Podcast Summary: RISK! – “Get Undomesticated”

Date: October 13, 2025
Host: Kevin Allison
Featured Preview: “Undomesticated” with Candace Dillard Bassett and Michael Arseneaux

Brief Overview

This episode of RISK! features an energetic preview of the brand new podcast “Undomesticated,” hosted by Candace Dillard Bassett (of Bravo’s Real Housewives of Potomac) and bestselling author Michael Arseneaux (“I Can’t Date Jesus”). In this preview, Candace and Michael introduce their show’s theme: living unapologetically, challenging expectations and societal labels, and embracing the humorous, sometimes chaotic journey of being “undomesticated” in today’s world.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. The Concept Behind "Undomesticated"

• Play on “Housewife” Stereotypes:
  • Candace jokes about her duality—she’s domesticated, but she can also be a “wild boar.”
  • Quote [00:48]:

    “Obviously, Undomesticated is a play of sorts on the housewife of it all, as housewives are typically domesticated. I personally… can also be a wild boar, as you may have seen in the world of television.”

• Michael’s Perspective:
  • Michael leans into the “undomesticated” title, referencing his own identity.
  • Quote [01:40]:

    “Childless gay man, I'm already undomesticated.”

2. Authenticity and Letting Loose

• Excitement for the Podcast Debut:
  • Both express amused disbelief at being given their own show, relishing the chance to be unfiltered.
  • Candace refers to the journey of launching the podcast as climbing “hills and mountains” – playfully exaggerating the effort.
• Promise of Candid Conversations:
  • Candace quips about her reputation for being outspoken and the anticipation (or perhaps fear) of her unfiltered commentary [02:30]:

    “You guys have been talking about me running my mouth for eons, and now you get to hear me run my mouth on the pod with my brilliant co-host, Michael Arseneaux. So welcome.”

3. Challenging Stereotypes and Cultural Labels

• Michael’s Acknowledgment:
  • Fully aware of podcasting stereotypes, particularly about Black men hosting shows, Michael requests listeners to give him a chance beyond preconceived notions.
  • Quote [02:52]:

    “I know the last thing a lot of people want is another black man in front of a podcast mic, but give me a chance.”

• Establishing Boundaries & Values:
  • Michael humorously establishes his feminist and non-misogynistic stance, clarifying he doesn’t blame women or his mother for his problems [03:00–03:16].
  • Candace echoes this, sharing how her mother’s voice is always in her head reminding her not to embarrass the family, but she still intends to say “what the fuck” she wants to say [03:32]:

    “I'm still gonna say, what the fuck? I'm gonna say, but, mom, you're...in my head, so thank you for that.”

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• Candace on efforts to launch the show [00:48]:

  “We have climbed hills and mountains. We have ridden billy goats across nations. Okay, to bring to you all Undomesticated.”

• Michael on being undomesticated [01:40]:

  “Childless gay man, I'm already undomesticated.”

• Michael, breaking podcast stereotypes [02:52]:

  “I know the last thing a lot of people want is another black man in front of a podcast mic, but give me a chance.”

• Candace on her unfiltered approach and mother’s expectations [03:32]:

  “I'm still gonna say, what the fuck? I'm gonna say, but, mom, you're...in my head, so thank you for that.”

Timestamps for Important Segments

• 00:48 – Candace humorously introduces the “undomesticated” theme and acknowledges her television persona.
• 01:40 – Michael lays claim to his undomesticated label, referencing his identity.
• 02:24 – The pair alarms/amuses themselves at being given their own podcast.
• 02:52 – Michael addresses podcast stereotypes and asserts his unique perspective.
• 03:32 – Candace reflects on her upbringing, her mom’s influence, and her commitment to authenticity.

Tone and Style

The preview is lively, witty, and conversational. Candace and Michael display undeniable chemistry, blending humor with frank self-awareness. Their banter sets the expectation for honest, unfiltered discussions about identity, family influence, and social expectations, all with a generous dose of fun.

Takeaway

In “Get Undomesticated,” listeners get a colorful introduction to Candace Dillard Bassett and Michael Arseneaux’s new podcast. They promise an entertaining, real, and boundary-pushing listening experience—where being “undomesticated” is not just a title, but a philosophy for living, laughing, and challenging the script.