Podcast Summary: The Toast – DJ JuiceBox with Xandra Pohl
Date: November 3, 2025
Hosts: Claudia Oshry ("A"), Jackie Oshry
Episode Overview
This episode of The Toast features the effervescent Gen Z DJ and influencer Xandra Pohl. Claudia and Xandra dive into Xandra’s journey from her regular Midwest upbringing to viral fame as a University of Miami DJ, touching on TikTok stardom, the pressures of public life and digital rumor mills, friendship evolutions, pop culture hot takes (including Halloween costumes, celebrity privacy, and marathon gossip), plus hands-on advice and inside looks into the DJ world. The episode retains a rapid-fire, candid, and playful tone throughout.
Key Discussion Points & Insights
Xandra’s Origin Story: From Ohio to Miami DJ Fame
- Hairline Hype: Claudia jokes about Xandra’s famous straight, full hairline, a running topic among fans.
- “People online think it’s, like, fake fake... but that's–" (A, 00:38)
- Midwest Upbringing:
- Xandra grew up in Cincinnati, Ohio. (“Just like, the most regular experience.” - B, 02:32)
- Early DJ Start:
- Started DJing at 16 after seeing Alison Wonderland perform at Lollapalooza and realizing a lack of female DJs inspired her.
- “I just thought it was the sickest thing ever. I’d never saw a female DJ.” (B, 02:38)
Becoming an Internet & Campus Celebrity
- TikTok Rise:
- Gained popularity during senior year at University of Miami with “Get Ready With Me” videos and her DJ persona.
- Claudia recalls the “cultural moment” of Miami girls getting ready on TikTok, watched by a massive audience, even her 34-year-old sister.
- Navigating Fame On Campus:
- Freshman reactions vs. upperclassmen's indifference (“We really do not care about them.” - B, 05:15)
DJing IRL: Skills, Misconceptions & Girl Power
- Learning To DJ:
- Self-taught via YouTube; Claudia tried and realized the job is much harder than it looks.
- “Most people think… you could just drink and get up and party. But you’re working, right?” (A, 03:44)
- Sexism in DJ Culture:
- Constant accusations in comments (“DJ Press Play”) about not mixing live, which Xandra finds both offensive and annoying.
- “It’s so annoying. But it’s just something I’m used to at this point.” (B, 04:06)
Friendship Dynamics, Rumors, and Digital Drama
- College Friendships & Speculated Feuds:
- Addressed alleged “bad blood” with Alex (“It’s really just not that deep.” - B, 07:26)
- “People are always going to be curious. People are always going to bring stuff up.” (B, 07:26)
- Navigating Public Relationships:
- The challenge of living “canon events” (breakups, dating) in the public eye; learned to keep more private as she matured.
- “You kind of do have to check yourself. You do have to grow up quicker.” (B, 09:01)
Healing, Respect, and Digital Boundaries
- Discussing Her Ex:
- Handled breakup trauma privately before discussing it online, honored ex’s request to not air dirty laundry.
- “He pleaded with me to... not talk about all his atrocities that he did with me…” (B, 11:49)
- Showed respect but noted irony as her ex is now a TikToker.
- Rumor Control & Resilience:
- Cleared up a persistent false rumor about leaking a naked photo (“That was not me.” - B, 40:22)
- “At that point... why would I have to defend myself for something that I didn’t do?” (B, 40:42)
- Emphasized the importance of “rising above.”
Life, Love, and DJ Hustle
- Dating Life:
- Recently single, attending to her own fun and healing, not in a relationship (“If I were 25 and had your hairline girl, like, you would not be able to keep me out of people's —” A, 10:20)
- Work-Life Balance:
- Clubbing feels more like work than play now (“I have the same hours as a hooker: nights and weekends.” - B, 16:44)
- Prefers Miami house parties or boat outings with friends.
- Marriage & Adulting:
- Currently focused on career and fun; not feeling pressure to marry soon (“I’d love to find a boyfriend first. That would help.” - B, 17:54)
The Power of Branding: The "Xandra" Name & Identity
- Nickname Story:
- Chose “Xandra” as a DJ name/identity upon entering college – intentional rebranding advice: “Change your Instagram username before you go to college.” (B, 19:30)
Pop Culture Lightning Round: Halloween Costumes, Celebrity Kids & Viral Moments
- Halloween Costumes:
- Praised Xandra’s Pamela Anderson costume; deep dived on Julia Fox’s controversial Jackie O costume (“It’s getting the X for me.” - B, 29:36).
- Discussed the slippery slope of “trying to be original” with celebrity costumes.
- Justin & Hailey Bieber's Child:
- Applauded Hailey Bieber’s creative content and protecting her kid’s privacy while still slaying Halloween.
- DJ Set Preferences:
- Xandra’s preference veers toward dubstep and EDM (doesn’t play much Justin Bieber herself).
- Claudia plays her own “Toast” song for Xandra, who promises to consider it for her set.
Pop Culture & Music Industry Real Talk
- Live Performance Realities:
- Talked Tate McRae’s “lip syncing” controversy (“Let the girl live a little.” - B, 38:32); demystified how nearly all major acts use backing tracks, especially for dance-heavy performances.
- Viral Faux Pas:
- How TikTok makes or breaks reputations with single videos (“All it takes is one video… can literally destroy a person.” - A, 39:32)
Hot Pop Culture Takes & Celebrity Gossip
- Meghan Markle’s Cringe Viral Video:
- Claudia defends Markle against unfair criticism, shifts blame for the couple’s issues onto Prince Harry.
- “If you just watch this video and don’t know who these people are, you would think that this is a man who hates his wife.” (A, 47:27)
- New York Marathon Recap:
- Ran through celeb times, with playful shadings and shoutouts.
- “Four minutes longer than my friend Emily, but that’s still really good.” (A, 52:06)
- Reality Show Potential:
- Xandra says she’s not interested in joining a reality show, but Summer House might fit her vibe.
Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments
- On learning tough fame lessons:
- "You kind of have to f*** up before you realize that you don’t have to share everything." (A, 09:33)
- On handling rumors:
- “I told myself, I will always rise above. I'm never gonna talk poor or ill about someone.” (B, 41:29)
- On embracing a new nickname:
- "Change your Instagram username before you go to college." (B, 19:30)
- On original Halloween costumes:
- “It’s getting the X for me.” (B, 29:36)
- “Sometimes being a little normal—maybe be Pamela Anderson.” (B, 30:14)
- On clubbing as a DJ:
- “I have the same hours as a hooker: nights and weekends.” (B, 16:44)
- On using backing tracks:
- “Let the girl live a little.” (B, 38:32)
- On setting the record straight:
- “That was not me. I know who it is, but I would never, ever, ever, ever, ever say that in a million years.” (B, 40:25)
Important Timestamps
- 00:36 – Claudia introduces Xandra, hairline conversation
- 01:44 – Xandra’s DJ origin story
- 03:59 – Discussion on misconceptions about women DJs (“DJ press play” commentary)
- 05:15 – Experience being TikTok famous on campus
- 07:26 – Addressing drama/rumors with former college friends
- 08:51 – Living through “canon events” in public
- 11:38 – Thoughts on ex’s new TikTok fame
- 13:45 – Pop culture questions: Dancing With the Stars, marathon
- 16:34 – How DJing changed partying for Xandra
- 17:58 – How “Xandra” became her chosen name
- 20:16 – Pop culture: Halloween costumes
- 29:07 – Julia Fox’s controversial costume & response
- 32:06 – Hailey Bieber’s parenting/privacy approach
- 40:00 – Clearing up long-standing TikTok rumor
- 47:27 – Meghan Markle & Prince Harry viral video analysis
- 50:37 – Celebrity marathon times
- 53:41 – Would Xandra do reality TV?
- 55:50 – Wrapping up, Xandra’s music plugs
Final Notes
This episode is a fast, witty, and deeply conversational look into the professional and personal life of Gen Z darling Xandra Pohl. With plenty of honest talk about internet culture, rumors, and music industry realities, it’s packed with juicy behind-the-scenes tales, real advice, and a refreshing dose of resilience. Highly recommended for listeners curious about viral fame, DJ hustle, and the pop culture moment from the perspective of a rising star and The Toast’s whip-smart hosts.
