviewee, sharing stories of bullying, coming out, mental health struggles, and living in an open marriage. Make sure to follow Eric on Instagram @ericwillz and wherever you get your podcasts. ChaptersThe power and influence of “Sister Act 2: Back in the Habit” Early influences and childhoodCelebrity crushesComing out stories and experiences with bullyingHairy menMarriage, open relationships, and personal growthGrowth through community and connectionSelf-acceptance and authenticityReframing rejection and setbacks as growth opportunitiesPodcasting lessons Current tangles
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Tangled in Reflection, Recovery & Resilience (with Ty Herndon)
Apr 2200:51:38Tap to summarizeIn this heartfelt interview, country singer-songwriter Ty Herndon shares his journey of coming out in Nashville, addiction, sexual abuse, and healing. Ty documents his harrowing and inspiring story in his new memoir, 'What Mattered Most.' The pages are packed with authenticity, faith, and resilience from a country music legend who has lived through trauma and transformation.ChaptersThe journey of writing a memoir Recording the audiobookEarly life and coming outFaith and spiritualitySupport from family and fans The impact of music and advocacy Embracing authenticity and overcoming fearThe impact of Chely Wright Gay in NashvilleLove, loss and personal growthRape, trauma, growth, healingAddiction, relapse, recoveryFinding hope Coming out to CherThe joys of marriage Current tangles
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Tangled in Marriage, Fatherhood & 'Choreplay' (with Jordan Carlos)
Apr 1500:57:19Tap to summarizeComedian and author Jordan Carlos joins Kyle to discuss his new book, “Choreplay: The Marriage-Saving Magic of Getting Your Head Out of Your Ass.” Jordan shares his transformative journey toward a healthier, more intentional marriage. From breaking down toxic beliefs to embracing therapy, Jordan reveals how small shifts can lead to deeper intimacy and personal growth.Chapters The marriage-saving power of getting your head out of your assMindset shifts from being a busy “man-child” to an engaged partnerChallenging outdated gender role beliefs about chores and responsibilitiesThe importance of consistency over grand gestures in relationshipsHow to recognize and shed the default “she does, I don’t” settingModern masculinity and the journey away from ego-driven performancePractical tips for building trust, boundaries, and emotional availabilityThe role of therapy, self-reflection, and discipline in personal changeCreating household maps and routines for mutual reliabilityTips for better sleep synchrony and shared bedtime habitsCurrent tangles Connect with Jordan Carlos:Instagram
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Tangled in Married Life, Funeral Homes & Clutch Women (with Sarah Colonna)
Apr 900:45:18Tap to summarizeComedian, author, actress and podcaster Sarah Colonna joins Kyle to discuss her new standup shows and comedic evolution. From Germany, Arkansas to Los Angeles, Sarah covers her early years on stage, working on “Chelsea Lately” for seven seasons, and marriage to retired NFL player Jon Ryan. She also discusses her comedy community, two podcasts, and creating her “Clutch Women” company. ChaptersLife on the road: mastering touringComedic inspirationsGrowing up in Arkansas with a mom who worked in a funeral homeFirst time on stageCrafting comedyNavigating social media and political correctnessThe “Chelsea Lately” yearsFriendships and collaborationsTransitioning from writing to acting Married life and sportsEntrepreneurship and “Clutch Women”“Book Lisp” podcast“Are You My Podcast?”Current tangles
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Tangled in Processing Trauma, Reconciling Faith & Embracing Sexuality (with David Archuleta)
Apr 600:31:25Tap to summarizeIn this candid interview, singer-songwriter David Archuleta shares his heartfelt journey through faith, coming out, healing family wounds, and advocating for change within his religious community. His new memoir, “Devout,” offers hope, resilience, and a call for understanding.Chapters David’s experience of leaving Mormonism and reconciling faith with sexualityJennette McCurdy’s encouragement The process of writing “Devout” and confronting family traumaThe impact of childhood abuse stories on his personal growth and advocacyHow David’s faith and spirituality have evolvedPersonal reflections on being misunderstood and the importance of authenticityHis approach to changing perceptions about LGBTQ+ individuals in religious contextsThe significance of boundaries and estrangement in healing family relationshipsTangled in the “Devout” EP
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Tangled in the '90s, MTV & Queer Visibility (with Dave Holmes)
Apr 201:00:32Tap to summarizeBest-selling author, editor, and former MTV VJ Dave Holmes joins Kyle for a reflective hour on the ‘90s, pre-online dating, tangible media, and much more. Dave offers behind-the-scenes stories from his days at MTV, including dream interviews and placing second on the “Wanna Be a VJ” contest. He gets candid about coming out, celebrity crushes, and hosting the “Homophilia” podcast. Dave also discusses the evolution of music videos, digital media, and the rapid consumption of music instead of a steady rollout. ChaptersStories from the 90’s cruise The power of Edwin McCain The nostalgia of early MTV moments and favorite bands Insights on queer artists Lilith Fair, female singer-songwriters and representation Being a theater and variety show enthusiast and early influences The rise of MTV and music videos; early exposure to cable Early queer visibility through TV and music Coming out stories and personal growth Collecting vintage literature and the importance of tangible media Memories working at MTV, meeting legendary artists, and memorable interviews The decline of traditional cable TV, the evolution of music videos, and streaming era Transition from TV hosting to writing articles and books Reflections on writing "Party of One" and future projects The loss of physical media and its cultural impact Talking about the impact of curated collections on perceptionCurrent tanglesCelebrity crushes
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Tangled in Bittersweet Endings, Gratitude & Living Out Your Dreams (with Sherri Shepherd)
Mar 3000:28:30Tap to summarizeThis week, Kyle is joined by Emmy winning host Sherri Shepherd, who shares her journey through comedy, television, and her new “Make it Make Sense” comedy tour. Sherri discusses the evolution of standup, the challenges of social media, her diverse roles, and her closeknit comedy community. She also shares the joys of having her own talk show and the bittersweetness of having it come to an end this year. Get your tickets to Sherri’s tour at sherrishepherd.com.Chapters Standup comedy craft and evolutionImpact of social media on comedyBalancing multiple entertainment rolesFriendship and collaboration in comedyChallenges and opportunities in TV hostingWork-life balance and career reflectionsUpcoming projectsCurrent tanglesRapid fire roles
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Tangled in Margaret, Maya, 'Scrubs' & a New Tour (with Joel Kim Booster)
Mar 2600:31:18Tap to summarizeThis week, Joel Kim Booster opens up about his diverse career in comedy, acting, writing, and producing. He shares insights on his creative process, navigating the industry, and balancing personal life with professional projects, including his work on 'Fire Island' and the new 'Scrubs' revival. Joel also offers a preview of his new standup tour, heading across the country. Chapters Core love for writingGenerating standup materialInspirations Love for “biological mom” Margaret ChoNavigating personal and political themes in comedy The pressure to perform crowd work“Scrubs” revivalWorking with Maya Rudolph on “Loot” Current tangles
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