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How do you deal with people who don't like you?

The Wolf and the Owl join us again to talk about therapy, cortisol, managing stress and accepting that sometimes people just aren't going to vibe with you.

From an insight into Tom’s bedtime routine, to discussing the dangers of leaving your emotional "tabs" open and an important debate on poo etiquette, it's a varied episode packed with role plays, scenarios and advice.

Plus, Tom pushes Rom to spill some of the The Traitors tea and discuss why spoilers might be the worst thing about modern TV.

A Ranga Bee Production in partnership with Platform Media.

Chapters

00:00 Intro

01:01 A sleep situation

06:25 Cortisol conversation

08:26 Therapy talk

11:40 A role play on speaking up

16:54 A stomach rumble interruption

17:26 Wrong words and Trumpism

19:45 Tom’s bathroom window beef

21:43 An awkward scenario

25:31 Poo etiquette

33:30 Method acting

35:04 How Tom deals with haters

38:28 Tom wants to talk Traitors

42:23 Not being liked

45:59 Tom’s Outro

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