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Tammy
We'Re just two unapologetically black women with an opinion.
AJ Holiday
What's up y' all? It's your girl, aj. Howdy. What's up? Broke back down?
Tammy
Hey y' all. I love y' all so, so very much. Aj. I love you so much. I'm so happy today.
AJ Holiday
Thank God.
Tammy
Yes. Amen.
AJ Holiday
Amen. Thank God. It's. It's always a good day when you're happy, right?
Tammy
Yes. I don't know if it's the endorphins from working out, but I just been, like a happy period. Yeah. I just been waking up happy, going to sleep happy. Yeah. What can. Who can stop me, you know? That's how I feel.
AJ Holiday
I mean, I'd be happy nowadays, too, you know, it was a something. Sometimes some things, like, you know, happiness is very fleeting. I feel like in life, like, you have happy, and then you just got all these spurts of fucked up. Spurts of fucked up.
Tammy
Yeah.
AJ Holiday
So that's where gratitude come in, right? That helps you stay happy. Like, man, I got all this other good shit going, man. Fuck this little piece of that I'm going through today, okay? On the grand scheme of things, life is lit.
Tammy
Girl 2024 humbled me so much that. Listen, if you. If y' all are going through some hard times, it's just going to make the good times that much better. That's how you got to view it. It might suck right now, but the good times are coming. And when they come, they gonna feel that much better because you went through that hard.
AJ Holiday
Yeah, it's like, you know, life be kind of like helping you fortify your mind, right. So you could be accepting when the shit. The good shit do come. Like, you gotta go through the hard times because you don't even respect the good times without the hard times. Man, I remember when. You know what I'm saying? And that's how you stay in that present, happy moment, right? Yep. Ooh. So I saw my friend's baby finally.
Tammy
Yeah.
AJ Holiday
Yeah, I've been busy all week. So Saturday. No, that was actually Sunday I saw him. Because Saturday I went to go see sinners. Went to early matinee, saw that. And then T.J. maxx, Costco.
Tammy
That sounds like a good day, you.
AJ Holiday
Know, because we were in Atlanta prior to then, and then the whole week just was. My whole week in between is just crammed with a bunch of other shit, and I really didn't have time.
Tammy
I need a favor.
AJ Holiday
What?
Tammy
Costco, y' all, Costco got this big candle. Oh, big ass candle.
AJ Holiday
I seen them. They $49.
Tammy
Can you get that? Can you go get me one?
AJ Holiday
And do what with it? Just have it. I. Listen, I didn't buy it because I didn't want to walk it up the stairs.
Tammy
Listen, leave it in your trunk. Wrap it.
AJ Holiday
Let's go. Wrap it go melt in the trunk. I seen somebody bring melted candles and Yankee Candle one day, and I'm like, that left them in the car and came and returned them to y' all. Yeah, it's gonna melt in the car. So, like, I got it. I didn't buy one because I didn't feel like bringing it upstairs. And also, I've been wanting to make my own candles because all of these candles are toxic. So imagine if you got that big stupid ass candle in your house and it's toxic.
Tammy
You gotta be careful with making your own candles because why I'm gonna set my shop on fire with a homemade candle. One of my clim.
AJ Holiday
What was it made of? Was it soy?
Tammy
I don't know, but I know the wall. Like, it was. It was a nice candle. It smelled good. Once it started getting close to the bottom, it erupted in fire and shot up the wall in my salon.
AJ Holiday
What?
Tammy
Yeah. Like, for real. About kill everybody in there.
AJ Holiday
Maybe she had like all the. I don't know, the. The oil stuff and I don't know. Why. Why would that happen? Girl, Is that really your friend?
Tammy
Yeah. She's so sweet.
AJ Holiday
Okay.
Tammy
She buy me gifts for every holiday. She would never. I don't think she'd ever try to harm me.
AJ Holiday
That's weird.
Tammy
Yeah. But be careful with making your own candles.
AJ Holiday
I mean, I guess you could, like. I guess I feel like that could happen with. People have burned their houses now with candles, leaving them lit somewhere. So it's probably not about making your own candle, Right? You know, it's the ingredients.
Tammy
Yeah.
AJ Holiday
Yeah. Something was super inflammable.
Tammy
Flammable. That almost burnt my whole.
AJ Holiday
So I did Costco.
Tammy
Basically what you're saying is you're not gonna get that for me. I see how you did that.
AJ Holiday
Listen, I will get the candle for you, but it is. I mean, do you really want that thing? It's enormous.
Tammy
Yes, I want it.
AJ Holiday
It's like a trash can size.
Tammy
Yes. I like it.
AJ Holiday
Okay. And they really smell really good, too.
Tammy
If they have anyone that has vanilla in it, that's the one I want.
AJ Holiday
They did have a vanilla. I'll see if they still in there. And they definitely was in there this weekend because I did pick that big up.
Tammy
Yeah.
AJ Holiday
I definitely saw it. So Costco, all that stuff. And then Sunday, I saw the baby. I packed the bag Saturday morning. I mean, Sunday morning, because another friend, her little daughter had like a dance recital. So I packed the bag, went and spent the morning with the baby, and then I went to the dance recital. And then I came home. Yeah, I know, right? Might as well.
Tammy
What about the cute kids? I didn't do nothing. But listen, you got to be careful what you pray for. Because I was like, God, I need a financial blessing. I need money, lord. And when I tell you my books was booked and busy, like, from top to bottom, like, day after day. I was working like 13, 14 hour. Thursday, Friday, Saturday, I was so busy. But I needed that money. I need the money. What is it? What was her name? Stoney. Yeah, so that's what I did. I worked all weekend and I was ugly. Remember I had that lace, y' all. When I tell you my lace was sitting back to the middle of my head.
AJ Holiday
It was so bad. You had that hairstyle for one day, like one week.
Tammy
It was.
AJ Holiday
It was over.
Tammy
I went to, like, I went to chick fil a to give me a salad on my lunch, and I had took my hat off because it was so hot, and I took it off and I. I went through the drive through and I forgot that I did not put my hat back on for the drive. The girl at the drive through, and she was taking my order, but she was staring at my lace the whole time like, I know, get my sandwich.
AJ Holiday
Get in the sins we got going on, child, with the crazy fools in the world today. So I saw a Florida man arrested for having three wives in three different counties. Did y' all see that headline?
Tammy
Florida is an interesting place, man.
AJ Holiday
Yes.
Tammy
The best people, the most interesting people come out of Florida. I swear. This man had. Did you see him? He had them yelling eyes and chocolate skin.
AJ Holiday
Yes, he was. He was a nice looking man and he was finessing white women. So it's okay. So it's not. I'm just playing. Y' all just playing. I'll just play. So. So he's facing charges for marrying three Florida women in three different counties at the same time. He met these women, like on dating websites and basically married one like he was marrying them or they were accepting his hand in marriage within a couple weeks. So, I mean, they kind of foolish themselves.
Tammy
He was dicking them down with them staring in today. So green eyes.
AJ Holiday
And, you know, obviously it was more of a financial gain for him, you know, than for them.
Tammy
But how. How is the government going to say, what if he says, I'm. This is my religion?
AJ Holiday
I think he has. I don't know. I don't know how that works. For real.
Tammy
Because they say, what religion? And my own Muslim.
AJ Holiday
Muslims have multiple wives.
Tammy
People say, can't you create who Decides what?
AJ Holiday
Yeah, the religion is.
Tammy
It's my own religion that I started.
AJ Holiday
Right? And so the women are mad because they're saying, like, it's not really enough safeguards to prevent shit like this because somebody can get married in another country. I mean, excuse me, another state, another city. Get on.
Tammy
You don't even know that you know him for a couple weeks.
AJ Holiday
Yes. Is Google not a part of dating? Like, Google is definitely a part of dating. When you meet a. Like, I might not never tell you I done Googled your ass, but please believe I know you. I know your mama. I know your siblings, something. I know your address.
Tammy
And my sister paid what my older sister be paying for some type of little thing where you can find out like. Like some. Everybody. Like, real.
AJ Holiday
I keep a subscription. I'll cancel the trial, but I definitely be signing up for, like, peoplefinder.com and like that.
Tammy
Yes, I will know where your mama live at in two seconds.
AJ Holiday
And I'm kind of known for that. Like, if people want to find somebody, they'd be like, actually, I'm definitely a pet detective. I'm gonna find your ass. So. So it says a man is facing charges for marrying three feet, three. Three Florida women in three different countries. Excuse why I keep saying countries in three different counties at the same time. Now these women are speaking out, saying the system that handles marriage licenses. Licenses kept them in the dark. There are no. No safeguards. And I feel like that's part of where the system failed. Michelle, Betsy said he took each one of us to a county over to get married. Oh, so they actually probably live in the same area.
Tammy
They went to high school together.
AJ Holiday
Yeah, yeah, yeah. And then basically they're saying, like, if the counties actually talked, right? If the systems talked, he wouldn't have been able to do this because it's not like he was getting married to.
Tammy
Them under different names.
AJ Holiday
Yeah, it's not like he was getting married to them under aliases or anything. Like, he was himself marrying. Marrying these women. So he's apparently all of a sudden.
Tammy
Start marrying a bunch of back to. Back to back.
AJ Holiday
He probably been doing that. The nigga probably married in other states. Yeah, he probably been doing that.
Tammy
That's crazy. All right, so a scavenger hurt turn, manhunt. Police say a man hit Easter eggs with we in city parks. I actually. I was impressed with his marketing strategy, honestly. So.
AJ Holiday
What marketing strategy? Like, he just put online, like, drug sellers. So first of all. So you're not a real hustler if you're selling drugs. If you don't translate into, like, something.
Tammy
Like, everybody got drugs. How do you set your drugs apart from everybody else's?
AJ Holiday
You make them free and you hide them in parks. That's not marketing.
Tammy
He posted, like, my weed all over the city. If you find an egg, like, I thought that was creative. Now, at first I was. I thought he did, like, an Easter egg hunt at his home for his, like, homeboys and friends and family. Seen that, where people have, like, a Easter party and they'll have an Easter egg hunt, and the Easter eggs will have, like, shot bottles and condoms and stuff like that in it. In my 20s, we did that when I was living in England, but so I thought this was that. And I was like, what's the big deal? It's at his home. It's with his friends who snitch. But this was leaving it around the city for people to find out. But somebody baby can find it. That's where he messed up. You can't be.
AJ Holiday
Yeah, somebody's daughter found one and they turned it into. The police.
Tammy
They said. Police said the eggs were hidden on Easter Sunday in three public parks in a motel. The Imagine man alleged allegedly behind it is now wanted.
AJ Holiday
Stupid.
Tammy
Yeah, that wasn't smart.
AJ Holiday
That was not smart.
Tammy
But I appreciate the sentiment.
AJ Holiday
I would do it, though. I would. I mean, I definitely would have partaken in the Easter egg hunt for the weed.
Tammy
Yeah, me too.
AJ Holiday
You know, you got those people who, like, hide money around the city, and I guess that's what he was doing, essentially.
Tammy
This guy I knew, he did, like, a shoe drive, and he hid sneakers around the city in different places for, like, nice dough.
AJ Holiday
So who the is the Bish Gossip? I never even heard of this blog, but there's an article out there. It says 51 of women ages 18 to 40 are single. Researchers say this is due to the rise in income education for women. The single woman no longer having a negative stigma in society and marriage being more important to men. Y' all remember when niggas are saying, like, they. They don't benefit from marriage? We've been debunked that right? So it says a record. A record 51% of U.S. women ages 18 to 40 were single in 2023. That's after Covid, up from 42% in. In 2000, according to Census data by the Aspen Economic Strategy Group. That's in part due to the closing gender gap in opportunity and earnings, as well as decline in stigma associated with women being single. Marriage rates for both men and women are in decline. So it Says today women are less likely than men to say marriage is important to their life goals and happiness. More women than men attribute being single to struggling to find partners who meet their standards. A fact that experts say may be exacerbated by the perceived limitless of dating apps. I, I, I agree with that. Like especially Instagram is like a hoidex, you know what I'm saying? Like men and women could just get a new every day, right? Get a new girl every day. And it says, meanwhile, Gen Z women are leading cultural shifts like the boy sober trend. Focusing more on self. Oh boy sober. Okay. Focusing more on self growth and friendships. They're less likely to date a young age. Excuse me? They're less likely to date at a young age and are having less sex. Though these trends have given rise to new concerns about loneliness among young people, these young girls is lit now. A couple of them still getting pregnant.
Tammy
Still getting pregnant. But they not like when we were.
AJ Holiday
Yeah, I just feel like they and it, and it does come with, you know, being okay with being by yourself because it's not a bad thing. You got to know yourself before you invite anybody else into your space. So I definitely applaud that shit for younger women and you know, because maybe we just thought it was so important at that age. Like I gotta guess, I gotta have somebody, I gotta do this. Like because you talked about raised and.
Tammy
You just think about from the beginning we read these fairy tales and these books about our night and shining armor coming to save us from some dragon.
AJ Holiday
The we're gonna do a class action lawsuit against Disney because they really fucked.
Tammy
Us up in the them books with the gold bar. Yeah. Coming for y' all motherfucking ass.
AJ Holiday
I still love Cinderella movies, man. The play this weekend, the dance recital was like a hip hop Cinderella.
Tammy
Yeah.
AJ Holiday
And they had like Bobby Brown was the prince. They were saying Whitney Houston songs. It was nice. But yeah, like I don't know, man. I do encourage younger women to spend more time with themselves, understand themselves and what they like, you know what I'm saying? And also become the partner you want. You got to also be that person that you want.
Tammy
Yes.
AJ Holiday
So that, so that when it comes along, you recognize it.
Tammy
You know what? I, I would like to see a world where the black family exists again in a full dynamic, but maybe not the way it was back in the day where women was getting beat and left in the house with kids, you know?
AJ Holiday
Yeah, I don't think that's everybody experience, but it definitely is a lot of older women experiences which is why they then taught the daughters, be able to take care of yourself so you don't have to deal with this type of behavior.
Tammy
Right. Because they, you know, people like Big Mama stayed. Big Mama had to stay and she hated it. Yeah. She didn't want to stay and she cheated. Yeah.
AJ Holiday
Let's be very clear.
Tammy
And that's why your, one of your cousins, one of your uncles is light skinned and the rest of them dark. But your daddy dark as hell.
AJ Holiday
Somebody else raised that baby.
Tammy
So what are we. Do we have another sin?
AJ Holiday
Oh, we didn't talk about the Met Gala though.
Tammy
All right. Yeah, let's talk about the Met Gala. I, I listen, I ain't gonna lie. I wanted to kick Andre 3000 right in the piano. Why he had that piano on his bed.
AJ Holiday
What's the famous piano player? Because that's what it what basically he was paying homage to like somebody from the dandyism time. Because that was a theme of the, of the Met Gala this year. And don't you know, they raised more money. This is. They raised more money this year than any year. That's because a lot of black people were involved.
Tammy
You see how we, where does the money go? Because they, they raised 31 million. The most is charity.
AJ Holiday
Different charities. I mean, I'm pretty sure they got a list of charities because the Met gal is supposedly like a non profit. 501c3.
Tammy
I thought it goes to maintaining the museum.
AJ Holiday
That's it. $31,031 million. Nah, bro. Probably go to sex trafficking. But in the next episode because that whole is a ritual to me, y' all. I be trying to stay human with the. But I be watching these things and like this is the minstrel. Minstrel.
Tammy
I, I didn't tell y' all this. I, I know we, we're we talking about the Met Gala, but I gotta tell y' all about my flight. Did I tell you about my flight? So my flight into New York, y' all, it was 5 in the morning. It was so foggy. Why the pilot couldn't land the plane, y' all. When I tell you I was so scared. Like we went down and you know how you got to go by the Hudson River. He couldn't see. So we was like right above the water. And he shot back up in the air. I'm talking about real fast. We did that four times before we touched the ground. When I tell you my ass cheeks was sore from squeezing so tight.
AJ Holiday
Final Destination.
Tammy
I've never been so scared on a flight in my life. And he was he was coming over to Mike. He was like, I can't see. The visibility is just too low. I can't see, you know? So I'm gonna try to come in from a different angle and see if we can get some visibility. Did that four times. It felt like I was going through the fog. That movie, the Fog. Like, I came into a different dimension. There's a bald head man sitting next to me. When we touched down, I grabbed that by the head and was like, I swear I did. All right. I'm sorry I had to tell y' all that, but okay. Met Gala. Who is your favorite dress?
AJ Holiday
I did like. What's the name? Little Louis Vuitton. Little outfit Doshi. I like that look. What's the girl who had the hot pink on Audra Day? Audra Day. I liked her look. It was a couple of looks I liked.
Tammy
It was a couple rug all the way coming on her back.
AJ Holiday
I like that, too. I like. I like Whoopi Goldberg look. Also like the dress slash. And who. Who was the guy with the all white?
Tammy
I like Tiana. Tiana Taylor was giving Paris of the Pirates of the Caribbean. Real nigga. Yeah.
AJ Holiday
All the times in one. You know what I'm saying? She had, like, the prince low.
Tammy
She had a durag on rag. The hats, the chains, the. Yes.
AJ Holiday
So dandyism, okay, so dandyism is a style or manner characterized by excessive attention to dress, grooming, and refined manners often associated with a man who is considered a dandy. Right. So this term came up during the time where black people were definitely being oppressed. Right. And they basically use dress and style as a form of, like, revolt. Yeah, essentially. I think about it like how I said, I'm about to start wearing gloves again. Y' all see my picture? I was looking very dandy. Okay. I really like when a see you dress like that, like, with a skirt past your knees, with some gloves on, with, like, a little headpiece. Like, they automatically know they got to pay bills. It's big draws under this dress. Okay. It's a girdle under this dress. It's some shit under this dress. Like, you can't come over here half stepping. And to me, that's what that look looks like. It looks expensive, right? But we now we're butt naked, and you want somebody to take you serious. Why? They don't have to. They see all the things.
Tammy
Who is we?
AJ Holiday
So imagine if a nigga gotta take these layers off, girl, before they get to me. Like, that's what it's about, right? I'M about to start wearing gloves again. I'm about to set the stand. I'm web have on gloves, wings, and my wand is my new look. Oh, speaking of wands, like, I'm trying to figure out what a. Y' all don't even have a wand. All of a sudden, everybody's a fairy out here. I'm confused. Who confused the song? She was a fairy. She was a fairy. You seen it?
Tammy
I don't.
AJ Holiday
Have you heard it on Instagram?
Tammy
No.
AJ Holiday
She was a fairy on her body. My daddy or some had a song go. But everybody, like, got videos with it now. And I'm like, y' all don't have no wand. Where's your magic, right?
Tammy
All right, y' all, when we come back, AJ saw senders and listen, if you haven't seen it, just go watch it and then come back to this episode because this is going to be a real spoiler. But we're going to talk about it. We'll be right back.
AJ Holiday
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AJ Holiday
All right, y' all. And we're back. And I'm so excited because Tammy is going to let me nerd out the whole episode. It's not really nerd. That's like, real talk, the whole episode. In regards to slash nerd, this movie, you know, Slash nerd. In regards to this movie centers, y' all. I feel like this is an instant classic. It's like Friday horror film is like, I cannot wait for this shit. I might buy it if it comes out. Do DVD still exist? I do have a DVD player.
Tammy
I don't think it's coming out.
AJ Holiday
I need it to be a hot. I want a hard copy of this movie. Like, I don't want to stream it or. Or download it from Amazon or some shit. I want a hard copy of this movie. Like, what form do movies come in now? Do they still sell DVDs, or, like, the little small disc? Where are we? Where are we in time?
Tammy
Yeah. Like, they literally could take all our films away from us right now.
AJ Holiday
Exactly. So I would like a hard copy of this movie. Or maybe I'll have to. When I buy it, I'll download it to a flash drive or something. I don't know.
Tammy
Let me. I'll call Ryan and see if I can get him to send you our copy, girl.
AJ Holiday
So, y' all, I enjoyed this movie thoroughly. And so Tammy did a good job without not telling me, not nothing about the movie. She told me to make sure I wait and stay to the very, very end. And I stayed until the screen was black.
Tammy
Proud of you.
AJ Holiday
But something really weird happened when I did that, though. As I'm sitting there, I'm like, I don't got no weapons on me because y' all know the movie's about vampires. So I'm sitting there like, I don't got no fucking weapon on me. The whole theater is empty, right? Except on my row, it's maybe about eight people and one white lady. Not to say that a white lady isn't a people, but a person, but it was like, eight people, including. It was like eight people including.
Tammy
Including a white lady.
AJ Holiday
And it's like they were staying because I was. Because I'm at the end of the road. It's like the whole theater is gone, and it's just these people on my row and one white lady.
Tammy
Well, maybe they thought to stay, too.
AJ Holiday
That's what I'm saying. But why y' all following me? My role. That don't make sense to me. The whole theater is blank. So now BJ had already left out the theater. So now I'm sitting there and I'm like, I don't have no fucking weapon with me. Like, I'm waiting for this movie to be over, but I'm just in here now by myself. And usually I have a weapon, y' all. I do live my life like a scary movie.
Tammy
Mm.
AJ Holiday
So as soon as the screen went complete black and lights completely on, the first person to speak is this white lady. And she says, what did the vampires represent? I said, energy harvesting. While I'm walking off. She was like, what? I said, energy harvesting as I'm walking off. And it was another couple, like, right behind me. I said, girl, let's get the fuck up out of here for this bitch turn.
Tammy
Now. She was a vampire.
AJ Holiday
She was, man. I believe actual vampires exist. And I also believe, like, the metaphoric, like, you know, any of it. Yeah. Just energy harvesting. Taking someone's essence and life force. Yeah. Those people exist in real life and they're not just white.
Tammy
No.
AJ Holiday
Okay.
Tammy
I really be feeling like people be using me for my energy sometimes. I really be feeling like people, like, try to suck at my energy.
AJ Holiday
Like, seriously, for a long time I felt like that. But I have such a block up now. I have such. I'm more selfish now. I'm gonna go. I have such a block up because you definitely gotta protect your energy. Because I don't even think some people are even consciously aware that that's how they're moving.
Tammy
Yeah.
AJ Holiday
I really don't think they. They, they realize it. It's just who they are. Right. So they go around just feeding, literally feeding on other people's energy. Even somebody who likes to argue for some. I, I can argue. I don't like arguing because I, I feel depleted after arguing, going back and forth with somebody. But there are some people that, that should charge. Charge them up battery so they know exactly where to come to get shits popping. Okay. I know all of a sudden I'm arguing and talking too much with a.
Tammy
Bitch that will, like, reciprocate the energy. So I. I've had people, like, really come to me to, like, poke it out of me and, like. And I'll give it back to him. And then I, after I do, I'm like, damn.
AJ Holiday
Like, I let them get me.
Tammy
Yeah.
AJ Holiday
I let that person then controls you. They're your sire at that point, you know, like the vampire, the main vampire is like the sire to everybody else. So if somebody can get you out your element, like, they have a certain level of control over you.
Tammy
Right. And that's why I eliminate those people from my life. Like, you got to go, baby.
AJ Holiday
They can stay nowadays, bitch, when I tell you I'm shut. You can't have it. I know how great I am. I know how amazing I am, and I'm not letting anybody, like, take that shit from me anymore.
Tammy
Yeah, it is what it.
AJ Holiday
Go. Go get your source feed someplace else because shit is. Is closed over here.
Tammy
I ain't that grown because I'd be like, bitch, what? I'd be like, hold on. Because I got time today now on.
AJ Holiday
An Instagram post or some shit like that. On a Friday. I might got time to cut your ass out. I might got time to cut you out. But I mean, like, in real life, having to exchange actual energy with people, I can't do it. It's not. I can't do it. Like, it doesn't make sense to me anymore. But anyway, back to Centers. Okay, y' all, this is the box office hit. Ryan Coogler's budget for sinners was $90 million initially. Right. Nigga ran into some issues and basically had to put up $10 million of his own money to complete the film. But the film made $237 million worldwide.
Tammy
That's just from first highest grossing global horror film.
AJ Holiday
So the man is out here doing his big one, and then he has, like, some type of. Like the deal he has with Warner Brothers. So it says he secured a share of the film's gross revenue before studio profits, along with creative control and future ownership rights after 25 years of the film. Yeah. So these terms reflect a significant shift towards greater creativity and financial autonomy for filmmakers. This is where I'm trying to be. I want to be able to create with other people money and, like, yeah, y' all get y' all a little share. But I want my family to be able to eat off that forever, too.
Tammy
But why do a film take a hundred million dollars to make? That is insane.
AJ Holiday
Do you see the credits at the end? All those people have to get paid. Yeah, you got hair department, costumes, set design, transportation. I mean, everybody has to get paid.
Tammy
A hundred million dollars.
AJ Holiday
Yes, yes.
Tammy
That's a lot to create a film. I'm gonna make y' all a good movie right now for about to be.
AJ Holiday
So we got some good out there.
Tammy
$2500. We get it done.
AJ Holiday
How many? How much?
Tammy
2500.
AJ Holiday
I watching that shit. Man, that smells stink. So, yeah, like, you gotta pay everybody at the credits at the end of the movie. How many people you think up there for credits? Like, 600 people. That shit be rolling for a good five minutes.
Tammy
It's a lot of people involved and make such a masterpiece. All right, let's get into the storyline.
AJ Holiday
I love this movie so much. So y' all know, I feel like the movie's about me because I'm a Gemini and there were twins in there. And we know, like, twins represent, like, the duality in life, so. So you also had, like, red and blue. So think about, like, the red and blue pill, you know, people take in life. Right, right. So the main characters stack and smoke. Real names was Elijah and Elias. Do you know the story? Like, the Elijah the prophet in the Bible? So Elias is supposed to be, like, basically another name for Elijah. So in the Bible, they. This is only one person, Elijah. Right. But Elijah is supposed to. Or maybe whichever one derives from the other one. But in the Bible, it's just Elijah the prophet. So Elijah or Elias is a prophet and miracle worker who lived in northern kingdom of Israel during the reign of King Ahab. Israel. Where these people at right now who say they them? They the ones they not According to the books of Kings. In the Hebrew Bible, in 1 Kings 18, Elijah defended the worship of the Hebrew deity Yahweh over that of the Canaanite deity ball. So Yahweh is another name for Jesus Christ. Yeah, but it's his actual name because we know the letter J didn't exist during his time. Right. So Yahweh. And then when you take out the vowels and you just have the consonants is your breathing. So every time you breathe, when a baby comes out the womb and takes that first breath. Yeah, yeah, that's God. Your breathing is God. So that's why, like, breath work and all that is so important because it helps you get more oxygen to your brain. You could think clear, you know what I'm saying? I do a lot of breath work. I got this app I use called Open. Y' all should check it out. It's real good.
Tammy
Listen, I've never. I'm. I'm a late. I'm a Southern lady, but I never wanted to brothers so much in my life.
AJ Holiday
A Southern lady.
Tammy
Yo, listen. All right, so Michael B. Jordan is not traditionally fine to me, but it's just something about the madness of that man. Oh, my God.
AJ Holiday
I really liked it.
Tammy
Yes.
AJ Holiday
I really liked him in that movie. Like, I get what you were saying now.
Tammy
Yes, now. All right. It would have been cool to me if they could Smoking Stack could have been Jonathan Majors and Michael B. Jordan playing brothers.
AJ Holiday
No, that would have been good too.
Tammy
Yes. That would have been Choo Choo Choo.
AJ Holiday
Yup.
Tammy
Still the same scenario. Brothers.
AJ Holiday
So Smoke wore the blue hat, right? And he represents, like, muscle, the hand of God and Stack Elias, he had the red hat, smooth talker. He represents the word of God. That's what I took from it, just from the meanings of the names Elijah and Elias. And then you got Remic the vampire, who is Irish. And y' all know, Irish people experienced. First of all, the original Irishman are black people. They had, like, blue eyes, dark skin. They don't really exist that much anymore. But you see them, like, you see these videos and shit like that on Instagram, these people be popping up.
Tammy
Oh, maybe that nigga who marrying all these bitches in Florida.
AJ Holiday
Yeah, he might be. He might. He might be original. He might be a vampire bitch.
Tammy
Listen, here you go.
AJ Holiday
You see. You see how she'll be like.
Tammy
And that's why them ladies married him. After three weeks.
AJ Holiday
He was glamoring, sucking on that coochie.
Tammy
All right.
AJ Holiday
Yeah. So the Irish people experience, like, something kind of sort of the same, you know, treatment that Africans did, and they were sent to America as indentured servants, while the Africans and the people, the indigenous people of this land, they had, like, a life sentence to slavery. Right? So it wasn't until after slavery was kind of abolished, which this movie sets in, like, Jim Crow time. Jim Crow era is after slavery in Mississippi.
Tammy
Right.
AJ Holiday
And now you see how basically, like, how somebody can start then being the oppressor out of survival, essentially. That's what I saw.
Tammy
And when he was talking, like, he was, like, trying to encourage them to join him. He was making some good points. It wasn't.
AJ Holiday
Yes. Like, yes and the necessary evil.
Tammy
Yeah.
AJ Holiday
Right. Because he wanted his people back. And that's all we be wanting. We be wanting our people to get together, like. And. And I guess maybe he only. That's the only way he saw this happening.
Tammy
But listen, the significance was how Sammy could use the power of music. The power of. I think we don't give music the credit that we do and how we let do.
AJ Holiday
It's my religion.
Tammy
Listen. How we let our music be so dark and allow this darkness into our music when it really is a conduit. And that's what Remick saw, that Sammy had this power with his guitar where he could bridge the gap between time in a way. You know, like that scene where they were in that juke joint and it was like girls twerking, our ancestors dancing Africans dancing around the fire.
AJ Holiday
You could feel all of it.
Tammy
Oh, my goodness.
AJ Holiday
I could feel it in my spirit.
Tammy
Me, too. That scene was just, like, breathtaking. Seriously.
AJ Holiday
Did you see the part where they killed Annie because she saw that she was gonna die. She put her bones and shit out on the table, and she saw her fate. And that's why she asked. She told Smoke, listen, if this shit get bad, promise me you kill me, right? Because promise me you won't let me turn, right? And they remember how the. How Remick. Like, every time he turned somebody, he got their thoughts, and they acquired his.
Tammy
Yeah.
AJ Holiday
So now they're like a legion of demons. They're all interconnected. So they needed. So Sammy is the griot. Griot is a person who, like, tells stories through, like, poetry, song music, right? And they keep the history of the people. Like, like a human dictionary, essentially. So Sammy was a human dictionary. So he needed Sammy's information that comes through the mitochondrial bloodline from your mom, right? Like, just. It's just things you remember. Like, it's shit that I have never read that when I see it, I'm like, I knew that. Or I'll know something. It's just like, an inner knowing. Then I'll see something that gives me confirmation. Like, this movie gave me so many confirmations just on, like, the things I already know.
Tammy
And. And that's another thing where I think, like, pain and trauma is passed down from your. Your. Your bloodline, too.
AJ Holiday
Absolutely. So he needed. He needed Sammy's information. He also needed Annie's information, right? To. To bring his people back. So I'm wondering, though, the one part I didn't get, like, are they themselves once they get bit, or are they a whole different entity?
Tammy
Girl, they was a different entity. Singing, all that bluegrass, country music, and Irish, and they was river dancing outside. They was not. It. You know, that wasn't there. That wasn't their aesthetic.
AJ Holiday
You remember the movie, the Key? What's it called? The key?
Tammy
Skeleton Key.
AJ Holiday
Skeleton Key. Do you remember the movie? I just watched that movie, like, within the last couple months again, but I probably done seen that, like, 10 times, remember, on Skeleton Key, like, it was the Africans that were now and, like, in these white people's bodies. So I kind of thought, like, maybe it's the opposite now. So it's like the white people in the black people's body. But I think we. With this particular movie, we got to take race out of it.
Tammy
No, no, we can't. Is such a huge part of it. Because think about this. All the agents of chaos were women. All right? So Mary, she went out there to talk.
AJ Holiday
She should have stayed her ass in the house.
Tammy
She was.
AJ Holiday
She really kicked this shit off because she thought that she could be, like, in the middle. She thought that she could. She didn't have to pick a side.
Tammy
Yeah, she could play both sides for the middle, which is.
AJ Holiday
And she was the biracial character.
Tammy
Right, so she was an agent of chaos. And who else was the Asian of chaos? The Asian woman.
AJ Holiday
Come on in.
Tammy
God damn it. She invited them because.
AJ Holiday
Right, right.
Tammy
She invited them inside, you know, so those two women who were non black characters were the agents of chaos the whole time for me.
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AJ Holiday
Hmm. I just might have to do more.
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Tammy
Right, right.
AJ Holiday
Because they had them in concentration camps, camps and like that on this soil at one point in history. But they were able to set up shop in black communities. And that allowed white people to then extract the resources indirectly from black people through the Asians. Because the Asians could get funding. Exactly.
Tammy
They had two stories in the black community. And listen, she only like, when it was beneficial for her family. She's like, we leaving. She sent her husband out there. And then when it was about her family and her family alone, and she.
AJ Holiday
Invited them in, she didn't give a fuck.
Tammy
No.
AJ Holiday
It's like, my family dead. So now all y' all gotta die. And this is why black people, like, we definitely be on an island by ourselves, you know what I'm saying? We really don't have allies in that way even. Like, and I'm gonna say this, and this is ongoing argument between black Americans, black people in America and Africans, you know what I'm saying? And in different black skinned people across the diaspora, everybody like nigga shit, but they don't like niggas, you know what I'm saying? So the same way that Asians will send their people to another country, to another continent and empower them on that continent, Africans come to America and they send their money back home. Why wouldn't they just help empower us here? Like, why we got to come to Ghana and get citizenship? It's cool. We could do duel. We could do both. But why not empower your people on every part of this world, everywhere. Y' all are the biggest. Y' all are like. Like Africa is like, essentially.
Tammy
I mean, a lot of those people who are sending money home are sending money to poverty. You know, it's not like they. They sending money. Some of them are sending money back to rich families.
AJ Holiday
There are a lot of rich family people in Africa. Like the way they depict Africa here in America, like Benedict and was like, I didn't even know America had bums on the street. They thought we was over here living the golden life.
Tammy
I mean, in some places we are. But there. There is a lot of wealth in Africa. A lot.
AJ Holiday
Now you. Did you see how Remic basically assimilated once he saw the Ku Klux Klan gown on the bed? Because initially he was calling the Indians Choctaw by their. Their names. Right. But the minute he realized who he was dealing with at the house, like when he was trying to get into the couple's house, the minute when he realized that they were the kkk, he assimilated.
Tammy
Yeah, he played on everybody shit.
AJ Holiday
And he played the role. And that also shows, like in America, Italians don't consider themselves white. Irish don't really consider themselves white. They associate themselves with their body of land, where they from. I'm talking about actual Italians, actual Irish people.
Tammy
I would need to speak to one of them to hear what they have to say about that.
AJ Holiday
They not the same. You know what I'm saying? We be the same way. We're not the same. Like, we be lumping people up in a group just like Hispanics. We be calling people everybody Mexican. Everybody that speaks Spanish is not Mexican. Who does that? A lot of people do that. A lot of people assume Spanish speaking speaking people are all Mexicans. They don't even think about all these other countries.
Tammy
That's very ignorant.
AJ Holiday
It is ignorant, but it happens. You right? So it is ignorant to say just because somebody has white skin that they're white American or that they're European.
Tammy
My grandmother and my grandmother was partially white, which is interesting.
AJ Holiday
The grandmama was married.
Tammy
My great grandma was married. My grandma was. Because my great grandmother was half white. My grandmother was. She had a black dad. So she was like three parts. I don't know how that works anyway. But she was an equal opportunity racist. I always say that. Like she. She was racist against everybody. Black, white, Asian, Hispanic, you name it. So I appreciate that. That's.
AJ Holiday
I am. I mean, like, for the most part, I don't fuck with nobody. Like, can't nobody walk behind me. I don't trust none of y' all niggas. None of them. None of them. So have y' all ever read the book? Have you ever read the book Delectable Negro?
Tammy
No.
AJ Holiday
I encourage everybody to read the Delectable Negro. It's the human consumption and in homoeroticism within US slave culture. And has a little brief little summary. So it basically talks about, like how they were consuming black people during slavery. Literally eating. Yes. Do you remember in the movie where. Oh, God, I should have wrote down our character names, but the guy who played the Played the saxophone? No. Was he playing. Yeah, saxophone and singing. The fine old man.
Tammy
His name is Delroy Lindo in real life, but his character's name was dead as Slim. Delta.
AJ Holiday
Delta Slim. So, Delta Slim. Do you remember when he was talking about when they. When he. Pat. When they passed by the people slaving when they weren't sleeping. Now we talk about 14th amendment. They're in jail, right? Because slavery just turned into the 14th amendment. That's why we still got to get that shit abolished. Because it's legal slavery if you commit a crime. But imagine you putting crimes and charges on black people to put them back in slavery. So when they were riding down that street, that car. Yeah. Keep your hands up. And then he told a story of how the white people captured them and was taking them from place to place, making them play. Right, Right. And he said how when the one guy, like, tried to break off and buck and tried to go off on his own, they lynched him right at the train station. And they ate.
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AJ Holiday
They cut his dick off.
Tammy
Mm.
AJ Holiday
They literally consumed black people. They ate us because we are magical. The melanin is magic.
Tammy
I want to get eight. I ain't been eight so long. I'm sorry. I'm sorry.
AJ Holiday
So y' all read the Delectable Negro, okay? And, you know, in that book also, it talks about the time we're currently in. Don't. You know, the first biracial couple. Excuse me, Trans. Biracial couple to get married happened right here in Charleston, South Carolina. A black man married a white trans woman in America in Charleston.
Tammy
Girl. You know, I can't keep up with that.
AJ Holiday
And in that book, the Delectable Negro, they talked about how black men started to acquiesce to the advances of. Of the white men because they weren't just raping black women, they were raping. Raping the men, too. Buck breaking is where that comes from. And they started calling black men the lady of the race in the book. And these are actual accounts from different people throughout that time, throughout slavery. They have actual accounts like, you know, people. The griots, they took down history and put it in this book. So I do suggest a lot of.
Tammy
People to, you know, in Florida, that they used to use black babies as Gatorade bait. That is insane.
AJ Holiday
That's why we'll never be.
Tammy
There is no reparation that exists that would ever be enough for them that we've experienced in this country.
AJ Holiday
And black people are washed up like we the oldest on the planet. And white people are the youngest and they act like it. We will never, ever be able to do the things that they did and do to get and maintain power. We're not going to ever be able to feed their babies to an alligator. We're not going to be able to use the babies as batting practice. They did that type of. Also. We're not going to be able to consume and eat them.
Tammy
We would never want to. Not even have.
AJ Holiday
That's what I'm saying. That's not our genetic makeup. We can't. We can't do that. You know, so even things like when people think of the devil and demons, they think of 666, right? They have literally even made that a bad thing. And it's not. It's literally like the chemical makeup of melanin. Six protons, six neutrons, six electrons. And they call it the market of beast. And who they. This gorilla. Who the hell started the. With the gorilla fighting the whole world fighting. That is literally a representation of us not calling us gorillas like they like to, but we know they like to call us monkeys. They used to call us monkeys, right? They like to associate black people do.
Tammy
In mixed with gorillas, not in mixed culture company, you know, but first of all, I think that's like how, you know what we be having to talk about 100 men versus a gorilla. First of all, they talking about what is the female equivalent of that. There is not one. Because we are not stupid.
AJ Holiday
We're not partaking in that. Like, imagine us, right? This is why I say it's a representation of black people. We just chilling in our element, in our environment. And motherfuckers is working overtime to figure out how to keep fucking us up for generations and generations. Like we not even wanting to fight. The gorilla is chilling and it's in habitat and it's in his habitat. And y' all trying to go over there and fight him for what? Just to see if you can, right? That's what they do to us. We be chilling and they come over here fucking with us.
Tammy
I can't wait to see what else Ryan Coogler is going to cook up. He has solidified himself as a force to be reckoned with in the film industry. He already did that with a Black Panther, but this one. This one took him to Spielberg level.
AJ Holiday
To me, yeah, I didn't. Black Panther didn't do this for me that this film did. It just didn't, you know, it. It did display black excellence. Right? And it was. It was very powerful.
Tammy
Yeah, it was powerful film.
AJ Holiday
But it was. It's just something. It's something different about this because it's. We definitely got to fix the music. The frequency is off. Even the channels our radio stations be on. Like the frequency is up and we need to get back to a. A a good vibration to fix.
Tammy
When me and AJ went to see Drake and. And 21 Savage in concert and we're in this building, we're all in this circular shape and dome. A dome. And they saying murder, gang shit, murder. And this whole is chanting that shit. What did I say to you?
AJ Holiday
I don't like this. This don't feel good. And I don't. I don't be singing songs like that.
Tammy
This do not feel good to me. This do not feel good. I don't like it.
AJ Holiday
Who's in the middle?
Tammy
Drake is 217 powering them up.
AJ Holiday
And then they have a big ass statue of Virgil Abila.
Tammy
Yeah, yeah.
AJ Holiday
Like it's like worshiping him as a deity of some sort. This statue was at least, I don't know what, 20 foot tall.
Tammy
It was huge. It was more than 20ft.
AJ Holiday
It was however tall. It was big, big ass. Just a big ass statue in the middle of the. The Coliseum. That shit is not just like. It's not just a concert. That's why I don't go to concerts. That's why I don't go to large events like that. Like where you're chanting. They telling you what to say. Beyonce did it the whole year, last year and the year before had people saying all type of. You got the little black and white little thing that kind of programs your mind going on the screen. Like all these things. People don't realize what they be partaking in. But it's always signs and symbols for the conscious mind. You just gotta be paying attention.
Tammy
Right. That murder attention had me very uncomfortable. I like, I'm going to the bar.
AJ Holiday
Right. So what if we get back to. Because at the end of the movie, Sammy's now an old man in this juke joint he's playing at. He's played all around the world and he still uses original instruments when he's playing like, you know, blues is guitar.
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AJ Holiday
Stack and Mary walks in there at the very end. This is the part Tammy told me to wait till after the credits don't leave. So they walk in now they're in modern time. He had a. He has on Coogee. Old girl got on her little. Her little suited and booted blow pop.
Tammy
Listen. I resented her character. A part of me just had resentment for her character. And I just don't know why I.
AJ Holiday
Felt it, because she took her ass out there like she was one of them.
Tammy
Yeah.
AJ Holiday
So she was trying to play. She was married to a white man because basically Stack wanted to keep her safe. Right. And he knew he couldn't be with her if they thought that she was biracial. Her mama was white and her daddy was black, and her mom raised him. So apparently their mom died at childbirth trying to birth Stack. And Smoke ended up killing. Killing the father because he was abusing Stack. I think he blamed him for the mom's birth. The mom's death at birth. But Stack was trying to come out sideways when the mom. When her mom was trying to deliver him as a baby. So he. She basically raised him. They went in the military too, because remember at the end, he had his whole thing full of. And they always had a dog chains on. They used to be circle back then.
Tammy
Right.
AJ Holiday
Now they're square, but they used to be like circle, the military dog chains.
Tammy
So.
AJ Holiday
So these was military trained.
Tammy
So let me ask you this before you get into the end. Do you. What. What kept. I can't remember which one bit. Which one was the vampire?
AJ Holiday
Stack Sack.
Tammy
Did what kept him from biting his brother? He tried to bite him, but he couldn't bite him. Was it. Was it the sigil that she created for him?
AJ Holiday
Yeah, she had.
Tammy
From his dog tag.
AJ Holiday
No, it was. It was the sack. It was his. His voodoo low. His voodoo little sack. Because remember, at the end, he took it off because he was ready to die.
Tammy
Mm.
AJ Holiday
He took it off and he was ready to die and be with his family. Yeah, to be with his family, with Annie and the baby. So that's what was protecting him. That protected him his whole life. He done been through a bunch of. But he had his little satchel with his. With his magic in it from his. From his little one.
Tammy
Okay, and let me think.
AJ Holiday
That's the COVID of a woman, right?
Tammy
The power. All right, think about this too. When the white guys came to. They were coming to kill everybody. The plan. They were coming and they couldn't. The door was locked. They couldn't go in. What. So what's your idea on that? I thought that his brother was in there being protected from the sun. Even in death, he was still protecting his brother. He didn't let. He didn't kill his brother, you know, like stake him because he was already. He's undead. Right. So he didn't stake his brother. He could have staked his brother, but he didn't and then he protected him from the sun by killing those white men.
AJ Holiday
But you remember at the end, though, when Sammy asked him how they got away, he asked Stack and Anna how they got away. They did like a. They went back and they show you them running off. So when they all died at the. At the. At the river, when all the other vampires died at the river along with Relic Remick, they didn't die. They had already ran off.
Tammy
They were running off.
AJ Holiday
Yeah. So I don't think they. I don't think he was in the barn. They had already got lost by then. I think he just had it locked.
Tammy
And he.
AJ Holiday
He locked the barn and then he was shooting their ass from the forest.
Tammy
I thought he was protecting his brother from the sun. Okay, I didn't see that.
AJ Holiday
So they really don't tell you why he kept him, why they kept each other. They. But we know the sack was protecting Smoke. But if they really don't.
Tammy
I guess it's just a brother's love, right?
AJ Holiday
Like, just remembering. And then he kept his promise also to Smoke, to not kill Sammy. But now, going back to the very end, when they get to the jup joint. Sammy's an old man now. He done played all over. All over the world. He basically re. Rebuked the church and went on and played his music, right? And Stack told him, like. You know what I'm saying? Like this. I love this music. That. That new electric is cool, but it's just not what it is. So y' all know the 800 weights? Kanye west had a whole album called 808s and Heartbreaks. The CIA created Pro Tools. Pro Tools is a system that they use, you know, to create beats. So you have all these mechanical, computerized sounds. You no longer need the actual instruments. So we just playing the devil through this shit now. And when I say devil, it's just. It's not just. It's an entity. It's an energy that got our people fucked up. You see it in. They clone Tyrone, the chicken sandwiches and the music.
Tammy
Yeah.
AJ Holiday
Making you do what be playing when they go murder somebody. They planning to kill somebody. They playing the worst music possible while they go do these things. And they. They. We're allowed to create this.
Tammy
Normalize.
AJ Holiday
Yeah. And it's glorified because if you make some. Like what Drake said, Kendrick Lamar rap, like, he trying to free the slaves. Y' all think that's okay for a. A to say that is not okay. Yeah, like he wants to put more life into the music as opposed to Rapping about death all the time, right.
Tammy
I'm here for that because I don't like that shit one bit.
AJ Holiday
And we. We somehow. I don't know how, right? It just gotta be really paradigm shift. And it's. And it's happening, but it's very slow, right? Because there's a thing called a hundredth monkey theory. So it just take me, you having this conversation right now, right, to spark that idea in the minds of our listeners, right? And then they then had the conversation with the next people. So it only really take a hundred motherfuckers, it only take 100 monkeys.
Tammy
To.
AJ Holiday
Spread thought, to spread this thought. It's just like. And what that theory is, is, like, they teach the monkey to do something over here, and somehow the monkeys in another country start doing the same thing. It just spreads through the universe.
Tammy
Well, hopefully it'll catch. Because Slaughter Gang ain't okay.
AJ Holiday
It's not, man. It's not. Because none of those rappers want that life for their children, Right? But you don't give a. About other people's kids at all.
Tammy
Right? But then it's like, all right, we. We don't hold movies to the same standard, you know? Like, we don't hold actors. Why do we have. Because, all right, that brings up the conversation like they're entertainers. This is entertainment. You are to teach your children.
AJ Holiday
But it's the music, though. It's actually the actual beat, the actual music that these. It's the frequency of these sounds that are coming out of your radio, coming out of your phone, that you got to your ear in a Bluetooth. Electrics like that shit has radiation coming through, programming your whole body. That's the difference. When you watching a movie, you. It's no real sound other than the people talking.
Tammy
Well, there's music, too, in movies, but I get what you're saying.
AJ Holiday
Not as much as, you know, there's.
Tammy
A different connection with the frequency of music than in movies.
AJ Holiday
Yeah. So it's really. It's literally programming you if you're not consciously aware of what it is that you're listening to and what you partake in and what you Re reciting and repeating. Mm. You know, so I ain't here to power nobody up. I just want to empower myself and the people who want to be empowered in a positive way.
Tammy
Amen.
AJ Holiday
Because on this realm, this hell realm we live in right now, like, evil be prevailing like a. But it is shifting. There is a shift. I feel it. That's why when people, like, we gonna. We gonna be Back in slavery and all that. Like, I feel more empowered now more than that. People be saying that we gonna be back at who, when, how, like, that's gonna be a choice for real. Y' all been mad at Kanye when he said slavery was a choice. But if y' all niggas go to slavery right now, you really made that choice. And literally, we are making that choice. Who's making collectively? Black people. It's not me and you. Right? But collectively, because these are still our people. There are a lot of people. Look how many black men are in prison. They chose that. A lot of them. A lot of them were kidnapped, just like back then. There's a lot of people who done died in prison, and they got them buried in the back, and they still counting them on U.S. census. They've been murdered them. It's a lot of different weird shit going on amongst prison.
Tammy
I watched last night, and I think y' all should take the time to watch it. Shooting guards on Netflix about Gilbert Arenas and Javaris Critten. Critten. I can't think of how to say his last name, but what happens between those two young men in the NBA and how it leads to a murder of a young black mother of four.
AJ Holiday
I didn't see that. I never even heard about that. Didn't Gilbert Arenas get put out of. He got put out the NBA because of it, right?
Tammy
No, he did not. The other guy ended up getting put out the NBA because of it.
AJ Holiday
Yeah, but Arenas didn't give it out to NBA.
Tammy
I think he. He got suspended 50 games and was able to come back and play. But the other guy, the rookie, he was expendable, and he pretty much got. They got rid of him.
AJ Holiday
Didn't he pull a gun out on somebody? Right, Gilbert?
Tammy
Yeah, they had guns in the locker room. And you watch that story, and it is just heartbreaking when you said jail is a choice because he ends up going. That young man who was the rookie, Javaris Crittenham. I'm not sure if I'm pronouncing his last name right, but he ends up murdering a young black mother and only doing 10 years in jail for it.
AJ Holiday
Because why?
Tammy
Because the deal that he made with the D. A or something like that. A mother of four. She was 22 years old.
AJ Holiday
Why did he kill her?
Tammy
He got somebody. The dude that she was. I don't know if she was messing with the dude or not, but she was with this guy. He robbed him, and he went back to retaliate against him for robbing him and Instead of shooting the guy who robbed him, he killed her. And. Yeah, and. And he's free now. And I feel bad. And honestly, I feel bad for him as well. You. Y' all, when you get a chance, watch Shooting Guards on Netflix. It just came out this week. Might have came out yesterday or the day before.
AJ Holiday
Shooting guard.
Tammy
Shooting guards. And just how, you know, the system, like, it's up, man. It's really up. And how these young black men making poor choices in the trickle down effect, it caused this young black woman to lose her life.
AJ Holiday
Yeah. And I mean, when people make a decision to do, like, crimes and stuff, it does. Especially murder. It does not just affect you. And half of these men be having communities, children of their own. So now you're creating a broken family. And all because you got emotional. Like, gangsters and thugs are the most emotional beings on this world. Like, they want to kill you because you step on a shoe.
Tammy
Right?
AJ Holiday
Okay. They want to beef with you over. They want to be. But we call this ass. No, it's just. Man, they. They are just the. It's just weak to want to kill somebody because of some that, you know, could have been an accident, you know what I'm saying? Or just something that's not even worth losing your life over or taking a life over. They get so emotional.
Tammy
Respect. That's what he. His biggest thing was, his respect and giving respect and receiving it.
AJ Holiday
Was he actually giving respect? Was he being disrespected?
Tammy
He really wasn't a bad guy. Honestly, aj, it's just really a sad situation because he just did not have a black role model. He didn't have no father figure. He didn't have anybody to teach him how to be a man, you know, and he was just a kid himself.
AJ Holiday
And Gilbert arena has probably always been a ass. Like, harassing. Yeah, he was antagonist.
Tammy
Yeah, very much. And you.
AJ Holiday
And probably pushed it to the limit.
Tammy
Yeah, yeah, he really did. He really did that. And you'll see that in the documentary. He missed that. He was a prankster. He always rode the line of going too far, you know, with people. That was just what he did. And because he was like, the star of this team, they would let him get away with shit. So y' all go watch that shit.
AJ Holiday
Sound like a demon to me. Sound like a vampire to me.
Tammy
Right? His life. But, yeah, I know that was on a tangent, but it was.
AJ Holiday
The whole episode was a tangent. I could say so many other things. Like, it's just the. The one last thing I want you to think about is the royal family over in Europe. Okay, you got King Charles III over there. Do y' all remember when he got What. What is the big ceremony when they get, like. You know, they become the now? Like, once his mom died, they made him king or whatever. But the portrait that they put up of him, that portrait of him with all that red blood in the back. Yeah. So King Charles Charles III is actually a descendant of Vlad the Impala. The Impala Impaler is how you pronounce it. Okay, yeah, Vlad the Impaler. All right. So he's basically known as Dracula. Like, that's where they get the word from. Like, they named him Dracula. So King Charles III and that royal family that's over there sitting, like, they actually the heirs to the throne. They're vampires. Have y' all looked at King Charles or some of them family members? They don't look alive. You remember that one that was sitting in the back of the car?
Tammy
Because I don't know who works.
AJ Holiday
Girl, they could come over here if they want. I got some pickled garlic for that ass. Bring your ass over here if you want to. I'm definitely a damn dragon slayer. I like dragons. I'm definitely a vampire slayer.
Tammy
Exactly who you are. Because people be saying they don't know our voice apart. And I don't know.
AJ Holiday
I'm goddess to shot. That's who I am. Okay, so come over here if you want to, and you will get shot with a silver bullet. But anyway, King Charles got all his land and all his property in Transylvania. Y' all know Transylvania is, like, famous for the vampires. That's where Dracula lived.
Tammy
But I didn't think Dracula was from Pennsylvania.
AJ Holiday
Get off my phone. Anyway, y' all, I like. I like these little rants. I love that movie so much, I cannot wait for it to come out on DVD or whatever. But I'm gonna watch that a couple more times. It's like, you know, you keep watching, you see other things.
Tammy
Yeah. New things.
AJ Holiday
Like the crosses on the wall in the church. That's like the Son, the God, the Holy Spirit, like the Holy Trinity. Like, yeah, I want to watch the movie a couple more times because I feel like I missed some.
Tammy
Yeah, you. You get new jewels, little rabbit.
AJ Holiday
Little rabbit holes. I'm gonna go down. Anyway, y' all, I like this type of. If you enjoyed this episode, y' all tune in every Thursday on the Black Effect iHeartRadio app. Wherever. Wherever the you get your podcast at. This is AJ Holiday 2.0 on Instagrams. Kick a tam.
Tammy
Y' all. It's official Tam bam on Instagram. I love y' all so much and I appreciate y' all for tuning in every Thursday.
AJ Holiday
Speak now and never hold your demons.
Tammy
Your frequency period.
AJ Holiday
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Podcast Summary: We Talk Back – Episode: Sinners
Title: Sinners
Release Date: May 8, 2025
Hosts: TamBam and AJ Holiday
Description: Hosted by two unapologetically black women with strong opinions, "We Talk Back" delves into topics ranging from personal growth and relationships to societal issues and cultural critiques, all delivered with humor and unfiltered honesty.
Timestamp: 02:21 – 04:25
TamBam and AJ kick off the episode by sharing their current states of happiness and the importance of gratitude in maintaining a positive outlook. TamBam expresses feeling consistently happy, attributing it to factors like regular workouts and a general "happy period."
Notable Quote:
AJ adds to the conversation by emphasizing how gratitude helps in appreciating the good amidst life's challenges.
Timestamp: 04:41 – 07:10
The hosts recount a humorous yet cautionary tale about a large candle from Costco. TamBam requests AJ to purchase an expensive candle, leading to a discussion about the practical challenges of transporting it, such as the risk of melting in the car.
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TamBam shares a past experience where a homemade candle caused a fire in her salon, highlighting the dangers of DIY projects.
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Timestamp: 08:50 – 12:32
TamBam and AJ delve into a recent news story about a Florida man arrested for marrying three women across different counties simultaneously. They discuss the legal and ethical implications, questioning how the system failed to prevent such deceit.
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The conversation touches on the loopholes in marriage license systems and the broader implications for trust and legality in personal relationships.
Timestamp: 12:32 – 14:34
The hosts discuss an unconventional event where a man hid Easter eggs filled with weed in public parks, leading to his eventual arrest. They critique the marketing strategy of distributing illicit substances under the guise of a festive hunt.
Notable Quote:
TamBam reflects on the potential dangers of such events, emphasizing the irresponsibility of leaving drugs accessible to the public.
Timestamp: 14:43 – 17:38
Drawing from recent research, TamBam and AJ examine the increasing percentage of single women aged 18 to 40 in the U.S., attributing it to factors like higher education, financial independence, and the stigma around being single diminishing.
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They also discuss the impact of dating apps and cultural movements like the "boy sober" trend, which prioritize self-growth and friendships over traditional dating and relationships.
Timestamp: 27:28 – 44:35
A significant portion of the episode is dedicated to analyzing the movie "Sinners," directed by Ryan Coogler. TamBam and AJ explore the film's themes, character development, and underlying messages about race, power, and cultural identity.
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They discuss the portrayal of vampires as metaphors for energy harvesting and societal exploitation, drawing parallels to historical and contemporary issues faced by the black community. The hosts also touch upon the use of music in the film as a powerful tool for storytelling and cultural preservation.
Timestamp: 55:45 – 73:40
TamBam and AJ engage in a profound discussion about systemic racism, historical oppression, and the lack of reparations for black Americans. They critique the alliances between different oppressed groups and the complex dynamics that perpetuate inequality.
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The conversation extends to modern-day issues like mass incarceration, the portrayal of black men in sports and media, and the intergenerational trauma that continues to affect the community.
Timestamp: 19:00 – 22:44
The hosts critique the Met Gala, discussing its themes, the racial representation of attendees, and the charitable claims associated with the event. They question the authenticity of its philanthropic efforts and the cultural messages it perpetuates.
Notable Quote:
AJ discusses the concept of dandyism as showcased in the event, interpreting it as a form of cultural rebellion and self-expression amidst oppression.
Timestamp: 20:07 – 42:35
Throughout the episode, TamBam and AJ intertwine personal anecdotes with broader social commentary. They share experiences like a terrifying flight landing during foggy conditions and their reflections on music's role in shaping societal values.
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Their discussions often highlight the importance of self-awareness, protecting one's energy from negative influences, and the necessity of breaking free from societal constructs that perpetuate harm.
Timestamp: 71:27 – 79:31
In their concluding remarks, TamBam and AJ emphasize the importance of empowerment, both individually and collectively. They advocate for positive change, resilience, and the continual pursuit of knowledge and self-improvement to combat systemic challenges.
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AJ reflects on the power of collective action and the potential for societal shifts to create a more equitable future.
Conclusion: In the "Sinners" episode, TamBam and AJ Holiday navigate a myriad of topics with depth and candor. From personal stories and movie critiques to incisive discussions on race and societal issues, the hosts deliver a compelling narrative aimed at empowering their listeners. Their blend of humor, personal anecdotes, and critical analysis provides a rich and engaging listening experience, encouraging audiences to reflect, learn, and grow.
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For listeners who haven't tuned in, this episode offers a comprehensive exploration of contemporary issues through the unique lens of two insightful and outspoken women, making "We Talk Back" a must-listen for those seeking depth and authenticity in podcasting.