As our children get older, the way we parent shifts. This week, Rebecca shares her reflections from Yom Kippur and her daughter Lillie’s 13th birthday — two moments that reminded her of the beauty of growth, forgiveness, and fresh starts.

Instead of “managing” every detail of our children’s lives, Rebecca and Seth talk about what it looks like to guide and mentor them — giving them space to try, sometimes stumble, and ultimately shine. From letting kids handle their own routines, to adjusting family time as older children come home from college, this heartfelt conversation is about learning to release control while still staying deeply connected.
What You’ll Hear in This Episode
→ How Yom Kippur inspired Rebecca to pause, reflect, and think about “doing better” as a parent
→ Celebrating Lillie’s milestone birthday and the independence that comes with the teenage years
→ The difference between micromanaging and mentoring — and why stepping back is sometimes the most loving choice
→ How to embrace changing family rhythms as kids leave home, balancing quality and quantity of time
→ A special invitation to join the Whinypaluza Mom October Challenge for encouragement, fun, and community
This episode is a gentle reminder that parenting isn’t about perfection. It’s about showing up with love, letting go little by little, and cheering our kids on as they grow into themselves.
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Episode 486: Guiding and Mentoring our Children