We Talk Back Podcast Summary: "Where Are Your Clothes" Release Date: February 6, 2025
Hosts: TamBam and AJ Holiday
Produced by: The Black Effect and iHeartPodcasts

Introduction

We Talk Back is hosted by TamBam and AJ Holiday, two unapologetically Black women navigating the complexities of femininity amidst the "Sea of Men." In this episode titled "Where Are Your Clothes," released on February 6, 2025, the hosts dive into a range of topics from personal anecdotes to broader social issues, all delivered with their signature raw and unfiltered comedic repartee.

Weekend Recaps and Personal Updates

The episode kicks off with TamBam and AJ exchanging updates about their weekends, discussing their experiences in New York and South Carolina.

• AJ Holiday [03:01]: "What's up, y'all? It's your co-host, AJ Holiday. What's up, Tam Bamboo?"

• TamBam [03:11]: "I only been here less than 24 hours. Next week, the white town. More like I'm from here."

They share their feelings about the cold weather, their interactions with family, and the challenges of maintaining familial relationships.

• AJ Holiday [05:10]: "I can't do it. I can't function in the cold. For real. I hate that."

• TamBam [05:49]: "Please check on your parents. But I feel like Black people, we do pretty good with taking care of our family, right?"

Onijah Robinson: Stranded in Pakistan

A substantial portion of the episode discusses the viral story of Onijah Robinson, a 33-year-old American woman stranded in Pakistan after a failed online marriage.

• AJ Holiday [06:40]: "Have y'all been following this with the stand? Black lady in Pakistan, Onijah Robinson."

They delve into the reasons behind her stay, the legal complications, and the societal implications of her actions.

• TamBam [07:48]: "From Pakistan, yes. Not from the 19-year-old, but from Pakistan is crazy."

• AJ Holiday [09:18]: "She's asking them for a hundred thousand dollars. A hundred thousand Pakistani rupees or about $360 US dollars. That's it."

The hosts express concern over her mental state and the financial demands she's placing on the Pakistani government, highlighting the complexities of international relationships and legal statuses.

Unusual Legal Cases: Cyber Farting Conviction

The hosts also discuss a bizarre legal case involving a woman convicted of "cyber farting."

• TamBam [13:23]: "Well, why are you trying to make the woman leave though?"

• AJ Holiday [13:08]: "She faces a 12-month sentence for unsolicited cyber farting."

They explore the absurdity of the case, questioning the motivations behind such legal actions and reflecting on societal norms regarding privacy and decency.

Black History Month Tribute: Diane Nash

In honor of Black History Month, TamBam and AJ pay homage to Diane Nash, a pivotal figure in the civil rights movement.

• TamBam [19:23]: "We gotta do better. We gotta be better examples, I hear, for the younger generation."

• AJ Holiday [21:58]: "Diane Nash, you are a baddie who talk back. We salute you, girl."

They recount Nash's contributions to the Freedom Rides and her unwavering commitment to non-violent resistance, emphasizing her legacy and its relevance today.

Grammys Discussion: Wins, Losses, and Fashion Fiascos

A significant segment is devoted to discussing the recent Grammy Awards, focusing on performances, wins, and fashion statements.

• TamBam [27:42]: "Honestly, I really enjoyed the Grammys. It was really inclusive to me."

• AJ Holiday [28:23]: "Dolce was super. Y'all shout out to Dolce. Drop a clues bra for Dolce. I love her."

The hosts critique Beyonce's unexpected win in the country category, Kendrick Lamar's sweeping victories, and Drake's emotions regarding the awards. They also analyze controversial fashion choices on the red carpet, particularly highlighting Bianca Sisori's revealing attire.

• TamBam [42:24]: "Cause why are you completely nude? I'm talking about she had a little piece of Saran Wrap in the shape of a dress over her body."

• AJ Holiday [47:16]: "If you're getting paid to do something, you're doing editorials. And that's like."

Their candid opinions shed light on the intersection of fashion, gender expectations, and the pressures of public appearances in the entertainment industry.

Fashion and Self-Expression: Boundaries and Societal Expectations

The conversation naturally flows into a discussion about fashion choices, self-expression, and the societal implications of revealing attire.

• TamBam [54:46]: "I think if you're gonna have something out, that's cool, but just pick one. So if you have your titties out, you shouldn't have on your ass out too."

• AJ Holiday [56:25]: "They have to put some clothes on."

They debate the merits of modesty versus personal freedom in dressing, advocating for self-respect and the importance of setting boundaries to avoid unwanted attention.

• TamBam [59:24]: "Ultimately, this life is about finding what makes you happy and living in that space."

• AJ Holiday [61:00]: "We got to do better. We got to be better examples, I hear, for the younger generation."

Conclusion and Call to Action

Wrapping up the episode, TamBam and AJ reiterate their commitment to guiding femininity to its ultimate greatness, encouraging listeners to balance self-expression with self-respect.

• TamBam [60:51]: "She made a lot of money doing that because ain't nobody else did that since."

• AJ Holiday [62:07]: "But anyway, explain you. You understand what her show is about, though?"

They promote audience engagement by inviting listeners to participate in upcoming events and stay connected through social media platforms.

Notable Quotes with Timestamps

• AJ Holiday [06:40]: "Have y'all been following this with the stand? Black lady in Pakistan, Onijah Robinson."

• TamBam [13:08]: "She faces a 12-month sentence for unsolicited cyber farting."

• TamBam [21:58]: "Diane Nash, you are a baddie who talk back. We salute you, girl."

• TamBam [27:42]: "Honestly, I really enjoyed the Grammys. It was really inclusive to me."

• AJ Holiday [42:24]: "Cause why are you completely nude? I'm talking about she had a little piece of Saran Wrap in the shape of a dress over her body."

• TamBam [54:46]: "I think if you're gonna have something out, that's cool, but just pick one."

Final Thoughts

In "Where Are Your Clothes," TamBam and AJ Holiday navigate a mix of personal experiences, viral news stories, and cultural critiques, all while maintaining their engaging and humorous dynamic. This episode underscores their mission to help women maneuver through societal expectations with confidence, humor, and unapologetic authenticity.

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