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Raising happy kids is a goal for most parents. Many of us have learned the hard way that indulgent children who are self-absorbed in “screen-time” are often the least delightful to be around and seem distant. In this episode, Felice Gerwitz shares how she centered her homeschool lifestyle away from screens and toward family engagement, ultimately fostering a close-knit family. Happy Kids Don’t Need Wi-Fi: Reclaiming Family Joy Sponsored by CTCMath.com In this upside-down world, it’s often hard to believe that raising truly happy kids is still possible. In today’s episode, I tackle the real issues plaguing our families and share the essential “arsenal” every Christian home needs. Your home should be a safe haven—a place of peace, protection, and joy for those you love most. Homeschool families have such a wonderful advantage because our children are with us every day. I’m so thankful for the brave pioneers who fought for our freedom to homeschool in all 50 states. Raising happy kids is something every parent longs for, no matter how young or old your children are. It’s only possible when we keep a clear vision and focus in this noisy, cluttered world. We’re constantly bombarded by news, social media, and endless shiny distractions. Many of us also carry fear about what the future holds. That’s why I made some deliberate decisions for my own family—choices that truly changed our lives for the better. Learning from the Past and Looking to the Future When my husband and I were young parents, we moved to what people in our area called “the country.” We bought 2.5 acres of swamp land and built a simple three-bedroom, two-bath home. My husband cleared non-native trees, dug a pond for fill dirt, and raised the house so floodwaters wouldn’t reach us. That land gave us the gift of getting away from it all. For seven blessed years we had no cable TV. We only received local news and a few stations, so the television stayed off most of the time—except for rented VHS movies. Instead, our children Neal and Christina explored the outdoors, dug in the dirt, fished in our pond, and learned about God’s creation. We read stacks of books, played games, and homeschooled in a very simple way because homeschool textbooks were hard to find back then. We went on field trips almost every week. I turned every outing into a learning adventure—even car rides became mini faith lessons, grammar reviews, or counting games. (“How many blue cars or trucks can you count?”) A few years later we had three more children, and life was still much the same—until cable and Wi-Fi made their way into our neighborhood. I was determined things wouldn’t change… but of course they did. It’s hard when Dad comes home bone-tired and just wants to veg in front of the television with the kids. My husband would sneak in a treat before supper (without the kids seeing!) and then head outside to play with them. That gave me a few precious minutes of alone time and helped me plan ways to encourage family reading instead of constant screen time. One compromise that worked well for us was Friday night pizza and movie night. It helped balance my desire for almost no television with my husband’s natural inclination to turn it on whenever he saw it! Homeschooling was my daily opportunity to steer our children toward hands-on learning while weaving in precious family time. Our Household Routines That Made a Difference Here are some of the simple rhythms we kept in our home: Prayer comes first—Bible study or a short religious lesson every morning. No television or video streaming without explicit permission and a clear time limit. Daily time outdoors to explore and play. Each child pursued a hobby or sport they loved. Regular family reading time. Shared family meals around the table. Consistent evening routines. Family prayer time together every night. If your husband (or wife, if you’re a homeschool dad listening) isn’t fully on board yet, don’t worry. You have the entire homeschool day to gently incorporate these values. That’s exactly what I did to strike a peaceful balance between what Mom and Dad thought was important. The Growing Screen-Free Movement I’m so encouraged to see more young parents today keeping their children off digital devices and choosing hands-on, nature-based activities and even “antique” toys instead. While the average screen time for U.S. kids is still very high, a wonderful pushback is growing among parents who feel disconnected from their children because of technology. The truth is simple: when children are busy interacting with siblings and friends, they are happier and more engaged in ways that really matter. In your homeschool, this is easy to put into practice. Set aside screen-free blocks and fill them with hands-on science activities (like those in my Creation Science Study Guides), drawing, painting, crochet, needlepoint, or building projects. Give your kids some chairs, sheets, and blankets and watch them build a fort in minutes—it’s wonderful for problem-solving skills! Once the fort is up, add pillows and books. Be sure to crawl inside and join them—they will love it! Making Memories Outdoors I’m not a natural camper at heart, but for most of our homeschool years we camped four or five times a year. We traveled all up and down the coast of Florida—from John Pennekamp Coral Reef State Park in the Keys to Florida Caverns State Park in the north. We turned those trips into rich learning experiences without the kids even realizing it was “school.” They learned directions, how to read a compass, navigation by the stars and sun, vegetation, and animal habitats. We joined guided nature walks when we could, and in the evenings we told stories around the campfire. Even rainy days brought joy! We’d bundle everyone into the car, go out for breakfast, and sometimes make new homeschool friends—like the family that invited all fifteen of us into their home on a soggy day. What a blessing! Practical Ideas You Can Use Right Away You can easily add simple STEM activities or DIY projects to your day. Ask your children what topics they’re excited to learn more about. Consider low-tech gifts for birthdays—wooden train tracks, building sets, art supplies, or sports equipment. Just last week while my grandchildren were visiting, we pulled out our huge bin of wooden train tracks. My grandson built an elaborate layout all by himself that stretched under coffee tables and partway down the hallway. He was so proud and happy! The older children designed custom t-shirts with the Cricut (computer time was limited to design and printing only). Everyone stayed happily engaged, talking, laughing, and creating together—with far fewer meltdowns than video games usually cause. That was one of the main reasons I limited screens with my own children—the constant bickering that seemed to come with them! My Prayer for You I pray you’ll sit down and create your own list of screen-free activities and then truly enjoy time with your children. Sneak in some learning whenever you can, and just watch them. I think you’ll be pleasantly surprised by the joy that returns to your home. Happy kids really don’t need Wi-Fi—they need our presence, prayer, play, and a family that points them to Christ. For More Listening on the Vintage Homeschool Moms Podcast If you enjoyed today’s episode, you may also like these: Best Homeschool Scheduling Advice Top 10 Parenting Secrets with Felice Gerwitz Overcoming Homes...

Mother’s Day Gifts, aka “What Mom Really Wants,” is the topic for today’s podcast. As a long-time mom – my first child was born in 1980 – I’ve had some experience *WINK* celebrating Mother’s Day. Mother’s Day has been a time of joy and, truthfully a time of hardship! We moms want to be grateful for whatever we have. While this is true, and I am grateful, I’ve also struggled. Listen as I share some tips for the best Mother’s Day gifts ever, and be sure to subscribe to the Vintage Homeschool Moms podcast! This episode is brought to you by CTCMath.com – a wonderful math curriculum for all of your homeschool needs, or to brush up on new skills. Mother’s Day Gifts – What Mom Really Wants Episode 271 New Here? Check Out These Popular Episodes: Homeschool Lifestyle Last Minute DIY Tips Money Saving Field Trips All About Teaching Raising Spiritually Strong Kids Six Homeschooling Insider Tips Best Staycations for Kids Avoid Curriculum Pitfalls Top 10 Parenting Secrets 45 Family Date Night Ideas I’m including something personal at the end — so stay tuned for Mother’s Day Gifts that I now learn to except and enjoy! I’ve had some exhausting Mother’s Days! When my children were little, I was sleep deprived, and I don’t do well with little sleep. I’m not one of those people that thrives on four hours or less and feels so productive. No, I’m the crash and burn Mom who would fall asleep while nursing my baby in the middle of the day. When baby number two came along, baby number one was a wild-man two-year-old, and he kept me awake in the day, so no worries about falling asleep! At least baby number one was sleeping through the night, and two, well, let’s say she finally slept all night at age four! Then came numbers three, four, and five. A larger home, and guess what? Our home turned into a party central. All of the family came for Mother’s Day dinner, and somehow my day turned into a frustration for all. The kids and my husband had to help clean up, I had to cook, and everything had to be perfect when the first mom came! I finally became wise and learned that with these easy tips, I could reclaim my Mother’s Day! First of all, I had to think about what I really wanted to do. Did I want to go out to a costly meal? Did I want a gift that we couldn’t really afford? Did I want to stress my husband and kids by wondering, “What does mom really want for Mother’s Day? Truthfully the best Mother’s Day gift is to be appreciated and loved. Those precious handwritten cards with “Mommy, I love you!” are the ultimate best! Mother’s Day gift selection for me from my family was not working! After years of costly presents, presents that didn’t fit, household items I didn’t want, and the worse, costly flower bouquets ordered and delivered by the florist–have you seen how much they cost?! I said enough! We needed to cut back financially and it was getting so out of hand. It all came to a head, after the following event. One Mother’s Day, after church and breakfast, my husband decided to take the three younger children fishing. Our subdivision has many small ponds and drainage streams/ ditches where fish abound. He was doing this to give me “alone time.” As I sat with my feet propped up, enjoying my day, my older son came home and looked smug. I knew something was up! Later I learned from the little kids–you’ve gotta love them; they can’t keep a secret–“Dad called up Neal and asked him to buy and bring us flowers — your Mother’s Day gift — to us– at the pond! Isn’t that great Mom?” So much for secrets. I certainly gave flower delivery an entirely different spin! Yes, as my husband walked in to hand me flowers! A gift. And I was grateful, especially for the smaller price tag, but I decided that day…it’s now or never time to take charge of my own Mother’s Day gift! First, my sanity tips for Mom, and next, my ideas for the best gifts ever — or ones I’d enjoy! Here are my Mother’s Day Sanity tips: 1. If you are cooking, make an easy meal: Baked Ham, store-bought scalloped or mashed potatoes, frozen or canned veggies, and prepared salads. 2. Do a potluck. Everyone loves to show off a special recipe. Assign different entrees or sides and desserts to those attending and let everyone else help with the meal. 3. Use paper products. The trees will survive another day. 4. Flowers. Buy yourself some. You can get them locally at a discount. Make your own arrangements. Hint: Use all of one color and baby’s breath for filler. You can not mess up. I promise! 5. Do something for you. Is it a 15-minute uninterrupted shower or soak in the tub? Is it a manicure? Is it a book that you want to read? What I’ve learned from the thirty-eight years of being a mom… many times, your family wants you to have the perfect day because they really do love and appreciate you; they need help! Being proactive goes a long way to making your day wonderful! My favorite Mother’s Day gift was going to church, then out to the beach, and one of our favorite casual restaurants. There is a pizza restaurant that has an extensive sandwich, and salad menu as well. Here we can sit with an amazing view and enjoy each other’s company. The food is delicious and then we can go to the beach and enjoy a few hours before it gets too hot! When we get home, the kids help clean out the car; it gets vacuumed while I shower. Then, prep for an evening meal handled by my now grown-up teens and husband! Things have changed but then, I had to ask for the change, something we moms don’t want to do! Suggestions for Great Mother’s Day Gift Ideas: 1. Gift Subscriptions – sometimes there are subscriptions I won’t buy for myself and I really want. This is my top list. DO you have any you would add? Audible Kindle Unlimited or other eReader subscriptions Streaming movie channels – like Hallmark *wink Streaming radio channels 2. Coupons from kids I love you mommy notes! Neck messages “Chore upgrade” coupons Car wash 3. Flower bushes Rose bushes Flowers planted Mulch Tree planted 4. Household Trash emptied each day! House cleaned Floors cleaned 5. Devices Sleeve for laptop New phone case eReader Battery charger Relax. Have Fun. Enjoy Your Day. Enjoy this podcast? Listen in to these: Tips to Strengthen the Mother-Daughter Relationship Flowers for Mom The post Mother’s Day Gifts She’ll Love appeared first on Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network.

Math The Easy Way – Episode 435 Special Replay Are you ready for math the easy way? Enjoy my special guest Pat Murray – he’s been a math teacher and coach for more than thirty-six years. And would you believe that Over that time, the programs and courses Pat and his company developed have helped students and families numbering in the tens and hundreds of thousands in more than seventy-two countries. So no matter where you live this information is accessible! Pat and his beautiful wife Maree live in Sydney Australia, have 10 children, and 7 grandchildren – soon to be 8 (next month). So, we are going to delve into seven of the most valuable tips for teaching math to kids –of all ages. I was amazed that your math programs have one low cost for a year, per family and it covers grades 1 through high school which is amazing and only a man with a big family understands what a blessing that is to parents with many children…. Short concise explanations – clarity is important. Immediate practice – get them to practice it quickly and feedback. Rote learning memorizing, times tables, important facts. [Great examples given on the audio!] The sequence can make a difference. Start with the easiest stuff first, encourage success. Discovery and inquiring learning that is taught first by example. Puzzles and problem solving – a fun activity. Build interest. Parents – avoid frustration. Kids will avoid help, due. Pat shares a mathematical trick – kids can learn as a parent to impress their kids. Visit our sponsor: Are you looking for a new Math Curriculum? CTCMath specializes in providing online video tutorials that take a multi-sensory approach to learning. Favorably reviewed in Cathy Duffy’s 102 Top Picks and The Old Schoolhouse Crew Review, the lessons are short and concise to help your children break down concepts and appreciate math in a whole new way! The lessons are taught the traditional way, not to a “test”. Each one of the video tutorials is taught by an internationally acclaimed teacher, Pat Murray, who is renowned for teaching math concepts in a simple, easy-to-understand way (and in only a few minutes at a time). Using a multi-sensory approach having the combination of effective graphics and animation synchronized with the voice of a friendly teacher together with practical assessment. This three-pronged attack makes learning so much easier and more effective. Even students who struggled with math are getting fantastic results! And ones who were doing OK before are now doing brilliantly. Visit ctcmath.com today to start your free trial. The post Math The Easy Way (Special Replay) appeared first on Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network.

Creating an Unbreakable Bond with Your Child (Secret Code Time) Podcast: Vintage Homeschool MomsHost: Felice GerwitzNetwork: Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network Sponsored by CTCMath.com Episode Summary How do you build a strong, lasting connection with your child—especially when communication feels strained? In this episode, Felice Gerwitz shares a powerful and practical concept called “Secret Code Time”—a simple, intentional way to create safe, judgment-free conversations with your kids. Inspired by the book Secret Code Time, this strategy helps parents foster trust, improve communication, and strengthen relationships at any age. Whether your child is talkative or reserved, young or a teen, this episode offers encouragement and actionable steps to help you reconnect. If you’re new to Vintage Homeschool Moms, you might also enjoy these episodes: Homeschool Lifestyle Last Minute DIY Tips Money Saving Field Trips All About Teaching Raising Spiritually Strong Kids Six Homeschooling Insider Tips Best Staycations for Kids Avoid Curriculum Pitfalls Top 10 Parenting Secrets 45 Family Date Night Ideas Key Takeaways It’s never too late to repair or strengthen your relationship with your child Daily expressions of love build trust and emotional security Kids need a safe space where they can talk without fear of judgment or punishment Listening (not fixing) is the most important part of communication Small, consistent moments together matter more than big events What Is “Secret Code Time”? “Secret Code Time” is a designated, intentional moment between parent and child where: The child can share openly The parent listens without interrupting, correcting, or disciplining There is no fear of gossip, shame, or immediate consequences This time can be triggered by a simple phrase like: “It’s Secret Code Time” Some families even personalize it with a number, phrase, or inside joke. How to Implement Secret Code Time 1. Create a Safe Environment Let your child know: They won’t get in trouble during this time You’re there to listen, not lecture 2. Listen First, Respond Later Avoid: “You should have…” “Why didn’t you…” Instead: Listen fully Ask if they want feedback afterward 3. Keep It Simple Secret Code Time can happen: In the car While running errands During a walk Over dessert or coffee 4. Make It Your Own There’s no perfect formula—adapt it to your family rhythm. Tips for Families with Multiple Kids Rotate one-on-one time (even short moments count) Pair time with everyday tasks (like cooking together) Use a simple schedule if needed Allow both spontaneous AND planned connection time Faith & Parenting Connection Felice emphasizes modeling faith through: Daily prayer with and for your children Demonstrating honesty and integrity Living out your beliefs (not just teaching them) Children learn more from what they see than what they’re told. Understanding Your Child’s Heart Take fears seriously—even if they seem small Be present and comforting (“Jesus with skin on”) Limit overstimulating media befor...

Homeschool Teaching Checklist: How to Improve Your School Year Without Starting Over In this encouraging episode of Vintage Homeschool Moms, Felice Gerwitz walks through practical teaching tips, homeschool methods, and a flexible checklist to help moms create a more effective and enjoyable homeschool year. Listen to the episode here: Sponsored by CTCMath.com Homeschooling can feel overwhelming—even when you’re doing a lot right. You may have the curriculum. You may have a routine. And you may even have a plan. But sometimes, a few weeks or months into the school year, you start asking yourself: Is this working? Are my kids actually learning? Do I need to change something? How do I make homeschool feel less stressful and more effective? The good news? You do not need to scrap your school year and start from scratch. Sometimes the best thing you can do is pause and use a simple homeschool teaching checklist to evaluate what’s working, what’s not, and what small changes can make your homeschool stronger, calmer, and more effective. Handout: 49-VHM_TeachingCheckList More Homeschool Help You May Enjoy Time to Learn: How to Stay Consistent in Your Homeschool Best Homeschool Planning Tips (Replay) Fine-Tune Your Homeschool Day: Small Tweaks for a Smoother Routine What to Do When Homeschool Isn’t Working Homeschooling 101 Pre-K to Kindergarten What Is a Homeschool Teaching Checklist? A homeschool teaching checklist is a simple way to step back and look at the big picture of your homeschool year. It helps you answer questions like: Are we covering the basics? Is my child learning in a way that actually works for them? Do we need more structure—or less? Have I made room for fun, creativity, and real-life learning? Are we building a homeschool that fits our family? A good homeschool checklist isn’t about perfection. It’s about intentional progress. And honestly? Sometimes just taking time to evaluate your homeschool can bring a huge sense of relief. Why Evaluating Your Homeschool Year Matters Many homeschool moms wait until the end of the year to reflect. But the best time to make improvements is while you’re still in it. You don’t have to wait until summer. You can stop right now and ask: What is going well? Where are we frustrated? What feels heavy or forced? What’s missing? Felice shares that even in the middle of a school year, it’s worth taking time to reassess your approach and make changes that support your child’s learning style and your family’s season of life. That means if you’ve had: a new baby, schedule changes, burnout, curriculum frustration, or just a rough start… …it is not too late to make homeschool better. The Truth Most Homeschool Moms Need to Hear You are not failing because your homeschool doesn’t look like someone else’s. That might be one of the most important reminders in this episode. It’s easy to compare your homeschool to: the mom in co-op, the beautifully organized Instagram homeschool room, the family who seems to do every field trip, project, and unit study, or the friend who somehow makes sourdough, teaches Latin, and has matching baskets. But your homeschool does not need to look like theirs. Your homeschool needs to work for <strong data-start="3334" data-...

Teaching Kids Problem Solving Skills: A Fun Homeschool Life Skill Sponsored by CTCMath.com Want to teach your kids how to think before they act? Problem solving is one of the most important life skills children can learn—and it doesn’t have to come from a workbook. In fact, some of the best lessons happen through real-life situations, silly scenarios, and everyday decisions. In this Just for Kids episode, Felice Gerwitz (Vintage Homeschool Moms Podcast) walks children through a memorable problem-solving challenge using a dog, spilled paint, and a whole lot of thinking. Along the way, kids learn how to slow down, consider their options, and make wiser choices. For homeschool parents, this episode is more than just entertaining. It’s a simple way to teach critical thinking, decision-making, and self-control in a format your kids will actually remember. Find more Just For Kids episodes: 50 Summer Projects For Kids | Just for Kids Podcast Soldier Lessons Teaching Truth To Kids What are problem solving skills for kids? Problem solving skills for kids are the ability to think through a situation, consider different options, weigh the pros and cons, and choose a wise solution. Teaching children problem solving helps them build critical thinking, better decision-making, and confidence in everyday life. These are skills that matter in academics—but even more in life. Why problem solving matters in your homeschool Homeschooling gives us the unique opportunity to teach more than just subjects. We also get to teach our children how to think. When kids learn how to solve problems, they begin to: think before reacting consider consequences make wiser decisions stay calmer in stressful situations build independence and confidence That’s why problem solving is such a valuable homeschool life skill. It supports character, maturity, and common sense—not just schoolwork. And honestly? Most kids need more practice in this area than we realize. A simple method for teaching kids problem solving: SODAS In this episode, Felice teaches a simple acronym kids can remember: SODAS Each letter stands for a step in solving a problem: S = Situation O = Options D = Disadvantages A = Advantages S = Solution This is a fantastic framework for homeschool families because it gives children a concrete way to stop, think, and work through what to do next. It’s also something parents can use again and again in everyday life. Teaching kids to think through consequences One of the biggest challenges for children is that they often act first and think later. That’s normal—but it’s also something we can train. A simple problem-solving process helps children move from impulsive reactions to thoughtful choices. Instead of: panicking blaming yelling freezing up …they begin to ask: What happened? What are my options? What might happen if I choose this? What would be the wisest solution? That’s a skill worth practicing. Just for Kids: Let’s Practice Problem Solving Together Okay kids—this part is for you. Have you ever had an adult ask you: “What were you thinking?” If they have… that probably means something didn’t go very well. But here’s the good news: thinking is a skill, and like any skill, you can get better at it with practice. When we solve a problem, we use our minds to figure out an answer or a solution. You already do this every day: solving math problems answering questions in school figuring out mysteries in books deciding what to do when something ...

Parenting Secrets Episode 326 Parenting doesn’t come with a manual—but some things really do help. If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re doing enough, saying the right thing, or helping your kids grow in the right direction, this episode is for you. Listen to This Episode Want the encouragement and practical takeaways in audio form? Press play and listen while you fold laundry, drive, or reset your homeschool day. New Here? If you’re looking for practical homeschool parenting encouragement, start here: Parenting In A Media Saturated World Parenting That Works Successful Parenting ~ That Works! Parenting with Influence with Roger and Jan Smith – MBFLP 292 Browse Parenting & Family Episodes Thanks to our sponsor, CTC Math. Learn more at ctcmath.com — and visit their website. Top Parenting Secrets Covered in This Episode 1. Parenting starts with clarity Knowing your values and long-term goals changes how you respond in the moment. 2. Your relationship matters more than your image Connection is often more powerful than control. 3. Encouragement changes everything Kids often rise—or shut down—based on the tone of the home. 4. Small shifts can create a more peaceful home Routines, expectations, and consistency matter more than perfection. This Episode Is Especially Helpful If… you feel like you’re constantly correcting instead of connecting you want more peace in your home you’re parenting strong-willed, emotional, or resistant kids you want practical encouragement—not guilt you’re homeschooling and parenting at the same time (because of course you are ) Listen Next: More Parenting Encouragement Homeschool Lifestyle Last Minute DIY Tips Money Saving Field Trips All About Teaching Raising Spiritually Strong Kids Six Homeschooling Insider Tips Best Staycations for Kids Avoid Curriculum Pitfalls Top 10 Parenting Secrets 45 Family Date Night Ideas Check out parenting help here, including our popular Character Planners – Planners and Printables The post Top 10 Parenting Secrets with Felice Gerwitz appeared first on Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network.

Vintage Homeschool Moms: Discover Your Passion Feeling like there’s never enough time to do homeschool “right”? Feeling like it’s hard to get started… or stay consistent in your homeschool? You’re not alone. Sometimes the biggest challenge isn’t curriculum—it’s simply finding your rhythm and knowing when it’s time to lean in and begin again. This encouraging episode will help you rethink what really matters, create space for meaningful learning, and give your child room to discover what lights them up. Listen to This Episode Need encouragement while you fold laundry, prep dinner, or reset your homeschool plans? Press play here. New Here? If you’re looking for practical homeschool encouragement, start here: Homeschool Help Parenting & Family Homeschool Planning & Organization Vintage Homeschool Moms Keep Listening Homeschool Motivation Strategies That Work How To Be Consistent In Your Homeschooling Start Your Homeschool Day Right: Morning Routines That Set the Tone for Success A Special Replay Episode We’re excited to bring you this replay of a beloved episode from the Vintage Homeschool Moms archives! Whether you’re new to our show or revisiting this valuable conversation, we hope you’ll find fresh inspiration and practical wisdom for your homeschool journey. This timeless discussion about helping children discover their passions and making the most of your homeschool time is just as relevant today as when it first aired. This Episode Is Especially Helpful If… you feel behind in your homeschool you’re worried your child hasn’t “found their thing” your days feel too rushed or too reactive you want to make space for meaningful learning you need permission to slow down a little Episode Overview Do you feel like you don’t have enough time to give your kids the education you dream of? In this encouraging episode, host Felice Gerwitz challenges one of the biggest myths in homeschooling: the idea that we don’t have enough time. The truth? You have all the time in the world—because YOU are in charge of your schedule! Key Takeaways Breaking Free from the School Model Your homeschool doesn’t need to mimic public or private schools The goal is creating a love of learning, not covering every subject daily Teaching children HOW to research and find answers is more valuable than rote memorization You ARE the Giver of Time You control your homeschool schedule Even college-bound students can have time for passion exploration Start small: 15-20 minutes before lunch or dinner What Does Passion Look Like? When children discover their passion, they: Get excited and want to share with others Show enthusiasm naturally Return to activities repeatedly Want to learn more and go deeper Practical Ideas for Younger Children The Creativity Box – Collect Recyclables: Toilet paper and paper towel rolls Sturdy plastic yogurt containers String, balloons, and straws Tape (kids love tape!) Paper cups and baggies Simple Science Activities: Balloon rockets on string ziplines Baking soda and vinegar experiments Magnifying glass exploration (outside!) Paper towel roll marble runs Building and Creating: Blocks and bricks (Legos, Duplos) Fort-building with blankets and chairs Open-ended construction materials Tips for Encouraging Discovery Be Encouraging and Enthusiastic – Even when things get messy! Ask “Tell Me About It” – Instead of “What is that?” which can discourage children Listen Patiently – Give children time to explain their creations and ideas Provide Resources – Start simple and gradually add complexity <li class="py-1" data-streamdown="lis...

What are the time savers that can help you each day? How do you implement them in a life that is already overflowing with things to do, and people to see? Every mom has her best-kept secrets on productivity and getting things done, and in this podcast, Felice Gerwitz shares her top ten with you. Top Ten Time Savers ~ Episode 524 Sponsored by CTCMath.com We all need to save time each day, and I have learned the hard way that making the time to get organized needs to become a priority and not an afterthought. This actually came to me at homeschool conferences. And, it was thanks to people like you, who share your hearts with conference speakers, that I was able to reflect on my own life. One of the most enjoyable parts of speaking over the years at the conference was the people I met and how much I learned from all of you. Your insights and experiences have been invaluable in shaping my understanding of productivity. Oftentimes it was to take a closer look at my life and actually get it as together as people seemed to think that I had my life! I mean, to get to speak at a conference, you have to know what you are talking about, right? Sure. On topics of teaching science, implementing hands-on teaching methods in your homeschool, creating winning science fair projects, writing and publishing books, and wait for it…”Getting Things Done” in your homeschool! Questions I was typically asked at homeschool conferences: “How did you have time to write books and homeschool?” My answer? I made the time. Another asked, “How do you do so much?” My answer? “I do many things, but not all of them well.” or my favorite, “When I grow up I want to be like you.” (I smiled and thought — is she saying I’m old?) Time Savers That Help! Mega Lists Organizational Hacks Okay, all kidding aside, what are some time savers that help? I have a list that I will share and then explain. The list contains things to help you now with time saving, but really, it goes deeper. It is a matter of training yourself to compete in this world of disorder and distraction and come out on top (or at least in the top ten)! Top Ten Time Savers: Saying no. Putting things in their place. Finding your things a place if they don’t have one. (Keys, books, etc.) Do it now. Write it on a mega list. (electronic – Evernote – or Notes on Mac) Child discipline Avoid distractions. No phone conversations/ texts Errands/ appointments on one day Shop online Get refreshed Number One: Saying No! Moms, quit volunteering. I know it is fun, it makes us feel productive, but it is a time suck. Maybe do it for one year, but not consistently. People will take advantage of you, and I learned that it was better to pour the time and effort into my own family rather than work myself to the bone and ignore my husband and kids because I had to prepare 42 cupcakes for co-op and plan a lesson because otherwise it would not get done. There is a season for volunteering, it is not when you have little ones and no energy or time. Harsh? Maybe, but true. Number Two: Putting Things In Their Place How many hours have you spent searching for things? Lost keys, books, toys, papers? Am I right? If you have a place to hang your keys (or leave them in a special pocket in your purse, a file for papers, a notebook for homeschool papers, a homeschool shelf, or a bin for books, it will save you a lifetime of searching. Number Three: Do It Now Do you know it takes brain power to put things off for later, especially if you forget, or it weighs upon your mind? I try to do things as soon as possible that need to be completed whenever I can. I have found in over thirty years of being in business that the busiest people I know are the ones who get back to me the fastest. When I asked for recommendations for books I was writing, those who I thought would never do it got back to me within the hour in some cases and one day in another. They’ve taught themselves how to be productive. Number Four: Mega List I have mega lists for various things, groceries are one. I take off the things I don’t need and I’m off to the store. My latest is sticky notes near the refrigerator, and I write down what we need to replace when we need it. It saves so much time. I keep lists of my kid’s sizes and now grandkids’ sizes so that when I shop, I have these handy. It is a good practice and one that is helpful. But, where is your list? Some people use Evernote. I like to use the notepad on PCs –they even have tabs (but be sure to save it –two places! or Notes on the Mac. Number Five: Discipline How much time do you waste on misbehaving kids? Hours. Kids, many of them, have a hard time understanding cause and effect. Implementing this simple process will help you tremendously and free up time but it takes follow through on your part. Are you ready? Set parameters and keep to it. For example, sit your children down (three and older) and explain to them the consequences of misbehavior. The younger the child the teaching moments will come as the child is misbehaving. For example, leaving the remote control alone. If you do not have it out of reach but do not want children touching it, explain the consequences if they break the rules. It is simple but effective only if you follow through. With teens, my philosophy was to say there was going to be a punishment; however, I had to pray about it and would let them know. It only took one time for them to understand that mom having a bit of time to think about a punishment rather than react was allot worse than reaction. We have many podcasts on the topic of the discipline on the Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network. Number Six: Avoid Distractions What is your number one distractor? For me, it is many things. Often, when I sit down to work, the thoughts of twelve other things I need to do jump into my mind. I either write down the important ones or ignore them and yes, it takes mega discipline to do that. However, avoiding distractions is important to getting things done. I’m not talking about your kids or husband here, but I do know it is those little things that get us sidetracked. Number Seven: Phone/Texts When I first started homeschooling, we all purchased answering machines (yes, it was a thing) so that we could avoid picking up the phone in order to focus on our homeschooling. Phone calls were distracting. Now we have texts and while I agree it is way shorter to text than talk, it is still distracting. Put your phone in another room, and if you must, set up a ringer for special people that call so you will know if it is a parent or your spouse. Number Eight: Errands I group errands and appointments, if possible, close together and on one day so only a portion of my time is disrupted rather than two or three days a week. I also do some of my errands in geographical locations. Save so much time. Number Nine: Shop Online Don’t judge, but I started even doing my grocery shopping on occasion online. One of us picks it up or I have it delivered. When I am in a bind, it is so helpful and saves me money and time. Number Ten: Refreshed I realized some years back, after I was physically sick, that I had to take control of my health; otherwise, there might be dire consequences. So many of you have your hands full, and my daughter, with nine children, four teens, and the rest under the age of twelve, is an example of this! If you can ask your relatives for help, or partner with a friend. One of my friends had several she traded off with for babysitting services. She’d watch their kids when needed as well. It was so helpful. Sometimes she’d go to a park to pray and felt she was refreshed after this time alone with the Lord. If even one of these things is helpful, I’m glad! There are many printable planners on the MediaAngels.com/store website you can download that may help! Thanks so much for taking the time to stop by and please share this episode or podcast with a friend if ...

Party Shortcuts – Episode 466 Sponsored by CTCMath.com Birthdays. Graduations. Special Events. Oh. My! Party shortcuts and planning are the only way I survive hosting events, and in the many years of motherhood, grandmotherhood (yes, that is a thing), and having the largest house so of course family comes here. Join me as I share my best secrets for hosting with you. Visit my website at Media Angels.com for great books, character planning guides and so much more. The latest and greatest party I finished hosting was the Easter Sunday meal. We had 24 people, then 28, and then 29, and we ended with 32 people in all. We had sixteen children, sixteen and under, and seventeen adults. Truthfully, the numbers this year threw me because we typically have a sit-down meal – buffet style, but still, everyone has a seat and the odd number at one big table with extensions and additional tables added was a bit of a juggle. But, we did it and everything went beautifully down to the previously prepared casseroles and dishes and the last-minute baked ham and tenderloin roast. My short-cuts have taken me years to perfect and it has taken years of slowly buying one new thing to add to my party arsenal, but it has been money-saving in the long run. I tried many different things. One year I used disposable plates. The next year I added disposable utensils, cups, and napkins, but I didn’t like how they looked and they were expensive especially if I wanted party store variety rather than bargain-basement styrofoam. The first thing I did was gather tablecloths. Not super expensive or linen, but cotton. Something that would hold up to years of washing and continue to look good. Also, it had to be something that could handle the invariable stains and spills. I ended up with two color schemes that also went with the colors of my accent walls. One was a deep burgundy table cloth that I paired with matching cloth napkins, and the next was a golden color that I paired with blue napkins. I made napkin rings after the ones I wanted were five dollars each! I used shower curtain plastic circles as well as wood dowels – each had different colors of ribbon wrapped around and glued in place. For the wood, I used a light, glimmery (not glittery – I do not like glitter!) and those were translucent and so pretty. So with tables done, I searched for decorations that could be used for birthdays as well as holidays and found sales on candles after the summer bridal season in white and off-white. I purchased these back in 2005 when my daughter married and I still use them on special occasions – I don’t light them, although I have them they don’t look as great placed out as decorations. My biggest expense was cut flowers that I purchased. I stretched bouquets with baby’s breath and smaller vases to place on the tables. It stretches your flower budget remarkably well! Next was food – what do I serve that will again not break the bank? First off appetizers help tremendously in cutting down the food cost. It can be as easy as a cheese platter and crackers, veggies, and dip. This year I assigned appetizers to the guests and it was remarkable in that they arrived on time or early (then you have free help if you need last-minute things) and it took the early prep work off my list. Baked ham is relatively inexpensive if you do not buy the already sliced and prepared. I know many people like the honey-baked ham, but a large pre-cooked ham roast you get at the grocery store can feed an army. Potatoes are another way to fill people up and of course, there are rolls. Round it off with a salad and chips (if you have kids) and you are ready to go. I bake or prep casseroles ahead of time so they need to be taken out to warm up slightly before baking or it take way too long. Our family is a fan of lasagna and at any given time I have no less than three prepared in the freezer ready to go. All it takes is a salad and bread to round off that easy meal. (Well, easy once it’s prepared.) So last minute and party shortcuts in a nutshell: Collect reusable table cloths, napkins, and serving trays. Use plastic wear and disposable items when there is a large crowd, or want less clean up. Assign a dish for others to bring. Plan out the menu at least three weeks in advance and shop sales. Bake and freeze whenever possible. Set out tables and chairs the day before with assigned seating. Guest appreciate this and of course, people can change or move, but it gives everyone a place to sit and put their stuff. Use name cards for place settings (I keep mine year after year). Use fresh flowers for a splash of color. Take out the trash the day before (don’t forget to clean the bathroom guests will use.) Make a time chart of when dishes need to be baked or reheated as well as when to take things out of the refrigerator or oven (once items go in!). Use juice boxes for the little kids – so much easier and less spilled. Have water, lemonade and tea for everyone else – if people want special drinks they can bring them. Use plastic cups with a sharpy to keep everyone’s drinks straight. Have one or two people in charge to help you. Assign clean-up! As much as I try to prepare ahead of time there is always last-minute things that need my attention, and truthfully the hostess rarely gets to mingle with the guests until the meal is served! In our home we have the oldest go through the line first, and when it is the parent’s turn with the little ones, they can get their children’s meals. Usually, everyone has snacked on appetizers that no one is starving and it works out well. The post Party Shortcuts (Replay) appeared first on Ultimate Homeschool Podcast Network.