Tim Keller (19:25)

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Tim Keller (20:37)

I don't even know anymore whether they do this procedure, but I remember years ago when I was in my little town in Virginia, I had to go through a procedure where they pump you filled with a particular fluid before they X ray you so that they, I guess, can see the various things they want to see, which means you're very uncomfortable when they put you up on the table to do the X ray. And I remember years ago, the X ray technician in this little hospital where I was going was a member of my church and was not. He was a young man and he was pretty brusque and pretty ungentle and pretty, you know, didn't have a very good bedside manner. And of course, being his pastor, I was afraid to say anything. And I remember about three or four years later, I came back and I had to have something like the same procedure again. And there he was. And I, you know, I, I held my breath, but he was very different. And I said something about it. I said, you know, your bedside manner has changed. And he said, he says, two years ago I had a kidney stone and I went into a hospital and I was up on the table and I, you know, I went through a lot of these procedures and I had no idea what patients really go through. And he says, I'm never going to be treating my patients the same way now that I've been on the table. Now, the only religion in the world that says the Lord, the Creator, Lord of the universe has been on the table is Christianity. Jesus has been rejected. Jesus has been grieved. Jesus knows grief and loss and rejection and pain and torture and death and misunderstanding. Jesus knows it. He's been there. And not only that, we all know that suffering is somewhat relative to our experience. I mean, if you're, if you're a child living in dirt, poverty, you know, just dirt poor somewhere. But if you've never seen anything else, and maybe you've never even, not only never known anything else, but you've never seen anybody else live any better than you, you know, you're suffering, but you're not suffering anything Like a person who once lived in the lap of luxury and lived in beauty and lived in absolute exquisiteness and now has been thrown into a dungeon, right? A person who's lost something incredible now suffers more in a particular condition than someone else who's never known anything else but that condition. But then think about what Jesus had. No one could have ever experienced the same darkness that he experienced when he was, when he was rejected, when he was killed. Jesus knows. He's been on the table. And in some ways he knows more than you and I about what we're going through. But then secondly, it says, but without sin. And when you, some people read that and they say, oh, wait a minute, wait a minute. If he doesn't know without sin if he was perfect, well then obviously he doesn't know what it's like, you know, he can't put himself in our shoes. You're missing the point. Let me just speak for myself. I don't want to speak for you, but let me speak for myself. It's my self absorption. It's my self pity, it's my self centeredness. It's my sin that makes it hard for me to put myself in other people's shoes. You know, I don't want to think about them. I don't want to. I don't, you know, I've got my own problems. But Jesus is perfect love. There's no barrier. And that means he knows. He knows he loves you better than you love yourself. And far more wisely, he completely finds because he's perfect. Because he's been here and he's experienced what we've experienced. And he's perfect love. He absolutely is sucked down deep into our pain and feels it with us. Yeah, look at him. Read the Bible. He's always weeping. He's always weeping. He's always sighing. In Mark, chapter seven, when he heals the deaf mute, he sighs, why God, with all of his power, why does he lets himself be drained by us? Jairus, daughter. Remember Jairus, a little. Has a little girl, and she died. And Jairus comes to him, comes to Jesus and says, my child has died. Jesus goes with Jairus and his wife goes back into the room. I mean, he could have just said. But he goes into the room and he sits down and he says, talitha kumi, which means basically, honey, it's time to get up. And he touches her hand as if she's just sleeping. And because he touches her hand, she is. The tenderness and the gentleness of Jesus is everywhere. Have you been betrayed? So is he. Have you been mocked? So is he. Have you been broke? Are you broke? So is he. He's been through it all. But to me, the best and the most wonderful of all the examples of Jesus ultimate counseling is the woman caught in adultery. In John, chapter eight, the woman caught in adultery. Now, do you remember there's a woman who's been caught in adultery, and they're about to stone her, execute her. And Jesus deals with her accusers and says, let him who's without sin cast the first stone. You know, sends them away. But then he looks at her and here's what he says. Neither do I condemn thee. Go and sin no more. Now look at that. There is the ultimate counselor. There's the wonderful counselor, and there is the perfect balance of truth and tears. And not just balance, but intermingling of it. He doesn't say, does he? I don't condemn you, because who's to say what sin is? We all have to work these things out for ourselves. No, on the other hand, he doesn't say. He doesn't say, go and sin no more. You've sinned. I got. You are such trash. I got you out of. You know, I got you off this time, but don't ever let it happen again. No. And he doesn't say, if you go and sin no more, maybe I won't condemn you. He does not say, I base my love on your behavior. He says, I want you to base your behavior on my love. I don't condemn you. Now, therefore, go and sin no more. There it is it's utterly perfect. Absolute, complete hatred of sin, absolute, complete love and acceptance of the sinner at the same time. Now, how can that be? I mean, that's what you need. That's what I need. How can you do that? Here's why. Chapter five, verse six, second, last verse on the page. You are a priest forever in the order of Melchizedek. Now, what in the world does that mean? Here's what it means. In the Old Testament, one thing you never, ever, ever see is a priest who is a king or a king who is a priest. There are no priest kings. There is no human being that combines the two together. You know, why? Think about it. The king represented God to the people. The king, the law, told the law and enforced the law. But the priest represented the people to God. The priest was the caregiver. The priest was the supporter. The priest was the one who accepted. The priest was the one who sympathized and who dealt gently. See, as it says there. And so how in the world could you possibly combine those two things in the same person? The king was the person of truth and the priest was the person of tears. And how could you. I mean, and practically, how could you do them together? I mean, you know, kings were like stern fathers telling you where to toe the line. And priests were like wonderful mothers who just love you no matter what you do. So it's impossible to put the two together, except, as we said, you need the two together. And there's one little mysterious place in the Bible where a person shows up who's a priest king. It's way back in the. In the bowels of the book of Genesis. It happens very quickly in the life of Abraham where Abraham meets a guy named Melchizedek. And this Melchizedek is a king of a city who offers sacrifices to the Lord. He's a priest king. He's a king who's a priest. And he shows up for a couple verses and he leaves. And no one knows who he is. He's gone. You know, and everybody said, what was that? But the book of Hebrews says it was a foretaste because the true priest king has come. Jesus is not just a priest. He's not just a king, He's a priest king. And if we don't have both, we are lost. He is absolutely committed to holiness and to truth. And he's absolutely committed to love and acceptance at the very same time. Well, you say, now that's impossible. You know why it's impossible? Because people are going to Fail, Isn't that right? People are going to fail. Everybody's going to fail at some point. And so in the end, if you're counseling people, you either have to put truth over tears and just say, I'm going to make you pay, or you have to put tears over truth and say, well, you know, you're flawed and I can't do anything about it. That's just the way it is. You know, it's either truth over tears or tears over truth. It can't be both. Can't be both. Priest and king both, you know, truth and tears. It just can't be. But Jesus said it will be. Now, how could Jesus be the priest king? How could he bring the two together on the cross? Chapter 5, verse 7, last verse. During the days of Jesus life on earth, he offered up prayers and petitions with loud cries and tears to the one who could save him from death. When did that happen? When did Jesus Christ cry out to God, save me from death? When did he scream? When did he agonize? When did he pray in loud crying and tears? There's only one place where that happened. Happened in the Garden of Gethsemane. It happened on the cross. Why? Because on the cross, Jesus Christ took what he calls the cup, the cup of eternal justice. And because he experienced the cup of eternal justice, because he took the penalty that the human race deserved. Here's what you saw. Infinite love was honoring infinite justice. Infinite love was honoring infinite truth. If Jesus Christ had been a lord of truth over tears, he wouldn't have had to die on the cross. He would have just let us die. But if Jesus Christ had been a lord of tears over truth, he wouldn't have needed to die. He would have just said, I accept you. You're flawed and you're a mess. But that's just the way it's going to be. But he didn't do that. The Bible, as John Newton put it, to see the law by love fulfilled and hear his pardoning voice transforms a slave into a child and duty into choice. And now you know why he was able to talk to the woman caught in adultery the way he did. He says, neither do I condemn thee. Go and sin no more. That makes no sense. Because it was sin. He said it was a sin. So she's guilty, but he doesn't condemn her. She's guilty, but he doesn't condemn her. How could that be? Because he took the condemnation. Can you imagine what he must have been thinking when he said to her, neither do I condemn thee. Go and Sin no more. He's saying, sister, you're not getting stoned because I'm going to get executed. I will get the stones, I will get the spears, I will get the thorns, I will get the nails so that I can, at infinite cost to myself, hate the sin and love the sinner at infinite cost to myself, separate the sinner from the sin. He's the wonderful counselor. He's the ultimate counselor. He's the only thing that your heart really, really, really, really needs. Now, how do we get this? We need it, don't we? We gotta have this. How do we get it? Three ways now, by the way, first of all, let me just say something. You may. A lot of you are saying, gosh, a whole sermon on counseling. Are you trying to say we all need to go get counseling? Well, when you and I think of counseling, we think of professional counseling. And guess what? This would help. There's a lot of you if you don't understand the gospel of what Jesus has done for you. If you don't really know Jesus as your ultimate wonderful counselor, you're either going to be too proud to ever admit you need to go for counseling and you never do, or, on the other hand, you might be too dependent on it, you know, too dependent on your therapist. So actually, this. This helps in many, many ways. But this, this is not talking about professional counseling. And I have been talking about it. Here's what I've been talking about. Number one, you have to get this three ways. The counseling you need comes three ways. Number one, you need to be saved. I know for Presbyterian ministers to say this, you know, it's just. It's, you know, it's hard, but you need to be saved. What I mean by that is not that you just believe in your head, oh, I believe that Jesus is the son of God. No. Have you received Christ as your personal counselor? That's what it means to be a Christian. It means to allow Jesus, because of his tears, to tell you the truth, because you see how he was broken and shattered for you. You're willing to finally admit you don't just need a little bit of help, but that you are an absolute failure. And it's, think, take responsibility. Think of him broken and shattered for you, and see what he had to do in order to not condemn you. And that will begin, as he says to the woman, that will begin to shrink the tumors of pride and fear that are distorting your life. Religion is, go and sin no more, and maybe I won't condemn you, but the gospel is neither do I condemn you. Go and sin no more. It completely separates the sin from the sinner and it's the ministry of truth and tears. Have you done that? Have you let him do that? So you need to be saved. Secondly, besides salvation, you also need communal sanctification. You know what I mean by communal sanctification? Well, there it is. I've been referring to it the whole time. It's in verse 13. Counsel one another, encourage one another daily. Now the word, by the way, parakaleo, which can be translated encouragement, actually means to come alongside para and kaleo, to yell, to come alongside friend and to scream at each other. No, it's not quite. What it really means is it's a mixture. It is a mixture of truth and tears. But here's what it's saying. You need to get the exhortation of Jesus through one another. Now there's a whole lot of places where this word encourage or exhortation or counsel. This parakaleo comes up in the book of Hebrews as coming from scripture. Hebrews chapter 12 quotes Proverbs and says this is God's word of exhortation. The parakaleo to you See, are you being moved at all by this sermon? It's not the sermon. Are you being helped in any way by the sermon? It's not the preacher, it's the Holy Spirit counseling you about Jesus through the scripture. And in this case I'm standing in as a person who's encouraging you today. But this, according to this, we have got to let Jesus turn us into small versions of himself so that we can give it to each other what we've gotten from him. See, if you're a fixer by nature, you know, you're a little bit on the self righteous side. You need the gospel to humble you into being able to feel as well. And if you're a feeler by nature, you're kind of a coward. You need the gospel to show you you don't need people's approval that you're able to not think about so much how you look. See, the gospel will turn fixers into also feelers and feelers and also fixers so we can give it to each other. And that's how we do it. Especially when we study God's word of exhortation, the Scripture, and let the Holy Spirit speak through us to each other. We desperately need it. Lastly, I said you get it through salvation, you get it through communal sanctification and you get it through duration. What do I mean by duration? Look at the very last, very last sentence. During the days of Jesus life on earth, he offered up prayers and petitions with loud cries and tears to the one who could save him from death. And he was heard. Now, wait a minute, wait a minute. When he was in the garden, Gethsemane, he says, don't. I don't want to die. I don't want to take the cup. I don't want to deliver me from death. That's what he says. He was asking to be saved from death. And it says he was heard. He went to the cross, didn't he? Commentators have been trying to figure out this verse for quite a long time, by the way, because it seems to be saying something that didn't happen. But it did. Jesus has to be delivered from death. And God did deliver from death through the resurrection. In other words, Jesus Christ asked for something, and God, in a sense, gave him what he asked for, but not the way he'd asked for it. And look, when you're in the wilderness, are you in it right now? Do you feel like I'm asking God for things and he's just not coming through? God's letting things happen that I don't understand. God seems to be asleep. He seems to not care. He seems to be away. The Lord you pray to has also been in the wilderness. He spent 40 days in the wilderness. He was tempted by Satan. But most of all, Jesus was abandoned by the Father. Jesus prayed a prayer and didn't get what he asked for. Jesus went through all the wilderness experience you're going through, but don't you see? He did it for you. See, that's different. This is not just a general religion in which you're asked, trust God. Because even though you don't understand why things are happening the way they are, he's very inscrutable. You just have to trust him. Well, the one we're praying to has been in the wilderness. He went through all of this for you. And in the end, his suffering was redemptive. In the end, he was heard, but he wasn't heard. But he really was. And you have to realize that God's hearing you now, even though you don't think he is. You have to realize God's using this and going to use this in a redemptive way, even though you don't think he is. He went through the wilderness for you. You surely can endure the wilderness for him. Why not trust this wonderful counselor? Let us pray. Thank you, Father, for giving us what we need to get through the wilderness. You've given it to us, first of all in your son, the wonderful and ultimate counselor. And secondly, you turn us by our relationship with him into counselors for each other as well. And it's only if we live in a community of people doing that all the time with us and around us. Only if we know your son savingly, spiritually, powerfully as our wonderful counselor can we make it through the wilderness. But we know that we can. And we ask that you would help us to apply this to our lives. By your Holy Spirit, in Jesus name we pray. Amen.

Tim Keller (39:35)

Thank you for joining us today. If you were encouraged by today's teaching, please rate and review it so more people can discover this podcast. And to find more great gospel centered content by Tim Keller, visit gospeloflife.com Today's sermon was recorded in 2005. The sermons and talks you hear on the Gospel in Life podcast were preached from 1989 to 2017 while Dr. Keller was senior pastor at Redeemer Presbyterian Church SA.