Podcast
We Talk Back
Hosted by The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts · EN
Hosted by two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talk back, TamBam and AJ are helping women maneuver through the Sea of Men! "We Talk Back” podcast is here to guide femininity to its ultimate greatness. We Talk Back podcast is giving their listeners the raw and unfiltered comedic gift of repartee. With thought-provoking conversations about sex, relationships, and money with a dash of danger and glitter. TamBam & AJ will also help listeners seeking non-professional guidance, as these ladies deliver advice and their personal thoughts on topics.
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Still Can't Trust Nobody
Yesterday01:24:42Summary readyIn this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam are joined by filmmaker Big Stevo for a candid conversation about trust, loyalty, and the real-life experiences that inspired the Trust Nobody franchise. The trio explores the emotional impact of betrayal, the challenges of maintaining integrity in relationships and business, and how personal experiences shape the way people navigate trust. Big Stevo also shares insight into the realities of independent filmmaking, the sacrifices required to bring creative visions to life, and the importance of producing quality work in an increasingly competitive entertainment landscape. The discussion expands into modern relationships, friendship dynamics, and the difficult choices people make in pursuit of money, love, success, and validation. AJ, TamBam, and Big Stevo unpack how ego, finances, and social media influence behavior, while examining loyalty, accountability, and the true cost of betrayal. From debates about fame versus wealth to reflections on masculinity, gender roles, self-respect, and personal values, this episode delivers an honest and thought-provoking look at trust, character, and what it takes to stay true to yourself in a world that constantly tests your principles. Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
SummaryWTB Presents: Unpopular Opinions
1w ago01:14:59Summary readyAJ Holiday and TamBam blend humor, personal stories, and social commentary as AJ recaps her recent trip to Costa Rica, including moments of relaxation, adventure, and a frightening near-drowning experience. The conversation then shifts into deeper discussions surrounding the Karmelo Anthony case, racial justice, and the influence of social media on public perception and accountability. The hosts also unpack recent business moves involving Jay-Z and Target, exploring the complexities of capitalism, consumer activism, and the challenges of creating meaningful change while navigating economic realities. The discussion expands into conspiracy theories, dating culture, friendships, and the evolving dynamics of modern relationships. AJ and TamBam debate the realities of online dating, the expectations people bring into relationships, and the impact of financial status and social media on how individuals present themselves to the world. Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
SummaryReplay* | Choreplay with Jordan Carlos
2w ago01:22:27Summary ready*Originally aired March 26th, 2026 In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam Bam turn weekend chaos into a meaningful conversation about relationships, household responsibilities, and emotional connection. Joined by comedian and author Jordan Carlos, they unpack themes from his book Chore Play, exploring how everyday tasks like cleaning, cooking, and shared responsibilities can strengthen intimacy and partnership. The discussion highlights how upbringing shapes expectations around domestic roles and why modern relationships require more balance, effort, and intentional communication. The conversation also dives into division of labor, emotional intelligence, and relationship dynamics, offering practical advice on recognizing signs of strain and improving connection. AJ, Tam Bam, and Jordan emphasize the power of small gestures, mutual respect, and understanding each partner’s background to build healthier, more supportive relationships. Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
SummaryBroke, Bougie, Basic
3w ago01:10:30Summary readyIn this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam reflect on birthdays, solo travel experiences, spiritual cleansing, and the lessons that come with personal growth. The conversation explores the realities of modern relationships, societal expectations, and the influence of social media on how people perceive success, dating, and self-worth. Through candid anecdotes and trending news stories, the hosts unpack the complexities of wealth, gender dynamics, and the pressures of navigating adulthood in an increasingly image-driven world. The discussion shifts into a lively debate over what behaviors qualify as “broke,” “bougie,” or “basic,” covering everything from dining etiquette and dating expectations to airport snacks, travel habits, priority boarding, and first-class flights. AJ and TamBam also examine friendship dynamics, luxury lifestyles, social media flex culture, and the motivations behind financial decisions people make for status or perception. Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
SummaryThe North Remembers
4w ago01:10:11Summary readyIn this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam blend humor, culture, and relationship talk while recapping their weekend adventures, including a night out at a dessert bar and conversations around popular films and viral moments. The duo dives into the intersection of crime and law enforcement through humorous commentary, while also unpacking ongoing debates surrounding “gold diggers,” financial expectations, and modern dating standards. They discuss public conversations involving Floyd Mayweather Jr. and child support, using the topic to explore the broader realities of money, responsibility, and perception in relationships. The conversation expands into the evolving dynamics between men and women, focusing on ambition, attraction, communication, and societal expectations in modern partnerships. AJ and TamBam examine how financial success often shapes male identity, while many women seek emotional connection, support, and intentionality beyond money alone. From discussions around masculine and feminine energy to power, submission, and relationship balance, this episode offers an honest and entertaining perspective on navigating gender dynamics, emotional needs, and healthier communication in today’s dating culture. Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
SummaryYou Only Know The Old Me
May 2101:18:40Summary readyIn this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam dive into candid conversations about healing, relationships, identity, and the realities of personal growth in today’s world. Through humor and personal stories, the duo reflects on everything from weekend experiences and evolving friendships to the challenges of navigating societal expectations, parenting, and relationship dynamics. The discussion also touches on sensitive topics like fetishization, self-perception, and how change can impact the way people connect and communicate with one another. The conversation expands into love languages, toxic friendships, and the importance of setting boundaries while prioritizing self-respect and emotional well-being. AJ and Tam explore coping mechanisms, authenticity, and the growing influence of AI and digital culture on human interaction, while emphasizing the need to remain grounded in self-awareness and personal discipline. Blending honesty, humor, and real-life insight, this episode offers a relatable perspective on evolving relationships, protecting your peace, and becoming a healthier version of yourself. Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
SummaryY'all Feel That Too?
May 1400:57:17Summary readyIn this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam reflect on Mother’s Day and unpack the emotional layers surrounding motherhood, relationships, and modern dating expectations. Through personal stories and honest dialogue, they explore the pressures women face around love, family, and self-worth while discussing how societal standards shape perceptions of desirability and relationship value. The conversation also tackles trust, communication, and the impact of infidelity, offering candid insight into the realities of navigating relationships in today’s culture. The discussion expands into sexuality, burnout, and the everyday pressures of balancing work, personal life, and emotional well-being. AJ and TamBam examine how media influences ideas around sexuality and self-image while addressing the shared exhaustion many women experience as they juggle responsibilities and expectations. From aging and body image to self-care and emotional health, this episode delivers a relatable and thoughtful perspective on the challenges of maintaining balance, protecting peace, and showing up authentically through life’s evolving seasons. Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
SummarySo You Doing The Bending
May 701:02:03Summary readyAJ Holiday and TamBam recap their eventful weekend adventures, from filming a reality show to attending social gatherings, while diving into candid conversations about modern relationships, dating culture, and social media dynamics. The duo discusses everything from movie experiences and hot yoga to the unexpected role of air fryers in relationships, using everyday moments to unpack larger conversations around gender norms, sexuality, and personal expectations in dating. Their relatable storytelling offers an entertaining yet thoughtful perspective on navigating romance in today’s culture. The conversation deepens into the importance of boundaries, consent, and emotional awareness in intimate relationships. AJ and TamBam explore why people—particularly women—sometimes compromise their personal limits to please partners, while discussing the emotional consequences that can follow, including guilt, shame, and self-violation. Emphasizing communication, accountability, and mutual respect, the episode encourages listeners to better understand and protect their boundaries while fostering healthier, more intentional relationships rooted in trust and self-awareness. Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
SummaryThou Art No Russell
Apr 3001:00:52Summary readyIn this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam unpack a weekend in Atlanta while diving into serious conversations around domestic violence, relationship dynamics, and cultural headlines. From reacting to a shocking incident at a Mercedes-Benz dealership to discussing the latest surrounding Megan Thee Stallion, the hosts blend real-time commentary with deeper reflections on safety, accountability, and emotional awareness. They also explore the idea of the “good man” in today’s dating landscape, referencing Russell Wilson as a point of debate while breaking down expectations, values, and partnership standards. The conversation expands into modern relationships, focusing on communication, honesty, and the personal growth required to attract and maintain healthy connections. AJ and TamBam discuss the balance between discipline and freedom, the importance of privacy in relationships, and how public exposure can impact personal lives. With candid insights and relatable perspectives, this episode offers a grounded take on navigating love, self-care, and evolving relationship standards in today’s culture. Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
SummaryYou Aint Got No Alibi
Apr 2301:05:46Summary readyIn this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and Tam dive into a thought-provoking conversation on Black women’s empowerment, mental health, and the realities of navigating relationships in today’s culture. The duo unpacks the complexities of the justice system, the rise of therapy language in everyday conversations, and how terms like gaslighting and narcissism are often misunderstood or misused. They also explore the impact of social media on mental health awareness, highlighting how online narratives shape perception, accountability, and emotional expression. The conversation deepens into personal experiences with trauma, PTSD, and the emotional labor often expected in relationships, while addressing the importance of clear communication and self-awareness. AJ and Tam also touch on parenting, nutrition, and the responsibility of fostering healthier environments both at home and in partnerships. Let’s discuss! Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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