Get Undomesticated

Summary

Podcast Summary: RISK! – “Get Undomesticated”

Date: October 13, 2025
Host: Kevin Allison
Featured Preview: “Undomesticated” with Candace Dillard Bassett and Michael Arseneaux

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Brief Overview

This episode of RISK! features an energetic preview of the brand new podcast “Undomesticated,” hosted by Candace Dillard Bassett (of Bravo’s Real Housewives of Potomac) and bestselling author Michael Arseneaux (“I Can’t Date Jesus”). In this preview, Candace and Michael introduce their show’s theme: living unapologetically, challenging expectations and societal labels, and embracing the humorous, sometimes chaotic journey of being “undomesticated” in today’s world.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. The Concept Behind "Undomesticated"

• Play on “Housewife” Stereotypes:
  • Candace jokes about her duality—she’s domesticated, but she can also be a “wild boar.”
  • Quote [00:48]:

    “Obviously, Undomesticated is a play of sorts on the housewife of it all, as housewives are typically domesticated. I personally… can also be a wild boar, as you may have seen in the world of television.”

• Michael’s Perspective:
  • Michael leans into the “undomesticated” title, referencing his own identity.
  • Quote [01:40]:

    “Childless gay man, I'm already undomesticated.”

2. Authenticity and Letting Loose

• Excitement for the Podcast Debut:
  • Both express amused disbelief at being given their own show, relishing the chance to be unfiltered.
  • Candace refers to the journey of launching the podcast as climbing “hills and mountains” – playfully exaggerating the effort.
• Promise of Candid Conversations:
  • Candace quips about her reputation for being outspoken and the anticipation (or perhaps fear) of her unfiltered commentary [02:30]:

    “You guys have been talking about me running my mouth for eons, and now you get to hear me run my mouth on the pod with my brilliant co-host, Michael Arseneaux. So welcome.”

3. Challenging Stereotypes and Cultural Labels

• Michael’s Acknowledgment:
  • Fully aware of podcasting stereotypes, particularly about Black men hosting shows, Michael requests listeners to give him a chance beyond preconceived notions.
  • Quote [02:52]:

    “I know the last thing a lot of people want is another black man in front of a podcast mic, but give me a chance.”

• Establishing Boundaries & Values:
  • Michael humorously establishes his feminist and non-misogynistic stance, clarifying he doesn’t blame women or his mother for his problems [03:00–03:16].
  • Candace echoes this, sharing how her mother’s voice is always in her head reminding her not to embarrass the family, but she still intends to say “what the fuck” she wants to say [03:32]:

    “I'm still gonna say, what the fuck? I'm gonna say, but, mom, you're...in my head, so thank you for that.”

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• Candace on efforts to launch the show [00:48]:

  “We have climbed hills and mountains. We have ridden billy goats across nations. Okay, to bring to you all Undomesticated.”

• Michael on being undomesticated [01:40]:

  “Childless gay man, I'm already undomesticated.”

• Michael, breaking podcast stereotypes [02:52]:

  “I know the last thing a lot of people want is another black man in front of a podcast mic, but give me a chance.”

• Candace on her unfiltered approach and mother’s expectations [03:32]:

  “I'm still gonna say, what the fuck? I'm gonna say, but, mom, you're...in my head, so thank you for that.”

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Timestamps for Important Segments

• 00:48 – Candace humorously introduces the “undomesticated” theme and acknowledges her television persona.
• 01:40 – Michael lays claim to his undomesticated label, referencing his identity.
• 02:24 – The pair alarms/amuses themselves at being given their own podcast.
• 02:52 – Michael addresses podcast stereotypes and asserts his unique perspective.
• 03:32 – Candace reflects on her upbringing, her mom’s influence, and her commitment to authenticity.

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Tone and Style

The preview is lively, witty, and conversational. Candace and Michael display undeniable chemistry, blending humor with frank self-awareness. Their banter sets the expectation for honest, unfiltered discussions about identity, family influence, and social expectations, all with a generous dose of fun.

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Takeaway

In “Get Undomesticated,” listeners get a colorful introduction to Candace Dillard Bassett and Michael Arseneaux’s new podcast. They promise an entertaining, real, and boundary-pushing listening experience—where being “undomesticated” is not just a title, but a philosophy for living, laughing, and challenging the script.

Transcript

[Narrator]

Folks, we just discovered a brand new podcast called Undomesticated, and it's a fun one, hosted by two brilliant minds. Candace Dillard Bassett. Yes, that Candace from Bravo's Real Housewives of the Potomac. And best selling author Michael Arseneaux, who gave us I Can't Date Jesus, Sit down and get deep. While making us laugh out loud. Along the way, they're talking about what it costs to live on unapologetically. The labels, the pressures, and the freedom and fun that comes when you finally say, I'm not here to make you comfortable. It's juicy, honest. It's Undomesticated. Here's a preview. As you listen, be sure to search for full episodes of Undomesticated wherever you get your podcasts.

[Candace Dillard Bassett]

This is an entire production that has taken place. We have climbed hills and mountains. We have ridden billy goats across nations. Okay, to bring to you all Undomesticated. Obviously, Undomesticated is a play of sorts on the housewife of it all, as housewives are typically domesticated. I personally will just toot my own horn. Toot, toot. And let you know I'm very domesticated. However, I can also be a wild boar, as you may have seen in. In the world of television. And I can. I can give Undomesticated for the people. And I think, Michael, like you, you could agree for yourself, I would think. Yes.

[Michael Arseneaux]

Childless gay man, I'm already undomesticated.

[Candace Dillard Bassett]

Touche. Pure and unadulterated. Every week we catch you waiting. Oh, hello. Good morning, afternoon, evening. Welcome to to Undomesticated. I'm Candace.

[Michael Arseneaux]

I'm Michael. Hey, y'.

[Candace Dillard Bassett]

All. It's episode one.

[Michael Arseneaux]

Finally.

[Candace Dillard Bassett]

Finally. Who gave us a podcast? That's what I want to know.

[Michael Arseneaux]

Thank you, Odyssey.

[Candace Dillard Bassett]

Those people. Thank you, Odyssey. We. We do love you and adore you, but my God, today I. You guys. You guys have been talking about me running my mouth for eons, and now you get to hear me run my mouth on the pod with my brilliant co host, Michael Arsenault. So welcome.

[Michael Arseneaux]

Thank you. And for the record, I know the last thing a lot of people want is another black man in front of a podcast mic, but give me a chance.

[Candace Dillard Bassett]

I'm just saying give him a chance. He's. You're. You are. You're not a misogynist. And you're not. Right? Like, this is what I know.

[Michael Arseneaux]

I don't blame women. Don't blame them for my problems.

[Candace Dillard Bassett]

Yes, tell us. Tell us more.

[Michael Arseneaux]

I don't fault my mom for anything.

[Candace Dillard Bassett]

Very good.

[Michael Arseneaux]

I let it go.

[Candace Dillard Bassett]

Those are good things. No, no, really.

[Michael Arseneaux]

I read books. I don't hate women, and I will try not to embarrass the race, but I also will not have it on my back either. So we'll see.

[Candace Dillard Bassett]

That's important. I feel like my mom makes me wear that on my back. Like, everything I do. She's in my head like, Candice. There's no d in my name when she says my name. Candice. You just. You're embarrassing your family, Candice. I didn't raise you that way, Candace. And I'm so in my mind. She's always there. I'm still gonna say, what the fuck? I'm gonna say, but, mom, you're. You're. You're in my head, so thank you for that. But that's. Yes, that those are important disclaimers as we embark on this journey together. Because we gonn. We're here for a good time and a long time. So get into it. Follow and listen to undomesticated, available wherever you get your podcasts. Yes, honey.