Ep 1005 | The Billy Graham Rule: Is It Wrong for Unmarried Men & Women to Be Alone Together?

Summary

Podcast Summary: Ep 1005 | The Billy Graham Rule: Is It Wrong for Unmarried Men & Women to Be Alone Together?

Introduction Unashamed with the Robertson Family returns for its milestone 1005th episode, diving deep into both personal anecdotes and profound theological discussions. Hosted by the Robertson family members—Phil, Al, Jase, Zach—and their special guests, this episode balances light-hearted stories with meaningful insights into Christian faith and relationships.

Duck Hunting Stories and Personal Anecdotes The episode kicks off with Jase Robertson recounting his recent duck hunting expedition, a recurring theme that often serves as a backdrop for broader life lessons.

• Jase’s Hunting Experience ([01:27]–[08:32]) Jase narrates a humorous yet insightful story about a challenging duck hunt with friends, including a man affectionately known as Jersey Joe. The slow-moving boat caused by three heavy men at the front leads Jase to make a candid remark:

  “One of you fat boys move back so we can get to the bank before dark.” ([02:58])

  This comment, though initially hurtful, becomes a catalyst for positive change, inspiring Jersey Joe to lose 50 pounds. The story underscores themes of accountability, friendship, and personal growth.

• Additional Hunting Tales ([10:12]–[16:18]) The conversation shifts to another successful hunt in Arkansas, where Jase shares the excitement of pursuing elusive ducks. These stories not only entertain but also highlight the camaraderie and challenges faced by the Robertson family during their outdoor adventures.

Transition into Theological Discussion As the hunting tales wind down, the conversation seamlessly transitions into a deeper exploration of Christian theology, focusing on identity in Christ and the role of the Holy Spirit.

Identity in Christ and Biblical Passages The core of the episode revolves around understanding and living out one's identity as a follower of Christ, drawing heavily from Biblical scriptures.

• Exploring John 14:2 ([16:19]–[22:03]) Jase delves into John 14:2, discussing Jesus' promise of preparing a place for believers and the fulfillment of Old Testament prophecies. He emphasizes:

  “He makes his home now here within us.” ([47:53])

  This highlights the indwelling of Christ through the Holy Spirit, shaping believers' identities and actions.

• Colossians and Romans Insights ([22:03]–[54:37]) The discussion moves to Colossians, where Al breaks down the verses into three sections: desires, reactions, and language. This breakdown illustrates how earthly behaviors contrast with living a life guided by the Holy Spirit.

  Zach adds depth by comparing these Biblical principles to contemporary cultural challenges, such as identity crises and the struggle against worldly desires. He states:

  “The spirit of Christ is living in you, then he who raised Jesus from the dead will also give life to your mortal body.” ([25:55])

  This underscores the transformative power of the Holy Spirit in overcoming sin and embracing one's true identity.

Personal Experiences and Application The Roberts family intertwines their personal experiences with theological teachings, making the discussion relatable and actionable.

• Jase’s Personal Spiritual Journey ([43:10]–[51:10]) Jase shares a poignant moment from his youth where he mistakenly perceived a gesture as a sign from Jesus, leading to a profound realization of his faith. He reflects:

  “I have his spirit. And I'm moving on. I'm not going to be involved in this. The buck just stopped here.” ([50:42])

  This story illustrates the practical application of living out one's faith with integrity and wisdom.

• Brandon and Zach on Living in Christ ([27:17]–[54:37]) Both Brandon and Zach discuss the implications of embodying Christ's virtues in daily life. Brandon emphasizes:

  “Be killing sin or sin will be killing you.” ([25:55])

  Meanwhile, Zach explores the concept of identity beyond self-centered desires, advocating for a life centered on worshiping God rather than succumbing to societal pressures.

Conclusion The episode wraps up by reinforcing the importance of aligning one's identity with Christ, rejecting worldly temptations, and fostering genuine relationships grounded in faith. The Robertson family encourages listeners to seek deeper understanding and practical application of Biblical teachings in their lives.

Notable Quotes:

• Jase Robertson on Accountability ([02:58]):

  “One of you fat boys move back so we can get to the bank before dark.”

• Zach Dasher on Identity and Transformation ([25:55]):

  “The spirit of Christ is living in you, then he who raised Jesus from the dead will also give life to your mortal body.”

• Brandon on Overcoming Sin ([25:55]):

  “Be killing sin or sin will be killing you.”

• Jase Robertson on Faith in Action ([50:42]):

  “I have the Holy Spirit. We're out here. This is what this is about.”

Closing Thoughts Unashamed with the Robertson Family masterfully blends entertaining stories with deep theological insights, offering listeners both enjoyment and spiritual growth. Whether you're tuning in for the duck hunting tales or the profound discussions on Christian identity, this episode provides valuable lessons on living a life unashamed of faith.

Transcript

[Phil Robertson]

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[Jase Robertson]

What about you?

[Al Robertson]

Welcome back to Unashamed. We've explained this to you before, to you. You've had a day or two in between. We just have five minutes. We're kind of continuing our discussion. Jace. We realized we were getting ready to roll back in. We started your duck hunting story and somehow we got into dad and everything else.

[Jase Robertson]

Then we never finished.

[Al Robertson]

We never finished. It's another unfinished story.

[Jase Robertson]

Well, we were talking about, you know, one of the guys that Phil was instrumental in bringing to the Lord was a guy that we know affectionately as Jersey Joe. And I've helped him in his growth process, not just being a Christian, but just learning how to be a Louisiana person.

[Al Robertson]

Right? Which he now considers himself to be. He's full Louisiana.

[Jase Robertson]

And it was a bumpy relationship at first. The. It took us a few months to get over me saying which. This is going to sound horrible, what I said, and maybe I probably should have said it better, but we're men. We're in a boat. And there were three very large men in the front of the boat and the boat was moving at 1 mile per hour. I told this story in a previous podcast. And the reason it was going that slow is because these three heavy men were on the front of the boat and they're so heavy that it actually had the propeller of the motor out of the water. And I waited five minutes. As we're drifting, we're just drifting toward.

[Al Robertson]

The bank and the propellers. Above the water.

[Jase Robertson]

Above the water. Because I was waiting for one of them to realize we're never getting to the bank unless somebody moves back so the propeller can go under the water.

[Al Robertson]

But nobody wanted to be that person.

[Jase Robertson]

But nobody moved and nobody thought of it. They're all. They're not talking, or they're all just looking. And we're literally moving at the pace of the wind. And so at this point, you're adrift in my. In that moment of frustration, I said, hey. And they all turned around. I went, hey. They all turned around. I said, one of you fat boys move back so we can get to the bank before dark. Well, then they all froze, because who.

[Al Robertson]

Wants to be the fat?

[Jase Robertson]

Who wants to say, oh, he must have been talking to you.

[Al Robertson]

So, you know.

[Jase Robertson]

So Jersey gets up and moves right beside me, and he said, I think we need to work on our relationship. Well, I laughed and I said, well, I was only kidding, but y'all are large individuals, and it was a physics problem. So, you know, I learned it from the best.

[Al Robertson]

Because dad would say, hey, too many honey buns.

[Jase Robertson]

Well, Right.

[Al Robertson]

Too many honey buns.

[Jase Robertson]

So I confess later, because I hurt his feelings. I said, well. Well, I probably could have worded that better. So I apologize. But he was like, no, you were right. You were right. We should have thought about we're never going to get to the back. I was more concerned about that.

[Zach Dasher]

I don't think a Jersey is a big boy, though. Is he a big boy?

[Al Robertson]

He's gotten a little bit big. He'd put on a few.

[Jase Robertson]

I think he's a lot smaller now. That helped propel him, thanks to.

[Brandon]

You.

[Jase Robertson]

See what I did there? It helped propel him to drop a bag of corn, which weighs 50 pounds. So. So that had happened. So today, you know, we went duck hunting. I didn't finish the story. So Jersey came and another guy. And so we go. We only shot five ducks. We don't have a lot of ducks, even though our opening day was really good.

[Al Robertson]

Yeah.

[Jase Robertson]

And so we get back to the bank today, no problems. Now, he did raise up, and he said he thought he heard somebody say, get him. Which no one said. And there was a duck that had made two. Two circles and was going away. I thought, he's fixed to turn back and come. And I just hear, boom. And I look out in the decoys, because I'm thinking, nobody's shooting in the decoys. But Jersey said he thought he heard somebody say, get him. So he shot at that duck, which, in my opinion, was out of range, and he didn't get him.

[Zach Dasher]

Well, did he hit him? No.

[Jase Robertson]

He said. I thought I heard some. Somebody say something. He said, my bad. So I didn't. Yeah, I thought, you know, we all. Yeah, I didn't say anything because I would get upset.

[Zach Dasher]

Somebody called you fat boy?

[Al Robertson]

No, it happens all the time, so.

[Jase Robertson]

Well, I told you. Look, I'm not saying I was justified in doing that. I just thought, we're all men. This is kind of funny that none of them are moving, but I. You know, I probably shouldn't have said that, so. But it. It kind of helped our relationship, and it caused him to lose 50 pounds. So here we go.

[Al Robertson]

It's just motivation.

[Jase Robertson]

We get back to the bank.

[Zach Dasher]

Very kind of you.

[Jase Robertson]

We get back to the bank, we have five ducks, and Jersey said, oh, no. I said, what? He said, I left my. What do you call those little cameras? I left a GoPro in the blind. Well, he's from New Jersey. He's never operated a mud motor. And most people that I've seen operate it for the first time. The first thing they do is run into a tree. So I said, well, there's a piro. Have you ever been in one of those? And he said, yeah, yeah. I said, well, you know, the way I said, now, if you tump it over, if you. If you turn the boat over, which is a very serious. I mean, a very likely scenario. I said, remember these two words. Stand up. It's not over. He was looking like, are we. Are you seriously recommending that? I said, I got. We're going to do podcasts. I don't have time to drive back and get it because it's pretty good ways away. And he. And he says, well, I said, it'll be an adventure.

[Al Robertson]

So you're encouraging him?

[Jase Robertson]

Yeah. Or I just said, or the next time I'm up there, I'll pick it up. He said, no, I need that tomorrow. I said, well, there's a P. Row and there's a paddle. And so right before we started this podcast, I heard him pull up there because I was a little worried about him. I thought, you know, it's an adventure, but I want him to come out safely.

[Zach Dasher]

You want him to live?

[Al Robertson]

Yeah, we want him to live. We love Jersey.

[Jase Robertson]

And I said, well, I said, you're. You're dry. I said, did you get it? He said, well, you know, with this thick Jersey accent. He said, I was so proud of myself that I remembered the way I got There, I didn't turn over the P row. I go up the ladder. There's my GoPro. And he said, I'm walking down the ladder. And he said, I tripped and fell, and the GoPro went under the water.

[Zach Dasher]

That's anticlimactic.

[Al Robertson]

The easiest part of the whole adventure was getting the out of the blind. And that's the part that got it.

[Jase Robertson]

So then I noticed that his right hand up to his shoulder was wet. And he said, but I got the GoPro. And I was like, well, good luck looking at that footage.

[Zach Dasher]

I think GoPros are waterproof, aren't they?

[Jase Robertson]

That's what he said. He said, but, you know, so there's the trainee. That's his, you know, that's the life of a duck hunter.

[Al Robertson]

Oh, man, I wish we had Joan here to get his take on it. It reminded me, Jason, you're telling the story about the fat boys in the front. We were on a mission trip one time, and Gordon, Zach's dad, was there and Ben was with us. And we were. I think we were heading to Dominican or Haiti or someplace. And Gordon was up front. We were further back. And we had a pretty large group. There were about 20 of us. So we had most of the plane. It was a small plane leaving out of Monroe. And so the flight attendant comes on and says, we need someone in rows one through four to move to the back because we have a weight issue in the play. So. So there's not. Because. And there's some empty seats up there toward the front. This is like first class front. This is a little bit play. And so nobody makes a move. Well, Gordon is one of the people in one through four. And so we're all start laughing because we're like, look, Gordon's not going to make the move. He's not going to be the one that takes that walk of shame to the back. And so then she says, she comes back out. Like a minute goes by, she says, could somebody in rows two or three.

[Zach Dasher]

So the circle shrinking.

[Al Robertson]

So we're shrinking down. And then. So we start doing commentary from the could the man with the large head in row 3A. And so Gordon finally gets up and just shuffles back in shame and joins us in the.

[Jase Robertson]

When you actually feel the plane level out. It was you. It was you. Yeah, that's funny. But I will say this. When we got back from Florida with the. With the presidential mayhem that happened that we shared about missing, I actually got invited opening day to Arkansas duck season and went. And it was a top five Duck hunt of my life.

[Al Robertson]

Really?

[Zach Dasher]

Where did y'all go?

[Jase Robertson]

We went in the middle of nowhere. I can't tell you the exact place because the guy who invited me probably wouldn't like me saying that, but. And it's his land, but still. There's just some things that you just don't need to discuss. But it was as fine of ducks in your face. We. We shot 30 ducks in less than an hour. 20 mallards, which was the limit. And no duck that came in, got.

[Al Robertson]

Away, got them all.

[Jase Robertson]

And they were all backpedaling. I would say the furthest shot was 25 yards, and the closest was about 10ft. It was absolutely.

[Al Robertson]

You said you were in Arkansas when. It's right in Arkansas is right. I mean, there's probably no better place that. Were you in woods.

[Jase Robertson]

September, it was like a little. What they call these things, wrp.

[Al Robertson]

Yeah.

[Jase Robertson]

And. And this guy had bought it. It would have already been under wrp, but the trees were kind of short. A lot of grass, everything natural. No, he didn't plant anything. Just natural vegetation. He's got about 300 acres flooded. Of course, it was opening day. And when we pulled up there, you know, five minutes before illegal. When I shine my spotlight where they were putting the decoys, and I thought, they're putting the decoys way too close. I didn't realize how small the hole was, though. I could see a feather every 10ft.

[Al Robertson]

Oh, boy.

[Jase Robertson]

And my dad used to have a ratio, which I guess he still does, that. He would say for every feather that you see, that meant. Means There were 10 there. Well, that was a. It was just solid feather. So I thought, okay, I think if we do that ratio. Well, Phil's ratio was right, because they just. It was just a wave of ducks that started as soon as the, you know, legal shooting hours. And we waited about 10 minutes because they were filming this for duck commander. So I'm sure it'd be out there somewhere. And we would call, and just a few of them would just lock up, and they'd make about two passes. And I mean, right on top of the decoys.

[Al Robertson]

Right.

[Jase Robertson]

And it just repeated itself. And so usually every year, I have this moment, because we don't get pintails till real late. And so I have this anticipation of when I kill my first pintail drake. And I've killed one every year of my duck hunting career, although a couple times, it was literally the last week.

[Al Robertson]

I was going to say it's usually in January.

[Jase Robertson]

Usually in late January. Well, I heard Martin, you know, from duck Commander, he was back there with the cameraman, and we had four of us in the blind. He. Because the ducks were working around. We were working three mallards and they were coming. And he said, there's your pintail, Jace. And I looked up and there was just a big, beautiful bull sprig hovering in the decoys. And I kind of blacked out and shot him before I could even think it was a boom.

[Al Robertson]

Forget about the three mouths.

[Jase Robertson]

Yeah, forget everything.

[Al Robertson]

Forget about all that.

[Jase Robertson]

Well, the guy that invited me, Clay, he's one of my good friends. He's like, I guess you wanted that pintail. I was like, I don't know what just happened. I just saw that and thought, oh, my goodness, boom. And it happened. Which tells you most of the times you overthink. Cause I don't remember aiming. I don't even remember getting up. It just boom.

[Al Robertson]

And that's usually two phrases you don't want together. Brandon, I just blacked out and I shot. That's usually not a good question.

[Jase Robertson]

But this time it worked out. It was just a beautiful.

[Al Robertson]

So speaking of duck season, you see my shirt I'm wearing J. This is tis the season. Tis the season duck on it. And I did that for you. And that's Tony Thomas, our brother in law, designed this shirt. So if you want to. If this is a good idea for a Christmas gift. Tony Thomas, Art.

[Jase Robertson]

So that's the duck hunting report. A lot of ducks in Arkansas, Louisiana, not so much. But they're coming.

[Al Robertson]

They're coming. Jace, I don't know if you knew this or not, but some of the best ways to let people know what you're into is to have merchandise that shows that were you aware of that? That's a good way to let people know.

[Jase Robertson]

I think that's been going on since the bumper sticker was introduced.

[Al Robertson]

Al you do love your bumper sticker moments, Jace. Merchandise definitely is a way to let people know what you love, what you're into. And if you go to unashamedmerch.com used our special promo code, unashamed10, you're going to get 10% off the total of your order. So whether it's the blind mug, love always protects T shirts. I see Jace, you got an I ride with king Jesus mug right there in front of you. All these things say that we're into unashamed and we're into what Blaze is offering. You can also check out some of the other fun Blaze media merchandise, like the patriotic collection. The Blaze media collection. So there's hats, stickers mugs, sweaters, a whole lot more. A lot of fun things to let people know what you're into. Head on over to unashamedmerch.com today. Use the promo code UNASHAMED10 for 10% off your order, which is a heck of a good deal. That's unashamedmerch.com be sure to use the promo code unashamed10 so you can get 10% off your order. Check them out today. So, Brandon, welcome back. Brandon's still with us. He was with us on the last podcast as well. Jace, so you did the classic move. We have a minute left in the podcast. And then you went to the text. Colton. Is it Colton?

[Jase Robertson]

Yeah, Colton.

[Al Robertson]

Colton's text. And which was a very. Is a great question about John 14. What were the rooms in the father's house in John 14:2? And so you read your response to him, but we didn't really get a chance to react to that because it was so strong because I dropped in a little joke there at the beginning about mansions over the hilltop, which is an old song that basically paints the picture that we're all waiting to get to heaven to find our mansion, find this house. But really, it's not at all what he's the context.

[Jase Robertson]

It's not what he's the context is him going to the right hand of God. He's predicted it. We're in the book of John. He hasn't left. And I've said this many times. If you look at Genesis to Malachi, as it is concerning Jesus, it's predicting that he's coming. There's a messiah, there's a king, there's a son of man coming. And Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John. Well, he's here. The first line that Jesus says in, I think it's Mark. Y'all been studying Mark so young. Fact check me on this. He says the time has come. Yeah, the king is here. The kingdom is at hand. He's the king. And so he's now given a shadow more predictions about what's going to happen. And so John 14, 15, and 16 is all about him promising this holy spirit of which he has being poured out on people and it will be in you. So he makes that illustration about the father's house in many rooms. And I'm going there to prepare a place for you. Well, when you tie that in with the book of Hebrews, you realize that he's actually presenting himself as our sacrifice in the throne room of heaven, which is, you know, was a shadow of this trying to come into the presence of God in the Old Testament under this system of rituals and rule keeping, which Jesus fulfilled in his death on a cross, his resurrection, and his coming into the presence of God on our behalf. Meanwhile, he pours out the spirit in Acts 2, makes it available for human beings who surrender to him. And that, that is the message of the Bible. That's the message.

[Al Robertson]

And I would argue that John 14, 15, 16 were the three most significant chapters from. We look at. But it's just in a letter. But the three most significant chapters of everything Jesus told his disciples. And I'm sure when they reflected back, once they got to those moments in Acts 1 and 2, they realized it. Then it was like, oh, this is what he was talking about. This is what we're going to do.

[Zach Dasher]

It's a primary text on the Holy Spirit too.

[Al Robertson]

Exactly.

[Zach Dasher]

And I think so. I think when you think about the role of the Holy Spirit is to live in the believer. But it's interesting, when you ended that last, in that last podcast, you ended in Hebrews 9, you started in 23, and I think you. No, you started in 24 and 25. In my Bible I have. So you went from John 14 to Hebrews 9. In my Bible I actually have John 14:23 written by Hebrews 9. 23. And if you go to my Bible, in John 14:23, I have Hebrews 9. 23. So I was going to read that. That's weird. So in John it says, Jesus answered him, if anyone loves me, he will keep my word and my father will love him. And here's the money line right here. And we will come to him and make our home with him. I mean, that is the core of what is happening. Is that God, the triune God, by the way, because he says, we will make our home with him. And so when you go to Hebrews 9, it says this. I mean, Hebrews 9:23, it says, thus it was necessary for the copies of the heavenly things to be purified with these rites, but the heavenly things themselves with better sacrifices than these. And here's the reasoning why for Christ has entered not into holy places made with hands which are copies. So the temple was a copy. That's the thing that got Jesus killed. And Acts 7, that's the thing that got Stephen killed when he said, the Lord your God does not dwell in temples built by man's hands.

[Al Robertson]

Why?

[Zach Dasher]

Because those are copies of things. Or Acts 17, when Paul says, the Lord your God does not live in temples built by man's hands. Well, why because those are copies of things. So then the question is, where does he live? Well, he lives in people now. He lives in human bodies. I mean, me and Brandon talk about this all the time.

[Brandon]

Yeah, well, in tying it back to our text here, Colossians 3:2, set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth. And so how do you make sense of that when he says, on things above, not on earth, is it, I don't care about my job, I don't care about my kids anymore. I don't care about my home? Well, no, that's of course not what he's talking about. Just like he's not talking about some house that he's building up in the clouds. He tells us what that is in verse five, put to death, therefore, what is earthly? And then he goes on to give that whole list. These are the earthly things that were to put to death. And what the things are above are the things that are of Christ, who He is, and who we're becoming now that he's inside of us, which he lays out down below in 12 and 13.

[Al Robertson]

And I think the idea of there, that emptying that you're talking about, because you think about just what Zach described, when you think about the heavenly versus the earthly, we think about that in a spiritual sense in the temple and things that were trying to happen. That also describes us, the earthly nature of who we are is to respond in a way that other people would on earth who don't know, who don't know Jesus. Right. So I broke those three, all that big list down into three different sections. One is our desires, and that's where he gets into sensuality, impurity, lust. And so you think about it's that which I would do, that which I would think that which would motivate me in desires. Then he tells about your reactions. You know, how do I react to things? Rage, anger, malice, slander, filthy. You know, the things that I would react to a situation. And all those are unhealthy, but they're very earthly and they're very real. We see it every single day. Right? You cut somebody off in traffic, you'll see a lot of these responses, because that's instantaneous, what our earthly desires are. And then the third one is the language itself. And that's when he talks about the lying, the filthy language. In other words, that which we say, which is reflective of who we are. And so when you look at our desires, our reaction, our language, that which is earthly, is what entraps us if we Stay there. I mean, I don't know that anybody wants to be bitter. I don't know that anybody that wants to constantly be lying about stuff. I mean, like I said, it's a hard place to live, to constantly be in fear of what you're going to say, how you're going to react, or to wind up in a situation where you are unfaithful to your wife or something. And yet there are people that live under this siege every single day. It's a hard life. I mean, those of us that lived it, even for a little while, you realize it's very entrapping in terms of what.

[Zach Dasher]

Yeah, and I think that's. You can't. Because I think if you come out of a more of a legalistic church or it may be a background where a lot of this came out of that it was all about what you couldn't do and you were trying to will away sin. I'm going to somehow in my own ability, and I'm just going to control all of my desires and I'm going to get them all under control. I'm going to make sure that they don't get, you know, you're just too passionate, attain those passions and you're trying to will it away. And you do it according to Colossians through these different measures of self discipline. Not in a way that, I mean, there's self discipline, but like I'm going to deny myself of all these things to prove my loyalty. And Paul says that those things lack any restraint against any value in restraining the sensual indulgences. And you can't beat sensuality that way. We talk about this in our first podcast on the Not yet now podcast that we talk about that you have to have a motivator that works and the motivation is not to diminish desire, but is to properly orient your desire. But you can't do that without God revealing to you what he has prepared for those who love him, which is unimaginable. We can't imagine it in our minds. And I can't imagine what God has, what the good things that God's prepared for me unless I have the mind of Christ. That's Paul's language in First Corinthians, that you can't know the mind of Christ unless you have the spirit of Christ in you. And so that's the importance of what we're talking about here, of this coming of Christ coming to live in us, because when that happens, he does it through the Holy Spirit. And when the Holy Spirit lives In us now, we can begin to receive the mind of Christ. And that's where the liberation ultimately comes from.

[Brandon]

Yeah. And I think it's helpful to talk about it from both a negative and a positive perspective. So negatively. I love that John Owen quote, be killing sin or sin will be killing you. And so we have to put these things to death because they are dangerous. God's not trying to keep us from something. But you mentioned al that the reaction in traffic. We have this couple at our church and they were on their way back from Tennessee, driving from their lake place over there and it was late at night and they got t boned. Both, both cars totaled, both their trucks ruined. 17 year old kid gets out of the other truck and he walks over. I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry. I can't believe I did this. I just didn't see you. And they're trying to comfort him a little bit and then he just breaks down crying. And they're like, what's wrong? And he says, well, this was my grandpa's truck. He loved this truck. And the lady in our church, without missing a beat, just goes, I promise your grandpa loved you more. That type of response comes from somebody who has been formed, who Christ is alive. It's not anger, it's not entitlement, it's not yelling at him for ruining their brand new truck. And they were in a brand new, really nice truck. Her heart immediately went to, how do I love this guy and remind him that he is love.

[Al Robertson]

Zach, we're pulling into the holiday season. Are you counting every dollar as you're. Because you got a lot of, you know, you got a lot of gifts to buy, you got a lot of family.

[Zach Dasher]

Yeah, I'm on a budget. We just got on a budget. So we just finished our first month and we were over budget by $4.18.

[Al Robertson]

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[Jase Robertson]

Well, and I think Jesus became the model. You know, when you look at all these qualities and you read the four gospels, you start saying, I have this person inside of me.

[Al Robertson]

Yeah.

[Jase Robertson]

And every time I read the Gospels, I think, well, I got a lot to work on here. Because it's just he was choosing people who we tend to view or put into a box, you know. And remember, you had the woman caught in sin and you're like, what are you going to do? I mean, nobody is going to take up for this woman. Well, but he did and somehow got her, gave her the charge to go leave her life of sin, but he did it based on grace and got other people to throw down the rocks. And you're like, man, that's a tricky thing. You Know, for me to figure out how to do. But I think it's bigger than that. And that, you know, when he said, this mystery of godliness is Christ in you, you become Christ.

[Al Robertson]

Yeah.

[Jase Robertson]

With that. That kind of love. And so I think you really see that at the end, because this. Having the Holy Spirit of God in you and having this access to the Father and this communication line is open. It's just a different perspective. One of the stories that kind of popped into my brain when we. When I was researching this was in Mark 9. And I kind of saw it in a different way. Just thinking I have Christ in me and setting my heart, you know, on things above where Christ is seated. Because when it says that, set your hearts, which leads you then to start thinking about what that means, which is why we read the Hebrews 9. And you're like, he's up there. He's made the presence of God available to all of us humans, despite the fact that we're so sinful. And I've given my life to him. He's moved in, so I should be operating like him. I mean, because y'all talk about that. Not yet now. And I think Romans 8:11 should be your theme verse, because it says, if the spirit of Christ is living in you, then he who raised Jesus from the dead will also give life to your mortal body. So you're going to be resurrected. But that first little statement says, the spirit of Christ is living in you. Well, that's actually happening. So what does that look like? And it should look like Jesus. But I think this story in Mark 9 that I want to read really kind of give some weight to what Paul is saying in Colossians, because you remember verse 20, they had a guy who was. It was the healing of a boy, you know, with an evil spirit. And in verse 20, they bring him in. And when the spirit saw Jesus, it immediately threw the boy into a convulsion. He fell to the ground and rolled around, foaming at the mouth. And Jesus asked the boy's Father, how long has he been like this? From childhood, he answered, it has often thrown him into the fire or water to kill him. But if you can do anything, take pity on us and help us, which is what we do as humans. We're like, this has been going on so long. And so we. It doesn't seem like a bad question if you can do anything. But Jesus, he seems to respond like, if you can. If you can. Yeah, if you do anything, said Jesus, everything is possible for him who believes immediately the Boy's father explained, I do believe. Help me overcome my unbelief. Because he was asking this silly question, if you can do anything, this is the creator of the universe down here. So when Jesus saw that a crowd was running to the scene, he rebuked the evil spirit. You deaf and mute spirit, he said, I command you, come out of him and never enter him again. The spirit shrieked, convulsed him violently and came out. The boy looked so much like a corpse that many said, he's dead. But Jesus took him by the hand, lifted him to his feet, and he stood up. After Jesus had gone indoors, his disciples asked privately, and this is the point I want to get to, well, why couldn't we drive it out? And he replied, this kind can come out only by prayer. Which seems like only by prayer. Well, wouldn't they have known that? I mean, isn't that the most simple thing that we are able to do? We can pray.

[Al Robertson]

Would that be your starting point?

[Jase Robertson]

Pray to God? And I think in that moment is where we miss the power of what just happened here. Because we're kind of like the if you can do anything type of people. We're like, well, you know, if you can. It's not. I mean, we talked about my dad and his condition, but I believe not. I'm not going to pray if you can do anything. I believe everything is possible for him who believes. And I think that's the difference in realizing you have the spirit of Christ and the access that is given to us. We should be the everything type of people and not the anything is worth it.

[Brandon]

Yeah, I think so much of our lives we view it as to just survive if I can just get by. But as you were saying that I was reminded of Romans 8, 11. The spirit of God who raised Jesus from the dead lives in you. And Paul says it a different way in Ephesians 1. Basically, the same spirit that empowered Jesus to raise from the dead is already at work in us. And you look at the tense of these verbs and Colossians, you have been raised with Christ, you have died and your life is hidden with Christ and God. All of these things are already true of us, but we often just don't see it. We often miss that and we forget that that is the power working in us and that we're not called just to be defensive and go on the retreat, but we're actually called to move forward in the power of the spirit and love.

[Al Robertson]

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[Zach Dasher]

That's why he starts, I think it starts with identity in Christ, like union with Christ, the mystery which is Christ in you. And then he gets into kind of, and that's more of, I would say a positive side. And then on the negative side he then once that's established, he gets into putting to death the misdeeds of the body would be the language of Romans 8. But here he says, put the death therefore what is earthly in you, which would be the misdeeds of the body. Sexual immorality, impurity, passions, evil desires, covetousness, which is idolatry on account of these, the wrath of God is coming. And these you too once walked when you were living in them. But now you must put away with anger, wrath. So we do put away with this stuff. It's not that God's saying, just don't do anything. I mean, we are instructed to not behave in this manner and to put these things away. Anger, wrath, malice, slander. I've seen talk from your mouth. Don't lie to one another. See that you have put off the old self with its practices and have put on the new self. So he switches right back to the positive. You put on the new self. Don't do the stuff of the old self. And I love the language here when he talks about the past of something that's already been accomplished, which is us putting on the new self. It doesn't end there though, because he says, he has very progressive language when he says, which is being renewed in knowledge after the image of its creator. And I think identity is so important to this. And you think, man, I wonder why we live in a culture right now where identity is like under attack. Like we've been told that your identity is whatever your sexual desires are. That's actually your identity is what our culture tells us. And it's all about my identity and what I identify as, and here are my pronouns or here's my thing, whatever it is. But what is that? It's an attack on the very nature of who you are. And I think that's why Paul here is rooting this idea of living in Christ. He's saying, come back to your identity. That's what The Holy Spirit is doing in you is he is constantly renewing the knowledge of what you are as an image bearer, that you are actually made in the image of God. He's returning all the way back to Genesis, chapter 1, verse 26 and 27, when the Bible says, let us make man in our image, in the image of God, he created them both, male and female. That's what's being restored in us. As we put to death the misdeeds of the body, we put off the old self and remember that we have put on the new self.

[Al Robertson]

And that's why human answers will not solve earthly problems. I mean, we only just create more. And it's Allie best book on toxic empathy. She does such a great job of showing when human beings try to apply their solutions to spiritual problems, it just creates more problems. And then the empathy that you think is a good thing becomes toxic. And Jay's I want to.

[Zach Dasher]

You know why that's true though? You know why that's true though? Because if you start with yourself to make meaning of the world, this is why it doesn't work. Because you are a finite creature.

[Al Robertson]

Correct.

[Zach Dasher]

And so if I have, it's like this whole gentle parenting thing that's so popular right now. And I was thinking about this like I'm gonna let my kid, my 2 year old kid, they're gonna dictate the rules and I'm gonna follow them and they're gonna tell me what they want and I'm gonna submit to what they want and just let them figure it out. And that works until they run against another kid who is also being gentle parented. And what happens when they want the same toy?

[Al Robertson]

Right?

[Zach Dasher]

I mean, think about this like we're beginning with ourselves here. I'm letting you figure this out on your own. I don't want to be that overbearing parent. Well then that works inside the context maybe of my family. Until I'm over at a friend's house and there's one little toy truck on the floor and both two year old boys want the same thing. Then who wins? Who gets it? Who will get that truck?

[Al Robertson]

The biggest kid or the meanest one?

[Zach Dasher]

Whoever's got the most power.

[Jase Robertson]

Whoever is the toughest.

[Al Robertson]

The toughest or the meanest. That's exactly right.

[Zach Dasher]

So then might becomes right.

[Al Robertson]

Yep.

[Zach Dasher]

Right. And so then power becomes the whole thing. Whoever can dominate and win. That's how we determine truth. And reality is through, is through just pure dominance. And if you just look back at history, that has been the pathway to millions Hundreds of millions of people being murdered. That. That mentality.

[Al Robertson]

I want to tie that thought back to what Jace brought up earlier with the woman that was caught in adultery in that setting. Because, remember, the setting was they brought her in. Whoever brought her in to trap Jesus was the. Was the why they did it. They wanted to put him in a. They thought an unwinnable situation. Again, thinking like human beings. But look at the choice he puts to the people. There's a group of people standing there who have a legal right to stone this woman. I mean, in the law, it says, someone caught the actual adultery, they can be stoned. Now, there were a lot more process that had to happen other than being in a Bible class, but that was they had a legal right to do what they were contemplating. And Jesus puts the question to them, okay, you're right. You got the legal right. So I tell you what, the one who now has no sin, you've never sinned. You start the process. So he puts the human condition right back to them. Okay, anybody that can rise above this woman, say, you've never made a mistake. You be the first one to throw the stone. And it said it started with the older ones and went down to the young, and they all walked away. And then he looks at her and says, has no one stayed to condemn you? And she says, no. Then he tells her, then leave your life of sin. Which is interesting at a spiritual sense. The only solution we have to our human problems and our earthly problems are him or Jesus. It's not going to be anybody else. So just because you have a gang of people that all agree something needs to be done, you don't have the answer to what needs to be done.

[Jase Robertson]

Well, that's why that story is. I mean, all the stories are in there. We get to see the character of God lived out in a human body. His name was Jesus. And, you know, I think back on my life, a story popped into my head. I don't think I've ever shared this. But, you know, when I was a teenager, I was literally. There was a span where I was just on fire for Jesus, aggressively, because people that are younger, I've now realized, are more open to hearing about Jesus. And so it just started, you know, once we kind of started becoming outspoken about Jesus, we were just baptizing tons of people. I had met my wife, who we were dating, and we would go out to camp every year for weeks, I mean, with no distractions, singing. Yeah, you're sharing Jesus. Well, one night I was out there at camp and I'm sitting there and I feel. And an affection of rubbing my shoulders, but kind of in a way where I thought it was my future wife. While we were dating Missy, because no other human that I know of, outside of, like, my mom or something, I knew she wasn't out there. So I turned around. Well, it's not my. It's not who I'm dating. It's. And she wasn't ugly.

[Al Robertson]

And she said, hey, as if that matters.

[Jase Robertson]

Well, it mattered because I was so shit shocked. You know, I'm on a spiritual high, and you know, the verse, I wasn't thinking. Set your mind on things above. I'm thinking because she rubbed my shoulders for a while and I thought it was my wife.

[Al Robertson]

Yeah.

[Jase Robertson]

Which made for an interesting conversation later.

[Al Robertson]

Because other people say, what did Missy think?

[Jase Robertson]

She's like, hey, what's going on?

[Zach Dasher]

How long does she rub your shoulders for?

[Jase Robertson]

I would say for 15, 20 seconds. I was like, ooh, this feels good. And, you know, but when I turned around, it wasn't the person I thought was doing. So she said, hey. And she said her name, which. Now, look, this is what my dad used to say, you know, you should treat this moment like a bull rattlesnake. Like you have almost stepped up by a bull rattlesnake.

[Al Robertson]

You just stepped over Copper.

[Jase Robertson]

I never forget this because she said, because they did a thing during camp week where you went on a moonlight hike.

[Al Robertson]

Moonlight hike. It's where Willie and Corey met.

[Jase Robertson]

Yep. So she said, who are you going on the moonlight hike with? And I said without hesitation, I said, jesus. And she looked at me and she's like, well, maybe.

[Al Robertson]

Who is she?

[Jase Robertson]

No, she just said, well, maybe I need to know you know, more about him. And I said, I'll line it up. And so she said, well, will you share sharing with me? But after what had just happened, and there was a group of girls that I knew were spiritual, and I said, hey, you know, I holler one of the name. I was like, we all study with her. Because I thought I am. I am ending because we already started.

[Al Robertson]

The Bible study on the wrong foot.

[Jase Robertson]

Wrong foot. I'm not doing the back rub. And then me or you going to be alone. But I'm just trying to practically say in that moment, you know, I was. I was really thinking about Jesus being king of kings at the right hand of God. I have his spirit. And it was the opposite of throwing rocks. It was just. I just thought, I don't want anything to do with this. And look, that girl did Come to Christ. And I gave her a thumbs up, you know, from a distance, but. But I just thought, I'm not. My mind was not on earthly things in that moment. And I was perfectly content with who I was with and with that relationship which would turn into my lovely wife. And.

[Al Robertson]

And since you weren't sure where she was, you had a Joseph moment where you literally said, I'll run over here.

[Jase Robertson]

I thought it was too awkward, you know, in light of what we're reading here. And, I mean, it's a. Kind of a silly story, but it scared me.

[Al Robertson]

Yeah.

[Jase Robertson]

Because I was like. I mean, this woman come up, put her hands on me, didn't even know me, and I thought, no, we're not. We're not. I don't.

[Al Robertson]

And doesn't that really describe. What was it? I can't remember where Paul said it, but he said, you know, we live on the earth, but we're not of the earth.

[Jase Robertson]

Yeah.

[Al Robertson]

And that's the difference. Of the world.

[Jase Robertson]

Yeah.

[Zach Dasher]

But not of the world.

[Al Robertson]

Not of the world.

[Jase Robertson]

You gotta love Jesus more than all these sinful things that you get into. I mean, here's a. You know, I was in that moment looking at her as a created being from God who needs to be back with her.

[Al Robertson]

You were looking at as a potential sister in Christ.

[Jase Robertson]

Exactly. That's a poor way to start a relationship, you know, it was just inappropriate in my opinion. And it scared me.

[Al Robertson]

But.

[Jase Robertson]

And I told my wife exactly what happened. And at the end, after, she was a little concerned because we were young, but she was like, you did the right thing. And I was like, exactly. So, you know, and I had a similar situation where I was kind of sweet on a girl. This is before my wife. And, you know, I asked her if she would want to go out sometime. And she's like, well, I have a boyfriend. I was like, oh. And then she said, well, would you share Jesus with him? And I was like, sure. I mean, that ended the. She kind of did to me.

[Al Robertson]

Right.

[Jase Robertson]

You know, but I didn't do anything. I just kind of asked her out and. And wound up bringing him. Bringing him to the Lord, you know, and so I just thought that. I think, you know, putting all this, you know, Here's a letter 2,000 years ago to a group of people, you know, under Roman rule, and I'm sure they were the minority, just by a tenth of a percent of the people around there with having all this stress and in their life and being persecuted and, you know, it was hard to live out these facts. That he's writing, because this just seemed ridiculous, that some carpenter from Nazareth, you're putting all your faith and trust in him, and you're talking about, you know, loving and being resurrected and new creations and having an old self. So I'm sure there was a lot of pressure in doing this out loud and on purpose. And I think that's why you get to.

[Al Robertson]

But some of that too, Joseph, is just wisdom, is what you're describing is wisdom, because. And that's godly wisdom. All the years I was in ministry as a pastor, I would meet with anybody. But if a woman wanted to come and meet with me, I was going to meet with her. With either Lisa being there or with Lori, who worked with me at the church being there.

[Zach Dasher]

I mean, all Billy Graham role that he.

[Al Robertson]

Exactly. I mean, and look, it wasn't fun.

[Zach Dasher]

Of it, but it's. It's wise.

[Al Robertson]

It was wise because what it was saying and what I always would say is, look, is. And I'm just a man. So certainly I take no pride in saying I'm above anything, but I wasn't as worried about me, but I didn't know about them and where they were. And so my thing was, since we're going to be here to try to talk about godly solutions to earthly problems, let's do that in a setting where nobody's going to get the wrong impression ever about what we're trying to do.

[Jase Robertson]

I think it's the difference in thinking of what would Jesus do? And then what is Jesus doing? I mean, I have the Holy Spirit.

[Brandon]

Hmm.

[Jase Robertson]

We're out here. Yeah, this is what this is about. And then all of a sudden you have this moment of an old self. I mean, she was interested in me just as a potential mate. And I'm like, even though I didn't do anything wrong, I immediately went to the new self, which is, here's a group of women. Share Jesus with her. I'm moving on. I'm not going to be involved in this. The buck just stopped here.

[Zach Dasher]

The new self is the self has the properly oriented or indexed desire. That's why the language in Colossians. What he's ultimately getting at is idolatry versus the worship of God. Like Bob Dylan said, you're going to serve somebody. Calvin said, the heart is an idol factory. You can't help but worship. So are you going to worship God? Are you going to worship idols? And when he says. When he says put to death these things like sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desires and covetousness which is idolatry. So if you think about what is idolatry, that's just a misdirected desire or passion. That's why he uses the word evil desire, because it's a desire. I think John Piper said this way, it's a desire that terminates on itself, so it ends on itself. Going back to what you were talking about earlier, Al, with like these humanistic approaches, when we start with ourself and when we end with ourselves. Well, that, that's what sexual immorality is. It's a, it's a sex, it's. It's acting out sexually for the sake of sex, just having sex. And there's no beauty in it. There's no triune reflection in it. And what, what he's pointing us back to in the end is worship of him. And so that's why this identity thing is so important. Because you think, what is my identity? Because that's the biggest question I think people ask is who am I? What am I here for? What's my purpose? Well, what if the answer to that question is you are an image bearer of God, you were created to partake in the divine nature. You were created to worship the one true God. And if I do anything other than that in my life, then I'm not living in my design. I'm not living in the context of what I'm intended to be. And so I'm going to fill this rub, I'm going to feel this anxiety, I'm going to feel this emptiness, I'm going to feel this depression, I'm going to feel all of these horrible things. Because why I'm engaging in idolatry, I.

[Brandon]

Mean, the fruit of all of these things is it disintegrates our lives. It rips us apart from our relationship with God that we were meant to live in. It rips us apart of our relationship with one another. But then I love how he ends in verse 11. Here there is not Greek and Jew circumcised and uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian, slave free, but Christ is all and in all. And so he brings it back there to that identity and to that unity as Christ fills all of us as his house, as his temple, as his body, and he makes his home now here within us.

[Zach Dasher]

Yeah, and along with that, I think it helps us interpret this as not necessarily rules for godly living or whatever your translation said, just a heading. Yeah, or the heading. But, but, but these are rules, right? But they need to be understood. Almost like our Laws. Let's use the word law, like the law. The second law of thermodynamics. That's not like a. That's not some kind of test. That's just like a description of the way the universe works, right? I mean, it's a description. The laws of thermodynamics are how heat works.

[Brandon]

The law of gravity.

[Zach Dasher]

The law of gravity. I throw an apple up, well, the law of gravity comes down. Oh, we're not under law. No, no, that's. These are. These are descriptions of what a life in Christ looks like. These are descriptions.

[Jase Robertson]

That's what I was going to say when you said everybody's going to worship somebody. Well, everybody's full of something. And you can make your own, you know, joke there, but. And it's. If you're full of Jesus, well, it comes out, but it's also what you're putting in. That's why it gets back to your daily cycle. You know, if you wake up every morning and spend three hours scrolling through social media, do you just think what you've just fed yourself? Well, no wonder you're depressed and stressed out and you're scrolling because they have this design to where it. It just never stops.

[Al Robertson]

It's back to what. What Max said. Don't feed it.

[Jase Robertson]

But as a wise man once said, you should wake up and read the script scrolls. The scrolls Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John. Full of Jesus. There you go.

[Al Robertson]

I love it. So when we get back together next time, we'll talk about that as well as the renovated life from verse 10, which I want to get into the renewed life, what that looks like. So we'll. Brandon, thank you for coming on. It's always a pleasure to have you. We'll see you guys next time on Ashamed. Thanks for listening to the Unashamed podcast. Help us out by rating us on itunes, and don't miss an episode by subscribing on YouTube. And be sure to click that little bell to get notified about new episodes. And for even more content that you won't get anywhere else, subscribe to [e-mail] Unashamed.