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Lyle
See mint mobile.com hello and welcome to the Therapy Gecko podcast/YouTube show. My name is Lyle. I'm dressed up as a lizard in the beating hot sun in the middle of Washington Square Park, New York City. It's a great day to be around other human beings on the Earth. This is one of my favorite things to do in my life. Genuinely. I love doing this. I love coming out and interviewing people and learning about people, and I love the energy of this park. I haven't shut up about it every episode. I love getting to be a part of the energy. And we're here and we're going to talk to some people, and we're going to do that until we get bored. So I don't have anything else to say on this intro. Let's talk to some people. It's gecko time. Hello, sir. What is your name?
Ryan Reynolds
My name is Oscar.
Lyle
What's up, Oscar? How's life?
Oscar
Life is good, man. Hold on, let me get comfortable.
Lyle
Yeah, get comfortable. We're gonna. I'm gonna ask you some of the. Some tough questions.
Oscar
I'm ready.
Lyle
Are you really?
Oscar
Yeah, I'm really ready.
Lyle
Okay. What's the. How's your love life?
Oscar
My love life? I'm single right now, man.
Lyle
Okay. How's that going?
Oscar
It's all good. I mean, I'm not really focused on nobody but myself right now.
Lyle
Yeah, what are you. What are you focused on about yourself?
Oscar
Photography, bro.
Lyle
Yeah.
Oscar
Trying to make some money, man.
Lyle
How do you. How does a photographer make money?
Oscar
Well, right now I'm just making. I'm going around the city. I make tiktoks for people for free. Random people. I do photo shoots for them. And on the side, I just do regular photo shoots besides the tick tock, you know.
Lyle
Okay.
Oscar
I just do photoshoots.
Lyle
People. Who. Who are these people that you're making these tiktoks for? Have you made a TikTok for anyone in particular recently that you were. That you were excited about?
Oscar
Yeah, but it's random people. I literally don't know them.
Lyle
You don't know them? Have you ever made friends with any of these people?
Oscar
Of course, of course. I actually made my. One of my most recent ones.
Lyle
I have.
Oscar
She got. She booked me again for tomorrow and Tuesday, so.
Lyle
Oh, really? Well, is that a friend or is that more of a client?
Oscar
His client, but I met him just now. I just met like probably two, three days ago.
Lyle
Okay. What do you. What is he booking you to do?
Oscar
It's a girl. It's a woman.
Lyle
Okay.
Oscar
She wants me.
Lyle
Okay. Okay.
Oscar
Just pictures, like Bobby pictures, you know, with her in this train station, her in the town of Taxi, stuff like that.
Lyle
Okay. Do you make people look nice?
Oscar
I do make people look nice.
Lyle
Could you make me look 30 pounds lighter if I asked you to?
Unknown Male Voice
I probably can.
Lyle
Oh, really? Okay. All Right. All right. I might get your card after this.
Oscar
Pictures of you, you know what I'm saying? I'm gonna show you everything.
Lyle
All right, cool. All right. I'm excited to see that.
Oscar
I got you, man.
Lyle
All right, so people who are only listening to this on audio can't see this, but your pants are bedazzled and jewels.
Oscar
These are birth of a roll of childs. I spent a little pretty penny for these.
Lyle
Very well. How much were they?
Oscar
Around like 300. 400.
Lyle
These were 400. These are $400. Wait, $400 for these shorts? Yeah.
Oscar
It's a brain called birth of royal child.
Lyle
Okay. Come on, can't you just like, can't you just like bedad like you could. Cuz you can go to Toys R Us, you can buy like a Bedazzler and you can just do this at home.
Oscar
I just, I just got it for the brand name. I'm gonna lie to you.
Lyle
Okay. Yeah, what? Okay, so what is that? Right? Cuz I know like people like, they like Gucci and Versace and what is that? What is, what is the value of that?
Oscar
I'm gonna be honest. There's no value in it. I'll be real.
Lyle
But you buy. There is. You bought spending $400.
Oscar
Yeah, it just makes me feel good, you know I'm saying just makes me feel better of myself. Like I. I made this money for myself. I can spend this money on myself. You know, I like spending money on myself.
Unknown Male Voice
So.
Lyle
Yeah, how else do you spend money on yourself?
Oscar
Right now, only down focus on is cameras. You know I'm saying. So I just bought a whole bunch of equipment. I spent over thousands of dollars on equipment. So right now I'm just on that. I don't really spend money on anything else besides that right now.
Lyle
Clothes.
Oscar
I held off like I had these for a while. I used for a minute. I just started burying them again. Probably no last month.
Lyle
The camera stuff is good because that's, I mean you could. That's a tax write off. Yeah. You can't write these off on your taxes. Actually maybe you. I don't know, like, you know what? Okay, honestly, I bet like. All right, like if I was your, if I was your CPA and you were getting audited and the IRS was like, yo, what is this 400 charge for pants? What is this 400 expense? I'd be like, this is marketing. All right? People, you have flashy pants, people come up to you, they're like, I like your pants.
Oscar
Yeah, that's, that's like an interactive story.
Lyle
And so what do you do? And they're like, I'm a photographer. And then that's. You make money. And then we. And then we'd go to jail. Jail. Jail.
Oscar
Why are we going to jail?
Lyle
For. For tax front.
Oscar
Oh, damn. Damn.
Lyle
How. How else. What else is going on in your life? You seem carefree.
Oscar
Oh, yeah.
Lyle
I'm.
Oscar
I'm literally a chill guy, bro.
Lyle
Really?
Unknown Male Voice
I have.
Oscar
I ain't gonna lie. I'm not really. I'm real privileged.
Lyle
Tell me more if you want.
Oscar
I'm. I mean, you know what I'm saying? I'm just, I'm. I'm a little privileged, so I don't really have any worries on stress right now, you know?
Lyle
Okay.
Oscar
I'm just trying to build myself who, you know, build myself up, become who I want to become. You know what I'm saying?
Lyle
So have you ever had any stress or worries or.
Oscar
Yeah, of course. I. You lose jobs? I had a job. Lost it. Multiple jobs. I lost it. So, yeah, of course.
Lyle
You, you.
Oscar
That's the only thing I ever stressed about. But that was only probably about a week. You don't stress over those type of things too long, you know what I'm saying? My photography makes up money. I'm good, man.
Lyle
Sick. Really. You know, I, I, you know what's funny is there's so. There's two kinds of people. There's more. There's a spectrum of people. There's people who are like, I can't possibly imagine how anyone could worry about anything. Life is so easy and great. And then there's people who are like, I can't imagine how everyone is not running around screaming like their heads on fire.
Oscar
Certain people, they, they, they live, they live like, in the now, you know, I'm saying.
Lyle
Yeah.
Oscar
So it's kind of like they're stressing over problems now instead of thinking, like, tomorrow. Probably not even stress over those type of things. You know what I'm saying?
Lyle
Yeah.
Oscar
Like, for instance, a love life.
Lyle
Yeah.
Oscar
You might break up with your girl right now. You might be mad right now, but probably next week you're not gonna be. You're not gonna think about that. So that's why a lot of people are just.
Lyle
So next week's a little soon, right? Like, if you were like, I don't know if you were. If you were in love with a woman for like five years and then you broke up, if by next week you were like, oh, what's her. I forgot her name. I mean, I'd be like, I don't know if that was worth much.
Oscar
Certain things you can't stress about, you got no control over, so there's no need to stress over it. You know what I'm saying?
Ryan Reynolds
I.
Oscar
Anything I don't have control over, I don't stress about. If I have control over, I stress about it.
Lyle
What do you. What are you stressed about? Anything.
Oscar
Right now?
Unknown Male Voice
No.
Lyle
Oh, like, right now. Do you mean, like, right now isn't like, the general right now or, like, exact moment where we're talking?
Oscar
General right now?
Solace
No.
Lyle
Cool. That's awesome.
Oscar
In this exact moment?
Lyle
No, that's cool. I'm trying to live in the moment a little more.
Oscar
You should, bro.
Lyle
Yeah.
Oscar
Makes you feel free, bro. Yeah, I mean, you kind of. You kind of like a. You free. I feel like you.
Lyle
Well, I feel. Yeah, I feel. I feel very in the moment. I feel very in the moment right now.
Oscar
People can't do the things you do right now.
Lyle
Oh, what, this?
Oscar
Yeah, but a lot of people can't do that.
Lyle
This feel. You know what's fun is this feels very normal. Normal. Just doing this. Yeah. Like, I don't. My heart rate is like.
Oscar
That's because that's who you are resting. This is who you is you. I'm like this. I'm like you, bro. I do the same thing. I go outside, talk to random people. It is free, bro. You know what I'm saying? It doesn't bother you. It shouldn't bother you.
Lyle
Why not you? I feel like. And here's the thing, and I. I may have talked about, like. Like, you. Like, something about having a costume or, like, a context. Makes it way easier to talk to people. Yeah.
Oscar
You know, so funny.
Lyle
What?
Oscar
Birthday's on Halloween, man.
Lyle
Do you use that somehow?
Oscar
Yeah, this. Well, this year, I'm definitely about to go full costume mode.
Lyle
What are you. What are you gonna be?
Oscar
I'm thinking of being a realistic alien. Like, the whole head, lips moving, skin, everything. Like, I'm about to go crazy.
Lyle
A realistic alien?
Oscar
Yeah, I'm thinking about doing that. I'm not sure yet. It's either that or probably something like Death Note. I'm being the.
Solace
The.
Oscar
I forgot that guy's name.
Lyle
It starts with R. Are you an anime guy?
Oscar
Not really. I just watch it here and there.
Lyle
Okay.
Oscar
Yeah.
Lyle
What is that? What is. Death Note is like, his guy is a journal. If he writes your name in it, you die.
Oscar
That's your fire.
Lyle
That's so.
Oscar
That's so cool, bro.
Lyle
Okay, I don't know anything about Death Note, but It like, the premise sounds lame. Like just a kid being like, I'll write. I'll write about you in my journal if you're mean.
Oscar
Right, right, right. Okay. When you put it like that.
Unknown Male Voice
Damn.
Oscar
You know what I'm saying?
Lyle
Is that. Is it cooler than that or is it like.
Oscar
I believe it is. Like, anime is super cool, but the movie they made, maybe not. You know what I'm saying? But the anime. Definitely. Definitely 10 out of 10. You should watch that, but you should watch it, bro.
Lyle
Okay.
Oscar
If you never watch, you should watch it.
Lyle
Okay. Okay. Yeah, I'll think about it.
Oscar
Yeah, man. Yo, you got an Instagram or anything?
Lyle
Yeah, I got an Instagram. It's at Lyle the number four ever. And, you know, it's fine. It's Lyle. The word, the words. Lyle forever wasn't taken, but I just had the four. My fingers are a little. But if you search therapy gecko. There's a green guy that comes up and that's. That's me. That's me.
Oscar
That's so crazy, man.
Lyle
That's me. Well, what's your name? What's your name? Oscar.
Oscar
Yes.
Lyle
Nice to meet you, Oscar. Oscar, is there anything else you want to say to the people of the computer before we go?
Oscar
I have a photography page. It's called the Go Ahead. The Mugshot Lab on Instagram.
Lyle
The what lab?
Oscar
The Mug Shot Lab.
Lyle
The Mug Shot Lab, yeah. That's cool. Would you ever. Would you do that job? Would you take, like, mugs. Like, actual mug shots?
Oscar
Yeah, I have a. I have a huge plan right now coming up, probably like by beginning of September. Coming. It incorporates mug shots and stuff like that.
Lyle
It's all right. Cool.
Oscar
Crazy. But coming up, man. Yeah.
Lyle
All right, sweet. Nice to meet you too, Oscar. Good luck with your. With your life, man.
Oscar
Appreciate it, man.
Lyle
I'll see you. I'll see you around the universe. Maybe one time I could. Oh, yeah. I want to see those pictures. Oh, yeah. I'll say.
Unknown Male Voice
I'll.
Lyle
I'll get them from you later.
Oscar
Yeah, okay.
Lyle
Rock and roll. Yeah, I'll see it if you DM me. All right. See, Oscar.
Chloe
Pleasure to meet you.
Lyle
What's your name?
Chloe
My name is Solace.
Lyle
Solace. Yeah. What's up, Solace?
Chloe
You know what's crazy?
Lyle
What's crazy?
Chloe
I fell asleep to your video last night.
Lyle
Oh, no shit. Really?
Chloe
I swear to God.
Lyle
That's. That's some. Some manifestation stuff.
Chloe
That's the present moment.
Lyle
What video was it?
Chloe
It was you and Dominic fight.
Lyle
Oh, really? Yeah. Okay.
Chloe
I thought it was very Funny. Just like the energy of it was like very relaxed.
Lyle
Yeah. Yeah. He seems like a cool. I don't know him, but he seems like a nice guy now.
Chloe
He is. I listen to his music.
Lyle
That's cool.
Chloe
I like all types of music.
Lyle
What? What, What? You like all types of music?
Chloe
I make music.
Lyle
Do you like country music?
Chloe
I like country music.
Lyle
That's ever, that's what everyone, that's everyone's line is like.
Chloe
They always say, I like, I like all types of music, but I don't like country. Okay, but like you don't like everything then.
Lyle
Do you like, like screamo? Heavy metal?
Chloe
I mean, I make metal music screamo. I have a country song as well. Really my goal is I want to reach all audiences. I want to.
Lyle
Literally, I can't, I don't know if you can do that.
Chloe
You'll see.
Lyle
Reaching all think about. I don't mean, I don't mean, I don't know if you can do that. Yeah. I don't believe in you personally, but I, I, it's like. Actually, you know what? I'm gonna, I'm gonna eat my words real quick because there's this band, one of my favorite bands that I really like by the name of Ween. And they are like pretty genreless, you know, they have, they have country songs and they have like rock songs and they have heavy punky songs and they have all kinds of stuff. So I, I take, I take back what I said. I, you, I think you could definitely be a multi genre man.
Chloe
It's all about curiosity.
Lyle
Yeah. What, what, what are you curious about these days?
Chloe
Everything about life is cur. Like, I think the goal is to lead life with acceptance, curiosity and understanding. So when you walk through life with those three principles, you just grow and you realize more things.
Lyle
Acceptance, curiosity and understanding are understanding and.
Chloe
Acceptance, somewhat, Somewhat the same thing? Yeah, in a way.
Lyle
Yeah. Sorry, I don't mean to nitpick your.
Chloe
Because think about. It's like, yeah, somewhat. They're kind of different. You could, if you really want to nitpick it, we could like go into the differences, but they're pretty much the same thing.
Lyle
Do you, are you doing a good job at accepting and understanding?
Chloe
I remember back then it was a little bit harder. Like when you're younger, you're a little bit more stubborn. For sure.
Lyle
Can I ask how old you are? You seem like a young guy.
Chloe
Yeah, I'm 19.
Lyle
Okay, word. And when you, when you were young, what it was. When you were younger, what was, what was it hard to Accept.
Chloe
I feel like, at least for me, it was hard to accept who I was, if that makes sense.
Lyle
Well, of course. Yeah. You know, God. Dear God. You don't want to accept who you are when you're 16. That'd be horrible. If you're 15, you were like, this is me forever.
Chloe
Yeah, of course.
Lyle
Of course not. You don't want to accept that. What were you.
Chloe
I don't know. I've always stood out because I perceive the world kind of differently. Everyone perceives the world differently, but I just. A lot of people didn't seem to understand how I would, like, think and navigate through things and how I view things. So back then, I used to think that was a negative. I thought that was a bad thing. But when I became an artist, that's the thing that sets me apart. That's the thing that attracts people.
Lyle
That's.
Chloe
I become the voice for those people.
Lyle
Sure.
Chloe
And people who feel similar. So it was a gift. I feel like. Yeah, it was a lot of accepting of that. And through making music, I've learned to just accept who I am fully, so it allows me to be vulnerable.
Lyle
I don't even know if you want to accept who you are fully. At 19, don't you want to keep being malleable?
Chloe
I mean, I evolve every day. I feel like we all.
Lyle
Yeah, you're right. You're right, you're right, you're right, actually. Yeah, you're right. I actually think accepting who you are is good.
Chloe
Have you accept, like, think about this, like, what you've built for yourself and how far you came. Like, this was just an idea in your head, probably.
Lyle
Yeah. Yeah. Well, yeah, you know, I agree with you, actually. I'm trying to accept myself a little bit more. I'm trying to, like, be. I'm trying to become okay with being annoying. You know what I mean? What.
Chloe
What do you think is annoying about anything that you do?
Lyle
Well, you know what I mean? Like. Like, I think I've talked about this on the show before, but, like, you ever. Like, you ever go to a party or a social situation and you walk away and you're like, oh, I think I was a little annoying. Yeah. Or I was maybe. I don't know. Maybe you got drunk, you said something stupid, you know, not. Not, like, hostile or malicious, but you just, like, hostile and malicious is a different thing. That's more of a. Like, if you feel like, oh, I was hostile or I was malicious, that's the kind of stuff you want to like, oh, I got to change that. Yeah. If you were just annoying. It's fine. Yeah, you know. You know, I mean, like, I was a little loud or I just tried to be funny.
Chloe
It's interesting that you say that.
Lyle
That's fine.
Chloe
You know, it's interesting you say that because as an artist, you got to be annoying.
Lyle
You gotta be annoying. Yeah. Gotta be annoying.
Chloe
And I feel like when you're doing anything that's different, creative youe're so eager to show it and to be like, oh, I do this. Or like, when you're so passionate about life and things, you could go on forever about it and just talk about forever and go on forever. But you may walk around from a situation. But, like, was I annoying? Because some people, they don't know how to reciprocate that energy. Like, if I went to you and talked about music because I love it so much, I'll probably talk about it at a depth and a level that you might not quite understand or be able to, like, reciprocate.
Lyle
Sure. But like, you would get into, like, keys and notes and stuff.
Chloe
I'm more about the feeling of it, which matters. But we live in a world where a lot of people, they don't really feel.
Lyle
Do you really believe that?
Chloe
Not fully. I feel like people feel, but they like to distract themselves. Think about the phone. What is it doing?
Lyle
Of course.
Chloe
Because when you sit with yourself and when you're by yourself and you're alone.
Lyle
Yeah, that's. Let me tell you something. If you walk around being like. I might. If you walk around being like, I'm gonna talk about music in such a way that people will not understand because most people don't feel you're gonna isolate yourself that.
Chloe
I like that you say that. But for me, it was more just like. I don't think I just go with the flow in the moment. Just how you were saying earlier.
Lyle
Sure.
Chloe
And when you're in the moment and you're not thinking, the feeling just leads everything. Like right now as I'm talking, there's no thought. It's just a flow of conversation.
Lyle
But yeah, sure. We're in a flow state.
Chloe
Yeah. So if people aren't in that flow state.
Lyle
Yeah, but you have no fuck. You have no idea what anyone else is.
Chloe
That is another thing. And then I fucking.
Lyle
No clue, man.
Chloe
That could be a projection.
Lyle
But I'm not saying that you is you. I'm saying you. The general you. Yeah. You know, you. Like. I was trying to explain the concept of solipsism to someone the other day. I was. I was really Boring them. But I was trying to I was trying do you know what solipsism is?
Chloe
It's the the first part of it sounds familiar, but the end of it.
Lyle
No. Oh. I talked about this on the pocket. It's like the idea that your own consciousness is the only thing you can truly verify. Yeah. And it's yous have no idea what anyone else is thinking or feeling. So if you walk around, you have this preconceived notion of like, oh, other people are not gonna understand me. Then you don't take chances. You know, you won't be vulnerable in such a way that you can allow yourself to be.
Chloe
That also goes with the flow because you're not thinking. You're not worried about what other people are thinking.
Lyle
Yeah.
Chloe
Because I really it's like the law of assumption. What you assume is what is sort of sort of.
Lyle
I don't know. I feel like there's a lot of situations I've been in where like, maybe, like, I'll I'll be in a conversation and I'll be like I'll be like, this person is probably not on my level of understanding of this situation right now.
Chloe
I I relate to that.
Lyle
Well. Okay. Right. But then three days later. But then you look back on that conversation like, you're like well, then you look back at that conversation, you're like, oh, no, that person probably just thought I was a douchebag. Or that person probably like, you know, I was I I was the one who didn't understand. That's always default to believing that you don't understand. Which is funny, because that you're you're helplessly surrendering to the universe.
Chloe
That's kind of a A a construct and like a belief system. Like, I view it like this. Our brain is like a computer. And we got these programs that are really negative.
Lyle
Yeah.
Chloe
That we naturally go to the negative programs.
Lyle
Yeah.
Chloe
I believe that instead of like a positive program.
Lyle
Yeah.
Chloe
Which is like kind of like what rebuilding your subconscious is because you could you could reprogram yourself. That every time you meet somebody and talk to somebody, that you think of positive things. That they only thought about you positively. And if you change that thought because consciousness, everything is a reflection of your consciousness. So the more you heal and fix yourself eternally, the more externally everything's more comfortable. I would say, oh, I agree with that.
Lyle
No, I fully believe in the internal reality. The internal being a reflection of the external. Yeah. You know, sometimes it feels like you live in a prison of your own making. Shit like that.
Chloe
I feel like, the mental pain is, like, probably the worst pain.
Lyle
Do you have any hobbies?
Chloe
I skate, obviously. Music. Music's my life. Like, I'm very. I have a weird. I work every day. So every day I'm either if I'm not. If I'm home, I'm always recording. I mix it. I do everything, engineer by myself. I do all different types of genres. I'm always studying music. I study the greats and I study older people. People from now.
Lyle
Well, like Mozart and shit.
Chloe
Even, bro. Even I had a friend, he showed me this, like, Mozart movie about, like, this movie about Mozart. And there's a scene in the movie about how he came up with one of his songs. And he was showing me it and I genuinely was interested because, like, the way that they showed it in, like, the movie and the biopic, and it's like they were making music in an old traditional way. But I was able to see how it evolved to how we make music today.
Lyle
Oh, sure. Yeah. Everything. Everything's. I feel like, yeah, philosophies like that. All the thoughts that we think are unique have been thought about by some fucking guy a billion years ago.
Chloe
And it's, like, crazy to think about because, like, when you think about things like those, I feel like you just appreciate life more.
Lyle
What's your name again?
Chloe
My name is Solace.
Lyle
Solace, is there anything else you want to say to the people at computer before we go?
Chloe
Always believe in yourself and everything that's possible and whatever makes you feel and makes you feel the most happy inside. Chase it and keep feeling your love and passion for things in the world. And literally anything you could think of is possible. I would have never thought I could do the things that I could do, like perform and all the cool. Even meeting him, literally, I fell asleep to his video, literally. And now I'm right here.
Lyle
Except flight. You can't fly, don't you? If you jump off a building 2,000.
Chloe
Years from now, think about.
Lyle
We could evolve.
Chloe
Think about when they made the plane. You the nigga that went up and said, yo, I have this idea. We're going to make, like, you know how birds fly? I'm going to make this car that flies. People looked at him like he was crazy.
Lyle
Well, I. You know what? In two. I'll see you in 2,000 years. And we'll do. We'll do a flight test or something like that. We will. We will do a little wing.
Chloe
I appreciate you. Thank you.
Lyle
Of course, man. I'll see you around the universe. Good luck, sir. Hi. What Is your name.
iHeart Podcast
Hi, I'm Chloe.
Lyle
Chloe. That's my sister's name. Nice to meet you, Chloe.
iHeart Podcast
What possesses you to do this?
Lyle
What possesses me to do this? Yes.
iHeart Podcast
I think it's pretty cool.
Lyle
Oh, thanks. Wait, before I give my answer, what do you think possesses me to do this?
iHeart Podcast
Well, just based off of, like, what I've been hearing, I feel like you are trying to do a good thing. But it is, like, you know, like, talking to people. I checked out your page. You give advice, and so I feel like when you do it, just dress like a normal person, it's harder to reach an audience. So maybe you're trying to find a way to reach an audience by, like, stepping out the box.
Lyle
Okay, when you say it, do you mean, like, the whole thing with the cameras and the mics and the podcast, or you mean the gecko suit or everything? Oh, the gecko suit.
iHeart Podcast
I think, like, you're broadcasting it to reach another audience, but I think, like, just being out here, it's hard to, like, I don't know if, like. Is this, like, what. Let me. Now you tell me your answer, because I was just gonna go into, like, a whole deep dive.
Lyle
Go into a whole deep dive if I. That's more everyone. Here's the. Because here's the thing, and a lot of this is one of my problems with doing this is that I. I know people said they want to know about, like, why I'm the gecko or whatever, but, like, the people who listen to this, they've heard me for the only. They heard me too much. I want to know about you, Chloe.
iHeart Podcast
Okay.
Lyle
What's going on in your life?
iHeart Podcast
Nothing much.
Lyle
School.
iHeart Podcast
Work, work, school. I'm now here interviewing with a gecko.
Lyle
What do you go to school for?
iHeart Podcast
I'm getting my mba. Finance.
Lyle
Okay.
iHeart Podcast
Yeah.
Lyle
Very nice.
iHeart Podcast
Yeah, thank you.
Lyle
What do you do for work?
iHeart Podcast
I'm an ea. I'm an EA at a finance firm.
Lyle
You work at the. You work at Madden?
iHeart Podcast
Madden.
Lyle
Never mind. You're an ea.
iHeart Podcast
I'm an ea. I got. I got exactly what you just meant. Madden meaning, like, football Madden.
Ryan Reynolds
Yes.
iHeart Podcast
EA Sports. Yes. I just got the joke. What do you call it? Yeah, I'm an EA. I'm an E8 at a finance firm.
Lyle
Oh, and you're an executive assistant?
iHeart Podcast
Yes.
Lyle
Okay. All right, listen. Off the record, but also kind of totally on the record because we're recording it. But do you, like. Do people throw things at you or people mean. Seems like a very, like, genuinely.
iHeart Podcast
I've had. I've had Some weird experiences. Like, weird. Okay, so this is just my. This is. I've never had an experience where someone was, like, outwardly rude or they're throwing stuff. But I do have to say, if you work in, like, a super big firm, you're gonna come across a bunch of people with different backgrounds. They're from different. You know, and with that being said, usually with their cultures, they treat people differently based off of if. Whether they're a subordinate or, you know. So I've been treated differently. Like, it's. It's out of the norm for Americans, but it's like, in their culture, it's normal. But I think it's a beautiful experience because you get to. First of all, you build tough skin. And then second of all, you get to see different people from.
Lyle
Are you able to. Because I don't want to. Well, you've been in EA at multiple different things.
iHeart Podcast
Yes.
Lyle
Right. Okay. So I don't want to get you in trouble, but, like. Well, like, do you mean, like. I guess like in Japanese work culture, it's very strict, but very slight. Like subordinate and superior.
iHeart Podcast
Yes.
Lyle
Vibe. Is that kind of what you're talking about? Like other. Like, other cultures?
iHeart Podcast
Yes.
Lyle
Like, America is a little bit more, like, lax.
iHeart Podcast
But then again, I've. There's a lot of. I've seen a lot of directors curse out, you know, their analysts, and they're, like, from Tennessee, and they'll be like, what the fuck are you? Like, they'll, they'll talk to them crazy. But I've also experienced, you know, it could just be. To us, they'll be seen as rude, but to them, it's just like. It's in their culture. It's just what they're used to. That's how they're raised. So.
Lyle
So let me ask you this, Chloe, because you're on the up, you know, you're working, you're going to school.
iHeart Podcast
Yeah.
Lyle
We see you. You know, you're. You're. You're on the rise. We see you when you are. When you are CEO one day, if that's what you want. I don't know what you want. But when you're CEO, when you have. Well, whatever. When you have an ea. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Do you predict that you will remember what it was like to be an EA and that you will be more empathetic as a result, or will you let the money change you?
iHeart Podcast
No.
Lyle
Wrong answers.
iHeart Podcast
No, absolutely. First of all, I feel like. I feel like as an ea, you do get to. If I never experienced this job role I feel like I wouldn't have the same type of empathy for other EAs as I do, you know, in the job role. But I feel like, let's say like later on in the future, if I were to have an ea, there are certain attributes within just from what from working I see that I would like. If I were to have an EA in certain attributes where I've seen commonly in other easiest even in myself where I wouldn't like. So I feel like I wouldn't be super or be like, oh, I get it, I get it. But it would be like, I understand. But you know, you got to get your, your job. We all got a job.
Lyle
I understand. But I asked for Splenda and this is regular sugar.
iHeart Podcast
Exactly.
Lyle
And if you do it again, I will kill you.
iHeart Podcast
Exactly. I mean it's like that's how even, even within myself just being an ea, I like that in my personal life as well. Like so. Yeah, totally.
Lyle
So, okay, so what do you want? Because do you want to be the CEO? Do you want to be a high powered business person?
iHeart Podcast
No, I don't think I'm going to be doing anything in finance. If I would be doing anything in finance, I would probably be like a chief of staff. I don't see myself like being an analyst or anything. At my last job, my director was like, oh, you should just like become an analyst. You'll be a great analyst. But that comes like, it's just with finance it's such a, like a structured ladder. You have to climb up of. And it's like if you start, start. If you want to start, you have to start an internship and then that's going to take you a while. It's like, it's such a. I'm very, I'm a spontaneous person.
Lyle
Can I ask you this? Like in the finance world, have you met anyone like evil? You don't have to. I don't want any names.
iHeart Podcast
Yeah, but like, well like evil as in like their vibes. Like just like, just something like is off with them. Hell yeah.
Lyle
Yeah, yeah. What like, what is that?
iHeart Podcast
I don't know. There's been. There was this one guy, he came into our firm. I'm not gonna say who, but he owns another huge, huge, huge firm. One of the biggest asset they. They. I'm actually not the same thing, but he came into our firm and he had a meeting and it's just immediately like his vibe was just off to me. I didn't know at the time who he was. I had to ask after I'm like, who was that? Because it's like his vi. His. I don't know. Just the energy was off. But even outside of finance, like, I go to, you know, I'm young, I go to the club and whatnot.
Lyle
I'm, like, waiting for you to say that this was Jeffrey Epstein.
iHeart Podcast
No.
Lyle
Okay.
iHeart Podcast
No, you probably. If I were to go a little bit more into depth, I'm sure you would be able to exactly, like, be like, I know exactly which CD that's. I was like, I don't.
Lyle
Maybe.
iHeart Podcast
I don't even. You probably would definitely.
Lyle
Okay.
iHeart Podcast
Because the corporate, like, their firm itself is.
Lyle
I interrupted you. You were.
iHeart Podcast
Oh, yeah, yeah. So even, like, going to clubs and whatnot. And, like, just. Just being outside. Even outside of finance, it's like, oh, he. Like, what's he called even outside of finance? Or just, like, in nightlife or just in the regular. Like, sometimes I'll just come across people, and it usually tends to be people with a lot of money that give me just weird vibes. It's not all the time. I work around a lot of people who do have a lot of money, whether it's liquid assets, whatever. But he specifically gave me a weird vibe. There's been several other times I've gotten that vibe. Those. Actually, one time I went to a club with a very, very famous R B singer guy, and he had allegations. And I kid you not, after my interaction with him at the club. Well, we went to, like, a bowling alley, and the club afterwards, he did whatever they said he did because it was just. Just talking to.
Lyle
Wait, did you hang out with R. Kelly? You.
iHeart Podcast
You could say, like, take, like, three more guesses.
Lyle
I don't. That's the. I don't. That's the only. That actually might be the only R B really think of. Yeah.
iHeart Podcast
Okay, then. Yo. But you.
Lyle
He. You don't have to say. You don't have to say who it is.
iHeart Podcast
No, no, no. But he was definitely off and whatever. Whatever they said he did, he definitely did. 110. Yeah, but there's been several instances where I ran into, like, some really creepy, weird people.
Lyle
Have you met anyone who's nice? Have you met a lot of nice people? Yeah, yeah.
iHeart Podcast
Actually be surprised. I feel like in finance, I feel like a lot of people think, like, oh, everyone's mean, stush, suit and tie, really rude. Like, you know how your first, like, question was like, have you met anyone that's thrown stuff at you?
Lyle
Yeah, yeah.
iHeart Podcast
People tend to usually think it's like that. But no, honestly, I feel like depend. It depends on which firm you go to and who you work under. But depending on which firm or who you work under, you could find a lot of people who would want to help you and whatnot.
Lyle
What's your life like outside of finance? What do you do?
iHeart Podcast
Gaming.
Lyle
What do you. What do you play?
iHeart Podcast
I play Girl Garden right now on Girl Garden. Girl Garden?
Lyle
What is Girl Garden?
iHeart Podcast
It's on Roblox. It's really dumb, but you really.
Lyle
Girl Garden sounds like what people derogatorily would call Stardew Valley. Oh, you're playing the Girl Garden game again?
iHeart Podcast
Yes, Girl. What's that? What's what?
Lyle
Did you say Stardew Valley?
iHeart Podcast
What's that?
Lyle
Oh, it's like. It's like a garden.
iHeart Podcast
It's a garden game, I think.
Lyle
Yeah, I've never played it, but it's like. It's like a farming simulator.
iHeart Podcast
No, no, no. This one's. It's called Grow a Garden. I feel like you'll like it. You should try it one day.
Lyle
I don't like sim games.
iHeart Podcast
Sim games? Wait, what do you mean, sim games?
Lyle
You know what? I feel like I didn't. I haven't listened to you enough. What, what, what is Grow Garden? Okay.
iHeart Podcast
Girl Garden is. Is basically like a Roblox gaming. You literally just grow a garden and then you can, like, sell your plants. And the more money you make, the more you can expand your garden, the bigger your garden can get and you can flex on some other people, some really cool plants.
Lyle
I'm sorry, are you saying Grow Garden?
iHeart Podcast
Grow a garden.
Lyle
Oh, I thought you said Girl Garden.
iHeart Podcast
Girl Garden.
Lyle
Yeah.
iHeart Podcast
I mean, it might as well be Girl Garden.
Lyle
Okay, I thought you said girl. Okay. Grow a garden.
iHeart Podcast
Yeah.
Lyle
Oh, okay. I wouldn't have even asked what the game was.
iHeart Podcast
Yeah, it's called Grow. It's really fun though. I feel like you like it. I mean, you're.
Lyle
Grow a garden. You're.
iHeart Podcast
You're perfect for it.
Lyle
I don't like. I like games with objectives. I hate, like, Animal Crossing. I hate Animal Crossing. I hate Stardew Valley. I hate farmville.
iHeart Podcast
I don't like farmville. I've never. I've tried Animal Crossing. I couldn't get into it. But I feel like Grow Garden, you can make your own objectives as you go. But I guess, I guess it just. I feel like you like more clear objectives. Like this is the point of like a story based game.
Lyle
Yeah, yeah. If I wanted to, like, think about, I. I like. There's too much going on in, like, my real life. To start thinking about a virtual life.
iHeart Podcast
You know, to, like, create your own. Yeah, that's. I don't like sims. Yeah, I hate.
Lyle
You don't like sims. No, but grow a garden seems very simsy.
iHeart Podcast
No, not at all. Grow gardening. You're focused on your garden.
Lyle
Okay.
iHeart Podcast
You know, you grow, grow, grow. And you could, like. Like, my garden's cool as shit. I could show you, like, my garden. You want to see?
Lyle
Sure. Wait, you have it on your phone?
iHeart Podcast
Yeah.
Lyle
Oh, wait. This is an app game.
iHeart Podcast
No, it's. I took a video of my garden.
Lyle
Okay. Yeah, okay. I'll look at it.
iHeart Podcast
Yeah, absolutely. So this is my. Me and my friend. This is my garden, and this is her at 43 billion, and then she's got a.
Lyle
Wait, you're 43 billion what?
iHeart Podcast
In the game. 43 billion shekels. And she's about to whip out. That's her flower that she grew.
Lyle
That sounds like a very inflated currency.
iHeart Podcast
No, I've made. I've made that. It's. I'm telling you.
Lyle
No, I mean, I know you have 43 billion, but it seems like. How much is that worth in, like, US Dollars?
iHeart Podcast
I don't know, like, a hundred million. I'm definitely up. Like, my network is, like, up there.
Lyle
Okay.
iHeart Podcast
Like, people in my finance firm, they don't know.
Lyle
Do you. Do you invest?
iHeart Podcast
Hell, yeah.
Lyle
What do you invest? What should we invest in?
iHeart Podcast
We should invest in Elderberry. Are we talking about grow garden, or are you talking about real life?
Lyle
Oh, I guess real life.
iHeart Podcast
Okay. Real life.
Lyle
Hmm.
iHeart Podcast
What should you invest in? I'd say property. Property is probably my biggest thing. I feel like, you know, land, property, whatever the case may be. Land is a lot better, though.
Lyle
Okay. Where have you been buying lands?
iHeart Podcast
I'm. I mean, I haven't been buying land yet, but if I do want to buy land, I feel like somewhere like. Like maybe my Wyoming, middle America, somewhere like. I feel like it's. The farmland out there is really good agriculture. You know, you could.
Lyle
You could grow a garden irl.
iHeart Podcast
There you go. We could grow garden together.
Lyle
That could be fun.
iHeart Podcast
Yeah.
Lyle
Grow a garden.
iHeart Podcast
What about you? What's your favorite game?
Lyle
Super Smash Brothers Melee for the Nintendo GameCube.
iHeart Podcast
Okay. Okay.
Lyle
Mario Kart.
iHeart Podcast
Okay. Okay. You're saying all the right ones.
Lyle
I'm red Dead Redemption 2.
iHeart Podcast
I'm about to get up. Are you serious? That's my favorite game of all. Yes. I play that game through and through.
Lyle
Like, you play it on.
iHeart Podcast
I played it on PS5, my PS5 at home. I also have it on PC because I play console games. Like I play like shooter games on PC. I used to stream.
Lyle
Stream.
iHeart Podcast
I used to stream on Twitch.
Lyle
Wait, what? Really?
iHeart Podcast
Yeah.
Lyle
What. What happened?
iHeart Podcast
I stopped because I started once I started like taking my masters. Like it was hard for me to work full time, stream consistently and do school and it's like in order for me to do school, I have to work, I have to make money and Twitch wasn't making me enough money. I feel like maybe once I'm done with school I'll go back into it, but I have like a whole Discord community.
Lyle
Wait, really? Yeah. Wait, can I ask what's your. Do you still. Do you ever. You ever like hop on still?
iHeart Podcast
Hell yeah.
Lyle
Do the fans miss you?
iHeart Podcast
Yeah, they're always asking me when I'm going to get back on Twitch. Like I could go probably. Like, I got a DM yesterday. Ask me when I'm going to get back on Twitch.
Lyle
Wait, what. Can I ask what their Twitch is?
iHeart Podcast
Yeah, it's K, L O V O X O and then L O V O X O Clover.
Lyle
So Clovi Oxo.
iHeart Podcast
Yeah, it's pretty hard to like remember. I need to change it to something more. What have you been streaming shooter games? So really like this was like when Fortnite was on the rise. But I would play Fortnite. What else would I play? It really just be Fortnite Night CS Go. I played a little bit. I really liked Counter Strike Valorant I tried to get into but I couldn't. And then there was one more shooter that my friend had put me on to. But it's like a. It's like a variant of Valorant. But it was really fun. I liked it. I have to find out the name. But it was mainly just shooter games. I really like to play.
Lyle
Yeah, I've thought about. Well, I. I mean I stream my. Like I stream this on Twitch.
iHeart Podcast
Why don't you stream like stream stream on like I thought about.
Lyle
Dude, the other I thought about it and I was like, maybe I'll start streaming video games on Twitch.
iHeart Podcast
If you.
Lyle
It's like I just like playing video games. I don't want to turn it into like a.
iHeart Podcast
That's where my issue was is like it's. People don't realize is. Especially when it comes to Twitch. I'm sure this is like people be like, oh, it's easy for you to like get dressed up and go talk to people. But no, it's like emotionally taxing, draining at times where it's like. Especially if you do it every day. Same thing with Twitch, I feel like. So it's like if you're doing something, like, on Twitch every day and you build a community and they're expecting you, it starts to take the fun out of it.
Lyle
Yeah, I think. Well, here's the thing. It's like there's a version of me streaming video games on Twitch that takes no emotional energy at that point. It's like, why do it? Well, yeah, like, there's a version where I just sit in silence and play video games and I happen to be live and people in a chat talk to each other.
Ryan Reynolds
Games.
Lyle
But that'd be lame.
iHeart Podcast
No, no.
Lyle
Whatever games I'm normally playing.
iHeart Podcast
Have you seen. I mean, I was gonna say, like, have you know Queso?
Lyle
Who?
iHeart Podcast
Queso?
Lyle
No.
iHeart Podcast
You don't know who Queso is?
Lyle
Should I know who Queso is?
iHeart Podcast
Does anyone here know who Queso is? The Twitch streamer. Oh, my God. He's goaded.
Lyle
How? How?
iHeart Podcast
No. Hell, no. No. I was gonna say no. Queso's attractive. Oh, my God. Come on. Let's not do that. Because he's big. They're trying to make fun of him because he's big. Yeah, he's hot. I think he's cute. He's cute.
Lyle
What's his deal?
iHeart Podcast
He's just a bigger guy, but he's. I don't know why people make fun of him immediately. I don't like that. But Kase was really funny. I love his Twitch streams. He could. He tweaks out on Twitch sometimes, but it's just his personality. You also give me that vibe where it's like, you could just talk about anything, and he just streams, and he doesn't even curse or anything. He gets, like, 56,000 people.
Lyle
I would. I thought about it because, like, I mean, I thought about, like, just playing. I don't know. I'll think about it. If people. If people. If people are listening to this and they're like, oh, lolly, should.
iHeart Podcast
I mean, people are watching you. I mean, it's like you already have a fan base. You already have a following. If you feel like you like games and you like talking to people and sometimes you just don't feel like getting dressed up, you'll be surprised by who will tune in. I will tune in. You know?
Lyle
All right, I'll think about. We could. We could do a car. Like, we could do a collab stream.
iHeart Podcast
Yeah, yeah, absolutely.
Lyle
We could make a little. We could. We could do a little farm.
iHeart Podcast
A little grow garden. Farm. Yes. Yes.
Lyle
Can you do you fight people in Grow a Garden? Is it like Roblox where you do fights?
iHeart Podcast
No, but I have. So you can steal from people's garden? Like I. Yes.
Lyle
Do you, do you steal?
iHeart Podcast
People have stolen some really expensive mushrooms from me, but in order to steal, you have to spend real money. So I've spent like upwards of like a hundred dollars stealing back from people who've stolen from me.
Lyle
That's the stupidest thing I've ever heard in my life. Really? Other people pay money to steal from you?
iHeart Podcast
Let me tell you. So someone stole from my garden, right? It was probably like a mushroom that was worth like a couple million. It had like all these mutations on it. Super dope. And she stole it from me and I was like, did you steal from my garden? She was like, yeah, I'll it again. And then she flips, she takes out the mushroom and then started flashing my mushroom in front of me after she stole it from me.
Lyle
This game sounds hor. I don't, I don't play games that require an Internet connection for this reason.
iHeart Podcast
Yeah, it's. It's like either you could come across like a really good community in Grow Garden or you could get bullied by a bunch of 10 year olds that like are using mommy's. Are using mommy's credit card to steal all your. And mind you, like, they'll, their garden will be like, they'll have like a couple billion and they won't even need to steal from you, but they'll just steal from you.
Lyle
I feel like I'm gonna be, I don't know. Can I ask how old you are?
iHeart Podcast
24. How old are you?
Lyle
I'm 27.
iHeart Podcast
Oh, okay.
Lyle
I feel like at 27 I'm like, I'm like, watch. I talked to somebody. So I mean, normally this podcast is like phone calls and I had a caller call me and be like, I'm 33 years old and I just got into a huge fight with a 13 year old on Roblox and it's caused me to deeply existentially reevaluate my life.
iHeart Podcast
Yeah.
Lyle
And I don't want. I feel like that's gonna be me if I start playing.
iHeart Podcast
That's been me so many times. I probably cursed out I don't know how many people's children on Roblox. I've cursed out people on Girl Garden. I've cursed out people on Dressed to Impress.
Lyle
It's like, are you, are you okay? Is that a symptom of some underlying.
iHeart Podcast
No. Cuz they're so like the Kids on there, they know how to push your button. So it's like they'll do certain things to try and push your buttons. And you can't curse on Roblox.
Lyle
That's so funny because. I'm sorry. I keep referencing other things that happened on this podcast, but some. I talked to somebody, I think it was maybe even on the last episode, and we talked about anger, like. Like, you know, like, anger as a displacement. And, like, the idea that, like, anger is usually just a displacement from something else.
iHeart Podcast
Yeah.
Lyle
Like, you're not actually angry.
iHeart Podcast
Angry at. Exactly.
Lyle
Actually angry at this kid on Roblox, but in this moment, sometimes you genuinely just are angry at this.
iHeart Podcast
Yes.
Lyle
Whole kid on Roblox.
iHeart Podcast
I was just gonna say I completely get what you're saying, because, I mean, just as humans, it's like, we could go through something. And like, me at work, like, let's say I'll go through something. I can't necessarily curse out my boss, so maybe I'll take it out on Roblox later on. No, I can say with Roblox, that's not the case. Those kids know how to push your buttons. Like, I've been. I just cursed out a kid yesterday because I was playing among us, and they purposely, like, completely disregarded the fact that I was not the imposter and riled everyone else up to throw me out the ship and kick me into the lava of flames. Turns out I wasn't in, so I'm gonna get riled up again. But, yeah, they know how to push.
Lyle
You seem like you're about to throw punches just thinking about it.
iHeart Podcast
I really went off on this kid. But the thing is with Roblox is you can't curse, so it just shows up as, like, the number sign, which is even more aggravating because, like.
Lyle
Well, I gotta say, Chloe, I had no interest in Fortnite or Roblox or among us before this conversation, but I'm happy that you and I have. And I have, unfortunately, even less. But I'll give you. I'll give you a raid on Twitch sometime. Yes.
iHeart Podcast
I mean, I'm not on there, but I would want you to be on Twitch.
Lyle
Okay, sweet. So I'll think. I'll think about. I'll think about it. Is there anything else you want to say to the people before we go? Chloe.
iHeart Podcast
Stay in school. Stay in school. Don't curse out kids on Roblox. Don't be like me. Yeah, it's not cool. And stop stealing people's shit. On. Dress on.
Lyle
Stop paying money to steal something you might as well pay for the thing.
iHeart Podcast
That you're steal Stop stop stealing from.
Lyle
My garden stop the steal 2025 see.
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Unknown Male Voice
I'm Rock.
Lyle
Rock?
Unknown Male Voice
Rock?
Lyle
Yeah. Like R O, C? K?
Unknown Male Voice
Yeah, almost.
Lyle
Take out the K. Wait, how do you spell it? Take out the K. R C? Yeah. Rock.
Unknown Male Voice
Yeah.
Lyle
That's a cool name.
Unknown Male Voice
Thank you, man.
Lyle
What's up, Rock? Okay, we do a fist bump. How's. How's life, Rock? What. What are we up to?
Unknown Male Voice
I'm not liking it much, but I just. I came over here right now to say that I. I really like, like, geckos are like my favorite animal.
Lyle
Oh, really?
Unknown Male Voice
That's. That's one thing, like, treat is because of. Treecko is my favorite Pokemon.
Lyle
Wait, Rock, give me one minute. Rock. Hold on. I'm just checking to make sure that's all good. That's all good. Okay. Sick. I was just making sure sometimes the thing up. Okay. Trico.
Unknown Male Voice
Yeah. And the other thing is my next session with my therapist might be my last one, unfortunately, because what is going. I. I just miss him. Oh, he's. He's. Take care. He's taking care of things and.
Lyle
Okay.
Unknown Male Voice
I'm just gonna miss him. I miss my sister, too, because she moved out. I know. Those are like, all. All of those are like tangents. I don't mean to be this tangential. I just wanted to. To say those two things.
Lyle
What's up with your sister again?
Unknown Male Voice
She moved to Virginia. I haven't seen her in a minute, and she doesn't want contact with nobody in the house no more. Not to put on blast. And. But, you know, that's just what it is.
Lyle
We can. We can, you know, we can talk about. I feel like for the last 20 minutes, we were just talking about video games and fun, light things. Normally. Normally, a lot of this show is talking about like. Like intense. And I was gonna say, if you wanted to. If you want to talk about in this high life going bad. We can.
Unknown Male Voice
And this hot ass sun. Sure. I don't. I don't think I want to. I don't want to. I don't think I want to get that deep. I might get that deep.
Lyle
Whatever you want, man.
Unknown Male Voice
So here's the thing, right? I. With the show.
Lyle
Okay, cool.
Unknown Male Voice
Just wanted to say, have you seen.
Lyle
Seen the show?
Unknown Male Voice
Yeah.
Lyle
Okay, sweet.
Unknown Male Voice
Yeah, I'm. I'm kind of a fan.
Lyle
Thank you. Thank you.
Unknown Male Voice
Yeah, dude.
Lyle
Hell yeah. Hell yeah. Thank you, Rock. I'm honored. I'm. I'm glad people are still listening to this.
Unknown Male Voice
Yeah. Episode with Zack Fox and all that. I'm a big fan of Zack Fox.
Lyle
Yeah.
Unknown Male Voice
And you and I just met. What's his name? Mark Ribley.
Lyle
Yeah, Mark Ribby's a cool.
Unknown Male Voice
And he was on the show too, actually.
Lyle
I think he's a New York man.
Unknown Male Voice
Yeah. So it's just a lot going on today.
Lyle
We met him today. Yeah. Oh, shit.
Unknown Male Voice
It was pretty cool.
Lyle
Yeah.
Unknown Male Voice
Yeah.
Lyle
This park. Yeah, Mark is in this park.
Unknown Male Voice
No, not in. Not right now. Oh, it was like hours ago.
Ryan Reynolds
Oh, yeah.
Unknown Male Voice
Yeah. So I'm a cartoonist and Archibald Noir. I'm low key, like the best Marvel fan fiction writer, like, ever. And like, nobody knows this because I haven't put anything out yet. But like, ever since I was a six year old, I've been like a huge Marvel fan. Right. And I've always wanted to write for them when I was younger and I still want to write for them now. I still got these stories, I want to put them out, but it's all fanfic shot fan fiction at the moment. I'm not, I'm not here just to go off about this.
Lyle
No, no, no, no. This is excellent.
Unknown Male Voice
How it is.
Lyle
You are the best Marvel fan fiction writer.
Unknown Male Voice
Yeah.
Lyle
Tell me, what is your Marvel fan fiction about?
Unknown Male Voice
So I got some shit right where it's like, oh, my bad.
Lyle
You say whatever you want. I.
Ryan Reynolds
Cool.
Unknown Male Voice
So I got some shit like I write for Loki type shit like I write stories for Loki because Loki is kind of a. In a weird space right now. I don't want to geek out over this. Loki is in such a weird spot right now as a like, Marvel villain.
Lyle
Yeah.
Unknown Male Voice
You know what I mean? Like, he's not even a villain no more. You, like, came back reborn as like a child since like 2013. He's been on some shit like he's been an avenger, a young avenger, you know what I mean? And it kind. He kind of lost his soul as A villain? Because he's like one of the big Marvel villains.
Lyle
How do I lose his soul as a villain?
Unknown Male Voice
Because he's not a villain no more.
Lyle
Oh, is he like. He's kind of. It's low. I don't know much. I don't. I'm not a big Marvel guy. But like, is Loki like an anti hero? A bit.
Unknown Male Voice
He's a full superhero now.
Lyle
Oh, he is?
Unknown Male Voice
Yeah.
Lyle
Okay, so he's not even doing like a shadow the hedgehog thing where he's like, he's a superhero, but he says.
Unknown Male Voice
Fuck no, he's a full on superhero now.
Lyle
Okay.
Unknown Male Voice
Yeah, like.
Lyle
And you miss when he was a dick?
Unknown Male Voice
No, I. I miss more like if. If. Let's see. I don't want to give away too much. Damn.
Lyle
Oh, too. We give away too much of your fanfiction if not.
Unknown Male Voice
Yeah, but not just that, but like, more like if he's the first. In the first Avengers comic book. Right. He's the first villain they fight off, fight against. Right. And in the, in the, in the Thor books, he's like built up to be like his arch nemesis. Right. So like in 20. Around 2012, I don't know the story. 2012, 2011. Right. He dies as a villain, comes back, reborn as a kid, and he's on the Young Avengers and he's been a young avenger ever since, just growing up on there. I really don't want to ramble about this shit for too long, but I really, like, I am passionate about this shit. I just don't want to ramble about this.
Lyle
Okay, well, let me ask you this, right? Because I do want to talk to you about something. Well, let me. Well, okay. I'm curious. I still want. I still want to talk about Marvel because. All right, let me ask you this from like an intrinsic level.
Unknown Male Voice
Yeah.
Lyle
What is it that connects you so deeply with Marvel? Because, you see, you seem like a huge, huge, huge fan. Part of your life. Do you care about these characters as if they were people that you knew in your life? Like, what, what is that?
Unknown Male Voice
One would be my cousin cousins. But two would be like the X Men.
Lyle
The X Men.
Unknown Male Voice
I really resonated with the X Men growing up. And the Hulk, of course. And Stan Lee. And Stan Lee as well. Because Stan Lee has always been an inspiration. Like a little life inspiration.
Lyle
Was it about the X Men that, that you saw? Like, did you see yourself in the X Men? Like, what were the conflicts and the characters and the storylines where you were like, oh, I can relate to this?
Unknown Male Voice
Nothing. I just really thought Gambit and Rogue was cool. I thought Gambit was cool and Rogue was hot.
Lyle
I'm trying, you know, I'm trying to put some kind of philosophical whatever thing into it. It's like I just thought they were hot. Cool.
Unknown Male Voice
Yeah.
Lyle
Which I was. Which is. With a more normal answer. Yeah.
Unknown Male Voice
I was a six year old.
Lyle
Yeah. Really? Yeah. I guess I didn't see myself in Spongebob. We live. Me at 6 years old, me at 6 years old and Spongebob. We didn't really have a lot in common, but I did. I liked it. He's cool. Yeah.
Unknown Male Voice
Yeah.
Lyle
So you write a lot of fan fiction?
Unknown Male Voice
Yeah, kind of. I don't. I say I write a lot of fan fiction. I got a lot of ideas from Marvel that like, I'm. I'm the guy. Like, literally I've always been that, like since high school.
Lyle
Like genuinely my philosophy on fan fiction, here's the thing is that. Listen, how old, how old is Spider man? Like he's like 80, right? By now.
Unknown Male Voice
70 something. I think he's 76 now.
Lyle
And Spider Man. And like Marvel was never really. Marvel's not. I mean, there's Stan Lee, sure, but Marvel's not really in our tour project, you know, and what an Arthur project. Like, it's not like what. It's like. Not like one person is driving, right? What Spider man is, right? Spider man. At this point, so many different people have written for Spider. Hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of people have written these Marvel stories for Spider man and for the Hulk and yeah, for whatever. And so already these, these characters have gone beyond ownership of one person and just into the public domain. I mean, not really.
Unknown Male Voice
I get what you mean.
Lyle
I can make any money off of your Spider man fan fiction. Because even if you could, they leave the legal protections of America, they would strike you down and doing that. But philosophically, right? We all own Spider man, you know. Yeah. Not in like, again, not in a financial sense, but we all own Sprite. So, like, if you were to write a really good Spider man comic, it would be, legally speaking, fan fiction. What's the fucking difference between that and whoever the fuck wrote the. The real thing? I guess besides the fact that they can make money off it to a degree.
Unknown Male Voice
You're absolutely right to a degree. But what it does is like when it's under the label, it kind of makes it canon.
Lyle
But what is can. Can. Yeah, but Stan Lee is fucking dead. What's canon?
Unknown Male Voice
So we got decades of fans that like have invested so much time into these comics no matter how inconsistent they are. Yeah, but it's. It's in a place where it's just. It's not. It makes no sense no more.
Lyle
Sorry. I'm on. I'm on. I'm speaking of it, I guess, like sometimes. Sometimes I get on this, like, sometimes I get on this, like, reality as a democracy train.
Unknown Male Voice
Yeah.
Lyle
And then I'm like, well, you gotta vote. You know, reality is a democracy, but you gotta vote. And in your vote, Spider man can be, you know, whatever you want. Yeah, you get a vote about Spider Man.
Unknown Male Voice
But I don't want to write Spider Man. Yeah. I love Marvel. I love Marvel in general.
Lyle
Right.
Unknown Male Voice
But like, I don't think I want to write Spider man in specific.
Lyle
Guy, do you got all the merch?
Unknown Male Voice
I do not own any merch. I kind of. I kind of have nothing. I have. Oh, shirts.
Lyle
Okay.
Unknown Male Voice
I got.
Lyle
Shirt. You got Loki shirt?
Unknown Male Voice
No, I got a. I got a Loki picture as a cat. I got a cat Loki.
Lyle
Yeah.
Unknown Male Voice
No, it's a picture of my house.
Lyle
What have you been to? Like, what's the theme park situation?
Unknown Male Voice
I've never been to Comic Con either. I've been to Comic Con once, like on a Sunday when I was a kid. Like, once. I've always wanted to go to Comic Con as a kid.
Lyle
Are you a born and raised New York man?
Unknown Male Voice
Yes.
Lyle
So you ever go to like. Yeah, New York Comic Con?
Unknown Male Voice
Yeah. No. Once on a Sunday.
Lyle
Okay. How was it Whack?
Unknown Male Voice
Because it was a Sunday.
Lyle
Why is that whack?
Unknown Male Voice
Comic Con on Sundays in New York has always been whack.
Lyle
Why is it whack?
Unknown Male Voice
For decades, they don't. They stop doing all the things, all the, all the announcements.
Lyle
People walking around with the. In the costume.
Unknown Male Voice
I mean, you can. You could buy stuff and see cosplayers and take pictures with cosplayers, and that's fun itself. But I, I wanted to see the. The other stuff.
Lyle
What's the other stuff? Like, what do you want?
Unknown Male Voice
The announcements, the movie announcements, the game announcements, the comic book announcements, Questioning the panel. I want to talk to the panel. All that. I've never done any of that.
Lyle
I was gonna say, okay, what are you looking forward to in the Marvel universe? What should we be looking out for?
Unknown Male Voice
I don't know right now, unfortunately, with me, I've always felt like they needed to a hard reboot since 2016. I don't think it was Jonathan Hickman's fault like that, that. That Secret wars was a soft reboot. And I don't think that's a secret anymore. It used to be my little secret. It's not a secret. I feel like Marvel needs a hard reboot. And I felt like. I've always felt like I was. I was the guy to do it, which is why I've made my own Marvel Universe and all my.
Lyle
You have your own canon?
Unknown Male Voice
Genuinely. Yes. That. That part is true?
Lyle
Yes. Okay. You have your own can. And is it you mainly write Loki or are there other guys?
Unknown Male Voice
All right, everybody.
Lyle
You're right. Everybody, Everybody. Spider Man.
Unknown Male Voice
The only. Only changes I ever made to Spider man was the kid in the marriage. But that's already thing. It's not canon, but it's already a thing. Like, yeah, Spiderling and Spider and Spinnerette. Was Mary Jane as Spider Man.
Lyle
I feel like I've told this story before, but when I was in high school, yeah. I had a bet with my friends because I had discovered this Spider Man. Maybe you know this because you're a big Marvel guy. There's a Spider man comic where Spider man kills Mary Jane with his radioactive semen. Not.
Unknown Male Voice
Is a thing.
Lyle
That is the thing. It's a thing.
Unknown Male Voice
I don't know what comic that is. That's the thing.
Lyle
And he doesn't like. It's not like they have sex once and, like, he shoots come so fast that it, like, shoots through, like a bullet or anything.
Unknown Male Voice
No.
Lyle
What happened?
Unknown Male Voice
Not like Superman.
Lyle
What happens is she develops cancer as a result of, like, this is. This is. Can't. Is. She develops cancer. Yeah. As a result of taking too many cream pies from Spider Man.
Unknown Male Voice
Yeah.
Lyle
And so I had a bet with my friend that this comic existed.
Unknown Male Voice
Yes.
Lyle
Spider man killed Mary Jane with his come. There's like, that's not true.
Unknown Male Voice
There's thicker shit that happens. But yeah. Yeah.
Lyle
Like, okay, I have more questions for you. But the. And my friend was like. And I showed him the comic.
Unknown Male Voice
Yeah.
Lyle
And my friend was like, oh, she dies of cancer, not of come. Yeah. I was like, fuck you. You owe me $10. This is. He killed her with the gum. He definitely was like, no, the cancer killed her, not the cum. And I was like, fuck you. That's a technicality. It's like this day, he still thinks.
Unknown Male Voice
He was like, the microwave of the cancer which came first.
Lyle
That's literally what he said. That's like saying, like, someone died of a microwave when really they died of cancer. Yeah. I'm like, anyway, wait, what's the sick. Okay, you said there's sicker stuff. What's the sickest thing that we might not know about. That's hiding within the Marvel Universe.
Unknown Male Voice
So something that. That genuinely happened. Right. Norman Osborn, the guy that kills Mary Jane by dropping her off a fucking building. Oh, not. Not to say like that. By dropping her off.
Lyle
How else is there to say?
Unknown Male Voice
By dropping her off a bridge. Yeah, right. When? After he kills her years later. Right. He clones her.
Lyle
Whoa.
Unknown Male Voice
He clones her and then he has sex with the clone.
Lyle
Really?
Unknown Male Voice
And then they have kids. So now Harry Osborne has a Mary. A clone baby sister. A clone baby sister between Gwen Stacy and Norman.
Lyle
What? What, like, what comic is that?
Unknown Male Voice
It's old. Like 2005, 2006, I think around 2004 maybe. I don't know. I haven't read that either. I just know that that happened. Weird.
Lyle
It's so funny that, like, if you go, if you like on the shallow side of Marvel, it's like, oh, Green Goblin robbed a bank, but Spider man saved him. Yeah. At the deepest part of the iceberg. It's like the Green Goblin clone, Spider Man's girlfriend, child with her and then impregnated the clone. What's your life like outside of Marvel, man? Who are you?
Unknown Male Voice
I'm just a cartoonist guy. I've been unemployed for a while. Just trying to get some work. I want my video games really, really badly and to move out my mom's crib. And I make my own comic books. I make my own music.
Lyle
What video games have you. We just talked a lot about video games. I'll talk about them again.
Ryan Reynolds
All.
Unknown Male Voice
All those Marvel games that's come off on the PS5 very recently. I'm a fighting game guy.
Lyle
But also, you like Injustice. You're the justice guy. Or, or.
Unknown Male Voice
I don't like Injustice or Tekken. I. I don't play Injustice or Tekken anymore.
Lyle
You hate dc, right?
Unknown Male Voice
I don't hate dc.
Lyle
You don't hate dc.
Unknown Male Voice
I don't hate dc.
Lyle
I feel like you don't hate dc.
Unknown Male Voice
I'm. I. I'm like a. I'm like a cult member when it comes to Marvel.
Lyle
Right.
Unknown Male Voice
And I'm a fan when it comes to dc.
Lyle
Okay. I thought you're a cult Marvel when it comes to Marvel. And like DC is the rival cults.
Unknown Male Voice
Nah, I'm. I don't. I don't have a beef with dc.
Lyle
So. Wait, what are the Marvel video games? Out Marble. The LEGO Marvel games are sick.
Unknown Male Voice
I don't play LEGO Marvel either. No, I believe the LEGO Marvel games is fun, though. I used to. I used to play Lego games when I was a kid. I Used to own Lego Star wars on a PlayStation 2.
Lyle
What job did you have before you were unemployed or were you in school?
iHeart Podcast
Not much.
Unknown Male Voice
Not. Not much. I don't want to talk about this. I just wanna. I just want to be employed.
Lyle
Dog, what's your. I don't know. I. I wonder. I'm trying to. I wonder if this podcast can help you find a job somehow.
Unknown Male Voice
Likely. I'm not looking for anything in particular. I'm 28. I just. I do want to make my comic books. I got my comic books, but I need my money beforehand so I could illustrate more. Yeah, obviously. And play my video games more and live a happier life instead of the shit people try to. Well, project on me all fucking day for the past five years.
Lyle
People are projecting shit on you.
Unknown Male Voice
I don't want to talk about it right now.
Lyle
Sure, sure, sure.
Unknown Male Voice
Yeah, I know it's there. Is there? I definitely. I definitely Place is the place to do that.
Lyle
Right?
Unknown Male Voice
That's the place.
Lyle
We don't have to talk about that. I'm perfectly happy to have talked about Marvel and actually. It's good. It's nice. Yeah. I feel like to. This podcast has been a nice. We've talked about a lot of. Just.
Unknown Male Voice
It's a refreshing episode.
Lyle
It is a refreshing episode. Yeah. What's your name again? Rock. Rock.
Unknown Male Voice
Yeah, Rock Rock.
Lyle
Is there anything else you want to say to the people before we get out of here?
Unknown Male Voice
Yeah. Follow me at Ace Rocksola. I'm gonna. I want to drop a song. I want to drop more music, I think. And those comic books are definitely on the way. If more music ain't after that first couple songs.
Lyle
You want to talk after real shit. Oh, come on. Have a seat, sir. It'll be fun. He doesn't want to. He don't want to do it. You can eat the ice cream on one at the same time. I want. You can bring the. You can bring the ice cream. All right, Rock. Very nice to meet you, man.
Unknown Male Voice
Nice to meet you, too.
Lyle
I'll. I'll see you around the universe, dude. Good luck with that. Wait, I'm sorry. Did you plug yourself just now?
Unknown Male Voice
Yeah.
Lyle
Okay, good, good. Sorry, I was. My brain can't focus on two things at once. I was trying to get that guy to talk, but it's all good. Give me your plug again because I want to follow you.
Unknown Male Voice
Oh, I got sweat in my eye.
Lyle
Yeah, it happens.
Unknown Male Voice
Ace Rock Solar at. On Instagram.
Lyle
Ace Rock Solo. Yeah.
Unknown Male Voice
And the YouTube's coming soon.
Lyle
Okay, sick.
Unknown Male Voice
Thank you, man.
Lyle
Nice to meet you. Rock I'll see you around the universe, man.
Unknown Male Voice
See how around. See you around the universe as well, man.
Lyle
Take care, dude.
Unknown Male Voice
I with geckos.
Lyle
Thank you. I with rocks. Where's that guy with the ice cream? Did he leave? How's it going?
Solace
Hey, how you doing, Lyle?
Lyle
I'm doing good. What's your name? Jaden. Jaden? Yeah. Nice to meet you, Jaden.
Solace
Nice to meet you.
Lyle
What's up, Jaden? What's the. Jaden, what's the meaning of life?
Solace
What's the meaning of life?
Lyle
Yeah.
Solace
To live it. At the end of the day, you may not find your purpose. You may not have a purpose for real, but at the end of the day, just live your life how you wanted to live it. If you want to be a bum the whole time, that's fine. If you want to, like, go do something, something big, that's fine. You may leave a mark on the world. You may not. It doesn't matter. The world's going to return regardless if you left the mark or not.
Lyle
How do you feel? Do you feel like being a bum or do you feel like doing stuff?
Solace
I used to be a bum, I'm not gonna lie. But now I feel like doing things.
Lyle
What? How did you change from bumming to doing things?
Solace
I had to stop being depressed.
Lyle
How did you stop being depressed?
Solace
To be honest, I kind of have, like, a secret superpower. It's called being bipolar.
Lyle
Okay.
Solace
So I smoked some weed and I got manic, so my depression went away. And since then, I've just been on my.
Lyle
Wait, so smoking weed has gotten you on your.
Solace
Yeah, it had me manic. When I smoke weed, I get more energy. I don't get. I don't get de. Energized.
Lyle
That's so weird, man. I. I fully. I fully, fully, fully accepted that. I think weed makes me depressed.
Solace
Yeah, no, it's opposite for me, really.
Lyle
Yeah. But you don't crash. No, you don't crash.
Solace
Lights. Like, in terms of my energy levels.
Lyle
Yeah, no, I don't. Isn't that one of, like, the hallmarks of mania is the crash?
Solace
Oh, yeah. But I'm not manic right now.
Lyle
Okay.
Solace
It does make me more manic, but, like, I know how to, like, control myself now. The first time I went manic, I didn't know what I was doing for. I thought I was Superman. I thought I was a hydro. I thought I was. I don't know who I thought it was.
Lyle
Are you. Are you high right now?
Solace
No.
Lyle
Okay. Are you gonna get high after this?
Solace
If someone has Weed. I might smoke it, I might not. I don't know. I work at a dispensary, so.
Lyle
Oh, you do? Yeah. That's cool. What's it like working at dispensary?
Solace
To be honest, I haven't started yet. I have my. My first day is probably gonna be sometime next week. I have my interview on Wednesday. It was pretty fire. I think it went well. And, yeah, she said she'll call me on Monday.
Lyle
Are you excited? Really excited.
Solace
I haven't worked. I haven't worked. I was in the military for three years, right. In the Air Force. That's how I discovered that I was bipolar.
Lyle
You were in the military for how long? Three years. Three years. Wow.
Solace
That's how I discovered I was bipolar.
Lyle
How did you discover you were bipolar?
Solace
I had a manic episode and I was just going crazy. And then it got to a point I'm just like, I gotta. I gotta go to mental health because I don't know what I'm doing anymore. I can't. I'm not controlling my actions. I don't like who I am right now.
Lyle
Yeah.
Solace
So I went and I told me I'm having a mental breakdown, this and that. And, like, I was still manic, though, so I didn't take it seriously. But eventually, if reality finally set in, the depression set in after that, I was primarily for, like, six months and now depressed for, like, nine months after that. So, yeah, reality kind of set in for that. I learned my lessons. And. Yeah, I. I'm not sure if I answered your question.
Lyle
No, there's no. We're just talking.
Solace
I'm not sure if I answered your.
Lyle
Question, but I think. No need to answer any questions.
Solace
I appreciate it.
Lyle
What was it like being in the Air Force? We just had a guy on last episode who was in the Air Force.
Solace
The Air Force is really fun. I was in Alaska Joint Base Elmendorf, Richardson. It was a lot of fun. There was air shows. The summer is really good. The winter kind of sucks as there's so much, like, dark. But in terms of the actual Air Force, I liked it. The people were cool. My job was pretty chill. I fixed radars, so it wasn't bad. And, yeah, I can't complain, honestly.
Lyle
Do you. Do you miss the Air Force?
Solace
No. I'm so glad to be my own person and have my own schedule.
Lyle
So the person who came on last episode, we're talking about how, like, they're, like, being in the Air Force, like, made their, like, all their, like, mental health issues, like, worse.
Solace
Yeah, I believe that do.
Lyle
Yeah. Do you feel that way?
Solace
What was their job?
Lyle
Fuck.
Solace
Because if they were like a mechanic over with. If I was a mechanic, I would have. Straight up, no lie. They work 80. They work like 80 plus hour weeks and don't get no breaks.
Lyle
I know they're getting into H Vac, but that's not helpful at all. Nah. Is there a type of job that people who normally go into H vac who were previously in the Air Force do?
Solace
Yeah, he was probably. If he was doing H vac, he was probably. He's probably H Vac in the Air Force.
Lyle
Okay, let's say that I don't think he was, but let's say that that's what he was doing. Yeah. So is your mental health better after leaving the Air Force?
Solace
Way better.
Lyle
Yeah.
Solace
I'm on Alaska, where there's no sunlight for six months straight.
Lyle
Everyone I talked to about Alaska says it drives them. It drives you crazy.
Solace
You need to take vitamin D pills. So, like, because you don't get enough sun, you need to, like, be outdoorsy. Like, if you don't like hiking and shit, good luck.
Lyle
Yeah.
Solace
Because there's nothing else to do.
Lyle
So what's your. What's. What's like next for you?
Solace
What's next for me? Again, it's a content creation.
Lyle
So cool.
Solace
I spent today getting content, and it was kind of crazy. I saw you. I'm like, wow, it's actually a great content day. Like, I'm about to. I'm trying to interview with you and then. Yeah, so now I'm doing it with you and.
Lyle
Oh, wait, are we also recording this for you for your content too?
Solace
Oh, no, no, no. I'm gonna see this on your page.
Lyle
Yeah. Okay. Yeah, we can.
Solace
And whatever you post on your story, I'm gonna repost it for it.
Lyle
Absolutely.
Solace
And then see it. This is honestly the first time that I've really gone out and been like, yo, I'm gonna go get my own content.
Lyle
Okay, so we're. So right now, we're.
Ryan Reynolds
We're gonna.
Lyle
You're on my show, but I'm also on your show because you're gonna take.
Solace
I'm gonna repost it.
Lyle
Yeah, you're gonna repost it on your thing. So I'm on your show right now. All right, so, you know, let's do this for this segment. I'm gonna let this be your show.
Solace
All right.
Lyle
Bet.
Solace
I have questions for you.
Lyle
All right. Yeah. All right. All right. Now I'm on your show.
Solace
All right, cool. Let me grab them real quick. Notes.
Lyle
So you're just gonna go. So. By the way, you totally can do this. I don't give up. So you'll go on my YouTube and you'll just rip it and then you'll put on this clip.
Solace
Exactly.
Lyle
All right.
Solace
Or make shorts out of your.
Lyle
Great. Yeah.
Solace
All right. My YouTube, by the way, is JXY DXN16. All right, so first question is, Lyle, what are you willing to sell your soul for?
Lyle
What am I willing or is it.
Solace
Or nothing is worth it?
Lyle
I'm sure. Plenty of things I'm willing to sell myself, I think. I don't think you get through life without selling your soul at least a little bit. True. Maybe. I don't know. Maybe that. Maybe that's just a projection. I mean, have you ever sold your soul you feel.
Solace
Since we're talking a metaphorical sense. No, I haven't.
Lyle
I mean, it's a general. I mean, like, if you do anything that generates income, which most people do, to create, to live. To live. Yeah. You probably sell your soul in some way, shape or form. Yeah.
Solace
Because you're doing something you don't like to do.
Lyle
Right. Even if you're doing something that you like to do. Maybe the. The way in which the thing you like to do makes. Makes money is a version of a soul. Of a soul selling. True.
Solace
All right, next.
Lyle
What a great. What? This would be a great place for me to put an ad break. Okay, go ahead.
Solace
Nice question. If you ruled the world like you were king of the world, right. What's the first thing you do to discipline people? And then what would you do to reward them?
Lyle
If I were the king of the world. Yes. I would never, ever, ever want to do that. But if it was like gun to your head, you must be the ruler of the world. You must discipline the people. Yes. How would I discipline them? Yeah.
Solace
Like, what's one thing you would do? Like, what's one law you would put out?
Lyle
I'd whip them. Huh? I'd whip them.
Solace
You whip them.
Lyle
No, I don't know.
Solace
Everyone in line for lashings, right now.
Lyle
How would I discipline the people?
Solace
Like, like. All right, like, for example, one person said, no porn allowed at all.
Lyle
That's what one person said.
Solace
You know what? You know.
Lyle
Well, would this be. Well, let me ask you, then. This. Yeah. All right, so I have to disagree. Discipline the people.
Solace
It's just one. It's just one lawyer to put out that discipline zone.
Lyle
Can I be corrupt and, like, I don't have to follow it?
Solace
Yeah, sure. Oh, you're A king who gives a.
Lyle
All right, then. Discipline. Oh. Oh. No more sweet tarts ropes.
Solace
No more sweet ropes for anyone's allowed.
Lyle
Sweet.
Solace
If they eat sweet tart ropes, what's the punishment?
Lyle
No, no more sweet tarts ropes for anyone. And if you eat sweet tart ropes, then you have to give me $5 type shit.
Solace
So you're a bit nicer than the other guy. The other guy said that if they watch porn, they get a guillotine. They get the headshot.
Lyle
Wow. That's.
Solace
That's what he said.
Lyle
Like a full. Like a head. Guilty.
Solace
You're getting your head chopped off.
Lyle
Really? Yes. I mean, at least, like, I feel like the.
Solace
You know, his name was Raphael, by the way.
Lyle
His name was Raphael.
Solace
Yes.
Lyle
That's. That's. That's spooky, man. I don't want to be. If I have to be the king of something.
Solace
Let's be a bit nicer. So how you reward people? What's your. What's the reward you're giving out?
Lyle
Well, I can't give everyone a million dollars because then it's inflation. Yeah, I'll give. Everyone can have sweet tarts ropes.
Solace
Eat them. They got to give you $5.
Lyle
Oh, all right. Yeah, yeah, you're right.
Solace
It all comes back.
Lyle
I reward everyone with the sweet tart ropes, so that way, if they eat them, I get $5. So the reward is also a reward for me. I feel like everyone wins in this situation.
Solace
All right, this question is a bit more controversial.
Lyle
Okay.
Solace
Is religion holding mankind back?
Lyle
No, I think this way. I don't think religion is what's holding mankind back. Okay.
Solace
You think we have other problems?
Lyle
Oh, there's so many more things that are holding mankind back than really.
Solace
Fair enough. Our ghost.
Lyle
You think religion's holding mankind back?
Solace
Yes.
Lyle
Why?
Solace
I think we're just too divided in our religions because at the end of the day, people, like, some people accept that, okay, we're all worshiping the same God, just different ways.
Lyle
Yeah, yeah.
Solace
It's just like, if we all worship the same God in different ways, can we just. Like, we don't have to agree on one way to do it, but can we just be, like, can we just not judge other ways that people do it?
Lyle
Like, is religion what's holding people? I feel like it's like politics are dividing people more than religion.
Solace
Politics can be used in religion, though. Like, they can use religion as a. That's what. That's what Trump does. He'd be like, yo, I'm a Christian, this and that and that's. How he gets them on his side.
Lyle
Yeah, sure. That makes sense.
Solace
Religion has always been what drives the people. The church and the state used to be like different things or they used.
Lyle
To be the same.
Solace
Yeah, used to be the same as.
Lyle
What I'm going to say. Yeah, Right, right, right. Okay, that makes sense. That makes sense.
Solace
So if we're being honest, I don't know what's.
Lyle
I don't know if anything's holding mankind back. I think mankind is unfolding as it was always going to.
Solace
Fair enough. Would you rather be in a zombie apocalypse or a Planet of Apes takeover?
Lyle
Well, a takeover. Okay, I'm gonna tell me if this is correct. Okay. When I think of a Planet of the Apes takeover. The apes have usurped the humans as the.
Solace
They're on their way to doing it as the.
Lyle
As the rulers. Right. So we're. So. I. So I still exist. I still lie. But I am a. I am second class in the way that a dog is.
iHeart Podcast
Am I?
Lyle
Well, okay, but like. Okay, let me ask you this. How do the apes treat the humans? Are we domesticated? Are we subservient in the movie? I don't know. I never seen that.
Solace
I'm pretty sure they treat humans like. I'm pretty sure they do. They treat it like. Or they get rid of the humans. I think they get rid of the humans, actually. I think y' all get.
Lyle
I'll take my chance. I'll take my chances in the zombie apocalypse.
Solace
Yeah, me too. The apes are really smart to rip your face off in like, half a second.
Lyle
Yeah. Oh, that sounds horrible. Yeah. Well, okay, well, you got any more questions?
Solace
Let's. Let me do one more and I'm gonna get up out of here.
Lyle
All right.
Solace
Is there a fifth dimension?
Lyle
X.
Solace
Is there a fifth dimension?
Lyle
Probably. Probably. Yeah, probably. I'm too stupid to know what it is.
Solace
Jaden.
Lyle
Jaden. Nice to meet you, Jaden Graham.
Solace
Everything okay?
Lyle
Rock and roll, man. I'll see you around the universe.
Solace
Of course.
Lyle
Later. Jaden, what's. What's your show again?
Solace
My show is JXY DXN 16. You can find on all platforms.
Lyle
Oh, yeah. Sick. That's a lot of letters. But we'll piece it together.
Solace
It's just Jaden and X's instead of vowels.
Lyle
Okay. Sick. You should get it. You should do like. How about just the Jaden Show? That's easier.
Solace
Fair enough.
Lyle
Okay, well, you. It's your thing.
Solace
My podcast is called on the Walk.
Lyle
Okay. All right.
Solace
And then the segment I have is. That's what that was the second right there. Either you ask a question or you be asked a question.
Lyle
Okay. All right. Well this is all going on there. Sweet. See you Jaden. See you around the universe.
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Lyle
Do you want to talk to a gecko about life? Have a seat. Have a seat. What's your name, sir?
Ryan Reynolds
I'm Lou.
Lyle
Lou.
Ryan Reynolds
What's up?
Lyle
Where are you from, Lou? I'm from right here. Rock and roll. Yeah. Where. How long you been in New York for?
Ryan Reynolds
Well, for most of my life. Right over there, that corner.
Lyle
Really? Yeah. You. You for your. Most of your life, you've been right over there in that corner.
Ryan Reynolds
Right over in that corner of the park.
Lyle
And how. How has the park changed over your life?
Ryan Reynolds
Well, you know, it went from totally batshit bohemian to super, like, safe, and now batshit bohemian again, you know?
Lyle
Wait, I. May I genuinely. Because I love. I love this place, man. I really like. I love this park, and I'm very curious about, like, how. So when did it become safe and then when did it become bohemian again?
Ryan Reynolds
Well, they closed sections off of it to remodel everything and redo everything, and. And it was safe after that for a while, and they were cracking down on people riding bikes and all that and smoking pot or selling pot. And then just recently, you know, there was, like, a stabbing over here, and. And now since the whole legalization of weed, it's. It's just turned into like, a. Just like a bohemian free for all, which I think is good, except for the stabbings and, you know, the. The needlework going on over here. And by needlework, I don't mean crocheting or anything.
Lyle
You mean stabbings.
Ryan Reynolds
I mean stabbings, and I mean needlework, you know?
Lyle
Oh, okay, okay, okay. I get you. I get you.
Ryan Reynolds
So that's why you see the cops over here on this corner, you know, so. Yeah, but, you know, New York City. What are you gonna do? You know, you stamp it out in one corner, it's gonna Come up back in the other corner. You know, Interesting.
Lyle
So, like, since the legalization of pot, you feel like this place has gotten more bohemian.
Ryan Reynolds
Yeah. More free for all. More bohemian, but also at the same time, you know, I don't feel like it's like, as dangerous as it was before when it was, like, illegal.
Lyle
So what's your, what's your role in all this, man? What do you. Where do you. Where do you fit into the park?
Ryan Reynolds
Do you feel I fit into the park and that I just. Just love to come here and, and just take in, you know, the diversity, the, you know, the city life. I mean, you're not going to get this in any, you know, in. On the continent, as I like to call it.
Lyle
Yeah.
Ryan Reynolds
Over on the other side of the Jersey of that river over there. You know, it's like, you know, everything is here. This is kind of of like the crossroads of the world really. You know. You know, even more so than. Than. Than. Than Times Square.
Lyle
Oh, Jesus.
Ryan Reynolds
You know, I mean, it's a Times Square of the Village, you know, And. And if. If. If New York is the, the center of the world, then the Village is the heart of it all, you know, and we're here at the heart of it, you know, and, and yeah, Times Square, yeah, that's the crossroads of the world, but, you know, that's. That's like the Pizza Hut, McDonald's. Crossroads of the world. This is where it's at it.
Lyle
Dude. It is, like, interesting to hear that they were once, like, cracking down on stuff, because it seems to me, like, I mean, nobody in this park has a permit to be doing anything that they're doing, right? No, and I've. And I, I do this. I do this all over the place and any. And I get kicked out everywhere, all, all the time. I have to be on alert. Well, you know, but here I've never. I never get kicked out. Yeah.
Ryan Reynolds
Yeah, because you're green.
Lyle
Because I'm. I stand out, you know, and.
Ryan Reynolds
Yeah, and. Yeah, you stand out. And. But, yeah, but, but, you know, but this was like. This is the center. This is the heart of the, of the counterculture in, you know, in this country, in the city, in the world. This part is where it all happened.
Lyle
Tell me more.
Ryan Reynolds
You know, this is where, where everybody, like, rebelled against the establishment, you know, this is where people, like, actually, they say they burnt their bras here, but I don't think anybody burnt their bras. They just threw them out, you know, and this is where gay life took center stage in, In, in in demanding independence, demanding freedom, demanding to be. To just be.
Lyle
Yeah.
Ryan Reynolds
You know, and not just gay life, not just women's rights, but, like, we got people even now, you know, there's a center of, like, Palestinian rights, of, you know, and also Israeli rights, you know.
Lyle
Yeah. There's lots and lots. There's always a protest going on here.
Ryan Reynolds
This is where it comes. It'll start at Union Square and come here. It'll start here. Go to Union Square.
Lyle
Yeah.
Ryan Reynolds
You know, the two epicenters of the. The two nexus of like, of. Of. Of just protests and of demanding rights are. Are here in Washington Square park at Union Square. I feel privileged to. To, like, to be here. I feel privileged to. To witness what goes on here. I feel privileged to just live here.
Lyle
Yeah.
Ryan Reynolds
And I. I know the cultural significance of this. This location.
Lyle
Yeah. Yeah.
Ryan Reynolds
And I appreciate it.
Lyle
Yeah.
Ryan Reynolds
You know, and what. Sometimes I don't like it, but you know what? There's other people that don't like what I, you know. You know what. What goes on here. It's like, it's always. But this is the nexus of it all, you know, and from here, it radiates out into the entire country.
Lyle
I, I, you know, I like that, man, because I. I feel very, like, privileged and lucky to, like, get to do this here. Like, I really, you know, I've gotten to do, like, these. These screening views and stuff, like, all over the place. But I just. This, like. I don't know, man. This park is like. It's nothing like it. Anytime. Anytime I'm, like, feel. Dude, anytime I'm feeling, like, depressed or I'm like, oh, my life is over, whatever. Because, you know, what is so beautiful about this party, it makes me feel so good, is like, every time I come here, I'm like, I first, first of all, I see all different people of all different ages and all different, like.
Ryan Reynolds
Exactly.
Lyle
Heaven. Doing different things.
Ryan Reynolds
Yeah.
Lyle
And it's like.
Ryan Reynolds
And just coming through or staying for a while or, like, you know, but this is it.
Lyle
It just always makes me feel, like, alive again, you know?
Ryan Reynolds
You're not gonna find another place like this in this country. Maybe in Berlin. You know, there's places like this in Berlin, but in this country, no. You know, this is it.
Lyle
I'm genuinely, like, curious, and I'm. I'm curious what you think about, like, how is this vibe so well maintained? How is it that there are so many different people? Like, how. How. It's like, it's almost like this.
Unknown Male Voice
The.
Lyle
The census is just naturally here or something.
Ryan Reynolds
Like that respect, you know what I mean? And everybody appreciates the diversity of this place, you know, and. And this. This is the. Really what this country is all about, totally, is about this place right here. It's about everybody coming together, no matter what. You know, if you smoke pot, if you don't smoke pot, if you. You know, there's artists here, there's intellectuals here. We're right here at the center of one of the premier intellectual actual, you know, establishments of this country, nyu.
Lyle
Yeah.
Ryan Reynolds
You know, so you have all of that. You have the bohemians, you have the. The artists, you have the people shooting drugs over in that corner over there, you know, and, well, you know, they're trying to get a hold of that, and I think they got.
Lyle
They.
Ryan Reynolds
You know, I think the NYPD is doing a fairly decent job about it right now. I mean, there hasn't been major incidents, but lately. And, And I think everyone comes here knowing that they're going to find everything here, even if it doesn't jive with what their. What their global view is. Everyone comes here with that. Okay. We come here with that mutual respect. Okay. And. And so. But unfortunately, once they leave here, the mutual respect kind of goes out the window. But once you're here in Washington Square park, you know, it's. It's kind of like a neutral zone.
Lyle
Yeah.
Ryan Reynolds
You know, a neutral zone for.
Unknown Male Voice
For.
Ryan Reynolds
For all the ales of our society, of our world, you know, and. And I like that. And everyone comes here to gawk at the other side of their worldview.
Lyle
Yeah. Yeah, sure. Yeah.
Ryan Reynolds
And. And just be in awe of it or be in like. Or. Or. Or just be surprised at it or whatever. But, like, you know what? You're in neutral territory here. You know, you're. You're like. It's. It's kind of like it's the United nations here, you know, without the. Without the stuffiness of diplomacy. Yeah.
Lyle
I love that. It's the United nations here without the stuffiness of the diplomacy and the bureaucracy.
Ryan Reynolds
And the bureaucracy, exactly. And. And the. And what's the word? I'm looking. Looking for the. The. The pompousness.
Unknown Male Voice
Yeah.
Lyle
Yeah. It's so interesting. I. I just, you know, I'm just, again, like, I'm in so awe of Every time I come here, like, there's such a vibe that's always so. Just naturally present and naturally curated. Yeah.
Ryan Reynolds
Yeah. You know, people. Know, people come here knowing that they're gonna come and see pretty much every other slide of humanity here.
Lyle
Yeah. You know, so can I ask you what do you. What do you. What do you do? Do you make art of some kind or.
Ryan Reynolds
Yeah, I dabble in arts of various kinds. Yoga instructor. I'm an academic. I am a bohemian. I am a partier. I'm. I'm everything that this place, you know, encapsulates.
Lyle
Bro. Tell me, tell me, tell me everything. Where do you. What do you. What do you teach?
Ryan Reynolds
Well, I taught yoga for many years, but before yoga and before Pilates and before aqua aerobics and before, like, you know, body awareness and emotional awareness, I taught geography at a local college here. And so I'm a teacher, you know, at heart, because of. I. Because I had great teachers.
Lyle
Yeah.
Ryan Reynolds
You know, every teacher that I've had from kindergarten to graduate school, I've admired. And I wanted to just fill that role and wanted to be that, you know, wanted to be what those people were for me. I wanted to be that for other people. I wanted to enlighten people. I wanted to wake people up. I wanted to just, like. Yeah. Make them more aware of their environment, more aware of themselves. And so I did that in academia, and then I did that through yoga and through physical fitness. And. Yeah, that's, you know, what I've been doing. I haven't been doing any of that lately because I'm taking care of my mother. You know, I've been taking care of my mother, and that's another role that I've had to just kind of fall into, and I've had to love and. And had to be thankful for that. It's made me a better person.
Lyle
Yeah.
Ryan Reynolds
And, you know.
Lyle
Yeah.
Ryan Reynolds
Next question.
Lyle
Does your mom live here?
Ryan Reynolds
No, she's out of state.
Lyle
Okay. So have you been spending a lot of time out of state?
Ryan Reynolds
In and out, you know, back and forth. She's better now, though, so I don't know. Yeah.
Lyle
Glad to hear that. Yeah.
Ryan Reynolds
But, yeah, you know, I went to, you know, four years ago, I went back to. To where she is at to say goodbye because she was done, you know, two weeks to live. And then I went back, and all of a sudden she started coming back to life.
Lyle
Yeah.
Ryan Reynolds
Her kidneys came back, her liver came back.
Lyle
Yeah.
Ryan Reynolds
You know, but I still had to, like, take care of her, you know, changing diapers, you know, feeding, literally carrying her to the toilet, carrying her back, changing the diapers, changing the bed. And then little by little, little, like her. Her kidneys came back, her liver came back, and now she can do that on her own, you know, I mean, and I like to think that I had something to do with that, you know, her son went back to take care of her, and that gave her some more life, some more reason to live. And. And it gave me more reason to live, you know, it gave me a purpose, you know, and it gave me. Yeah, it just gave me a validity as far as, you know, like, as a human being, you know, I know what it's like to take care of a human being in distress and at that point where they're about to perish and to see them come back like that. Yeah. You know, it just. It just goes to show that compassion is healing, you know, and. And if you wipe someone's ass, you know, there's a higher power or there's a power within them. There's whatever, you know, they see that, you know, if that, you know, it's. Yeah, it's hard to put in words, you know.
Lyle
I know.
Ryan Reynolds
You mean it's hard to put in words that, you know, what it does to yourself when you can find yourself in the position to be able to wipe someone's ass. Change someone's diaper.
Lyle
Yes.
Ryan Reynolds
You know, and then for them, the one that you're doing that for, it gives them, like, you know, like a sense, like they're still human. You know what I mean? They're not forgotten.
Lyle
Yes.
Ryan Reynolds
And that gives them, like, a validation.
Lyle
When you're taking care of someone, there's almost like a. I assume you feel a sort of like.
Ryan Reynolds
And makes the connection stronger. I mean, like, you kind of get.
Lyle
Back in what you put. You get back what you put in.
Ryan Reynolds
You know, I think I got back what I put in because my mother is no longer at death's doorstep.
Lyle
Yeah.
Ryan Reynolds
You know.
Lyle
Do you have. Do you have siblings that were, like, helping you out at all?
Ryan Reynolds
Yeah, I have siblings. No, they were not helping. They help financially, but. But, no, they never changed a diaper. They were not there 24 7. Like, I was. You know what I mean? I was there 24 7. I couldn't sleep because I was sleeping next to her while she was suffering. And during the day, I couldn't sleep because people were there visiting. So, you know, for like a year and a half, I did not get any sleep at all, you know, And I'm glad I did it, you know, it wore me out. It aged me, or it aged me like a fine cheese, you know what I mean? It aged my spirit like a fine cheese now. You know what I mean? My spirit is worth more now than it was when I went into that cave.
Lyle
How do you. How do you feel Day to day. Do you feel good day to day?
Ryan Reynolds
Yeah, I feel minute to minute. I can't do day to day. I have to do minute to minute, you know, and. And I have to stay minute to minute. You know, the key to, like, to sanity is to be in the moment and not in the past, not in the present, you know, not in the future, but in. In the now, you know, And I have to. It's taught me to be more. More cognizant of that, of. Of, you know, am I being ruled by the past or the anxiety of the future, or am I not allowing myself to be in the joy of the present moment? You know, and right now, this is joy. We got a beautiful day right now, you know, like, look at all these people. Look at all these artists. Look at all these people from all over the world, you know, I'm so blessed. I'm so blessed to be here, you know, to be in the nexus, the heart of New York, you know, which.
Lyle
Is.
Ryan Reynolds
You know, the heart of New York is not Times Square Square. It's right here in the Village. It's right where we're at right now. You know, the Times Square is like, yeah, McDonald's and Sbarro's Pizza and whatever. You know, it's like, that's just like marketing. That's capitalism. That's like, that's not what we want as a society.
Lyle
So I wanted to ask you, when I was asking you about, like, kind of your life and. And you were kind of telling me these things you identify with, you mentioned that you were a bohemian. What does that mean to you, to be a bohemian?
Ryan Reynolds
To be a bohemian means that, you know, you don't subscribe to the societal demands of, you know, what you need to acquire to be accepted.
Lyle
Yeah.
Ryan Reynolds
You know, like, fuck your skis, your cars, like, you know, you need to have this, you need to have that. You know, you need to be in the present moment. You need to be. You need to cherish the people around you, you know, and you need to have people around you that cherish you, and that's what's important. It's not what. It's not what you have, you know, it's not where you live. It's not where, you know, it's not material at all, you know, that's what you know. And. And also, you know, it's about, like, seeing beyond borders, seeing beyond nationalities. You know, nationalism is completely, you know, totally detrimental to humanity. You know, we. We can't. We got to say stop. Like, us versus them. Mentality sure, yeah. You know, we have to just be all here, you know, just like we're all here at Washington Square Park. We're all here right now. And there's no one fighting here. There's no MKA20. You know, there's no, like, machine guns going off here, but yet there's Muslims here, there's Jews, Jewish people here. There's Mexicans here. You know, everybody is right here. And look at this harmony that's going on right now. You know, there's people that are like, you know, like, smoking pot. There's people that are anti pop. But, like, everybody is enjoying this beautiful day. Everybody is enjoying each other. Everybody's enjoying gawking at each other, you know, without the, you know, I don't know, maybe it's me without the judgment. Yeah. Maybe people are judging, but you know what? But, but people are at least letting each other be here.
Lyle
Even the judges are welcome.
Ryan Reynolds
Even the judges are welcome. And they're amazed at how well a judgment, you know, how a society can. Can function so well here.
Lyle
Yeah.
Ryan Reynolds
You know, there. There seems to be no rules here. And look, look at this place. There's no rules here.
Lyle
Yeah.
Ryan Reynolds
Dying here.
Lyle
Yeah.
Ryan Reynolds
No, everybody is enjoying themselves here.
Lyle
Yeah.
Ryan Reynolds
You know, there's not. There's no one like, suffering here, but there's people from all over the world here. There's people from all walks of life. There's like Republicans and Democrats, there's like. But they all come here and they gawk at each other and they. And. And there's a mutual respect, you know? Yeah.
Lyle
Are you still. Where do you. Where do you teach yoga and everything? Well, you have to dox yourself. You don't want to. But I'm curious.
Ryan Reynolds
I don't wanna. No, I don't want to say where. But you know, family obligations have kept me from committing to any one job.
Lyle
Sure, sure.
Ryan Reynolds
Also, I'm older than I look, so, you know, I retired, basically.
Lyle
Sure, sure.
Ryan Reynolds
So you look older than I look. What? I'm saying I'm younger than I look.
Lyle
You're younger than you look.
Ryan Reynolds
Younger than I look.
Lyle
Okay.
Ryan Reynolds
Younger than I look. So I'm not working, you know, and. But. But I'm still working. I'm still working in the community.
Lyle
Cool.
Ryan Reynolds
I'm still working on myself.
Lyle
Cool.
Ryan Reynolds
And that never ends, you know, so long as that never ends.
Lyle
You know, I'm trying to accept that that never ends. Yeah. I really don't. I'm only. I don't know. I'd like it to end at some point. But I know it's never going to end. You're always going to want things, and you're always going to. Dude, my dad. I was. I was hanging out my dad, and he pulled out this, like, notes app list of all these projects he wants to do and all these things he wants to do, and I'm like, oh, crap, it's gonna be me when I'm 66, you know? And he's. I'm like, you know, it seems like just being ambitious for a whole lifetime seems. It seems exhausting sometimes, you know?
Ryan Reynolds
Well, you know, part of. No. Part of, like, ending anxiety, ending, you know, angst and all that is knowing that it is gonna end.
Lyle
Right?
Ryan Reynolds
You know, that ultimate end of it all, you know? And, yeah, it will end, but. But we just have to be, like, where we're at right now, you know? Yeah, I forgot how we got to like. It's not ever gonna end. Yeah. We're just having a conversation.
Lyle
What's your name again, man? Lou. Louis. Lou, thanks for. Thanks for extending your. Your city bike. My. This is on. It's on you. I do it as a podcast. I do it on YouTube. I can. I can give you the info if you want.
Ryan Reynolds
Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Good. All right, well, you know, you drew me into a conversation.
Lyle
Thanks for. Thanks for letting me draw you into it. I really do. I really appreciate the perspective, man. Cuz. Yeah, it's cool to hear a little bit about, like, the evolution of the park, because I really. I do love this place, you know? It's cool to hear how it evolved.
Ryan Reynolds
Well, this park has had a lot of evolutions, you know. I mean, you know that, you know, Washington, like, marches troops up in here. And, you know, there was, like, slave burial ground for a while. Some skeletons were found up here on. On the east side during construction. So, you know, I also.
Lyle
I do. I love the quote on the top of the arch. The. The. Let us raise a standard to which the wise and honest can repair. The event is in the hand of God. It's very like. It's very like, look, shit's gonna go down.
Ryan Reynolds
Shit's gonna go shit.
Lyle
That's all in the hands of God, but, like, we'll be. It's within our ability to at least repair it.
Ryan Reynolds
And shit has gone down at this part.
Lyle
Totally.
Ryan Reynolds
Sure. You know, but. But it seems to always rise up, you know? Yeah. We're at the nexus of it all. Lou, thank you so much.
Lyle
Thank you so much for chatting with me. I appreciate it, man. I don't. I don't think anything in this would come back to haunt you. Oh, dear God.
Ryan Reynolds
All right, all right.
Lyle
Take care. Lou. Nice to meet you. That was a great interview. That was awesome. It was cool to get to talk to somebody who has been here for a while. And, you know, he really did verbalize everything that I love about this place. And what a great. Who do we all. Who do we all talk to today? We talked to the Marvel man. We talked to the video game finance lady. Who's the first person we talked to. Why do I not remember? We had a lot. We had a lot of interviews today. They're all good. We talked to the guy about not being a bum. We talked to the musician. Oh, yes, the musician man. Wait, who else? Who is the very first person? Were you not here for that? You weren't here for that? Okay, well, I don't know. I remember them all being good. If I remember anything about them all. Where do we look? This is this. The podcast is called Therapy gecko and on YouTube it's Lyle Forever. I don't know why I made them different things. I got to change that. How long has this been going for? Or Lyle. Lyle forever and Therapy Gecko. And folks, folks listening at home. Thanks for listening. I'm a gecko. I'm crazy. I love doing that. Come to this park. If you ever come to New York City, come to Washington Square Park. It's a lovely place. I'll be here every week that I can. I'll be here. I'll be here talking to people on the phone, talking to people in real life. You know, sometimes I sit and, you know, sometimes I crash out. I go crazy. But then other times I remember that I actually love life. I love people. Everything's fine. I'm gonna go drink. I'm gonna go drink the nude Coke Creamsicle. They have a Coke Zero version of that. I'm gonna go get that. This is not an ad. I would genuinely. I'm gonna go get that. It's good. And they got a diet version of it. All right, I'm gonna stop talking. Thanks for listening to this podcast. Geck Bliss.
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Therapy Gecko – Episode: “MY PANTS ARE $400” Release Date: August 6, 2025 | Host: Lyle (The Gecko)
Overview
In this episode of Therapy Gecko, hosted by the charismatic and unconventional gecko psychologist, Lyle, listeners are taken on a vibrant journey through Washington Square Park in New York City. True to the podcast’s motto, Lyle engages with a diverse array of park-goers, delving into their lives, aspirations, and the unique dynamics of the bustling urban environment. The episode, titled “MY PANTS ARE $400,” encapsulates frank conversations about personal growth, creative pursuits, mental health, and the intricate tapestry of human interactions.
Timestamp: [03:00] – [12:00]
Lyle’s first guest, Oscar, shares his passion for photography and his methods of making a living through creative endeavors. Oscar discusses his approach to helping strangers by creating TikTok videos and conducting free photo shoots, which has led to paid opportunities.
Key Discussions:
Notable Quote:
"I’m a chill guy, bro. I’m literally trying to build myself up, become who I want to become." – Oscar ([06:43])
Oscar’s perspective offers a glimpse into the balance between personal investment in style and the pursuit of creative passions without succumbing to undue stress.
Timestamp: [12:00] – [25:00]
Chloe, also known as Solace, is a 19-year-old musician blending metal, screamo, and country genres. Her journey of self-acceptance and the role of curiosity and understanding in personal growth are central themes of her conversation with Lyle.
Key Discussions:
Notable Quote:
"The more you heal and fix yourself eternally, the more externally everything's more comfortable." – Chloe ([20:55])
Chloe’s insights underscore the transformative power of creativity and vulnerability in overcoming personal challenges and fostering genuine connections.
Timestamp: [45:57] – [73:58]
Rock, a passionate Marvel fanfiction writer and aspiring cartoonist, engages in a lively discussion about his creative processes, his love for Marvel characters, and the complexities of fan-created narratives within established universes.
Key Discussions:
Notable Quote:
"If you really want to be the ruler of the world, how would I discipline them?" – Rock ([72:33])
Rock’s conversation with Lyle highlights the intricate dance between fan creativity and established storytelling, emphasizing the personal fulfillment derived from creating original content within beloved universes.
Timestamp: [81:07] – [104:57]
Lou, an academic and yoga instructor deeply connected to Washington Square Park, shares his experiences balancing personal challenges with professional responsibilities. His dedication to teaching and compassion for others shines through his narrative.
Key Discussions:
Notable Quote:
"I feel privileged to witness what goes on here. Compassion is healing." – Lou ([88:43]; [96:21])
Lou’s heartfelt dialogue emphasizes the importance of compassion, resilience, and community support in navigating life’s challenges, offering listeners a touching testament to human strength and empathy.
Timestamp: [66:00] – [77:56]
Jaden, a young individual transitioning from military service to content creation, discusses his battle with bipolar disorder, his ambitions in comic book creation, and his recent foray into the workforce.
Key Discussions:
Notable Quote:
"Compassion is healing, and if you wipe someone's ass, there's a power within them." – Lou ([93:18])
While interacting with Jaden, the episode touches upon themes of mental health, the pursuit of creative passions, and the importance of self-acceptance and assistance in overcoming personal hurdles.
Timestamp: [105:17] – [108:46]
In the concluding segments, Lyle reflects on the diverse interactions of the day, emphasizing the richness of human experiences shared in Washington Square Park. The episode wraps up with a heartfelt invitation to listeners to engage with the park’s vibrant community and to embrace their own paths of self-discovery and growth.
Key Highlights:
Notable Quote:
"We have all of that mutual respect. Everyone comes here with that mutual respect." – Ryan Reynolds as Lou ([86:07])
Conclusion
“MY PANTS ARE $400” is a testament to Therapy Gecko’s unique approach to psychology and human connection. Through engaging and authentic conversations, Lyle the Gecko not only offers insight into the lives of his guests but also highlights the profound impact of community, creativity, and personal resilience. This episode serves as an inviting gateway for new listeners to explore the depths of human experiences and the therapeutic power of genuine interaction.