Podcast Summary: The Toast – "How To Make Friends and Influence People with Kathleen Post"
Episode Information:
- Title: How To Make Friends and Influence People with Kathleen Post
- Hosts: Jackie & Claudia Oshry (Dear Media)
- Release Date: June 3, 2025
Introduction
The Toast, a vibrant weekday podcast hosted by Jackie and Claudia Oshry, kicks off its Florida edition's second week with a special guest, Kathleen Post. Known for her influence as a Miami swirly and blogger, Kathleen brings her decade-long experience in the influencer space to the conversation.
Guest Introduction: Kathleen Post [00:36]
Jackson Claude: "Kathleen, you are an influencer, a Miami swirly, and a toaster."
Kathleen Post: "I am. The trifecta."
Kathleen shares her initial skepticism upon receiving an invitation to join The Toast, fearing it might be a fraudulent scheme. Her quick response confirmed the authenticity, leading to her role as a co-host for the Florida month.
Personal Background and Move to Miami [01:38]
Kathleen hails from Indianapolis, Indiana, where she attended Indiana University as a marketing major with a minor in fashion. After spending a winter season in Miami, she and her husband considered making the move permanent, balancing life between Indiana, Los Angeles, and summer months in New York.
Kathleen Post: "I walked down to the beach every morning to start my day. Do I love Miami? Because I'm a suburbs girl from Indiana, Miami was a big transition."
Influencer Career Evolution [07:44]
With a decade of influencing under her belt, Kathleen reminisces about her early days of blogging before the term "influencer" became mainstream. She highlights the evolution from writing detailed blog posts about outfits to leveraging Instagram's features like Stories.
Kathleen Post: "I was Lemon Blonde. When I started Instagram, stories weren't even a thing. We used crazy filters like the dog filter during makeup tutorials."
Discussion on Filters and Social Media Authenticity [08:55]
The hosts delve into the past reliance on filters and the journey towards a more authentic online presence. They reflect humorously on their earlier content, questioning the future trends they might look back on with amusement.
Jackson Claude: "What were we thinking?!"
Conversations on Relationships and Marriages [05:10]
Kathleen opens up about her ten-year marriage, which began when she was 22. She discusses the challenges and growth that come with marrying young, emphasizing the importance of growing together as individuals and as a couple.
Kathleen Post: "We grew together, whereas I see a lot of couples who get married young and then drift apart."
Relationship Dynamics and Personal Growth [06:30]
The conversation shifts to observing relationships on shows like Secret Lives, where early marriages often lead to multiple divorces due to personal growth and changing values.
Kathleen Post: "Someday, if I have a daughter, I would not advise someone to get married that young. But it worked for us."
News Stories
Blake Lively vs. Justin Baldoni Case [21:37]
The hosts discuss Blake Lively's attempt to withdraw her claims against Justin Baldoni regarding intentional infliction of emotional distress. They analyze the implications of her withdrawal and speculate on its impact on her case.
Kathleen Post: "Nothing is looking good for her right now."
Kylie Jenner's Boob Job Revelation [27:41]
Kylie Jenner engages directly with her fans by sharing specific details about her breast augmentation, including size and material. This candidness is celebrated as a rare moment of transparency among celebrities.
Kathleen Post: "I love that she just responded to that. It's very rare."
Meghan Markle and Dolly Parton Snubbing [53:39]
Rumors surface about Dolly Parton declining an invitation to Meghan Markle's Netflix show, leading to discussions about celebrity reputations and alliances.
Jackson Claude: "I don’t think that makes sense for her. If Dolly liked Megan, she would publicly support her."
Sports Discussion: Indianapolis Pacers [32:04]
Kathleen expresses excitement about the Indianapolis Pacers' progress in the playoffs, contrasting it with recent Knicks' performance.
Kathleen Post: "Pacers now go on to the finals. Planning on going to a game, which will be fun."
Book and Show Recommendations [57:35]
The hosts recommend various books and shows, sharing personal insights and highlighting how The Toast helps listeners stay informed without diving deep into each media piece.
Jackson Claude: "If you've been looking for a secret lives recap, stay tuned for this week."
Dear Toasters: Advice Segment [60:16]
Dear Toasters is a weekly advice segment where listeners’ questions are addressed by the hosts and guest co-hosts.
Making Friends in High School [60:16]
A freshman struggles with making friends in high school. The hosts empathize, sharing their own experiences of switching schools and the importance of putting oneself out there through clubs and hobbies.
Kathleen Post: "We have so many ways to get involved in high school that are just low stakes."
Financial Concerns in Relationships [64:33]
A listener seeks advice on differing financial management styles with her boyfriend. The hosts discuss the importance of transparency and finding a balance between joint and separate accounts.
Jackson Claude: "Have a joint account for shared ventures and keep individual accounts for personal freedom."
Dealing with Exes and Family Dynamics [68:01]
A divorced listener is troubled by her mother's refusal to remove wedding photos displaying her ex. The hosts suggest proactive measures like swapping out photos or having new ones taken to create a healthier environment.
Kathleen Post: "You need to take matters into your own hands. Start by replacing the photo with something that brings you joy."
Conclusion
The episode wraps up with reflections on the discussions and a heartfelt thank you to Kathleen Post for her insights. The hosts encourage listeners to follow Kathleen on her social media platforms and tease upcoming episodes filled with more engaging content.
Jackson Claude: "Thank you so much, Kathleen Post. Check out her Instagram and TikTok for more adorable fashion content."
Notable Quotes:
- Kathleen Post [00:43]: "I am." (Referring to being an influencer, Miami swirly, and toaster.)
- Jackson Claude [04:48]: "We love being right on the beach."
- Kathleen Post [05:10]: "We're fortunate we've grown together."
- Jackson Claude [08:55]: "What were we thinking?!"
- Kathleen Post [21:38]: "Nothing is looking good for her right now."
- Kathleen Post [28:10]: "I love that she just responded to that."
- Jackson Claude [67:59]: "Money causes the most fights in marriages."
Timestamps Reference:
- 00:36: Introduction of Kathleen Post
- 05:10: Discussion on marriage
- 08:55: Evolution of influencer content
- 21:37: Blake Lively vs. Justin Baldoni case
- 27:41: Kylie Jenner's candid revelation
- 53:39: Meghan Markle and Dolly Parton snubbing
- 60:16: First Dear Toasters question
- 64:33: Second Dear Toasters question
- 68:01: Third Dear Toasters question
This detailed summary encapsulates the key discussions, personal anecdotes, and insightful advice shared during the episode, providing listeners who haven't tuned in a comprehensive overview of the engaging content delivered by The Toast and Kathleen Post.