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FirstAdam: A Transparent Podcast for Men
Hosted by JB & Andy · EN
Most men struggle with the same issues. The problem is we feel alone. FirstAdam is about men talking honestly about the struggles we have and how we try to deal with them. Maybe you can relate or you feel alone, numb, and are struggling. Join us as we talk openly and honestly about it. You just might find hope.
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Jul 24, 202501:05:43Tap to summarizeLet’s be honest, fellas… The "Sears" Catalog. That's where it started. Flipping through the pages and then I came to the section advertising women in bras and panties. I was hooked. (you can't tell me you didn't look at that catalog also :) ) We talk a big game. We serve. We lead. We pray. But underneath all that… there’s a secret that no one’s really talking about: PORN. Yeah, we said porn — because pretending it’s not a problem hasn’t helped anyone. Porn is a billion-dollar beast that’s devouring men, wrecking marriages, and keeping people locked in cycles of guilt, isolation, and fake freedom. It’s the addiction no one sees, the sin nobody wants to admit but it’s everywhere. It’s in our men’s groups. It’s in our marriages. And it’s tearing men apart from the inside out quietly, secretly. It’s rewiring brains, suffocating purpose, and keeping good men stuck in shame, secrecy, and isolation. It’s the drug no one wants to admit they’re hooked on. It’s the secret battle that’s stealing our strength, numbing our souls, and quietly wrecking everything we care about — our marriages, our minds, our manhood, and our walk with God. This episode? We’re done hiding. We’re dragging this thing into the light where it loses its power. No shame. No fake masks. Real stories, and the truth that Jesus came to set men free, not just forgiven, but free. We’re talking about why so many men are hooked, what it’s really doing beneath the surface, and how you can start fighting back with honesty, brotherhood, and the power of God. Join us as we invite a guest to share his journey about coming out from hiding. Romans 12:2 "Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.
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FatHER's Day pt.2
Jun 13, 202500:25:39Tap to summarizeAlright fellas, welcome to Part 2 of letting our wives take the mic and speak truth into what it really means to be a father. We're cutting through the noise and getting straight to the heart of it: what do wives actually want from us, not just as husbands, but as dads? This isn’t about being the guy who occasionally shows up. It’s about being the kind of father who earns respect at home, builds real trust with his kids, and makes his wife feel like she’s not parenting solo. No cape required. Just consistency, presence, and purpose. We’re not guessing here, we’ve handed the mic to our wives. What do they wish we’d do more of? What drives them crazy? What actually helps them feel supported? We’ll dive into emotional leadership, daily effort, and the big difference between saying “I’ve got this” and actually backing it up with action. No guilt trips, just real talk, real growth, and a chance to get better at one of the most important jobs you’ll ever have. Let’s get into it.
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Anti-Hero
May 7, 2025Tap to summarizeThe qualities of a villain...Which Villain do you play? Control Freak – Wants to dominate conversations, relationships, environments. Emotionally Withholding – Uses silence, apathy, or detachment as weapons. Toxic Stoicism – Refuses to feel or express emotion; mocks others who do. Power-Hungry – Will do anything (lie, cheat, step on others) to climb the ladder. Entitlement – Believes the world owes him success, love, sex, or admiration. Manipulative – Twists the truth and uses others to achieve their goals. Narcissistic – Obsessed with their own power, image, or greatness. Insecure – Deep-rooted fears masked by aggression or pride. Believes they’re right – Justifies evil with twisted logic. Every man wants to be the hero. But what happens when the biggest battle isn’t out there—it’s inside? In this episode, we’re talking about the anti-hero—not the polished, perfect guy, but the one who’s rough around the edges, wrestling with his own shadow. Let’s be real—sometimes we sabotage our own story. The part of us that plays it safe when we should step up. The part that hides behind sarcasm, success, or silence. The part that sabotages our own relationships, faith, and future. We talk a lot about heroes—but what if the person holding us back most... is us? Pride, fear, anger, addiction, passivity... they sneak in and turn us into the villain in our own lives, relationships, and faith. But here’s the good news: even anti-heroes can be redeemed. God isn’t looking for flawless men—He’s calling honest ones. Men who will face their failures, take responsibility, and rise anyway. If you’ve ever looked in the mirror and thought, “I’m the problem,”—you’re not alone. This episode is your invitation to step out of the shadows and back into life.
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