Long-term relationships often come with recurring challenges that don’t fully resolve, no matter how many times you revisit them. In this episode, we open up about the patterns that keep resurfacing in our own relationships and what it looks like to navigate those tensions with more awareness and intention. From communication differences to division of responsibilities, we share how we’re learning to approach these sticking points differently, including adjusting expectations, asking for what we need, and recognizing when support might need to come from outside the partnership.

Differences between verbal processing and internal processing in communication.
Navigating humor versus emotional support in sensitive moments.
The tendency for partners to jump into problem-solving mode.
Identifying when to lean on friends or therapists for deeper support.
Perceived imbalance in household and family responsibilities.
The role of recognition and appreciation in partnerships.
Gaining perspective through shared experiences and role reversal.
The added strain of parenting a child with special needs on a relationship.

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