Episode Highlights With Paul

His journey to get to the work he does now
The metaphor of dance and how it relates to everything
Somatic healing and how it comes into play
“It’s sacred, not serious.”
What the Habit Finder is and how this gives different information than regular personality tests
Inductive assessments vs deductive assessment like the Habit Finder
Identity is very fluid and trauma can often become a core element of identity
Trauma is not what happened to you, its what's going on inside of you
The body was never meant to be a storage facility for the energy of trauma which is trapped energy
Every human has experienced the most traumatic thing a human can experience in birth
Finding authenticity in the function of the game we are all playing
We thought the brain was the command center, but it actually receives more guidance from the body than it sends
The energy it takes to build something will always be the energy it takes to maintain it
Your life is exactly as you need it to be and how understanding this can shift so much
The liminal space that lets life be easier and more successful, can be accessed, and how to learn how
The difference between obligation and devotion
What a horizontal relationship is and why this is so important
Why many of the things we do that we think are for our children are actually for our own benefit
If your child lies to you, its because they don’t feel safe. That doesn’t mean its ok, just that it requires different intention
After age 7, the primary role of a parent is to be the safe place for them to come back to when they experience the world
Why to reconsider not giving advice that isn’t asked for even with our children!
The devil is only the devil when it is rejected

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Habit Finder Assessment: Measure Your Unconscious Brain Patterns
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