Throwing The Rule Book Out The Window with Ben Soffer: Friday, March 7th, 2025 - The Toast

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Jackson Claude (0:05)

Good morning, girlies. It's the toast. It's Jackson Claude, and we're your host. It's your favorite show, the Fast 5 things you need to know. We'll start your day off swirly. It's the toast. They sound amazing. Welcome back to the toast. Happy fry dairies today. It's a very exciting day. I would say it's a little bittersweet because my girl Koj is sick. However, on the bright side, her wonderful husband Bungalish Ben Sopper is stepping up to the plate. Hey, Bunge, how you doing?

Bungalish Ben Sopper (0:45)

Hi, darling. I'm doing not so great either. Like, we're sick households. Like, you're one of those.

Jackson Claude (0:50)

You're being sick, too.

Bungalish Ben Sopper (0:51)

Yeah, like, I'm not feeling as sick as her. I'm certainly on the Men's Day 3 of amoxicillin.

Jackson Claude (0:57)

So you gave it to her?

Bungalish Ben Sopper (0:58)

I think that there's only considering I'm, like, one of the only people she's seen in the last seven months. Like, I don't know how else she could have gotten it, but I didn't think that sinus infections were contagious. Jackie. I was unaware of this, but perhaps.

Jackson Claude (1:13)

They are a little bit. She keeps us abreast of her schedule here at the toes. And, like, she did go out to dinner this week. Week. Right.

Bungalish Ben Sopper (1:20)

She went out to dinner. She also had a couple of friends over, so.

Jackson Claude (1:25)

Friends.

Bungalish Ben Sopper (1:25)

It's possible that somebody brought this virus into the home and it attacked me as well. You know, I really don't know. And before, like, people jump down my back for not wearing shoes, I want everybody to know that I was instructed not to wear shoes by my wife. Okay.

Jackson Claude (1:45)

You would not wear your shoes on the new rugs.

Bungalish Ben Sopper (1:47)

She said, it's a new rug. I don't want your shoes staining it. So please remove them, I said. But people are going to comment that my dogs are out to play, and I don't want that kind of slander. So I'm just setting the record straight before we start. While I am more comfortable like this, this was not my doing.

Summary

Podcast Summary: The Toast

Episode Title: Throwing The Rule Book Out The Window with Ben Soffer
Host/Authors: Jackie & Claudia Oshry
Release Date: March 7, 2025

Introduction

In this lively episode of The Toast, hosts Jackie and Claudia Oshry welcome their guest, Bungalish Ben Sopper, affectionately known as Ben Soffer. Despite a bittersweet start due to Claudia being under the weather, the hosts dive into engaging conversations that blend personal anecdotes with pop culture insights.

Health and Podcast Updates

The episode kicks off with Ben sharing updates about his health and his involvement in Claudia’s absence. Ben mentions being on the third day of amoxicillin for a sinus infection, humorously attributing Claudia’s sickness to their close contact over the past seven months.

Notable Quote:

[00:57] Ben Soffer: "Claudia and I were in our club, and Arrow. We go downtown and we're on a table. Me, Claudia, Post Malone, managers, agents. He's literally next to us."

Ben also provides a sneak peek into his own podcast, Good Guys, discussing its shift from multiple guest episodes to predominantly solo episodes, with hints of an exciting upcoming guest that promises to captivate listeners.

Relationship News: Post Malone's Love Life

Jackie and Ben delve into the latest relationship news surrounding rapper Post Malone. The discussion highlights Post Malone’s recent engagement turnaround and his new relationship with Christy Lee, a design student from New York City. They humorously speculate on the reasons behind his sudden change in relationship status and share their own fictitious anecdotes involving Post Malone.

Notable Quote:

[22:34] Jackie: "Post Malone was apparently engaged recently and not only has he called off his engagement to his ex, but he has a new lady that he was just spotted with."

Health Update: Teddy Mellencamp's Battle with Cancer

The conversation shifts to a heartfelt discussion about Teddy Mellencamp’s ongoing battle with melanoma, which has led to the discovery of multiple tumors. Jackie and Ben express their support and optimism regarding Teddy’s treatment plans involving immunotherapy and radiation.

Notable Quote:

[32:06] Jackie: "Despite the news, she said that she's feeling positive about her outcome, adding that her doctors are hopeful that immunotherapy and radiation will effectively treat them."

Television Talk: Desperate Housewives and Mindy Kaling's Show

Jackie and Ben reminisce about the classic series Desperate Housewives and compare it to contemporary shows like Real Housewives. They critique Meghan Markle’s new cooking show appearance on Mindy Kaling’s With Love, Meghan, expressing mixed feelings about its structure and content.

Notable Quote:

[44:03] Ben Soffer: "If you're not an expert chef, you need something else. Like, it's not... I'm not watching her and thinking I'm going to make that frittata that you just dumped everything bagel seasoning on."

Powerpuff Girls Reboot Footage Leak

The hosts discuss the leaked footage of CW’s live-action reboot of Powerpuff Girls, describing it as a “train wreck” due to its adult-centric portrayal of beloved characters. They express relief that the project was canceled after the unfavorable reception of the trailer.

Notable Quote:

[54:35] Jackie: "It's a really train wreck. Bubbles is drunk. Buttercup hates gender normative costumes. And the other one was constantly stressed."

Southern Charm Recap

Ben provides a detailed recap of the latest Southern Charm episode, highlighting relationship dramas and reconciliations among cast members. He shares personal insights into Craig’s struggles with addiction and his friendship dynamics with fellow cast members.

Notable Quote:

[69:17] Ben Soffer: "Craig finally understood, like, what Austin was trying to say and where he was coming from. And so he opened up that he'd actually been struggling with addiction and, like, not doing the things that he used to do with Austin."

Queenie and Weenie of the Week

In a heartfelt segment, Ben honors his wife as the Queenie of the Week for her resilience and grace during her pregnancy, while humorously declaring himself as the Weenie for inadvertently making her sick.

Notable Quote:

[77:07] Ben Soffer: "She's doing so good and she has so many great days. And like, even when she's not having a great day, like, she's willing herself to have a better day."

Conclusion

As the episode draws to a close, Jackie and Ben reflect on their dynamic rapport and tease upcoming topics and events, including collaborations and live meet-ups. They emphasize their commitment to providing engaging and relatable content for their listeners, balancing humor with meaningful conversations.

Notable Quote:

[84:12] Ben Soffer: "Love you. Love you." [84:13] Jackie: "By no, we now we do it. We. We do it on our own because."

Highlights and Insights

Health & Wellness: Ben’s candid discussion about his health challenges and Claudia’s pregnancy offers listeners a glimpse into handling personal struggles while maintaining professional projects.
Pop Culture Commentary: The duo provides sharp and humorous takes on celebrity relationships, TV show reboots, and reality TV dynamics, keeping the content fresh and relatable.
Personal Growth and Friendships: Conversations around addiction and personal growth, especially concerning Craig from Southern Charm, highlight the importance of honesty and support in friendships.
Humor and Relatability: Through light-hearted banter and self-deprecating humor, Jackie and Ben create an engaging atmosphere that resonates with their audience.

Notable Quotes with Timestamps

Ben Soffer on His Podcast:

[05:22] Ben Soffer: "Amongst the slander. No, it's really great. I love it."
Discussion on Frames:

[04:10] Ben Soffer: "I love them. That's what my publicist told me to say."
Health Tips:

[11:19] Ben Soffer: "Truthfully neutral. But this chair. This is the most comfortable chair I've ever sat in."
Queenie and Weenie Segment:

[77:07] Ben Soffer: "She's doing so good and she has so many great days."

Final Thoughts

"Throwing The Rule Book Out The Window with Ben Soffer" showcases The Toast’s ability to blend personal anecdotes with insightful discussions on pop culture and personal growth. Jackie and Ben’s chemistry and candid conversations offer listeners both entertainment and meaningful takeaways, making it a must-listen episode for fans seeking a mix of humor, heart, and relatable content.