What if fear isn’t your weakness… but your rawest source of power? In Mind Over Matter, hosted by Nazish, Patrick Sweeney shares how being told he had “weeks to live” didn’t just change his life—it exposed the cost of living scared.

This episode is for founders, leaders, and high-achievers who look confident on the outside but feel stuck inside. You’ll learn how to work with fear (not erase it), use a simple decision loop to regain clarity, and turn anxious energy into forward motion—without shame.

About the Guest:

Patrick Sweeney is a serial technology founder, WSJ bestselling author, and high-performance leader. After a life-changing medical warning, he developed frameworks to help leaders convert fear into focused action.

Episode Chapter:

00:00 – Welcome + “Fear is fuel” framing
01:10 – The moment he was told he had weeks to live: regret
04:20 – Why fear can’t be eliminated (and why that matters)
07:10 – Opportunity vs fear decisions: the regret pattern
10:05 – The BOODA loop: Believe, Observe, Orient, Decide, Act
14:40 – Regulated breathing (4x4) to calm the fear response
19:10 – Shame, vulnerability, and the first step to using fear as fuel

Key Takeaways:

Name fear directly; honesty breaks the shame loop.
Use BOODA: start with belief, then separate facts from stories.
Treat “good/bad news” as data—then loop again with better clarity.
Practice 4x4 breathing (in 4, hold 4, out 4, hold 4) when fear spikes.
Watch for “confidence masks” (excuses, overwork, perfection) that hide fear.
Make decisions from opportunity, not fear—fear-led choices often return as regret.

How to Connect With the Guest

Website: https://www.thefounderscreed.com/ (free first chapter)

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LinkedIn: The Fear Guru

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