Why is it so hard to read more—even when we want to, even when we have stacks of books awaiting us on our bedside tables? We sit down with Meredith Monday Schwartz—co-host of the The Currently Reading Podcast—to talk about how to reconnect with reading in a way that feels joyful, flexible, and realistic.

If you’ve ever felt obliged to finish a book you hated, or berate yourself for the time you spend scrolling instead of reading, this conversation is for you.

It’s not that there aren’t good books out there. It’s that our phones are designed to win. Picking up a book requires focus and intention—two things that feel increasingly scarce.

But reading offers a deeper kind of satisfaction than screens. Books can provide immersion, rest, perspective, and even emotional connection.

Meredith argues that reading isn’t just a habit. It's a form of meaningful self-care. Stepping away—even briefly—can leave you more refreshed, focused, and able to engage with the world when you return.

Meredith also argues for “delicious reads” over "should reads." Forcing yourself through something that doesn’t work for you can lead to burnout—and even stop you from reading altogether.

Reader, Know Thyself

A central theme of the conversation is learning what kind of reader you are. (Take the "What Kind of Reader Are You?" quiz here!)

Understanding your preferences helps you:

Choose books you’ll actually finish
Avoid common “deal breakers”
Create a reading routine that fits your life

Permission to Not Finish (DNF) Books

If you’ve ever forced yourself to finish a book you weren’t enjoying, this is your official permission slip to stop.

Meredith is a strong advocate for DNF (“Did Not Finish”), with a twist: sometimes it’s not a “no,” it’s a “not right now.”

A book that doesn’t resonate today might become a favorite later in life. Letting go of a book that isn’t working frees you to find one that does—and can instantly reignite your reading momentum.

How to Get Back Into Reading

Feeling stuck? Meredith shares simple, practical strategies to help you ease back into reading:

Start small: Commit to just 15–20 minutes at a time
Pair reading with a routine: Try reading during a bath or before bed
Use multiple formats: Audiobooks, Ebooks, and print can all coexist
Create a “book flight”: Sample the first few pages of several books and choose what grabs you
Always have options: Keep a list of appealing reads ready to go

If your kids used to love books but now prefer screens, you’re not alone.

The most effective strategy? Model reading yourself.

When kids see you enjoying books, it sends a powerful message that reading is valuable and enjoyable. There’s no quick fix—but there is long-term impact.

Here's where you can find Meredith:

IG @meredithmondayschwartz or @currentlyreadingpodcast
The Currently Reading Podcast wherever you get your podcasts!
View the list of all the books Meredith recommends in our Bookshop

What Fresh Hell is co-hosted by Amy Wilson and Margaret Ables.

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