Loading summary
Transcript635 lines
- [00:05]
A
Good morning, girlies.
- [00:07]
B
It's the toast. It's Jackson Claude and we're your host.
- [00:15]
A
It's your favorite show, the Fast 5 things you need to know. We'll start your day off swirly.
- [00:22]
B
It's the toast. They sound amazing.
- [00:27]
A
Welcome back to the Toast and happy Tuesday. It's a big day if you're a member of the dtq. It's a big day if you're a big woman. And I am. Oh, speaking of, I weighed myself this morning. Sorry not to just like, start on such a negative note. Hey, Jax, how you doing?
- [00:39]
B
Hey, Turtle. You did weigh yourself this morning. You called me and I actually am thinking about weighing myself now. Like, oh, wow. I'm just curious. This whole pregnancy, especially because I feel like I. I paid tacked on a lot fast. And I was like, I don't want to know. Every doctor's appointment, I'm like, I don't want to know. I've just chugged my simple, modern 40 ounce tumbler, like, and you're weighing me. I don't want to know. But now, like, I'm curious, you know, I feel like now the number that. I think it's going to be like super high. Like, it's a point of pride almost.
- [01:07]
A
So, like, I have to say, as an outsider, you know, complete third party with no particular interest in the matter, I think you look very good. I think you'll be surprised that you don't, like, look so crazy.
- [01:16]
B
I think I'm gonna weigh myself to tomorrow morning because I like to know the stats, so I've got to include it in my lifelong note on my phone of my weight throughout the years.
- [01:27]
A
I weighed myself like before the summer. You know, it was like two months after. No, like five weeks after, baby. And I was really pleasantly, like, not terribly unhappy. I mean, I wasn't thrilled, but it was fine. And then I just lived it up, lived it up. And I gained 13 pounds over the summer. So seriously, don't fucking talk to me.
- [01:46]
B
I didn't want to make you feel worse. But you know what else I was thinking?
- [01:49]
A
What?
- [01:49]
B
Like, we've been home for two weeks, both being extremely slender, and you've probably definitely gained more. Yeah, you've probably lost weight since you've been home, so you probably gained more.
- [01:59]
A
The thing is, so I don't even know why I weighed myself because, like, I'm really not gonna do anything about it. Like, maybe I'll think twice before the second cookie, but, like, I'm really not gonna do anything about it. So I just have this information in my hands and I. I kind of wish I didn't.
- [02:15]
B
Yeah, same. I don't know, like, what to do for you because.
- [02:19]
A
And you know what? Like, I don't want to talk about it. Well, first of all, I just want.
- [02:22]
B
To say I haven't like, visibly.
- [02:24]
A
You look beautiful.
- [02:25]
B
I never said you were ugly. But, like, you don't look any, like, different than like you did at the beginning of the summer. But it's just a tough time where, like, you can't take extreme measures. Like, of course you can't go on a GLP1 when you're breastfeeding. As of this moment, you can't even, like, starve if you wanted to because, like, you are breastfeeding and you.
- [02:41]
A
And I don't want to and you.
- [02:43]
B
Can'T like, literally, I've never been hungry in my life than when I was.
- [02:46]
A
It's fine. It's fine. You know, it is what it is and it was what it was.
- [02:52]
B
And maybe it is going to be a BGF after all. Yeah.
- [02:55]
A
And it will be what it's going to be.
- [02:58]
B
I think you're doing great. This is going to be just like a blip on the radar screen of your life. Like, it will all. It's so soon.
- [03:06]
A
It's actually going to be a blimp.
- [03:08]
B
It's so soon that you'll be like, back doing your snatchy things and you'll remember this time fondly. Don't get hung up on it. I know. Easier said than done.
- [03:17]
A
It's fine. It's fine. Moving on.
- [03:19]
B
You've inspired me. You've inspired me to take the plunge.
- [03:23]
A
I am an inspiration.
- [03:25]
B
Yeah. So I'll let you. You'll be getting FaceTime from me tomorrow.
- [03:32]
A
It's Tuesday. Means there's your toasters. We actually. We actually have something kind of major going on this week.
- [03:39]
B
You mean tomorrow?
- [03:40]
A
Like, this week is major.
- [03:43]
B
This week is major. I agree.
- [03:45]
A
If you're a member of the dtq.
- [03:47]
B
Yeah. We have two days of Dear Toasters this week because we have a sponsored segment tomorrow.
- [03:54]
A
Yeah. Somebody wanted to come in and sponsor Dear Toasters. And I said, you know what? Put your money where your mouth is. We'll do two. One regular, one sponsored. So stay tuned tomorrow to find out who the sponsors. It's actually a really good one. Today's is just a regular old dtq and then tomorrow's is a little bit more thematic. The theme is Mother in Law, Double.
- [04:09]
B
Dtd, double the fun, double the D.
- [04:13]
A
Double the fun, double trouble.
- [04:14]
B
Just like, us toil and trouble. I'm wearing jeans today.
- [04:19]
A
It's so crazy.
- [04:20]
B
And they, like, looked really cute. I posted a picture on my Instagram. You could check them out. But when I went to sit, they wouldn't stay buttoned, so it wasn't so cute. They are open. Like, I don't know if you can see. Maybe my leg is covering the fact that my jeans are open. If you can see, just, you know, eyes up here. Okay, My eyes are here.
- [04:37]
A
I'm wearing a pair of 200 sweatpants. So, like, that's how far I've fallen. You know who makes them?
- [04:44]
B
Are there sweatpants, though? They're like drawstring.
- [04:47]
A
No, no, no. I have the silk ones, too. I'm in a place where, like, I'm just buying things that fit. You know, it's like the price is just is what it is.
- [04:53]
B
The price is right.
- [04:55]
A
Yeah, every price is right.
- [04:57]
B
No, the drawstring, like, pant, like, wearing pants right now. Like, not even, like, wide leg. They're just like, pants. I can't explain it. Like, that's what's in. That's what really, what I'm feeling. Like when I get dressed in the morning, I'm like, what pants are we wearing today?
- [05:09]
A
A thousand percent. And I feel like there was a time in my life where, like, I really valued elasticity, like, elastic pants, which, of course, I love an elastic waistband. But there's really something to be said about a drawstring.
- [05:20]
B
I don't know. I wore a drawstring yesterday, maybe because of the way I had it placed. Cause I had to wear it so high up. Like, it looked so funny, these strings hanging out of my belly.
- [05:29]
A
Well, also, like, the art of the string, you know, they can't be too long, they can't be too short. You don't want to be in, like, a knot. You need a pretty little bow. It's delicate. No, but we, as women, we can figure it out.
- [05:39]
B
Point. Like, I would get dressed every morning. I'd be like, okay, I'm wearing leggings and what? And these days it's like, okay, I'm wearing pants and what? And it's just, like, a shift that I've noticed that I welcome. I personally was inspired by Molly Mae. Like, shopping maybe made me start dressing like that. But I see it's happening to women all over.
- [05:56]
A
Speaking of women all over, I did something crazy last night.
- [06:00]
B
Oh, God. What'd you do? What'd you do, Jesse?
- [06:03]
A
Jackie.
- [06:04]
B
What'd you do? Jissel Tank.
- [06:06]
A
Jackie. I did Something crazy last night.
- [06:08]
B
You watched Real Housewives of Miami, Jackie.
- [06:12]
A
Like, I'm trying to quote us.
- [06:13]
B
I'm sorry, I'm cutting something. Yeah, crap.
- [06:15]
A
I did something crazy.
- [06:18]
B
Cork meth.
- [06:19]
A
I said meth.
- [06:20]
B
Meth.
- [06:21]
A
Crazier.
- [06:22]
B
What?
- [06:24]
A
I started season two of With Love Megan.
- [06:26]
B
Okay.
- [06:28]
A
And it pretty much started and stopped within like 30 minutes. No, 15 minutes. It was really dreadful. And I watched with Ben and I watched through the lens of, like, he thought he was just sitting down to, like, a party cooking show. And we actually watched Ina after. We watched a lot of cooking shows, so I thought Ben actually might enjoy it. But, like, she didn't cook. She, like, invited people over and she already had onion tarts made and she didn't show us how to make them. And she had over, like, really legit people. Like the starters of momofuku and milk bar. They're like, yeah, I think they're married. And she made them a little gift. And so she handed them the box and then the show paused. She was like, let me show you how I made these gifts. And so it like, cuts like a pre made package of her, like, dying silk scarves.
- [07:09]
B
Dyeing them.
- [07:10]
A
Yeah. And she was like, let me show you how I do it. It's so easy. And then she showed us, and she was like, this is my first time ever doing this. Why don't I do it more? I'm like, but you're giving a tutorial. How can you give a tutorial on something you've never done?
- [07:20]
B
Yeah, it's tough. That's like a tough feature of the show. I actually had seen some people messaging me being like, it looks like they took some of your feedback from last season. Because I just, like, wanted more. I want more info. Like, why do you, like, when do you cook? Why do you cook? When did you start to cook? Like, just like, more backstory. And I thought maybe they included more of that. But no, like, more Pinterest projects. Like on the fly. Like, no, you don't make scarves typically.
- [07:46]
A
More on the fly. Pinterest project.
- [07:47]
B
So exactly what it was, don't make them for us.
- [07:50]
A
And Jackie, there was more. Daniel, he was in the first episode, the makeup artist.
- [07:59]
B
I mean, he had a high Q score. They obviously didn't ask me.
- [08:03]
A
I didn't watch more than like a maybe 10 minutes. Ben was, like, genuinely horrified. Like, he was like, like, I watch it for fun and like, there's like, elements of it. It's the craziest, stupidest, like, most amazing show. But, like, I watch it through my own lens. Ben really watches it. Like, Ben takes notes when he watches Aina. Like, she made this chicken cooked in butter yesterday. Ben couldn't get over it. So he watches them really, like, critically and like a. I think he's an ideal viewer. Like, he's looking to learn. He's looking to learn, but I can learn. Let me tell you. He was not learning anything from with love, Megan, unfortunately. And farch you.
- [08:36]
B
She makes a nice frittata.
- [08:39]
A
We didn't get to the frittata. She did fry an egg and then momofuku man actually like fixed it for her because she did it wrong. He was like, you have to do this. And I think he put like a little water or something. I don't know. Oh, no, he put a plate on top.
- [08:51]
B
These are the tips that we come for. Momofuku should have a show.
- [08:55]
A
I bet he does.
- [08:56]
B
Yeah. Like, I bet he does. Did Ben start his bread this morning?
- [09:01]
A
Of course not. You're lying. He. I'm not. He had an appointment to get his. His. Ben's life has been defined recently by this custom set of golf clubs that he's making. So, you know, you buy golf clubs and you know they have special sizes. It's based on your height, weight. So like you get one for like one. A person who's six foot. Like, it's all pretty general. It's like a shoe, you know. But I guess when you get to a level that's like, you're really good at golf, you have custom made for like your exact hip range, elbow size. I don't fucking know.
- [09:30]
B
Does it like change based on your weight?
- [09:33]
A
Kind of. It's like a wedding dress. Like you go in for fittings.
- [09:35]
B
No, but like, what if you gain or lose weight? And that's.
- [09:38]
A
And let me tell you, Ben is gaining and losing weight. Like.
- [09:40]
B
Yeah, no, he's, he's, he fluctuates.
- [09:43]
A
Yeah, he's a little girly like that actually, the way Ben fluctuates. So he went for like his custom fitting this morning because I, I heard you talking to him on the phone last night, telling him exactly what to do. Wake up, do the fold and stretch, whatever. Because let me tell you, he called.
- [09:55]
B
Me at five o' clock last night saying, I'm about to start my loaf. I was like, what, are you gonna wake up in the middle of the night and do stretch and folds? Like, you can't start. Like, it's a 12 hour process.
- [10:03]
A
So start in the morning.
- [10:04]
B
Yeah, you should. Or like. Yeah, somewhat Time when you're gonna be up 12 hours later, like not in the evening. So we made a whole plan for him to start like at 7:30 or 8 whenever he gets up and starts his day.
- [10:17]
A
He woke up and went right to Tribeca to get fitted for his golf clubs. Like, he's another fitting. He's literally getting married.
- [10:22]
B
So he said golf over loaf.
- [10:24]
A
Correct. He said flog overfull.
- [10:26]
B
But when is he gonna start his loaf tomorrow, Jackie?
- [10:31]
A
I don't know. Like, let me tell you, he's not serious about it. I'm telling you.
- [10:34]
B
I know.
- [10:36]
A
I think he liked the idea of like having a starter, you know, and then beyond that, I don't know if he thought past that.
- [10:42]
B
Well, just wait till he makes like a pargy loaf of bread, because that feeling is addicting. But I do worry that that feeling won't come for a while because it's a lot of trial and error. But I actually think he's gonna have success with it. I think going with ChatGPT, like accompanying you is a great idea. I would recommend it to all Sourdough swirlies. I actually changed my cook times based on chat GPT.
- [11:03]
A
And it worked.
- [11:04]
B
Yeah. Because I was feeling like, it's not perfect every time. Like, it's great, it's delicious, but like, it's not perfect. Like, not something I would like, sell in a store.
- [11:13]
A
Right. And we're always looking for store worthy bread.
- [11:16]
B
Yeah.
- [11:17]
A
Yeah. So what else can I tell you?
- [11:22]
B
What else can you tell me, Turdi? I watched some Real Housewives in Miami last night, but I just. I couldn't. I couldn't stay focused. I lost focus. So I called it a night.
- [11:32]
A
That's okay.
- [11:34]
B
Yeah. I have a busy day today. So I was like, let's get some Z's.
- [11:38]
A
Trying to think. Like, what else do I want to tell my sister? Jax? I don't even know. We, like, we did something kind of bad today, me and you.
- [11:48]
B
We FaceTime this morning, we FaceTime before.
- [11:50]
A
The show because I wanted to tell Jackie that I weighed myself and I feel like I compromised the quality of the show.
- [11:55]
B
No, I don't think you did. Because, like, we just had a conversation that one, we've also had on the show before, and two, that we wouldn't be having on the show today, which is like, can you go on Ozempic while you're breastfeeding? And like, you. I know how I feel. It's not my favorite idea.
- [12:08]
A
I feel like the show we were going to have before the FaceTime and the show we're going to have now after the FaceTime are two different shows. It's sliding doors.
- [12:13]
B
You know what? It's giving. It's giving, like, back in the day, toasted. Like, we just have to jump into the stories because we know too much about each other. Of each other.
- [12:20]
A
No, we're so familiar. It's disgusting.
- [12:22]
B
Yeah. So, like, that's why we have to talk about the stories, because we have nothing to talk about.
- [12:27]
A
Well, we do have deer toasters, so.
- [12:29]
B
We have a long show today. The stories are. Are interestant.
- [12:33]
A
What's the leading one?
- [12:35]
B
Olivia Jade and, like, Jacob Elordi.
- [12:38]
A
Oh, you. You're saying that the leading story is. Trinity was right. You were right.
- [12:44]
B
Glenn Powell not dating Olivia Jade. But, like, you never. When Olivia and Jacob broke up, you never said no, they're still together.
- [12:51]
A
No, I didn't say that, but I did not say it.
- [12:54]
B
You know, you did leave it open, like, to them being together. But we did, like, take the opportunity to take a big, like, duty on him and, like, be excited for how well she's going to do after this. So now we kind of have to, like, go back to the place of, like, shipping them, which I've so moved on from.
- [13:09]
A
I'm at the place in my Olivia Jade Stanhood. But, like, whatever Olivia wants, Olivia gets. And, like, I support. You know, I'm trusting my faith.
- [13:15]
B
Trusting your. I completely agree. Trusting my fave.
- [13:18]
A
I did want to tell you something I saw on TikTok, because I know you didn't see it. So there is an Instagram, a TikTok account called, like, the Toast Fan, Whatever. They, like, post, like, really cute party.
- [13:29]
B
Clips of us guys.
- [13:31]
A
Yeah, she hasn't been as active as I had wanted recently, but, like, I know her. She's actually.
- [13:34]
B
She started, like, the morning, like, she.
- [13:36]
A
Jackie. She was the morning. The morning breath. Instagram girl. Her name is Sophie. Do you know her? Miami. She's like an OG fan. She's, like, always clipping us, like, helping us go viral. Can't appreciate her enough. She made a video on the page, like, talking to camera. I was like, oh, my God, what's going on? Myself, like, what's going on? She actually is going to be on the season of Survivor. She wants to tell everyone, like, toasters who love Survivor, tune in because, yeah, your girl's on the season. I feel like maybe she won or something. I don't know why. I just, like, have a feeling.
- [14:02]
B
Is it. She already filmed it.
- [14:04]
A
Yeah. I think that's how Survivor works. Right? Who Knows, actually, I'm not sure. Well, if you're a toaster, but not if you're. If you're a surviving toaster, make sure to root for Sophie.
- [14:15]
B
Yeah. Also, message to all toasters, like, go on reality shows so we can root for you. Like, we love Jackie.
- [14:20]
A
Message for all toasters, go on reality shows so you can wear our merch, like, see?
- [14:25]
B
And so you can, like, quote us. Yeah, we love, like, watching shows with toasters in them. It makes it so much more fun.
- [14:32]
A
Speaking of quoting us, we have the craziest deer toasters today that directly involves us. There's, like, a girl writing in about.
- [14:38]
B
Like, you know, is it Olivia situation?
- [14:41]
A
Olivia situation.
- [14:42]
B
You know, a lot of people, like, have gotten into a pickle in new relationships because they, like, sign off everything. Love you, bye. And then. Oh, like, we've gotten. Dear toasters, we've gotten to your toasters about that, where, like, they prematurely say, I love you. But they didn't say I love you. They said, love you, bye.
- [14:56]
A
Right. They're, like, larping as us. No, that's not the situation. This one's actually crazier. And that's. That's just a little tease for what's to. To come.
- [15:03]
B
We're doing a lot of teasing, but not a lot of substance.
- [15:08]
A
Okay, so we're like every other podcast out there.
- [15:10]
B
No, this is what we should be doing. We're gonna have record numbers.
- [15:14]
A
Have you heard about this thing called, like, podcast farming?
- [15:16]
B
No.
- [15:17]
A
I read an article about it, and I guess it's true. When you swipe through social media, TikTok or Instagram, like, you see a million, like, podcast clips. Right. It's like a man with a microphone talking to a camera all the time.
- [15:26]
B
That's my. That's my whole feed.
- [15:29]
A
So apparently, like, 90 of those clips and a woman. Yeah, of course. And woman. Apparently, like, 90 of those clips are not from real podcasts. It's called, like, podcast farming. And it's a way of, like, generating content because podcast clips perform really well, but, like, they don't want to host whole podcasts, so they just, like, get in the studio and, like, make some clips.
- [15:49]
B
I love that.
- [15:50]
A
With us. What came first, the podcast or the clips? It's the podcast, but for most people, it's like, what came first? The clips.
- [15:55]
B
Yeah, but there's no podcast to back it up.
- [15:57]
A
You're saying there's no associated episode.
- [15:59]
B
I kind of love that because I enjoy the clips. I really. I can't remember, like, a time when a clip compelled Me to listen to a podcast I had previously never heard of.
- [16:10]
A
And sometimes people's clips are better than their show, you know, because it's like a highlight reel.
- [16:14]
B
Yeah, not us.
- [16:15]
A
I would say with. No, I would say with us. Like, our clips barely scratch the surface of the substance that's. That's being churned out here.
- [16:22]
B
It's true. Like, you could have a taste, but if you want the whole tree, like, it's the show and people who watch. I know some people just keep up with us through reels, and they're enjoying their life, too, and I'm happy for them, but they don't even know they're missing the good stuff. Whereas for other shows, like, that's the good stuff.
- [16:38]
A
What's the trouble? She doesn't even know. What's that from?
- [16:41]
B
It's a song.
- [16:42]
A
Yeah, it's like a song in a movie that, like.
- [16:44]
B
Yeah. Euro Trip. Something like that.
- [16:47]
A
She does. Is it. Scotty doesn't know? I don't think so.
- [16:50]
B
Someone will comment it.
- [16:52]
A
It's like, bothering me right now. She's Lucy Wyman.
- [16:55]
B
Claudia. I was thinking about Lucy Wyman this morning as I was picking up my sweater. I'm like, oh, my God, I felt so good.
- [17:01]
A
I feel like. I feel like Satchel would know if I asked her.
- [17:04]
B
No, I feel like Ben would know. I feel like it's his boyfriend. Olivia, why don't you voice note the whole family, and whoever comes back first will win a prize.
- [17:19]
A
What's the prize?
- [17:21]
B
Our love.
- [17:24]
A
With love, Megan. With love, Megan. Guys, what movie is this from? She doesn't even know. Okay, sent.
- [17:38]
B
Thank you. I think that's good. You could also ask Chat. Gbt.
- [17:44]
A
Do you think Chat would know?
- [17:45]
B
We should start asking.
- [17:47]
A
You can also talk to Chat. Like, voice memo, I think. Feel free to ask me about anything. Hi, I'm trying to remember what movie this line is from. Oh, wait, am I talking? Yep, I can hear you just fine. It's. If you want to tell me the line, go ahead, and I'll do my best to help you figure out which movie it's from. She doesn't even know. I think it's like a part of a song or something from a movie. Let me know. Thanks. That line is pretty iconic. It's from the movie Mean Girls. There's a whole scene where they do that song at the talent show. And one of the lines is exactly that. She doesn't even go here.
- [18:24]
B
So she's wrong.
- [18:26]
A
You got it wrong. You got it wrong, and you're stupid.
- [18:28]
B
Go Back to school.
- [18:30]
A
I thought for sure they were gonna have gotten it. That'd be so crazy.
- [18:33]
B
Oh, my God. I can't believe they were wrong. Like, Chad has been slipping.
- [18:37]
A
I know. You know, I actually read something that Chat's data, like, that what they're working with is only from 2012. And then I asked Chat because we were on Long island and I wanted to go to a container store. I'm like, can you give me a container store between here and my house? Like, that's on the way. I don't want to get out of the way. And they gave me a store that closed like, six years ago. So I actually feel like that person who told me that. And they say that the most up to date chat upto date AI is Grok. Like, they use data from 2024.
- [19:03]
B
Ask Grok. But, like, do you.
- [19:05]
A
I actually wouldn't even know how to use Grok.
- [19:06]
B
Like, on where you go tweet at it.
- [19:08]
A
Is it an app? Because that's so embarrassing. You have to, like, tweet all your.
- [19:12]
B
AI Morning Toast account at.
- [19:14]
A
No, I won't.
- [19:16]
B
And to Scroc.
- [19:17]
A
I'll just wait for Margo and Olivia.
- [19:18]
B
I feel like, to answer every tweet that's directed at him. I feel like only the, like, most popular ones get answered. Don't you feel?
- [19:26]
A
I actually don't even know what Grok is, if I'm being honest. Like, I know it's AI that Twitter makes, but, like, it's an account or it's a service that you pay for. It's a separate app.
- [19:34]
B
So it's a. It's just like chat gbt, but it's integrated with X because it's made by Elon. So, like, you can just like, tweet at Grok your questions and also.
- [19:41]
A
But then it's all public.
- [19:42]
B
Like, my chat history, but people use it to flex. They're like, someone says something wrong. They're like, at Grok. What's the backstory here?
- [19:52]
A
I will never give up on chat because if you ask chat with the most popular pop culture podcast is like, chat does say us.
- [19:59]
B
Really? Let me go.
- [20:01]
A
Yeah, I'm not. What do you think I'm lying?
- [20:03]
B
I don't know. I just feel like some days they might say us, some days they might not. Like.
- [20:07]
A
And some days I correct chat because I'm like, they called us the Morning Toast because they're using old data. And I said chat. That's wrong.
- [20:14]
B
Okay, what's the most popular pop culture podcast? Fingers crossed.
- [20:20]
A
I think they Also threw the New York Times one in there. Like, the pop. They have one called, like, it's hosted by two men.
- [20:29]
B
Okay. Like, they gave me five and never heard of one of them, and we're not there.
- [20:33]
A
Okay, then obviously Chat doesn't know you. Like, Chat knows me. Maybe Chat knows that he's talking to me.
- [20:37]
B
Do you want me to pull the current top ranked pop culture podcast for this week? Yeah, like, no.
- [20:42]
A
What else I want you to know. Pull a piece of duty out of your butt. Oh, no. Maybe Chappie slipping.
- [20:51]
B
I'm telling you, Chappie slipping. You're useless.
- [20:59]
A
Were we in there?
- [21:00]
B
They didn't even. They just, like, sent me links to Apple charts. Like, I'm sorry.
- [21:04]
A
Oh, yeah, I can do that myself. I could do that myself.
- [21:06]
B
These will show you the current number one pop culture. But, like, pop culture isn't a category, so maybe that's why Chad is struggling. Like, I don't know what is the.
- [21:16]
A
Most popular pop culture podcast out there?
- [21:19]
B
But pop culture isn't a category. That's like a miss. I guess that would be like, society and culture, pop culture. Should we move categories? Nah.
- [21:28]
A
Why would they put new heights? That's not. That's a sports podcast.
- [21:32]
B
Claudia.
- [21:32]
A
New heights and call her daddy. Okay, I take it back. Everything good I said about Chat, like, they fell in their head, literally.
- [21:39]
B
Toaster ratio.
- [21:41]
A
Toast.
- [21:42]
B
Maybe they have caught up. Okay, now, yeah, let's get in to the fast five stories you need to know, because this is the number one pop culture podcast, no matter what Chad decides to tell you today. Maybe they know we took the summer off. We'd be slipping. Maybe we'd be true.
- [22:03]
A
So true.
- [22:05]
B
Who is the number one pop culture podcast brought to you by?
- [22:08]
A
Oh, did you do the.
- [22:10]
B
I did, but I, I. Oh, I missed it. I. I changed things. So I know I threw you off.
- [22:14]
A
The number one pop culture podcast is brought to you by Wayfair, and that just feels right as your trusty destination for all things home. Wayfair's got everything that you need to cozify your space this fall, from comfy recliners to warm bedding and autumn decor. So you know that when Wayfair changes their ad copy from, like, summer living outdoor furniture to cozy vibes, like, we're officially in chili season. And I just, I couldn't be more thrilled to be here. Wayfair has espresso makers. You can make that latte at home. You know the one. They have everything from bedding and bath basics to seasonal home decor. They've got storage for every space, kitchen essentials for cool weather cooking like Dutch ovens, espresso machines. They've also got work from home study setups. If you just can't make it to the library, it's a little chilly. You're just feeling like remote Working today? Get yourself up with a party workspace. At Wayfair, you can refresh your living room with comfy recliners, ottomans and seasonal rugs. So there's something for every style in every home. No matter what your space is and no matter your budget, they make it really easy to tackle your home goals with room ideas and curated collections. Free and easy delivery. Even on the big stuff, there's no need to shop at multiple stores. They've got furniture, decor, appliances, cookware, all in one place and so part deliciously. If I might add, they've got every budget. If you're looking for really high end crazy things, they have them. And if you're looking for like the best price imaginable, they have it too. Cozify your space with Wayfair's curated collection of easy, affordable fall updates. From comfy recliners to cozy bedding. At Autumn Decor, you can find it for less. And@wayfair.com that's W A Y F A I R.com Wayfair Every style, every home. Today's episode is also brought to you by Rocket Money. So Rocket Money is that girl, essentially, if I just to put it plainly, a lot of people aren't aware of how much they're spending every month, especially when it comes to subscriptions that they're paying for or how much you're spending on takeout or delivery. Well, it's probably more than you think, but there isn't. There wasn't actually an app designed to help you manage your money better until Rocket Money. So Rocket Money is a personal finance app that helps you find and cancel your unwanted subscriptions, helps you monitor your spending, helps you lower your bills so you can grow your savings. I think a lot of people sign up for Rocket Money to do the app subscription thing. That's at least how I got hooked because I realized I was paying for like multiple prime accounts, a dog camera, furbo thing that I literally haven't had for two years. And then they stay because Rocket Money really helps you find out where you're spending a lot of money helps you monitor your, your, your spending. So if you want to cut back on certain things like takeout, it's really great. So I feel like the subscription thing is like A gateway to becoming just like a rocket man. Rocket Man Rocket Money fanatic. They show you all your expenses in one place, including the subscriptions that you forgot about. And if there's a subscription that you no longer want, they will help you cancel it. So if you've got a goal that you're like hoping to save for, Rocket Money can also help you analyze your accounts. Find the best time each month to put money money aside. You can get alerts if your bills increase in price. Their 5 million members have saved a total of $500 million in canceled subscriptions, with members saving up to $740 a year when they use all of the app's premium features. So cancel your unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster with Rocket Money. Download the Rocket Money app. Enter the co Enter our Show the toast in the survey so they know that we sent you. Don't wait. Download the Rocket Money app today. Tell them you heard about us. Heard about them from us. Today's episode is also brought to you by Utopia Apple Butter Cleansing Bomb from Origins. So Origins is a leader in plant powered high performance skincare and they are expanding their Utopia collection with a new apple Butter cleansing balm. The luxurious multi phase formula starts as a buttery bomb, melts into silky oil and transforms into a rinsable milk. It gently lifts away makeup, dirt and impurities without stripping your skin. It's infused with upcycled cold pressed apple seed oil. It's formulated with over 40% plant derived oils and 20% plant derived glycerin. It'll keep your skin soft, nourished and glowing. Plus it smells like a juicy apple orchard. It is so good. When it comes to like ingredient based products, Origins is one of the best out there. I feel like if you're really into clean and and good skin care, you know Origins and their Utopia line is hierogly. I love the apple theme here. I love apple smell. It's also just like the time of year where we're all just like giving Apple the Apple Butter Cleansing mom is I think the best way to end the day. And I think sometimes when you wash your face you're trying to get like dirt makeup from the day off. If you do it successfully, your skin feels so dry and like stripped and like crunchy afterwards. I really like the Apple Cleansing bomb because it's super hydrating. If you want to discover the buttery way to cleanse with with Origins Utopia Apple Butter Cleansing Bomb, do so@origals.com and also available at Ulta. That's O R I G I N S the product is the apple butter Cleansing mom, and you can chop it@origins.com or Ulta.
- [26:41]
B
Thank you, Tur.
- [26:42]
A
You're welcome.
- [26:44]
B
Our first story as we teased Olivia Jade reunited with Jacob Elordi in Toronto days after quote, unquote, date night with Glenn Powell and weeks after it was reported that they split.
- [26:54]
A
So.
- [26:55]
B
So she supported Jacob at the TIFF Toronto International Film Festival premiere of his new horror film Frankenstein, where she attempted to go incognito, per a video captured by people he post solo for photographers on the red carpet before meeting her and ushering up the stairs to the Princess of Wales Theater.
- [27:13]
A
Yeah. So obsessed. You know, I loved these two together.
- [27:18]
B
We're so back.
- [27:19]
A
We're so back. They actually, I feel like, had broken up once before. Like, they were first spotted together and dated, like, briefly, and then they were broken up, and I think everybody thought they were broken up, but then they just had been together this whole time. And so this is just, like, what they do, you know? I'm not worried. That's my girl. He's so lucky to be in her orbit. Like, I hope he treats her like the queen that she is. And I know that they broke up because, like, she was over him because she thought he was, like, boring or.
- [27:40]
B
She was like, I want to be engaged. And, like, if it doesn't happen, you know, you're getting to that point.
- [27:46]
A
That's interesting. But I feel like she doesn't.
- [27:48]
B
I feel like that's not the vibe calling the shots here.
- [27:51]
A
Yeah.
- [27:52]
B
So I love breakup. Like, this could either be, like, you know, close to the end, breaking up, or sometimes, like, a breakup makes you stronger.
- [27:58]
A
Yeah.
- [27:59]
B
You know, because it's like you're getting. You're getting serious. Because also, like, you have to break up with someone because they didn't do the things that you want, but if you get back together, it means that they did them. So, like, maybe she's concealing a ring or whatever she wants.
- [28:10]
A
Maybe. Although I don't find just as, like, a Olivia Jade fan, and I, like, watch her YouTube. I don't find that, like, that's what she wants. Although, like, I don't know. You know.
- [28:20]
B
Yeah, well, she's 25, so, yeah, it's young, but, like, she might be, like, thinking about it soon. And it's young, but if she were.
- [28:27]
A
To get engaged, you'd be, like, a perfectly normal time.
- [28:29]
B
Yeah. I think I got engaged at 25, married at 26.
- [28:33]
A
Normal.
- [28:34]
B
Yeah. I felt like that when I was doing it. It Felt like, a little, like, late.
- [28:39]
A
Oh.
- [28:39]
B
Now, in hindsight, I don't know if times have changed so much in the last few years, but, like, in hindsight, I'm like, oh, that's super young.
- [28:45]
A
It's also cultural, you know, like, what. How you grew up. Obviously, coming from a modern Orthodox community.
- [28:51]
B
Yeah.
- [28:51]
A
25 can feel a little. A little late. Not all of us can get engaged at 21. Yeah. So. Yeah, I hear you.
- [29:01]
B
Yeah. And again, I really just, like, see her akin to, like, Sophia Richie.
- [29:06]
A
Yeah. Who locked it down big time.
- [29:09]
B
And I feel like that's what she might want, you know, she comes from, like, a loving, stable relationship.
- [29:14]
A
Yeah.
- [29:14]
B
And, like. Yeah. This is a time in your life when you start to think. Think about those things. So I feel like 1,000. I feel like it was like, this breakup has made them more serious in my, like, fan fiction. In my head.
- [29:24]
A
She looked angelic in that white gown, like, truly an angel waiting for him at the end of the red carpet. She almost got away with, like, people not knowing she was there. There was one sneaky little video that.
- [29:34]
B
They caught, and then he, like, helped her with her train.
- [29:37]
A
Yeah. As he should. And I love when, like, it's obviously his big night, him and his silly little movie. Right. But it's all about Frankenstein's time. Like. Yeah. Like. Okay. Yeah. Even though he gives such Frankenstein energy. If you would have asked me, like, we're making him, I didn't even know they were making any Frankenstein, but if you would have said, like, we're making a modern Frankenstein, who would you cast? Obviously him. He's so.
- [29:57]
B
We cast him in everything, too.
- [30:00]
A
That's so true.
- [30:01]
B
And don't forget about Wuthering Heights.
- [30:04]
A
I haven't, actually. I meant to tell you, I watched the trailer, and I thought you did a great job of describing it. It was extremely, like, erotic.
- [30:10]
B
Yeah.
- [30:12]
A
In a tactile sort of way.
- [30:13]
B
Yeah. And, like, with a lot of innuendo.
- [30:16]
A
Yeah.
- [30:16]
B
Not a lot of actual skin.
- [30:19]
A
And then I saw a theory on Tick Tock that I'm now, like, taking as my own. Like, I. I believe I agree with this girl. Like, she figured it out because the poster says Wuthering Heights in quotation marks.
- [30:29]
B
Right.
- [30:30]
A
And if you watch the trailer, it actually looks like they're in two different time periods. Yes. They're all both, like, old timey periods, but one looks to be, like, the 1800s, and one appears to be, like, the 1900s or whatever. And so with the quotation mark, somebody thinks that, like, somebody in the 1900s is like reading the book and like, inserting herself in it because, like, Margot. I don't know. Actually, I'm not doing a good job of explaining the girl's take.
- [30:53]
B
I saw someone set out to do a take of why it was in quotes and I scrolled on right by.
- [30:59]
A
Well, people are trying to figure out why is it in quotes?
- [31:01]
B
I don't know. It could have just been like a rights thing, like in order to get the movie, like, the title might be copyrighted or something.
- [31:09]
A
Maybe that's like, not a thing.
- [31:12]
B
Or like, maybe an old, like, because the poster is like, old timey. It also looks like vampirey.
- [31:17]
A
It does. It looks kind of Frankenstein.
- [31:19]
B
Yeah, it does. Like, it's not really, like, I don't know, romantic. Like, you know, Wuthering Heights. Blood suckers.
- [31:26]
A
Right? Wuthering. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Wuthering Heights.
- [31:34]
B
So I thought maybe it's like an old style of doing movie posters is to have it in quotes. Like something just like, really, like surface leveling. Not that.
- [31:41]
A
Right? Not so deep. I guess we'll find out.
- [31:44]
B
Yeah, we will find out. And I hope that that movie is big for him so that, like, he can afford the ring that she deserves and the life that she deserves.
- [31:51]
A
Yeah.
- [31:52]
B
And so I think I will go and see it. Just.
- [31:55]
A
But, you know, to support her, Jacob Alert is gonna have to work hard because Olivia Jade grew up low key very well. She also is successful in her own right. So I think, like, when she wants something nice, she just, like, gets it for herself. And so his little Frankenstein, like, independent films at the Toronto Film Festival, like, it's not going to work. We're going to need a big budget production. Get back to work on Euphoria.
- [32:15]
B
Maybe she was there celebrating saying, sweetie, this is your last independent film.
- [32:19]
A
Yes. Like, love the indie life for you, but it's not going to cut it. You know, we're going back to Hollywood, right? We're going back to the studio.
- [32:26]
B
Yeah. Blockbuster season, babe.
- [32:30]
A
Yeah. And I know this is gonna sound crazy because he's like, so famous, but what really has Jacob Elordi done? Besides Euphoria is huge. Right. But it's like a TV show and it's never coming back. And of course, there was the kissing Booth. But, like, why is Jacob Elordi. What a. Like, why is he the leading actor? What is he in? Well, it was. He was in that Elvis movie that nobody saw.
- [32:52]
B
Priscilla. Yeah, it was really kissing Booth. Like, you can't understate how huge that was.
- [32:58]
A
Nobody watched it More times than I.
- [32:59]
B
Loved him to be like a heart throb. A teenage heartthrob in a time where there was a dearth.
- [33:04]
A
Yeah.
- [33:05]
B
And then like Noah Centennial was another one. But he then took himself out of the.
- [33:08]
A
He didn't take it so seriously.
- [33:09]
B
Like.
- [33:09]
A
Right.
- [33:10]
B
Jacob is trying and I guess euphoria is really big though. I don't watch it. But it was just like he was kind of like the heartthrob star we needed at a time when we didn't have one.
- [33:20]
A
It's. Oh, Saltburn. Saltburn was huge. Salt Burn Salbourne was huge. Yeah. The kissing booth. That's what comes up first on his IMDb, then euphoria.
- [33:31]
B
He needs to start like talking to Tom Cruise and like getting in some real movies.
- [33:36]
A
Yeah. And I always just feel like we're talking about like him getting cast and stuff and like all the hype. But it's like the pre production and it's like, where's the film?
- [33:43]
B
Well, that's like why Wuthering Heights is a big deal. We talked about the. Because it's coming out. We got the trailer. It's coming out and I think Margot Robbie like doesn't miss.
- [33:51]
A
So I just want to say, I know you guys are gonna think I'm crazy. Like I just don't feel like he's that successful.
- [33:55]
B
No, I, I don't. But I think he, he could have a big future.
- [34:02]
A
I feel like we've just been saying that for quite some time and it's like the future is now.
- [34:05]
B
Yeah, I agree. I agree.
- [34:07]
A
That's just my hot take of the day. Are you like Olivia Jade is more successful than him? Sorry.
- [34:14]
B
Well, it depends how you quantify success.
- [34:17]
A
Correct.
- [34:17]
B
Are you ready for our next story? A little more Coldplay couple news because the husband of the woman who was caught on camera is speaking out amid his divorce from her a few months after the video that shocked the world. So Kristen Cabot, who's the woman in the video with the CEO of Astronomer, News of her filing for divorce from her husband recently made headlines weeks after she was caught on a so called kiss cam with her then boss. I guess he was, but a spokesperson for Andrew, her ex husband, told People magazine that they were privately and amicably separated several weeks before the Coldplay concert. Their decision to divorce was already underway prior to that evening. Now that the divorce filing is public, Andrew hopes this provides respectful closure to speculation and allows his family to the privacy they've always valued. No further public comment will be made.
- [35:09]
A
So when I heard This I was like, okay, so that makes her participation in this, like, less bad, but still bad because the other guy was married.
- [35:14]
B
Yeah. Because she's like, have. With a married man.
- [35:17]
A
Correct. However, I could also see a world in which, like, even though she cheated on her husband, the fallout from this, like, public scandal was so bad and so hard on her. Even though, like, he's the injured party, here he is saying this just so people, like, lay off to help her because it's like, the mother of your children and, like, you were married to for a while. So, yeah, she, like, you know, ruined your life. But what. What happened to her in return was so much worse than any punishment he could. And, like, he ends up winning. So I could feel like maybe he's lying.
- [35:44]
B
Let me flip my head for one second, say what he's saying is true. They were separated, she's single. He might have even been dating. Say, like, that that happens. And this all happened, and everyone's coming down on her and agreed, like, I'm not gonna take away from the fact that she chose to be with married men even if she's single, but in that moment when the whole world was against her, and he could have kind of, like, cleared her name and been like, no, we're not. We're separated. We're getting divorced. He didn't. And now when the dust is settled, like, because the divorce papers are out, we now know that they were getting divorced. And it's like, so, like, now he's coming forward when it's, like, too little, too late. Not saying I'm right or you're wrong, but, like, it could have gone that way too.
- [36:22]
A
It could have. Although I don't know that, like, her falling into this relationship with a married man, making a mess of her life is his fucking problem. Honestly, not at all.
- [36:30]
B
Because the choice to, like, take your newfound singleness and break up someone else's family, like, is a bad choice. But she was being accused of two crimes, one that she actually hadn't committed, and the person who could have exonerated her cleared it.
- [36:45]
A
But I am of the mind. It's like, seriously not his problem. Well, yes, like, you got yourself into this mess. I'm not your husband anymore. You can get yourself out.
- [36:54]
B
Yeah, no, no, no. I agree with that. But, like, to then say something nugs, you get flee. But it's like, to say something now is useless. I'd rather almost like him not because he looks like he's kind of interesting. He thinks he's like, if this is the case, by the way, in this scenario, he thinks he's like, oh, coming to clear her name. And it's like, if. If you wanted to help. The time was a few months ago.
- [37:14]
A
I never forgot about these people. Big time.
- [37:16]
B
Yeah. Now he's like, doing his little interview.
- [37:18]
A
Right. Having his moment in the sun, making it about Andrew. Right, Right. It does beg the question, I guess. Like, they still hid from the camera because he was married and because they were co workers. It was like multiple levels to why they would hide. And I guess her being technically separated, like, makes her look a little bit better. But. Sorry. She still is a lot.
- [37:42]
B
Like, she's still sleeping with a married man, which is bad if you're single, married, divorce, separated, don't do it.
- [37:49]
A
Right, Right. And it begs the question, like, okay, maybe she was divorced or separated. And at the moment of the video, but, like, they could have been. They looked very intimate, like they had been together for a while. Like, maybe the affair stemmed her divorce.
- [38:05]
B
Perhaps. But he's kind of saying here that it didn't. That it's all about.
- [38:08]
A
He didn't say outright. Just saying. I'm just saying.
- [38:11]
B
Yeah. No, I feel like he, like, he's like, coming in like the night in China Armor. Too little too late.
- [38:18]
A
It's just a little too late because.
- [38:22]
B
The damage is done from this.
- [38:24]
A
Yeah. Although it wasn't his mess to clean up. So I stand with Andrew.
- [38:27]
B
No. And I do feel like the man. As he should. Andy Byron, like, got the.
- [38:35]
A
Yeah. I don't even think she lost her job. He had to step down, but she didn't.
- [38:39]
B
He got most of the heat.
- [38:41]
A
Right.
- [38:41]
B
And I do think it's because, like, the way it went down, like, he was clearly cheating on his wife, who'd had no idea. You know, she took him out of the. She changed her name. And like, we're seeing that on his end. Like, oh, my God. And on her end, it always. People were like, oh, they're kind of separated. Like.
- [38:56]
A
Yeah.
- [38:56]
B
It's not, you know, so he took the brunt.
- [38:59]
A
It's crazy that he has a spokesperson because these are just regular people.
- [39:03]
B
Well, I think I remember when it all went down, they were saying, like, her ex. Her husband came from, like, a very wealthy family in Boston. Movie time.
- [39:15]
A
Yes. Who are we casting? Gwyneth is obviously the lady.
- [39:19]
B
Gwyneth is obviously.
- [39:20]
A
And then the connection to Coldplay. Oh, well, she's. She maybe is a little too close to it because, remember, Astronomer hired her.
- [39:25]
B
Yeah. Let me look at her. Who could it be.
- [39:31]
A
Him is Giving, like, who was the guy from the founder. Is that Michael Fassbender?
- [39:39]
B
No, Michael Keaton. Michael Keaton, yeah, Totally.
- [39:43]
A
He's the CEO.
- [39:44]
B
That's really good.
- [39:46]
A
And, like, Laura Lane, the mom from Nanny Diaries.
- [39:50]
B
So cute.
- [39:51]
A
So cute.
- [39:51]
B
Such a good movie. But we'll have to. They'll have to, like, wait to see how it plays out, though. They never do. Of course they never do. They make these movies, like, so premature. Too quick. Yeah. Are you ready for our next story? Speaking of the movies and the talkies, speaking of someone we've been talking about this week, which is now, like, putting more things into context. Glenn Powell is on the COVID of gq. So Glenn Howell's making news this week. He's decided he wants to be in the press. Like, he has a movie coming out. He. I think that also might be why he was, like, out and about with the Giannuli girlies. He's on the COVID of GQ looking extremely weird. Did you see the picture? Because he's wearing.
- [40:26]
A
With the big legs.
- [40:27]
B
He's wearing leggings that are, like, fake big legs.
- [40:30]
A
Yeah.
- [40:30]
B
And then inside the magazine, he's, like, wearing more, like, fake muscles stuff.
- [40:36]
A
And he's promoting Chad Powers. Is that correct? Is he? Which I think is, like, this Hulu thing where he's, like, playing like a big Southern man. Like, I think it's a play on. On that, I think.
- [40:51]
B
Got it. Because I was reading some of this article, and it's all about, like, how his brand of masculinity fits into Hollywood. And I guess, you know, for a little while in his early days, like, there wasn't really a place for Glenn in the initial. Handsome, striking, funny man.
- [41:07]
A
What is Glenn's brand of masculinity?
- [41:11]
B
So you know what? He actually cited some good references because he said when he was, like, starting out, it was very much like the Twilight era. Like, people were looking for, like, Robert Pattinson, like, moody, romantic, moody, brooding type of male leads. That's not him. He said he felt very encouraged when Chris Pratt has had success in Guardians of the Galaxy because it's like this, like, macho, American macho funny guy.
- [41:33]
A
Yeah.
- [41:34]
B
And that really is what Glenn is. He's a combination of, like, brawn and chuckle. I didn't realize that. Like, sometimes. Nobody wants that.
- [41:44]
A
Right.
- [41:45]
B
Sure.
- [41:45]
A
Trends change. No. And, like, you have to think Gen Z, like, what their type is. They look like very, like, skinny, intellectual sort of leads. Not like we grew up, like, big.
- [41:58]
B
Buff, all American men like Tim Lee Chalamet, Barry Keogen.
- [42:02]
A
Right, right, right.
- [42:03]
B
Like, kind of like rat boy, they call it.
- [42:05]
A
Yes. And like, in another world, like, someone could say ugly. I wouldn't, but somebody could.
- [42:11]
B
No, Timothy's not ugly. He's beautiful. I thought you were going to say.
- [42:15]
A
Beautiful is a good.
- [42:15]
B
I thought you were going to say girly.
- [42:18]
A
Oh, yeah. Abyssal feminine.
- [42:19]
B
Yeah.
- [42:20]
A
But just, like, not how I. Jeremy Allen. Conventionally handsome.
- [42:27]
B
Jeremy Allen.
- [42:28]
A
Yeah. Like, from certain angles. Ugly.
- [42:32]
B
Yeah.
- [42:33]
A
And.
- [42:33]
B
Or girly.
- [42:35]
A
Yes. They love a girly man, these young girl. These young gals.
- [42:38]
B
Yeah. So I think for Glenn's self, he was like, where do I fit into this equation? And then he really, you know, trends change, and he found his niche within Hollywood, which, again, must have been hard for, like, an incredibly attractive, tall, funny, successful, charming guy. Like, it's only them that are left behind. So. Yeah, check it out. Gq.
- [43:01]
A
I will.
- [43:01]
B
Yeah. That's like two goofy GQ covers in a row, because last one was Travis.
- [43:04]
A
I was thinking the same.
- [43:06]
B
Like, what is this?
- [43:07]
A
It was unique creative direction.
- [43:09]
B
It's giving, like, remember mad? Course it's giving mad. Like, it's like parody.
- [43:16]
A
Well, I think, like, GQ is a publication for men. And I think, like, men these days, like, as a gender, like, they don't. There's no uniformity. Like, I don't think they know what's. Like, what's going on with. With men. So I think this is reflective of that.
- [43:31]
B
Do you know what I mean? I also think, I guess if it's like, a magazine, like, for men, about men, like, they don't want to see, like, sexy men pictures. It's not, like, for women.
- [43:41]
A
Right. But, like, magazines inherently are girly. Like, a magazine for men. Like, it's just weird.
- [43:48]
B
Yeah.
- [43:49]
A
You know?
- [43:49]
B
Yeah. Yeah. Okay, go off. Glenn.
- [43:54]
A
Yeah.
- [43:54]
B
Are you ready for our next story?
- [43:57]
A
Four.
- [43:57]
B
Four.
- [43:58]
A
Yeah.
- [43:58]
B
Really nice story, actually, because Scarlett Johansson is casting real Holocaust survivors for her movie Eleanor the Great song. Scarlett Johansson has made her directorial debut at the TIFF Toronto International Film Festival. It's called Eleanor the Great, and it is about a Holocaust survivor played by Mark Shawn R. Girl, you don't know June. June Squib.
- [44:28]
A
You're lying. June Squibb is in a. Starring in a film.
- [44:31]
B
June Squib is starring in a film directed by Scarlett Johansson and that features Holocaust survivors.
- [44:38]
A
And so June Squibb plays, like, a survivor.
- [44:40]
B
So, yes, she will be playing the titular character of a Holocaust survivor who becomes friendly with a college student. That's the premise of the film. And then other Holocaust survivors were cast to, like, Round out the cast.
- [44:53]
A
That's really sweet.
- [44:53]
B
Really sweet. She talks about how she went about, like, finding people who might want to participate, like getting in with the community. She said, like, at the time there was like 250, 000 survivors living. Of course it's every year it's much less. So we were able to identify that it's a community and was really helpful. They also reach out to the Showa foundation to find, like, survivors interested in acting.
- [45:15]
A
Okay. Like, one thing about Scarlett Johansson, I just love that, like, she's such a queen. She's there when it counts and I trust her. She's there when it counts. Like, she makes like, you know, there are a lot of Jews in Hollywood, Some of them disappointing, some of them great. And like, Scarlet's just. She's a good one.
- [45:29]
B
She's there when it counts and I love her. She's not like, always the loudest and like every single time, but, like, when it counts she has. Right.
- [45:37]
A
And it doesn't hurt that she's like, so beautiful, you know, like, that's just a bonus. And so with these Holocaust stories, I find, you know, more and more Hollywood like, to be like, kind of disappointing in telling the stories of our people. So I actually trust Scarlett. I love that she's in the directorial seat and I hope the film is an immense success.
- [45:54]
B
Yeah. And June squibbing your girl.
- [45:57]
A
Well, this just has the toast written all over it.
- [45:59]
B
Yeah, it really does.
- [46:00]
A
You don't know June Squib.
- [46:02]
B
I didn't and now I do. And now I'll know her even more.
- [46:06]
A
And do you find that ever since I, like, enlightened you and and showed you June Squib that she just pops up everywhere?
- [46:14]
B
I notice her more. It's definitely like the June Squib effect.
- [46:18]
A
It's kind of June's world.
- [46:20]
B
Yeah.
- [46:20]
A
And we're just living in it.
- [46:22]
B
It's true. I want to get to our fifth and final story and I think you're ready and I think you're going to be really excited about this news on a lot of friends. Like, it's jam packed.
- [46:30]
A
I don't think I'm ready though.
- [46:31]
B
No, but I think you're ready.
- [46:32]
A
I think you're just getting excited and you're like, losing sight of the readiness.
- [46:36]
B
Okay, fine.
- [46:37]
A
Sorry. So this. And by the way, I'm dying to know what the story is. It is brought to you by DraftKings. Whether you're here for the touchdowns, the tailgate, or just good time with friends. DraftKings Sportsbook an official sports betting partner of the NFL, adds extra excitement to game day and is the leading sports podcast. We're always here to help you make your game day even better.
- [46:57]
B
If you're new to betting, it's super.
- [46:59]
A
Simple and super fun. Just pick a team or your favorite player. Or, you know, I like to pick my favorite teams and players based on like their connection to pop culture. Right. Loving the Bills recently?
- [47:10]
B
Oh, of course. Well, happy wife, happy life. Good on the field.
- [47:14]
A
Correct. And so.
- [47:15]
B
And that's. And you can bet on that.
- [47:17]
A
Right? Things. You can bet on that and it makes it more fun. It's like an added layer. Same with DraftKings. Download the DraftKings sportsbook app today. Use Code Toast to get started. That's code T O A S T for new customers to get 200 in bonus bets instantly with just a five dollar bet plus over 200 off NFL Sunday Ticket from YouTube and YouTube TV in partnership with DraftKings. The crown is yours. Gambling problem. Call 1-800-GAMBLER in New York, call 877-8-HOPE NY or text HOPE NY 467-369 in Connecticut. Help is available for problem gambling. Call 888-789-7777 or visit CCPG. Please pay responsibly on behalf of Boot Hill casino and resort, Kansas. Fees may apply in Illinois, 21 + in eligibility varies by jurisdiction. Void in Ontario, bonus bets expire seven days after issuance. See sportsbook.draftkings.com promos NFL Sunday Ticket offer for new subscribers only and auto renews until canceled. Digital games and commercial use excluded restrictions. Apply additional NFL Sunday ticket terms at YouTube.com go/NFL Sunday Ticket slash terms limited time offer. Today's episode is also brought to you by booking.combooking.
- [48:20]
B
Yeah.
- [48:22]
A
From vacation rentals to hotels across the U.S. booking.com has the ideal stay for anyone even those who might see seem impossible to please. I know a gal who's impossible to please and I know she likes booking.com you are abyssal like impossible when it comes to travel. You have like a very specific set of requirements.
- [48:38]
B
Yes, I have needs.
- [48:40]
A
She has needs. So whether you're booking for yourself, your partner, your incredibly picky co host, or sleep light rise early mom, you can find exactly what you're looking for on booking.combooking. yeah, so these days vacations look different, right? I need somewhere that's baby friendly. I need somewhere that like I still want to enjoy. Jackie has lots of needs. Like I need to be near a kitchen now for my milk like, there's just so many things and it's not as easy. You know, when I was young, I could just, you know, book anything. Now I'm really particular and I'm still, you know, I'm a high maintenance girl. I like, I like my things. Nice. So if our family can find their perfect standbooking dot com, truly anyone can. So find exactly what you're booking for on booking.combooking. yeah, you can book today on the site or in their app. Just go to booking.combooking. yeah. Yeah, Jackson, we could go anywhere in the world right now. Where would you book?
- [49:31]
B
Claudia's house.
- [49:34]
A
Not available on booking.com don't come over.
- [49:36]
B
I love a mountain retreat.
- [49:38]
A
Today's episode is also brought to you.
- [49:40]
B
By Quince Fall beach size Villa.
- [49:43]
A
Fall is in full swing and the perfect time to refresh your wardrobe with pieces that feel as good as they look. Luckily, Quince makes it easy to get polished, to look polished. Excuse me. Stay warm and save big without compromising on quality. So Quince has been kind of like a Hallmark brand here. We talk about them all the time because we're all about luxury, obviously. Look at us. We are so stylish, so gorgeous. But, you know, you don't want to shell out the big bucks on every single piece, but you want that quality. And that's where Quince comes in.
- [50:09]
B
Also big on top quality fabric.
- [50:11]
A
Yes. So is Quince. That's where our brand values align. They have all the elevated essentials for fall, like 100% Mongolian cashmere starting at $50. They have washable S tops and skirts, perfectly tailored denim, and it's all at prices that feel too good to be true. And you might be saying turdi. Well, are they too good to be true? No. Quint partners directly with ethical top tier factories and they cut out the middleman. Quince cuts out the middleman to deliver luxury quality pieces and then pass on the savings to you. It's the kind of wardrobe upgrade that feels smart, stylish and effortless. So whether you're looking for great trousers, cardigans, literally everything I have from Quint Cashmere sweater par delicious. I've had it for years. It wears so well. It's really top quality. So keep it classic and cozy this fall with long lasting staples from Quint, go to quint.com toast for free shipping on your order and 365 day returns. That's Q U I N C e.com/toast to get free shipping and 365 day returns. Quince.com toast today's episode is also brought to you by a new sponsor for the toast, but not new for us, Flav City. So Flav City is on a mission to upgrade your everyday. They make it simple and delicious to swap the not so great ingredients in your daily drink lineup for smarter sips that fuel your best life with real food ingredients. So they're all about real recognizable ingredients that you can trust, nothing hidden or artificial. If it's on Flav City label, you can read it, you can pronounce it, and you can feel good about it. So they're all in one. Protein smoothies make it easy to crush your daily protein goals with 25 grams per serving, including 10 grams of collagen, plus fruit and functional mushrooms. There's no blender required. Just scoop it, shake it with water or your choice of milk and sip. The smoothie is ready in 20 seconds and will help you fuel your whole day. And this fall they brought back their fan favorite limited edition pumpkin spice latte protein smoothie. Swap the added sugar and spooky ingredients for real benefits while keeping your fall ritual your favorite fall ritual. It's the tastiest way to get 25 grams of protein. Jackie is like kind of the leading spokesperson for Flame City, so I'll just, I'll toss it to you proudly.
- [52:05]
B
Their protein smoothies are so good. The best part is no blender. Like you put it in the cup. 12 ounces of milk of your choice. I personally like skim milk. You know, that's just like my tray. Toxic trait.
- [52:15]
A
Skinny.
- [52:15]
B
So skinny. And a scoop of Flav City. They have the best flavors. I love the strawberries and cream because sometimes you want like a strawberry vibe. Sometimes I like a vanilla. I'm just like plain Jane chocolate peanut butter. Like we're indulging and it's the best way, easiest way to get a protein shake that's like not creepy.
- [52:31]
A
Jackie also turned me on to over the summer, their electrolytes. They're really pargy. The lemonade. I was shook honestly, because, you know, I'm like, I'm a doubter.
- [52:39]
B
They're so good. I fill up a big 40 ounce tumbler every day, pour in my electrolytes, like get through it through the day. I feel I can feel the difference on days when I do it and days when I don't, I just feel more alive.
- [52:50]
A
So shop flavcity.com use our code toast 515 at checkout. You'll get 15 off your first purchase. That's shopf l a v city.com code toast. 15 for 15 off your first order. Exclusively for listeners of the toast. Don't say we never gave you anything.
- [53:05]
B
Parchy ingredients. Big Flav.
- [53:08]
A
Love that free idea.
- [53:11]
B
Our fifth and final story, which is so layered. So Desperate Housewives stars Andrea Bowen, who plays Julie Meyer, and her husband Josh Zuckerman, who is also from Desperate House. Eddie, the serial killer.
- [53:24]
A
Murderer.
- [53:24]
B
Tried to kill her, who tried to kill Lynette.
- [53:27]
A
Oh, and her.
- [53:27]
B
Yeah, yeah, he was her stalker. Are expecting their first baby together.
- [53:30]
A
Okay, So I recently, when I did my rewatch, I found out that they were married. They got married very recently. Susan Meyer was in attendance, Terry Hatcher. And now they're expecting a baby. And it's kind of full circle because when he tried to kill Lynette, she was nine months pregnant. She actually gave birth while being held hostage. This is when the show got, like, a little nuts. She was actually giving birth in the living room of the abandoned house where he killed his mom. And she went over to check on him, didn't know he was a serial killer. And then he was like, I'm the serial killer. I was going to flee to Florida, but now I have to hold you hostage because you know that I'm the killer. And all the stress put her into early labor, and he ends up delivering the baby before. Before the police arrive.
- [54:05]
B
Life imitates art. You know, when I saw that two Desperate Housewives actors, like, were married, I had to google him because I didn't recognize him because he looks, like, very, like, handsome and normal in this picture. And then I saw not like a.
- [54:17]
A
He's not a resident of Wisteria Lane. He actually lives, like, a few blocks over in, like, a bad neighborhood. And he's not like a title character. No, no, no. So then I saw a friend of Lynette's kid.
- [54:27]
B
So then I saw, like, he's Eddie. I'm like, well, who's Eddie? And then he has different hair. He's so different. He likes plays the villain.
- [54:33]
A
He was crazy looking.
- [54:34]
B
He plays a serial killer, and now they are happily married. And more than that, this article includes the fact that she has started a new Desperate Housewives rewatch podcast with Terry Hatcher.
- [54:45]
A
Yeah, so it seems like everybody on the cast hates Terry Hatcher except for the girl who played her daughter, which is a. Is a point in Terry's column.
- [54:53]
B
And I'm sure that, like, the relationship that Terry had with the other women, you know, competing, and it was very different than the relationship she had with the young actress who played her daughter. They probably had just, like, a different relationship than you would have with a. A colleague who you're in competition with.
- [55:08]
A
Although, if I'm Julie Meyer and I'm starting a Rewatch podcast, obviously I want to have on as many castmates as I can. I'm not choosing Terry Hatch yet. Marcia Cross isn't going on. Eva Longoria is not going on. I don't think Felicity Huffman's, like, doing a lot of podcast interviews since leaving prison, but she's certainly not doing it now that Terry Hatcher is the co host. So I feel as though the podcast has an expiration date because they're not going to get many people to agree to come on.
- [55:33]
B
No, but it's just. Then it won't be about co hosts. Like, maybe they're taking a page out of the toast book. Like, you and I, we've got this, like, every cargy. We don't need anyone. And they have plenty of episodes of Desperate Housewives to talk about.
- [55:42]
A
Plus, like, I'm telling you, Mark Cherry is not going on.
- [55:44]
B
Maybe Josh made friends on set that he's gonna bring in.
- [55:47]
A
Who's Josh Zuckerman?
- [55:50]
B
Her husband, Eddie.
- [55:52]
A
Oh, he's a Jew.
- [55:54]
B
Oh, yeah.
- [55:54]
A
I guess he's a Jew and she's not Bowen. I wouldn't say, but that's cool. It's cool. Interfaith marriage. You love to see him.
- [56:01]
B
The article doesn't include anything about their religions.
- [56:03]
A
Is he wearing a yarmulke?
- [56:05]
B
I don't see wedding photos. I'm just seeing sonogram.
- [56:09]
A
That's really cute.
- [56:10]
B
I. Yeah, I would have to. I don't know where the.
- [56:13]
A
It's always crazy when people from a TV show. It's more so crazy when they were, like, romantically linked on the show. Like Emily Van Campen from Revenge. Her and that guy are still married. He's so hot. Like, four feet tall.
- [56:25]
B
It's crazy that, like, he held her hostage.
- [56:28]
A
He didn't actually. He tried to choke her while she was taking out the trash.
- [56:31]
B
Oh, Julie.
- [56:33]
A
Yeah.
- [56:33]
B
Oh, well, it's just.
- [56:34]
A
He held Lynette hostage.
- [56:36]
B
Got it. No, but then gave birth to her daughter.
- [56:40]
A
Lynette.
- [56:42]
B
Not Julie.
- [56:44]
A
No. Julie. You're thinking Julie. Actually, Julie and Lynette were both held hostage in the grocery store. Remember when that woman, she holds up the grocery store with a gun because her husband owns a grocery store and she finds out he's having an affair?
- [56:59]
B
Damn.
- [57:00]
A
And you know who gets killed. You guys might not remember Nora. Tom Scavo's ex girlfriend, who Never told Tom that she got pregnant. And so Tom finds out they have this like 8 year old daughter, Kayla, and she's like this nightmare bitch to let. Kayla. Kayla Scavo.
- [57:17]
B
Yeah. And remember that TikTok and her mom.
- [57:19]
A
Nora, like, really wants to get back with Tom.
- [57:22]
B
Remember that TikTok?
- [57:23]
A
Of course. I sent it to you.
- [57:25]
B
Right, yeah. Of some creator who ran into Tom.
- [57:27]
A
Scavo, the actor who plays Tom Scavo, when he just started filming, he was like, you are the worst, like, ever. And the actor who plays Tom Scavo, like, he kind of knows that, but he obviously feels this, like, deep connection to Tom. So he's like, oh, come on. No, he's not. And like, he really is. There's so many. I can't. I actually cannot go on my Tom Scavo rant.
- [57:45]
B
No, no, no, You. Because let's bring it back to the happy couple.
- [57:48]
A
No, I just want to say I'm not going to go on my Tom Scava rant. But, like, the pizza shop, the Rewatch.
- [57:56]
B
Podcast, I look forward to hearing, like, Terry's take on it. I don't, like, maybe she'll have some tea. Maybe they'll be making. Be making headlines.
- [58:05]
A
Felicity Huffman, like, doesn't do press, so we never hear from her. We hear a lot from Eva Longoria because she's always, like, promoting something. She's going on watch happens live. And Andy's always like, is it going to come back? And I just know, aside from, like, the Terry Hatchet drama, like, they had the best time on that show.
- [58:20]
B
Yeah. It was a moment in time. It was lightning in a bottle.
- [58:22]
A
It was. And evil. Longoria said, like, literally best job ever.
- [58:26]
B
However, like, everything that has, like, happened since, like, they've just ruined.
- [58:29]
A
Of course.
- [58:30]
B
Of course, like, Marsha Cross social media footprint has crazy. She's ruined the show.
- [58:37]
A
Don't bring it back.
- [58:39]
B
Just appreciate it for what it was at the time that we had it.
- [58:43]
A
It was literally a movie. And I don't mean that like, in a movie sense.
- [58:47]
B
I understand.
- [58:48]
A
Okay, are you ready for Dear Toasters? I'm gonna start with the one that I teased. Okay. Wait, I have to find it. Okay, I bolded it. Where did it go? Sometimes when I bold things, I accidentally delete it. Hold on.
- [59:08]
B
Classic. That's okay.
- [59:13]
A
Offended. Okay. All right. Welcome to Dear Toasters, our weekly advice segment. This week it's going to be bi weekly. Actually, no, bi weekly means every other week. But, you know, twice a week. Bi weekly should mean twice a week. I just want to say that.
- [59:25]
B
Do you agree? Yep.
- [59:27]
A
And what's the word for bi weekly.
- [59:29]
B
For twice a week?
- [59:31]
A
Yeah, twice a week. Sucks. It's not a word, it's a phrase. Our weekly advice segment where Jackie and I try to help toasters in need. If you are ever going through something with a friend, romantic partner, a health issue, we literally, like, there's no quandary we won't take. Email us dear toastersmail.com or just head over to our website, thetoastpodcast.com. there's a little submission box. When you scroll down, it says dear toasters. Both of them are totally anonymous. Okay. This one directly involves us. We are the injured party.
- [59:59]
B
Oh, I'm mad.
- [60:01]
A
Hey, Jackson Turdi. I have kind of a meta issue. A girl I work with at work is constantly telling stories, sharing takes with our co workers. That is just literally, verbatim what you say on the podcast. She says it's. She says it like it's an original thought, though, or a personal experience to her. I've mentioned that I also listened to the toast thinking she would say something like, I heard this on, you know, a garage podcast when sharing an anecdote. But no, she just shares stories that you girls tell like it's her own. Do I call her out? People think she's so hilarious and has the best takes, but it's so freaky to me that she acts like these things are coming from her brain. I hope she hears this. Dear toasters, sincerely a corporate toaster.
- [60:37]
B
Ako Taco. But you're saying we're hilarious and have the best takes.
- [60:40]
A
I know. And the one hand I'm like, mad because I want everyone to know, like, no, this was my joke, my story. I took my pants off of physical therapy. But on the other hand, like, the fact that we're empowering young women to just, like, stand out at work, I.
- [60:53]
B
Don'T feel, like, injured by this. Like, I want people to, like, take something from this show and let it enrich their lives. I feel bad for the girl who's like, yeah, has, like, knows that this girl, she knows too much. She knows too much, knows that this girl is lying like this obviously, like a little bit of a fraudster. Because you could also, like, say things and there's a way to caveat, like, oh, I heard, like, an interesting story and say, like, I heard on the toast or whatever, and you'll still get the points for having known it, but you are just, like, being more honest. So I'm just, like, frustrated for this girl because that must be, like, really annoying to know that, like, this girl is getting undue credit. But, like, you could also do the same thing. She could do the same thing.
- [61:39]
A
She's Lucy Wyman now.
- [61:43]
B
Yeah, she's Lucy Weinman now.
- [61:45]
A
Or, like, you could do the same thing, but, like, I don't know. Obviously this. The girl who's stealing from us, like, is fucking crazy. So at least you have a leg up on everybody else, because everybody's like, oh, Sarah from accounting is so funny and cool. And, you know, she's actually a sociopath. So that's cool for you. Just let it go. You know, I think people, like, really look too much, and this might be a hot take. People, like, look too much into their work relationships. Like, even, like, the best girl, you know from work, like, she's still your co worker. Like, so just like, leave this at. At the office, go home and. And talk to your real friends about it.
- [62:19]
B
Yeah. Or you could, like, call her out and be like, oh, that's like, that happened.
- [62:23]
A
I heard that too.
- [62:24]
B
Like, but you also might wind up, like, looking, like, small and, like, everyone was enjoying the moment and you just ruined it.
- [62:30]
A
So I see this happen, like, not to make everything about myself, but he farted.
- [62:34]
B
He's, like, convulsive.
- [62:36]
A
Oh, my God. Is he okay?
- [62:37]
B
I think he's okay.
- [62:38]
A
He's just wake him up. Wake up.
- [62:39]
B
He's an active sleeper, Jackie.
- [62:40]
A
His eyes are, like, rolling behind his hair. Brutal. I swear.
- [62:44]
B
Bruto, how does he look?
- [62:46]
A
He's fine.
- [62:47]
B
He's fine. Okay. Oh, my God.
- [62:48]
A
But, Jackie, he was like this.
- [62:49]
B
He's an active sleeper.
- [62:51]
A
That was really.
- [62:52]
B
That was a lot. And I feel like if I didn't.
- [62:53]
A
Address it, people would be like, what is Bruno?
- [62:57]
B
He was having a bad dream. My baby.
- [62:59]
A
Maybe he was dreaming being pulled away from his auntie.
- [63:02]
B
It's true.
- [63:03]
A
Now, not to make this your toasters about myself, but I do see this happen a lot on Tick Tock when, like, there's a big social, like, a pop culture thing, and somebody will make, like, a tick tock. It's like a take, and it's like, literally exactly what we said on the toes. And then I go and, like, I see that they follow us in the toes. And so on the one hand, I'm, like, grateful for the support, but on the other, it's like, you just stole my. My joke.
- [63:19]
B
Because they're, like, stealing our share of voice, which is the Internet.
- [63:22]
A
Yeah.
- [63:22]
B
Like, yeah, right. You want to steal the water cooler? You could have it and like, we're here to serve. Like, I want to, like, bring value to your life. And. And we do say, like, we want. Like, we do this show so you can have, like, interesting takes. If you want to take them, take them to the cocktail part.
- [63:37]
A
Yeah, we kind of told the girl to do this. Now, saying, like, a story that happened to me, that happened to you, like, that's, like, another level of, like, crazy. But you know what? Like, I don't give a. As long as you're subscribing, like, totally. That's all I care about.
- [63:49]
B
And, like, if you're maybe using all of them, just, like, also be a Patreon.
- [63:53]
A
Yeah. You do have to pay to steal. Stop the steal, by the way. You do have to pay. Honestly, if this girl's not a Patreon member, then I have an issue.
- [64:04]
B
Let us know if she's a Patreon member. She probably is to get more stories, because that's also why I share.
- [64:08]
A
Like, you are paying for that privilege.
- [64:11]
B
Yeah, I agree.
- [64:13]
A
What you're not gonna find me doing is caring. Okay. Hi, swirlies. Love you, gals. Let's get to it. My boyfriend and I are both 23. We've been together for over a year. I recently got dinner with some friends, and they're in relationships too. And they talked about how they often send nudes to their partners to spice up their love lives. I've never sent one to my boyfriend because we see each other, like, two to three times a week, and call me crazy, but I feel like he sees it in person enough, and I don't really need a digital footprint like that, but am I approved? What's your opinion on nudes? Is it more common for people to send them than I think? This also got me thinking. Do you guys think. Do you think guys ever delete the nudes that they've received in the past? Do they all just have nudes? Like, a hall of fame? We'd love to hear your take on this.
- [64:50]
B
I guess we never, like, shared our stance on nudes.
- [64:55]
A
Like, Well, I think in order to have a stance, you have to have sent them. And I. I have.
- [64:59]
B
That would be your stance that you've never sent a nude, which I wonder, like, what percentage of people nowadays, of young people have never.
- [65:06]
A
Well, to answer your question, she said, is it more common than I think? I think pretty much everyone does send nudes. Yeah. And my take on it is that, like, I can see a world in which you regret sending a nude, but I don't see a world in which you regret not sending one. And for me, that's how I've made the decision to not do it.
- [65:23]
B
Yeah, it's not something that I've ever, like, strongly considered or felt compelled to do.
- [65:29]
A
I just do.
- [65:30]
B
I don't want to, like, break the Internet when I share this, but I've never sent a nude, which is probably really shocking. But, like, I understand, like, people who do. I don't think men delete them. Why would they? Like, literally don't. What? Why would they delete them?
- [65:43]
A
Like, and it's just unfair because, like, yeah, men and women both send it, but, like, a. Like, mostly guys just, like, set it up their penis and, like, it's not attached to you. Right. But girls, you know, we're artists. We proud of our bodies, especially boobs, like, they're close to your face, so it's like, usually a recognizable photo, which makes it, you know, linked to you forever. And so I think it's a bigger deal. So if you're on the fence about it, I say no.
- [66:08]
B
If you're on the fence about it, I say no as well. Like, if something is holding you back from doing it, like, just listen to your gut. But if you're doing it, like, great. Everybody does it. And that's how young people communicate nowadays. And. And yeah, men say them, but, like.
- [66:22]
A
I'm going to go further. And maybe it's just because, like, I'm a mom, but I'm going to say something. And I don't judge anybody who sends nudes. But, like, a guy who's asking you for a nude, like, he doesn't love you.
- [66:33]
B
Yeah.
- [66:35]
A
That might be, like, one of my hotter takes.
- [66:37]
B
What about. What if it's like, your husband, Maybe he's off?
- [66:42]
A
Well, you could tell your husband to all the way off. Like, that's the good thing about being married.
- [66:46]
B
Maybe you have love and you have trust. And he's off, like, working on an oil rig, and he needs a little something from someone, even with somebody who's.
- [66:55]
A
Totally trustworthy and totally safe. Like, phones are not right. Like, people get hacked all the time. Like, on a small scale. Like, it's. It's about the trust of the person, but it's also the trust of the technology. Phones, which I don't have a lot in. Yeah, I don't. I just. I don't really ever see a good reason. I'm sorry, I don't. And I don't think that we should be sending them.
- [67:14]
B
I am in agreement. That's how I live my life. And Yeah, I think. Unless. What if he's in the military?
- [67:24]
A
Well, thank you for your service. And we can have sex when you get home.
- [67:27]
B
Like, but it's, like, months at a time, and he's missing his darling.
- [67:32]
A
Okay. Well, you know, they didn't have cell phones in Vietnam.
- [67:37]
B
Who knows what was in there?
- [67:38]
A
Yeah.
- [67:38]
B
Like, a little sexy Polaroid, but it was definitely a. Like, a cute picture of your face. Like, everyone would have a picture of, like, their sweetheart, you know?
- [67:45]
A
Yeah. And, like, they weren't nudes, but they would, like, send a picture. Like, a little cleavage, and it would be, like, crazy. They would hide it in their bunker.
- [67:51]
B
Yeah. Like, we need to turn back the clock on that. We've gotten far.
- [67:55]
A
No, like, our holes are all over the Internet now. It's crazy.
- [67:58]
B
Yeah. So. And I do think, like, men keep them, because seriously, like, why would they delete them? Like, they have, like, three, by the way.
- [68:03]
A
Here's a good example. Like, this is such a random example, but, like, Raquel, Tom, and Ariana. Right. Ariana and. Sorry. Raquel and Tom were exchanging news photos.
- [68:14]
B
Yeah.
- [68:16]
A
And they trusted one another. And Tom. Those photos got leaked. She ended up, like, suing Ariana. And it wasn't because of Tom.
- [68:23]
B
Yeah.
- [68:24]
A
Now, obviously, she was having a relationship with a man in a relationship, so that's. But even in a situation where, like, the person. The photos get out not through the fault of the person you sent them to.
- [68:32]
B
Yeah. Plus, not to mention, like, hacking, not, you know, phone transfers, sharing a cloud with your family. It's just a nightmare.
- [68:40]
A
The fact that this girl is so on the fence about it. I say absolutely not. But to the girls listening who maybe do send it, I would recommend actually not. Honestly. Sorry. Like, not to be a grandma over here. Yeah, I do. I don't really see the purpose in it. And most of the time, it's, like, not with the great love of your life. It's with a guy who, like, you like. And he just, like, wants to see your boobs.
- [69:00]
B
Yeah. And I would hope with the great love of your life, like, barring the oil rig or the military, like, you guys are together all the time, and here you go.
- [69:07]
A
Right. And it's nice. Like, maybe he's on a work trip. Okay. So a little. A little tension never hurt no one. You know, a little anticipation. All right, Our third and final is hilarious. Hello, swirlies. I'm thinking about buying a cameo to tell my close friends and family members that I'm getting a divorce. Oh, we're not. We're not. Partying on bad terms or anything. It just needs to happen and I want to bring some light to the situation. So who should I use to tell my parents that I'm getting divorced now? There's so many great people on Cameo, and I do think a real housewife delivers all types of news in a partialicious way. But might I suggest the great Nikki Blonsky?
- [69:44]
B
Oh, that is good. I also think I don't know what your goals are in life, but, like, you have an opportunity. Not that this would have catapult you into anything, like, long lasting, but, like, I could see this going viral.
- [69:56]
A
Viral.
- [69:58]
B
So who do you want to take viral with you? Obviously.
- [70:00]
A
Like, who do you want to bring up?
- [70:01]
B
Countess Luanne comes to mind.
- [70:04]
A
Right. Her Smokey Robinson.
- [70:06]
B
Happy Chinooka.
- [70:09]
A
But Nikki Blonsky, like, is the face of Cameo, and I feel like she needs this. Although I don't know if your parents would know who she is. I feel like parents do keep up, like, a little bit with some of the Real Housewives.
- [70:19]
B
Brandi Glanville.
- [70:21]
A
Yeah. Hers are a little all over the place. You also want somebody, like, direct to.
- [70:24]
B
Get the message across because you don't.
- [70:26]
A
Want them to be confused. And sometimes people, like, wax on on these cameos, like, for minutes, and you have no, no idea what they're talking about. Yeah, Teresa does a good one. She just reads. She reads exactly what you ask her to.
- [70:36]
B
Yeah.
- [70:38]
A
Lots of good options.
- [70:39]
B
Yeah.
- [70:40]
A
Maybe it's the time of year where we go check who's on Cameo, who.
- [70:43]
B
Are the number ones right now. Or you should do who was just on cameo that we wanted to support. Maybe you could do Jaylen from Love Island.
- [70:55]
A
I don't think that they would know. And by the way, call me old, I don't know any of the people who are in the top 10 on cameo.
- [71:00]
B
Like, hold on, I'm on my way.
- [71:02]
A
The naked cowboy. You can book.
- [71:05]
B
That's not my vibe. Cameo.
- [71:12]
A
I don't know these people.
- [71:16]
B
Lisa Rinna, Kevin o'. Leary.
- [71:20]
A
Oh, you mean Kendra. What's her name? Lecarin.
- [71:24]
B
Kevin o'. Leary.
- [71:27]
A
Yeah. And he would give some great advice on, like, the business of divorce.
- [71:31]
B
Yeah, he would. I feel like he might not like what he has to say.
- [71:35]
A
Which is what?
- [71:36]
B
I don't know. I feel like. I feel like he might, like, make you, like, second guess your choice. Jax Taylor. Oh, yeah.
- [71:47]
A
I put him in the bucket of one of the people who was, like, rambling on. And you won't. He won't ever get to the point Yeah. I love this for you, though. I'm sorry you're getting divorced, but I think you have a great approach to it. I've always said that, like, if you're not. If you're divorcing, like, without kids, because that's sad, obviously. But if you're just, like, you made a mistake and you're divorcing and like, you have an ex husband and people are, like, really deeply ashamed of that, we need to totally get rid of the stigma. And having an ex husband, I think it's incredibly chic, especially if it's a situation without kids, because that would be.
- [72:13]
B
The family being torn apart. It's really no big deal.
- [72:15]
A
But sometimes people, you know, you realize you married the wrong person and it just happens and it's fine. But then you, like, have this chip on your shoulder that you have an ex husband, and at like, 27, it's really not a big deal.
- [72:24]
B
I think you should have Mantay Teo do it.
- [72:28]
A
That's like, obviously you're getting a great product, but you're also sending the money to a great place, a great cause. Well, yeah, he's a. He's a person, not a charity, but.
- [72:36]
B
No, the cause of uplifting Mantay Teo after what the world did. Yeah.
- [72:41]
A
Correct.
- [72:41]
B
Raising his star.
- [72:43]
A
Thank you to everybody who wrote into Dear Toasters. And the amazing news is you can tune back in tomorrow for another dose of Dear Toasters. And this one's going to be all about toxic mother in law laws. So that's. That's the tease. And we'll see you then. Thank you so much for listening to the Toes and Monday morning show where we deliver the Fast5 stories you need to know every Monday through Friday on YouTube. So you're watching us on YouTube. Please feel free to subscribe. Give this video a thumbs up. We're also available podcasts. Podcasting found, Spotify, June Stage, or public radio, any weekly. Talented we are.
- [73:06]
B
Love ya. Bye. Leave a message. Leave a comment.
- [73:13]
A
Leave a comment. Okay.
- [73:15]
B
Right. Do it as long as it's nice.
- [73:18]
A
Oh, sorry.
- [73:18]
B
Like, not about nice comment. Not on my toes or whatever.
- [73:20]
A
Or my weight.
- [73:22]
B
You saw them talking about my toes?
- [73:24]
A
No, my toes. And cut.