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John and I, we could only say certain quotes from sandlot. Like, there was a quote on that movie where the guy's like, you're killing me, Smalls. And my dad was like, we're never going to confess. You're killing me. You're going to say, you're living me. So John and I would be like, you live in me, Smalls. And people are like, what's going on with the pastor's kids? What are they talking about? And John and I were like, we're not allowed to say, you're killing me anyways. Forever. This land was given to them forever. In other words, God gave them this possession. Whatever God gives to you, he plans to protect it for you. Don't stress over something God gave to you. Jehoshaphat was saying, God, you gave us this. You didn't give us this for us to lose it to some enemy armies. So why am I stressing? Jehoshaphat was choosing not to stress, and he was reminding himself, God, you gave me this kid in the first place. God, you gave me this land in the first place. Whatever God promises you, God will protect for you. Whatever God gives you to possess, he will protect it for you. You don't need to stress. Some of us are stressing over things that God has already taken care of. Some of us are fighting battles that do not belong to us to fight. And God's like, I need you to give that battle back to me. Some of us are so stressed, we're like, I'm gonna have to pick up five jobs to fix this situation. I'm so stressed. And we can feel your stress. On a scale of 1 to 10, how many in this room are, like, 10 being the highest one being like, no stress at all? Just show me by your hands where you're at. Are you a five? Are you a ten? Are you a one? I'm seeing some nines. I'm seeing some eights, seeing some fives. I'm seeing some people just going like this. Alarms are going off right now. And this is where he's at, right? I mean, he's in his stress. He's choosing to give it back to God. He's saying, God, this is not my battle. I hear the Lord just saying, give me my battle back. This is God's battle. This is not your Battle, stop fighting a battle that God says, I'm going to fight that for you. You don't have to fight that. Moms, you don't have to fight that battle. Dads, you don't have to fight that battle. I'm not saying you do nothing. I'm just saying God says, let me fight this for all of us in this room have stress, right? When I just asked that all of you in some way, if you didn't raise your hand, you secretly were raising your hand in your heart. You're like, I'm probably an 8 or a 9. And stress comes from a lot of different places. I want to just real quickly point out where your stress might be coming from. Four categories, where your stress, where my stress is, comes from. It either comes from a place like your job can stress you out. Sometimes even coming to a church can stress you out because you're finding a parking spot, you're waiting in the kids line, your kids are acting kind of crazy. You got in a fight in the minivan. You're stressed a little bit about when Ashley asked you to turn and shake hands with people. You're like, ah, I'm stressed. I got to meet new people. I got to. And a place can stress you out. For some of us, it's a pace, right? We are running so fast. We are multitasking. No wonder you're stressed. You, you're trying to do 100 things in one day. You're like, well, Paul, I'm a multitasker. And all of us are like, yeah. And we're like on pins and needles around you because you are stressed from the pace you're running at. You know, God created the earth in six days. And on the seventh day, he rested. God gave us a rhythm of pace that we're not supposed to work all day every day trying to accomplish a million things in one day. There were certain things that God had on his list to do that. He said, I'll do that tomorrow. Like, he did one thing on one day and he was like, okay, it's good. Then he did another thing on another day. And you might have been up in heaven with the angels. And they were like, well, aren't you going to get to the fish in the sea? And he's like, no, not yet. I can handle that. On the fourth day, God had a pace. Some of us are running at such an unhealthy pace. We're like Martha in the Bible. Martha was stressed and worried about so many things. You don't even have to be In a battle to be alarmed, you could just be in your own house, alarms going off, stress, anxiety, worry, fear overwhelmed. And Mary, in that same story, is just sitting at the feet of Jesus right here. She is just in the presence of Jesus. And Martha's like, get over here and help me clean this house. Some of y', all, that's like PTSD from this last week during Thanksgiving. You're like, I heard those words a thousand times. I'm not saying that you don't do your chores or that you forsake all responsibilities. I'm just saying, are you living at a pace that's creating even more stress for you and everyone else around you? Because worship helps de. Stress your pace. The fact that you're having worship on Sunday, worship oftentimes has to precede the week. You need to get worship out in front of your Monday because it sets the pace for the week. That's why you shouldn't miss church any Sunday. As many Sundays as you can be in church, just set the pace for the week with worship. Some of us are stressed not because of a place or a pace. Some of us are stressed because of a problem. And this is where Jehoshaphat is at right here. He's got a problem. He's got three enemies surrounding him, coming from the backside, coming from the sides, and they're all coming to kill him, and they're coming to take the land from Israel. They want to destroy the Jewish people. Like, the tribe of Judah is under attack. Some of you have a problem right now. You have a problem in your marriage. You have a problem in your health. You've been given a diagnosis from your doctor, or maybe it's your mom's health or your son's health. Maybe it has something to do with your daughter. I don't know what the problem is. Maybe it's in your business, finances. But it's stressing you out. It's messing with you. It's stirring up anxiety. And then the fourth stress, you're like, can we stop talking about what stressed me out? The fourth stress is a person. There is a person that's stressing you out. Don't look at him right now. Some of you are like, it's this guy, Ashley. Don't look at me. Don't point at me right now. How many? Know some people that just stress you out, right? And you're like, if I didn't have to look, if I didn't have to deal with this person, I wouldn't be as stressed as I am. And all of us have. And here's the problem. Usually the thing that's stressing you out is the category you run to try to fix. So if you're stressed out by a person, you go try to get a person to fix that stress. And this is where a lot of people get in trouble with affairs, with all kinds of just running to another. There are things like we're trying to squeeze out of a person what only God can do. Your spouse can't fix all your stress. And an affair is not going to fix all your stress. Only God is going to fix your stress. Some of us, it's a problem. And so we try to run to another. Like, we try to get another thing. We try to get another job, another business, another something going and another iron in the fire. And for some of us, it's a pay. And you gotta. Ultimately, you gotta run to God. God is the only. I want to give you some worship lessons today that we can learn from Jehoshaphat. Everybody say worship lessons. Let's talk about how do we change the outcome? If worship changes the outcome, how do we begin to see that shift happen? Number one, worship should be our first response. In battles, blessings, and even in the bruises of life. Worship should not be our last resort. Like, it shouldn't be. Like, well, first let me go to the bar, let me drink a little bit, let me go do some stuff, let me gamble a little bit, let me just de stress myself, then I'll go and worship. Worship should be your first response, not your last resort. This should be the first thing we do. We run. When David got in trouble, when David sinned, when David walked through his miscarriage with Bathsheba, what does he do? He goes to the house of the Lord. He begins to weep and worship. When Hannah was overwhelmed that she couldn't get pregnant, couldn't have kids, and she's watching this other girl named Peninnah in the Bible, who's having kid after kid after kid, just rubbing it in her face. What does Hannah do? She goes into the house of the Lord. She begins to worship. Your first response, in battles or bruises, and in even the successes of your life. Give the glory to God. Give the glory to God. Worship should be our first response. Response number two, what do we learn from Jehoshaphat is that worship is a choice. Worship is not a feeling. You don't have to feel like worshiping to worship. Just like you don't have to feel like going to church to go to church. You don't have to feel like loving Your spouse to love your spouse. You don't have to feel like loving your kids to love your kids. It's a choice. Every say it's a choice. Are you guys cool if I play a little bit of worship for you today? Worship is a choice. I don't have to feel like it's to do it. I can choose to worship. There have been some days, y', all. Like, just a month ago, I was driving down the road, and our kids, they struggle with fomo. Y' all know what FOMO is? Fear of missing out. Just gotta clarify that for anyone who thinks it's like a bad word or something. Fear of missing out. So our kids, they oftentimes compare. They're like, benny got to do this. We got five kids, by the way, in case you didn't know. And they're 11, 10, 7, 6, and 4. And so they each kind of get into these comparison traps. About one kid gets to do this. So I'm driving down the road about a month ago in someone else's truck, and we're on the highway, and I got Mac with me. It's just me and Mac. And we were going to pick up Benny. He was at another place playing basketball. And as we're driving down the highway, Mac is already like, I'm gonna brag to my brothers. I got alone time with Daddy. I was like, don't brag, Mac. And anytime I have alone time with the kids, we'll go to Kwik Trip and get, like, a hot cocoa or something. He's like, I'm going to tell him you took me to Kwik Trip, right? I was like, matt, don't do that. And so we were driving down the highway, and we were going about 60 miles an hour. You know, it's the highway. 65 is the speed limit. And out of nowhere, this car pulls out. I'm going north. This car is supposed to be at a stop sign. They run through the stop sign. I see them coming out of distance, and I'm like, surely they're going to stop y'. All. They did not stop. They drove through the stop sign. They ran right into my truck. And y' all, like, I shouldn't be here today. The fact that I'm alive and that Mac is alive is a miracle. How many all know you shouldn't be here today? Some of you should have died in some situations that happened. But I, I, I look at that moment, and Mac thought it was the coolest thing ever. He was like, that was awesome. Can we do that again? I was like, no. You know, he was like, I can't wait to brag about that to my brothers. And he sure did. We went to pick up Benny. He was like, guess what, Benny? I got in a car wreck with Daddy. And Benny was like, what? It's not fair. Why did you do it with Mac? When are you gonna do that with me? And I was like, what are you. Why are we gluttons for pain? What is going on? Our family just loves trauma or something. Benny was like, how come you always do car accidents with the other kids and not with me? I was like, oh, my goodness. Anyways, that morning, we had started the morning off with worship. We try to keep worship on in our house as often as possible, by the way. You can choose the atmosphere of your.