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Tim Keller
Welcome to Gospel in Life. True transformation isn't about adopting a set of rules. It's about a heart changed by the gospel. This month, Tim Keller explores how Christianity is not just an ethical system, but a supernatural transformation.
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The scripture reading today is from Ephesians 4, verses 14 to 15 and 20, 25 to 32. Then we will no longer be infants tossed back and forth by the waves and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of people in their deceitful scheming. Instead speaking the truth in love. We will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is Christ. Therefore, each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to your neighbor, for we are all members of one body. In your anger, do not sin, do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold. Anyone who has been stealing must steal no longer, but must work doing something useful with their own hands that they may have something to share with those in need. Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen and do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ, God forgave you the word of the Lord.
Tim Keller
Some weeks ago, we took a look at 1 Corinthians 13 that is very famous as being the wedding text because it talks about how great love is. Love is patient, love is kind. And we pointed out that Paul was not thinking about weddings when he wrote that. What he was talking about was the fact that it's possible to be very religious, to be very filled with biblical knowledge, to be quite active in ministry, to be very moral, and not have a supernaturally changed heart, which is how he defines love. And then he went through and gave a series of signs of a supernaturally changed heart. And what we're doing each week is we're not going back to First Corinthians 13, going to other passages to look at these signs in some detail, some depth. One of the signs in First Corinthians 13 of a supernaturally changed heart was love rejoices with the truth. And what we have here in this passage is a in Ephesians is a treatment of the subject of Truth telling or what we could call integrity. And some people say there's a cultural crisis of integrity. One of the things that might be a bit of evidence for that is last year, as many of you know, Volkswagen was. It was revealed that Volkswagen had put, had deliberately put on 11 million of its cars a software designed to lie about its emissions. You know, obviously the way you're going to win in the automaking world is if you can say we have the highest mileage, the lowest emissions and we don't sacrifice performance. And the way they were doing that was that they actually were lying essentially about how many pollutants that each car was actually putting out in the environment. And the reason I think it's to me kind of a bit striking is that's a pretty astonishing lack, failure of integrity of one of the great companies, business corporations in the world. And there I don't think has been a whole lot of, I think mostly people have been yawning. Ho hum. Yep, that's the way things are. But that's not. Listen, let's talk about that. Let's talk about how, how important integrity is, how you practice integrity and how you can become people of integrity. How important it is, how you practice it and how we can become people of integrity. First of all, the importance of it. And verse 14 and 15 in some ways is a summary of what Paul's already said and a thesis statement for what comes afterwards. And let me summarize the book of Ephesians for you. Just like that, chapters three and four, especially in those chapters, Paul has been making a case that we need Christian community. It's all about the church and about the greatness of the church and what the Christian community ought to be and the unity it ought to have and what its characteristics ought to be. That's all what he's been talking about. And then in verse 14 and 15 he shows us the results of that community. The results of Christian community is not just fellowship and inspiration. Here's what it is that we no longer be infants. Instead we grow in every respect into the mature body of him who is the head, who is Christ. Now that is radical supernatural character change. That is nothing less than Christlikeness to be. When it talks about growing into the mature body of him who is the head, being grafted into Christ and growing into the head. This is what this is talking about is the character and the love and the wisdom and the humility and the joy and the beauty and the power of Christ's character reproduced in us. It's all Talking about transformation. In fact, the passage that we left out between verse 14 and 15 and verse 25, we left a few verses out. In verse 23 and 24, it says, Paul says, put off the old self with all of its distorted desires and put on the new self being created in his likeness. Transformation. Put off the old self with all of its insatiable cravings for things that will not fulfill, and put on the new self created to be like him. Now, if there's anybody in this room, and I hope there is, who has a realistic estimate of both your flaws, weaknesses, and the depth of your discontent, this should make your mouth water. This is the transformation. This is what we need. This is becoming your true self. That's what Paul's saying. Ah, but the message of Ephesians is that only comes through being plunged into a community. And it makes sense, does it not? Because after all, what made you what you are with your flaws and your weaknesses was not just your individual decisions, though those are important. But it was the fact that you came up in a particular family, and it's the way your family treated you, the way society treated you. And if you're going to change, it means being plunged into a community at least as intense as a family, a counterculture. See, this change does not happen just by showing up at church events three or four times a month. It means being plunged into a community that does what speaks the truth in love. Now that's, by the way, not all that goes into the transformation of character through community, but that's what we have right here. Paul is saying, if you're in a body, if you are in a. That's what he says. If you're in a body, if you're in a community in which there is this truth telling in love, that's going to change you from the inside out. So that's so in a way, integrity. Truth telling is not just something in the abstract that Christians ought to do because we're supposed to do it. No, it's actually, it's a sign of a supernaturally changed character and it's the means to supernaturally change character. Speaking the truth in love. Now you say, how does that work? Okay, we'll get to that in a second, but give me two minutes just to stay here. And please notice two things. Top level things. Top level things. The first is speaking the truth in love is important for any kind of community at all. Look at verse 25. Therefore, each of you must put off falsehood and lying and speak truthfully to your neighbor for all members of one body. And that's a very comprehensive statement. First of all, it's saying, because we're members of the body, because we're a Christian community, we must speak truth to each other. The idea of membership. Don't think of membership meaning, you know, the word member here translates a word that means a body part. So when you become a Christian, you are truly fused to other people, according to the Bible, because of the Holy Spirit, because of common experience, because of identity change. And the thing that keeps members, that is together, that is to say, is truth telling. If you start lying to people, wait, do you see how lonely you feel? Lying separates people. Truth telling unites people, brings people together. And it's not just true, by the way, within the body of Christ, but notice it doesn't just say, speak truthfully to your brother or sister. It says, speak truthfully to your neighbor. Because there's a sense in which truth telling is crucial to all human community. Some years ago, a, you know, one academic wrote this, a scholar wrote this. Imagine a society in which no one trusted anyone to keep a promise, in which every leader was expected to lie as a matter of course, in which every teacher was suspected of being an academic cheat, lying about their research findings, in which every religious leader was a moral fraud, in which every legal contract was not expected to be honored. So no legal partner could ever bank on the loyalty of another. No one could make a decision with any assurance of having the facts in hand. What would happen in that society? The economy would collapse, rule of law would be impossible, life would become brutalized. And by the way, Vaclav Havel, the great Czech reformer who wrote a wonderful essay called the Power of the Powerless, which you can find online, basically says the communism collapsed because of lying. Because nobody, you couldn't trust the government to tell you what they told you. You couldn't trust the newspapers, you couldn't trust the banks, you couldn't trust the doctors, you couldn't trust anybody. And as a result, life collapsed. And the power of the powerless is truth, just simply telling the truth. And so the first thing we see here is really, human life is impossible without truth telling. Every single time you tell a lie, you are assaulting human life. But secondly, I want you to notice, here's the other top level, you know, observation is truth telling and love have to always go together. They must never be separated. Truth telling without love isn't really about truth. Think about it. If you're truth, truth telling without love means. We'll get to this in a minute. Anyway, it means being harsh, being cruel, you know, making scoring points. Well, truth telling without love isn't really about truth. It's about you. It's about making you look good and making you feel good. Truth telling without love is not really about truth, but loving without truth telling isn't really love. There were some years ago seeing a family in which the. The father, out of love, would not tell his teenage daughter how grievous and how destructive her behavior was. He didn't want to confront her. He said, oh, I just don't want to hurt her. I just don't want to disappoint her. In other words, love. But actually it was selfish because he didn't want to go through the pain of her displeasure if he confronted her. So he didn't tell her. He didn't tell her. And that meant her 20s were all taken up by blowing up one relationship after another. Why? Because she was deprived of learning from her father how her behavior influenced people. She couldn't see the impact of her behavior on people because her father didn't tell her. And see, every time you say out of love, I'm not going to tell that person the truth. You exploit them because you deprive them of reality. And because they're deprived of reality, they're disempowered. So if you're selling a house and you lie about structural defects and the buyer buys it, you're keeping that buyer from seeing the reality of what it's really going to cost to be in that house. So you're disempowering, you're exploiting that person. The seller is exploiting the buyer to get a good price. The father was exploiting his daughter just so he didn't have the pain of having to confront her. But there is nothing more unloving than not telling the truth. And there's no better way of loving people than telling the truth. So truth telling without love isn't really truth telling, and love without truth telling isn't really love. They must never, ever, ever, ever be pulled apart. In sum one, the world doesn't work without truth telling, and truth telling doesn't work without love. Now you see the importance of verse 15. The world's at stake. Point one. Point two. How what does it mean to speak the truth in love? Well, there's. We only have time for a little bit here. James tells us a lot about this, by the way, Proverbs tells us quite a bit about this. This passage tells us to really understand all of what it means to speak the Truth in love. You have to go all over the scripture. But there's two, I'd say, practical principles we're given here. I want to show them to you. And the two practical principles is this. And I'm going to use a word and I'll explain it in a minute. Truthful speech acts. Truthful speak acts never deceive. Loving speech acts always seek to edify. Truthful speech acts never deceive. Loving speech acts never fail to build up or edify. So, first of all, truthful speech acts don't deceive. Now, why do I call these things speech acts? Well, here's the reason why. Because your words are also an action. When I say something, it's not just you shouldn't evaluate what I say just by the content of what I said, because the content of what I said might be technically true. But what am I trying to do with what I'm saying? What is my intention? What's my purpose? You must always evaluate every statement not just by the actual content of what's in the statement, but also by what you're trying to do with the statement. Because you know you can say something which is factually true but designed to deceive. It's factually true, but it's designed to actually put people off the scent. And the reason why even Paul, I think, here, recognizes that when he starts talking about telling the truth, he doesn't just mean giving factually correct statements but not deceive is look at what's the opposite of speaking the truth in Love in verse 14 in 15:15 is speaking the truth in love. What's the opposite in verse 14? Being cunning and crafty. See, those are words that mean trickery. To speak the truth is not just to give factually correct information. It's to not deceive and see all kinds of statements that it might be kind of half truths or even true, but said in such a way as to put people off the scent. You're depriving them of reality, and so you're disempowering them and you're exploiting them. Now, once you begin to realize that a truthful speech act is not just something that's, you know, technically correct, but something that does not deceive, Suddenly, oh, my goodness, there's a whole lot of things that we say that maybe are not truthful speech acts. Whenever I talk about this, I always give you a list of six. Here's six kinds of falsehoods. Untruthful speech acts, all right? Political lies, exaggeration, Word inflation, benevolent lies, Watergate lies, and routine business lies. Okay, first of all, it's political lies. I would love to go, but I won't be home that night. Of course you will be. Here's one. You know, I think your writing is just too sophisticated for our readers when actually it's horrible. It's just horrible. Okay, political lies. Now, exaggeration. The problem with exaggeration is, and by the way, this particular sin is usually used inside marriage because exaggeration, basic, the quintessential exaggerations are you always do that or you never do that. You never, ever, ever. Okay? Now what's bad is that usually there's some grounding in reality. Usually when you say you always do that, that's usually something the other person probably sometimes does. To say you always do it, it grounds it in reality, puts the person at a disadvantage, but then obviously infuriates because it exaggerates. There's political lies, there's exaggeration. You know, thirdly, word inflation. Now you say, what's word inflation? Okay, word inflation is. Oh, it was wonderful. It was great. It was the. Especially Christians. It was a blessing. It was just such a blessing. It was unbelievable. It was. It was awesome. It was unbelievable. It was brilliant. And there are people who use so much word inflation. You say, well, what's wrong with that? That's. Those aren't lies. Well, word inflation means people get cynical. They say, well, that's what that. That's how that person always talks. If I'm going to find reality, I'm going to have to ask somebody else and see. You say, well, those aren't lies. No, but they actually are keeping reality away from people and they make people cynical.
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Those political lies, exaggeration, word inflation, so called benevolent lies. I already talked to you about those. I gave the quintessential example is a family member that you won't confront. And you say it's benevolent, It's I don't want to hurt them. But actually you don't want the displeasure and pain of having to do it. It's really all about you. There's a whole lots of benevolent lies. There's also friends that are incompetent, but you tell them they're competent and. But probably the worst is a failure to confront a family member. Go to first Samuel. Look at Eli. And failing to confront his sons. Look at David. And failing to confront Absalom. And go and see how unbelievable Benevolent, benevolent lives are. Lies are. Excuse me. Fourth, I said Watergate lies. Watergate lies are arrogant lies. Oh, the little people, they don't need to know. But then business lies. And those of you in business, which is this is New York. So lots and lots of you go read a. There's a Tom Peters book. Tom Peters is really good about integrity and business. One place he made, he made a list of about 30 lies that he says virtually happen all the time in business. It was pretty scary. You know, he said, here's three of them I just pulled out. He says, you say publicly our companies offer quality, but privately all your employees know that you have unreasonable deadlines that make it impossible for the employees to make high quality products. Or secondly, you say publicly everything's fine, we're just doing fine. Your employees know it's not. Things are not fine. He just threw this one. And he says you put in a big number of orders right before the end of the quarter because even though you know that most of them will be canceled, it's going to look good for the figures in the that quarter. And to make you look good, there's zillions and zillions and zillions of ways in which maybe they're not lies exactly, but untruthful speech acts, they deceive. So first of all, untruthful speech acts are designed to deceive. Secondly, unloving speech acts are not designed to edify. Look, there's two places where in here we get some more details about what it means to, to be loving in our speech. But One is verse 31, get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every other form of malice. Most commentators would say the Word. Malice is a kind of summary word. And the other words in there are forms of malice, forms of being malicious and without boring you with looking at every single word. Basically, what Paul is forbidding here, basically what he's forbidding here is being caustic, sarcastic, dripping with disdain, belittling and insulting. So he says you might be telling a person the truth, but if you're doing it with this tone, if you're doing it with this attitude, say, where you're belittling and insulting and caustic and sarcastic and dripping with disdain. He says that's not a loving speech. That's not speaking the truth in love. Now, we do know, do we not, that we live in an age in which on social media you are rewarded for that behavior. You're rewarded for that tone. You're rewarded with clicks. So it's always been destructive of human community. Remember, speaking the truth, truth telling without love destroys human community. And yet we live in an era in which one of the main ways we communicate rewards this. But it's not just verse 31. Paul is not only saying that as long as you have a nice tone, as long as you're not sarcastic and as long as you're not caustic, and you know, as long as you have a nice tone of voice and you're telling the truth and that's fine, that's not enough. Speaking the truth in love is not just telling the truth with a nice tone of voice. Verse 29. I have always found the most convicting thing in this whole passage, verse 29. Therefore, do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouth. That doesn't. That's not the word. Untruthful. A word could be true and not be wholesome. What's wholesome mean? It literally means putrefying or decaying. But if you're. We don't have to worry about what Paul means because he tells us, but only that which is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. Ah, okay, here's what this means. You're ready to tell a person the truth and you're going to do it nicely. Tone of voice, not malice, not, you know, caustic, not sarcasm. You're going to tell the person the truth in a nice tone of voice. You're free and clear right to do it. No. Here's what Paul is trying to say. What's your motive right now? What's your motive? Why are you telling that person the truth? And you better look at your motive right now. And you better not make a move until you know what that motive is. Are you telling that person the truth to show that you're in control? Are you telling that person the truth just for the joy of winning the argument because you know you're going to be able to win that argument? Are you telling the person the truth in order to make points with somebody you want to impress? Are you telling that person the truth to feel better about yourself, to feel like you're in charge? Are you telling that person the truth to punish them? Even though you're gonna be nice about it, then don't do it. Find some other time, find some other place. Work your heart until you can do it. Either for A, because you see that they really need it, and B, you know that the way in which you tell this truth, you're trying to get closer to them in a relationship. You're actually trying to draw yourselves together, the two of you together. Rather than divide, do you want to build that person up? Do you want to draw them into relationship? Is it something you really know that would benefit them? Or are you really doing it for yourself? And what Paul is not. Paul's not saying don't tell people the truth. He's just trying to say very often, the timing, the way we do it, the words we choose are all wrong because of our motive. Speak the truth in love. The world doesn't work without truth telling. And truth telling doesn't work unless you're doing it in love. All right, now, last. How can we become people like this? I did a little study, you know, around sociologists and psychologists tell us that we all lie a lot, a lot more than anyone wants to admit. Now, there's a great difference of opinion about how often we lie. And I'm not going to share any of that with you because I couldn't adjudicate between. Between the various claims. I don't think it matters. I don't think. I don't think you. I don't think you can argue with that. There's a tremendous amount of lying going on. There always has been. It's possible that we actually are having a greater amount of it than ever. Certainly speaking the truth in love is going down because I said the way in which communication happens now when you're not so much communication is not face to face, is not even on the phone, just far easier to be doing it in a malicious way than it's ever been. And human community is unraveling. People don't trust institutions anymore. You know, read Robert Putnam's Bowling Alone or our kids, that kind of thing. So we do have a problem. What's the solution? Well, we're not going to know the solution until we figure out what is the cause of the problem. And I can actually tell. I don't think this is that hard to tell you. Whenever you look at people, whenever you look at studies of the types of lies, if you go to find any kind of study that says, here's the kinds of lies, they generally divide into three kinds of lies. Approval seeking lies, power seeking lies, and control seeking lies. Approval seeking lies are things like this, I lie about who I am, had my resume tell you things that aren't true because I want you to like me, or I lie to avoid conflict because I don't want you to dislike me. That's approval seeking lies. Power seeking lies is I lie because by fabricating, by shading, I'm going to make more money, or by lying, I'm going to get you to do things that otherwise you would never do for me. Control seeking lies are partly just wanting to avoid accountability, like, you know, putting all those, putting the Wrong software on 11 million Volkswagens just to make sure that they weren't punished for the emissions that they were and the pollutants they were producing. So, you know, control seeking is just, I want to stay away from punishment. But many times control seeking lies are just. You lie just to get people off your back. You lie just to get them get, just to get, make them get lost. You lie just to get rid of them. You lie so you can feel like I got control over my life. So these people are not on me all the time. All right, now think, why do we lie? We lie to get approval. We lie to get power, we lie to get control. And if we have to exploit people, if we have to lie and exploit people and disempower them in order to get a power, Approval and control, we're gonna do it. Why? Because of the inner neediness of the human soul. We can't live without approval and we don't have it. We're not sure. We're not sure that we're okay. See, we can't live without power and influence. We can't live without control. We can't live without these things. And over and over and over again, every single day, you're gonna have to choose between telling the truth and losing approval, power and control. And you're not going to do that because human beings can't live without approval. Power and control. What's the solution? Well, the solution is this. You've got to have approval, power and control that comes to you. It's in such astonishing proportions and degrees, and that you are assured of it and you know you have it, so that you never have to lie again. Now, how does that happen? Verse 32. In verse 32, it says, Be kind and compassion to one another, forgiving each other, just as Christ in Christ, God forgave you. Now, for years I thought Paul was sort of changing the subject. It seemed like a Tag on verse 32. Here he's talking about truth and love, truth and love, truth and love. And suddenly he says, oh, and by the way, forgive as Christ forgave you, as God in Christ forgave you. And I used to think, oh, my goodness. Well, that, you know, it seems like God, He. Paul's sort of changing the subject. Postscript, maybe? No, I now realize this. The quintessential example of combining truth and love is forgiveness. Do you want to forgive somebody? Do you want the joy, relief and healing of forgiveness? You have to do two things. First of all, you've got to. Number one, you've got to absolutely tell the truth. Be honest. Be honest. This person hurt you. Be honest. What the cost is. See, a lot of us, I'm one of them. One of the ways I have a tendency to try to forgive people is, oh, it's okay, no problem. Don't worry. It doesn't bother me. It didn't bother me a bit. That didn't hurt me at all. No sweat. I don't even have to bring it up to them. I'm not being honest. See, if you're going to. And then at the same time, in your heart, you're kind of like, you know, it's darkened your heart. See, a lot of times, the way in which we fail to forgive is we're not honest. You need to be honest. Make a full assessment of the wrong that was done, the wrong that was done, and the cost of that wrong. Make a full assessment of it and tell the truth to yourself. And tell the truth maybe to the other person, but then love the person by bearing the cost yourself when the perpetrator. You have an opportunity to make the perpetrator pay by making them uncomfortable, don't do it. When you've got an opportunity to make the perpetrator pay by tearing down the reputation of other people, don't do it. When you have an opportunity to sort of sit around and nurse your grudge inside your heart against the perpetrator, don't do it. And Every time you don't do it, it hurts. It hurts. You want to make them pay, and you don't do it. And you know why it hurts? Because you're paying it. You're paying for it. You're paying the cost. See, forgiveness is being absolutely honest and then being absolutely loving. And the more you pay, that is to say, the more you refrain and refrain and refrain from making the other person pay and you bear it, eventually the anger goes away. And through truth and love, you can forgive. And you say, my goodness, that's so hard. Not. Paul doesn't say just forgive. He says forgive as God in Christ forgave you. You want to. Let's watch, huh? Watch. Let's watch Christ forgiving you. Why did he go to the cross? First reason he went to the cross is a commitment to truth. He was so holy. He was. Why did Christ did not look down at all the evil in this world and say, oh, well, you know, human beings. There you go. What do you. No, they're just like that. Don't worry about it. Overlook it. No, he was so committed to the truth, to a true assessment of the wrong and the evil. He went to the cross because it has to be paid for. That's a commitment to truth. But he went to the cross out of love, to pay for it himself. You know, if somebody you don't know very well rejects you, that hurts a little. If somebody you know well rejects you, that hurts a lot. If your spouse or your parent or your sibling or your child rejects you, that. That seems to hurt. That just inflicts a wound you feel like will never be healed. But we have no idea. The greatest love relationship in the history of the world cannot even compare to the Father and the Son who, who have known and loved each other infinitely, perfectly through all eternity. And on the cross for our sake, the Son lost that. My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me? He experienced an agony. He was paying the infinite debt. I don't know how much that pain was, but it probably would be like millions of eternities in hell, all rolled up into one, all coming down on him at once. And In John chapter 18, when Pilate, the Roman imperial governor, looks at Jesus Christ and says, are you a king then? And Jesus knows if he tells the truth, he's dead. More than dead. He's in agony. So Pilate says, are you a king then? Now Jesus could have said nothing, you know, which. Often he didn't say anything. Or he could have said, well, I'm just a King in their hearts, you know. You know what he said to Pilate? He says, yes, I'm a king, and I've come into this world to testify to the truth. And he was dead. Why did he do that for you? Look, don't look at Jesus Christ as an example of truth telling. Oh, you say, look at how wonderful he told the truth, no matter what the cost. Be like Jesus. That'll just crush you. You can't live up to that. But if you see him saving you through his truth telling, he loves you so much that he was willing to die on the cross for you. There's the approval. His love will fill you up in a way that no one else's love could possibly. There's the power. You've got the Lord of the Universe on your side, working everything out in your life according to his good plan for you. There's control. And now, finally, you've got approval and you have power and control. You never, ever, ever need to lie to get. In fact, lying is actually going to weaken your connection to it. You know, Pinocchio is the scariest Walt Disney movie ever made. You know why? Pinocchio, of course, is an animated puppet, but he's actually suspended between two possibilities. You know that. The one is, he's told, you know, if he lies, he not only becomes more of a puppet, more of a caricature, but, you know, one of the most horrible and most horrifying, scary passages of any children's movie ever made is the fact that if the boys lie and cheat and do all these bad things, they become animals, they become donkeys. And see, Pinocchio, if he doesn't tell the truth and doesn't live according to the truth, can actually become less than an animated puppet and actually become an animal who can't talk and think or. And he's told. If you care for the truth, if you tell the truth and you live according to the truth, then you can become a real boy. And of course, there's a lot of truth in that from a Christian point of view. But basically, Pinocchio saves himself. He tells the truth. He lives for the truth with the help of Jiminy Cricket and the Blue Fairy. Basically, he does it himself and he wins. He becomes the true boy. Transformation. He's transformed. Well, here's what the book of Ephesians is going to tell you. Here's what Jesus is going to tell you. If you think that you can bring about transformation by just being a truth teller in your own power, you'll never do it. Never you'll want approval and power and control so much that you sometimes will lie to get it. You'll never do it. But you know what Jesus Christ is trying to say. You know, Pinocchio gets this grace that comes out of the sky when he becomes, when he. When he, when he, you know, tells the truth and lives for the truth and sacrifices dies for the truth. And his little grace comes on down and he becomes real. Jesus says, I earn that grace for you. You could never earn it yourself. My grace will come down and you'll become your true self. You will become real. So believe in me. Believe in me. Go to him. Let's pray. Our Father, we thank you that if we are members of a truth telling, loving community, we will become more and more transformed into the likeness of your son and Father. We thank you that we have the prospects for that here at Redeemer. We have a prospect for that here on the east side. But we ask that you would help us realize that you would make us more and more conform to the image of your son through speaking the truth and love to each other. And Father, we do ask that you would transform us into our true selves so that we can become more and more like your son in whose name we pray. Amen.
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Detailed Summary of "Love and Truth" – Timothy Keller Sermon on Gospel in Life Podcast
Introduction
In the episode titled "Love and Truth" from the Timothy Keller Sermons Podcast by Gospel in Life, Tim Keller delves into the profound relationship between love and truth within the Christian faith. Building on his extensive theological background as the founder of Redeemer Presbyterian Church and author of "The Reason for God," Keller explores how Christianity transcends being merely an ethical system to foster supernatural transformation in believers. This summary captures the essence of his sermon, highlighting key discussions, insights, and conclusions.
1. True Transformation Through the Gospel
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“True transformation isn't about adopting a set of rules. It's about a heart changed by the gospel.”
— Tim Keller [00:04]
Keller opens by emphasizing that genuine transformation in a believer's life is not achieved merely through adhering to a moral code or set of rules. Instead, it is rooted in a profound heart change inspired by the gospel of Jesus Christ. This heart change leads to a supernatural transformation that reflects Christlike character.
2. Understanding Love in Biblical Context
Keller references 1 Corinthians 13—commonly known as the "love chapter" often associated with weddings—not to discuss matrimonial love, but to highlight how love signifies a heart transformed by the gospel. He points out that Paul was addressing the possibility of individuals being deeply religious, knowledgeable, and morally upright yet lacking a heart transformed by genuine love.
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“Paul was not thinking about weddings when he wrote that. What he was talking about was the fact that it's possible to be very religious, to be very filled with biblical knowledge, to be quite active in ministry, to be very moral, and not have a supernaturally changed heart.”
— Tim Keller [02:12]
Keller underscores that true love, as defined by Paul, serves as evidence of a supernatural change within an individual, moving beyond mere religious observance to embody Christ's character.
3. Integrity and Truth-Telling in Ephesians
Transitioning to Ephesians 4:14-15, 25-32, Keller explores the themes of truth-telling and integrity within the Christian community. He highlights Paul's message that Christians should grow beyond spiritual infancy, maturing into the "body of Christ" through speaking truth in love.
4. The Cultural Crisis of Integrity
Keller illustrates the contemporary crisis of integrity using the Volkswagen emissions scandal as a case study. He explains how Volkswagen's deliberate deception by installing software to falsify emission results epitomizes a profound failure of integrity, reflecting broader societal tendencies toward dishonesty.
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“That's a pretty astonishing lack, failure of integrity of one of the great companies, business corporations in the world.”
— Tim Keller [02:12]
This example serves to demonstrate the erosion of truthfulness in modern institutions and the critical need for integrity within communities.
5. The Necessity of Truth and Love in Community
Keller argues that truth-telling and love are indispensable for the functioning of any community. Without truth, trust disintegrates, leading to the collapse of social structures and relationships. Conversely, love without truth can become enabling or self-serving, ultimately harming individuals and communities.
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“The world's at stake. Point one. Point two.”
— Tim Keller [18:58]
He stresses that both truth and love must coexist to foster healthy, unified communities.
6. Defining Truth-Telling and Love
Keller distinguishes between truthful and untruthful speech acts and between loving and unloving speech acts:
Truthful Speech Acts:
Never deceive; entail honesty and transparency.
“Truthful speech acts never deceive.”
— Tim Keller [02:12]
Loving Speech Acts:
Aim to edify and build up others.
“Loving speech acts always seek to edify.”
— Tim Keller [02:12]
He warns that truth without love can become harsh or manipulative, while love without truth can be enabling or self-centered.
7. Practical Principles for Speaking Truth in Love
Keller offers practical guidance on how to speak truth in love:
Evaluate Motives:
Assess why you are communicating a particular truth. Is it to build up or to serve selfish interests?
Intentionality:
Ensure that the intention behind truth-telling is to nurture and strengthen relationships, not to shame or control others.
Constructive Communication:
Use tone and language that are kind and compassionate, avoiding sarcasm, disdain, or belittling remarks.
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“Speak the truth in love […] you have to look at your motive right now.”
— Tim Keller [19:54]
8. Overcoming the Temptation to Lie: Root Causes
Keller identifies three primary motivations that drive individuals to lie:
Approval-Seeking Lies:
Lies told to gain acceptance or avoid conflict.
Power-Seeking Lies:
Lies used to gain advantage, influence, or control over others.
Control-Seeking Lies:
Lies intended to evade accountability or manipulate situations to one's benefit.
He posits that these lies stem from deep-seated human needs for approval, power, and control, which are often unmet in authentic and fulfilling ways.
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“We have to choose between telling the truth and losing approval, power, and control. And you're not going to do that because human beings can't live without approval. Power and control.”
— Tim Keller [19:54]
9. The Role of Christ's Grace in Transformation
The crux of Keller's message centers on the belief that only through the grace of Christ can individuals overcome their inherent need for approval, power, and control. He argues that Christ's sacrifice provides believers with the assurance and empowerment needed to live truthfully without succumbing to the temptations that lead to deceit.
Using the story of Pinocchio, Keller illustrates that transformation and truth-telling cannot be achieved solely through human effort but require divine grace:
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“If you think that you can bring about transformation by just being a truth-teller in your own power, you'll never do it.”
— Tim Keller [19:54]
He emphasizes that Christ’s grace fills the believer with the necessary approval, power, and control, eliminating the compulsion to lie.
10. Forgiveness as a Combination of Truth and Love
Keller concludes by linking the concepts of truth and love to the practice of forgiveness. He explains that true forgiveness involves:
Truthful Assessment:
Acknowledging and honestly addressing the harm caused.
Loving Compassion:
Refraining from seeking revenge or holding onto grudges, thereby embodying Christ’s forgiveness.
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“Forgiveness is being absolutely honest and then being absolutely loving.”
— Tim Keller [19:54]
He illustrates this with the example of Jesus Christ, who maintained a commitment to truth even unto death, demonstrating ultimate love through His sacrifice.
Conclusion
Tim Keller's sermon on "Love and Truth" intricately weaves together the necessity of integrity and love in fostering authentic Christian communities. By grounding his arguments in biblical scripture and contemporary examples, Keller highlights the indispensable role of truth-telling infused with love in achieving true transformation. He calls believers to rely on Christ's grace to overcome human tendencies toward deceit, advocating for a life that embodies both honest truth and compassionate love.
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“Our Father, we thank you that if we are members of a truth-telling, loving community, we will become more and more transformed into the likeness of your son and Father.”
— Tim Keller [39:28]
This prayer encapsulates the sermon's call to action: striving for a community where truth and love coalesce to reflect the character of Christ, leading to profound personal and communal transformation.
Final Thoughts
In "Love and Truth," Tim Keller presents a compelling narrative that challenges believers to introspect on their motives and strive for genuine integrity within their communities. By emphasizing that true transformation is heart-driven and reliant on divine grace, Keller offers a roadmap for living a life that authentically mirrors the love and truth central to the Christian faith.