Why does modern parenting feel so difficult? If a chimpanzee knows what to do without reading a hundred parenting books, why doesn't it just come naturally?

Science journalist and author Elizabeth Preston is the author of The Creatures' Guide to Caring: How Animal Parents Teach Us That Humans Were Born to Care. Drawing from animal behavior, evolutionary biology, and neuroscience, this book explains why studying the parenting of every species from poison frogs to bonobos, from rats to birds, can remind us how human parenting is supposed to work—and how parental anxiety may result from the belief we were ever supposed to do things differently.

In this episode, we discuss:

Why humans are “cooperative breeders”

Why maternal anxiety and hypervigilance is an evolutionary advantage, not a personal failure
The truth about “mom brain” and what actually happens to the brain during pregnancy
Why fathers and non-biological caregivers are equally capable of deep caregiving
The role of alloparenting and why kids benefit from many trusted adults

Why caregiving is central to what makes us human

Here's where you can find Elizabeth:

https://elizabethgpreston.com/
@by.elizabeth.preston on IG
https://elizabethgpreston.substack.com/
Buy THE CREATURES' GUIDE TO CARING: https://bookshop.org/a/12099/9780593657102

What Fresh Hell is co-hosted by Amy Wilson and Margaret Ables.

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