Sleep advice is everywhere—but if you’re someone who actually struggles with it, most of it can feel… useless.

Kelly sits down with Dr. Michael J. Breus—clinical psychologist, sleep specialist, and known to many as “The Sleep Doctor”—to break down what’s really going on when sleep just isn’t happening. From the myth of “8 hours” to why your brain suddenly spirals the second your head hits the pillow, this conversation gets into the science, the stress, and the real-life patterns that impact sleep.

They talk chronotypes, anxiety at night, hormones, and the frustrating cycle of trying everything and still feeling wired but exhausted. But the biggest takeaway? It might not be about doing more—it might be about simplifying what you’re already trying to do.

Notes they sent me:

Watch Dr. Michael on Youtube HERE!

Follow Dr. Michael on Instagram: @thesleepdoctor

Take the at home sleep test HERE!

(The Sleep Doctor At-Home Sleep Test provides clinical-level sleep analysis from the comfort of your own bed. Using two simple sensors and a connected app, users receive personalized results reviewed by a licensed provider in under a week.)

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Other links mentioned in the episode below:

Orion Cooling Mattress Pad (orionsleep.com)

The Orion Cooling Mattress Pad uses active temperature regulation technology to maintain an optimal sleep environment and reduce overheating throughout the night. It offers smart-bed-level cooling benefits at a more accessible price point.

Timeshifter (timeshifter.com)

Timeshifter is a science-backed jet lag app that creates personalized travel plans based on your sleeppatterns, chronotype, and flight schedule. Used by astronauts and elite athletes, it provides precise guidance on light exposure, caffeine timing, and sleepscheduling.

Upgraded Formulas Magnesium

Upgraded Formulas Magnesium is a whole-food, highly bioavailable supplement designed to support sleep quality, muscle relaxation, and nervous system balance. Its gentle formulation makes it ideal for those whose sleep issues are linked to magnesium deficiency.

Muse (choosemuse.com)

Muse is an EEG-powered meditation headband that provides real-time feedback to help users build a consistent mindfulness practice. By guiding the mind back to focus with gentle audio cues, it supports relaxation and improved pre-sleep wind-down.

Sleep-Drink-Breathe 3-Week Plan

The Sleep-Drink-Breathe 3-Week Plan is a structured, science-backed program designed to improve sleepby optimizing hydration, breathing, and daily recovery habits. The step-by-step system offers practical, sustainable strategies to help reset sleep quality.

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