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The Main Thing Podcast
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Your nine-minute dose of wisdom. We provide insights, inspiration and ideas to help you get un-stuck, re-inspired ... to help you get better at life!
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Ep. 146 - Kate Reed | What Happens When We're Forced to Slow Down?
2w ago00:29:38Tap to summarizeWhat Happens When We're Forced to Slow Down? Wisdom Revisited with Wellness Entrepreneur Kate Reed Three years after first sharing her wisdom to "slow down" on The Main Thing Podcast, Kate Reed returns for a deeply personal conversation. Together, she and Skip explore entrepreneurship, burnout, recovery, mindfulness, and what changed after a traumatic brain injury forced her life into a different rhythm. Kate opens up about leaving a longtime career to build Wonder and Grow full time, learning healthier boundaries around work and family, protecting friendship inside business partnership, and navigating the difficult road of concussion recovery. In this wisdom conversation, they explore what happens when slowing down moves from good advice to absolute necessity. Why This Episode Matters This conversation speaks directly to anyone navigating stress, burnout, overwork, recovery, midlife transition, or the quiet feeling that life is asking them to live differently. Kate's story is a reminder that healing is not weakness, rest is not failure, and meaningful living often begins when we stop forcing ourselves to move so fast. A Bit More About Our Wise Guest - Kate Reed Kate Reed took the entrepreneurial leap and left her 9-5 job to focus on her start-up "Wonder and Grow." Today, she focuses full-time on providing coaching and consulting services as mindfulness guide with multiple certifications. Kate is a certified teacher, experienced in yoga, along with various modes of meditation and mindfulness. She helps groups and individual clients build mindfulness practices and connect with nature to overcome stress, anxiety and burnout. In addition to being a wellness entrepreneur and innovator, Kate is also a wife and mother of two teenage children. She joined us from her home in Elkins, West Virginia. Wisdom Awaits You in This New Episode Entrepreneurship and the hidden inner-work it requires Protecting friendship inside business partnership Recovery after a traumatic brain injury Brain fog, memory disruption, and forced rest Why nature became essential to healing Wisdom Resources & Links Wonder & Grow website Connect with Kate on LinkedIn Episode 87 of this show - Kate's prior appearance from 2023 Credits Editor + Technical Advisor Bob Hotchkiss Brand + Strategy Advisor Andy Malinoski PR + Partnerships Advisor Rachel Bell Marketing, Social Media and Graphic Design Chloe Lineberg Brand Designer Emma Malinoski Episode Chapters & Timestamps [00:01:59] – Leaving the 9-to-5 for Wonder and Grow Kate reflects on stepping away from Leadership West Virginia to pursue more meaningful work full time. [00:07:21] – The Inner Work of Entrepreneurship Why building a business required more emotional and spiritual work than Kate expected. [00:10:45] – Starting a Business With Your Best Friend Kate shares the challenges—and surprising strength—of building Wonder and Grow alongside Valerie Hart. [00:12:25] – The Snowboarding Accident A joyful family pastime suddenly turns into a life-altering concussion and brain injury. [00:15:01] – Memory Loss, Brain Fog, and Forced Rest Kate describes the emotional and physical realities of concussion recovery and the struggle to truly slow down. [00:17:40] – Healing Through Nature, Stillness, and Care How gentleness, neuroplasticity, mindfulness, and time outdoors became part of the healing process. [00:20:19] – When Memory Is Part of Your Identity Kate opens up about the fear of losing a defining part of herself—and Skip shares his own experience with traumatic brain injury. [00:22:26] – Grace, Softening, and Hope A conversation about caregiving, encouragement, and how relationships adapt after brain injury. [00:24:11] – Wisdom Revisited: Slow Down and Soften Kate revisits her original wisdom and reveals how this season of life has deepened and expanded it. Stay Connected with Us on Social YouTube @themainthingpod Twitter @themainthingpod Instagram @themainthingpod Facebook @TheMainThingPod LinkedIn TikTok @TheMainThingPod Help Support and Sustain This Podcast Become a subscriber. Share the podcast with one or two friends. Buy a set of Wisdom Cards Follow us on social media @TheMainThingPod Buy some Main Thing Merch from our Merchandise Store. Buy a book from our curated wisdom collection on bookshop.org. Become a patron and support us on Patreon with funding.
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Ep. 145 - Skip's Quips: Who Do We Stop For?
4w ago00:09:27Tap to summarizeEp. 145 – Skip's Quips: Who Do We Stop For? There's a strange thing that happens to us when we drive. Over time, certain people begin to fade into the scenery—not because we are cruel, but because the human brain is constantly filtering what deserves our attention and what can safely blur into the background. In this short "Skip's Quips" episode, Skip reflects on a cold spring morning in Appalachia, a man named Jim sitting near an interstate exit, and an unexpected encounter involving two stray dogs on a grassy hillside. Along the way, this essay explores attention, habituation, the identifiable victim effect, emotional distance, and the subtle psychological forces that shape who fully registers in our field of vision—and who slowly disappears into the wallpaper of modern life. This is a reflective conversation about attunement, compassion, and a quietly difficult question: Who do we stop for? Where's the Special Guest and What's a "Skip's Quip?" We are doing something a little different. We will be sharing a wisdom lesson with you—but there won't be a guest. A short wisdom lesson of less than 10 minutes total. We plan to do these about 5 times a year. We're calling these special editions - "Skip's Quips." Don't worry, we will still bring you wisdom conversations with our special guests twice a month. Additionally, you will receive "Skip's Quips" to supplement to our regular wisdom programming. Let us know what you think, and please share your feedback. You can do that via SpeakPipe. For More Information About Skip Lineberg Please visit our website. Credits Editor + Technical Advisor Bob Hotchkiss Brand + Strategy Advisor Andy Malinoski PR + Partnerships Advisor Rachel Bell Graphic Design + Social Media Chloe Lineberg Stay Connected with Us on Social YouTube @themainthingpod Twitter @themainthingpod Instagram @themainthingpod Facebook @TheMainThingPod LinkedIn How Can You Help Support the Growth of this Podcast? Become a subscriber. Share the podcast with one or two friends. Follow us on social media @TheMainThingPod Buy some Main Thing Merch from our Merchandise Store. Become a patron of the show and support us on Patreon with funding. Purchase a book from our curated collection on Bookshop. CHAPTERS + TIMESTAMPS 00:00 – When Human Beings Become Part of the Landscape A reflection on habituation, emotional filtering, and modern attention. 01:35 – A Man Named Jim A roadside encounter unexpectedly becomes personal. 04:38 – Two Dogs on a Hillside Why some suffering immediately captures our compassion. 05:44 – The Leash, the Sign, and Emotional Translation How context changes the way the brain processes vulnerability. 07:20 – Attunement and the Practice of Noticing What meaningful lives and meaningful leadership may have in common. 08:05 – Who Do We Stop For? A closing reflection on attention, visibility, and human connection.
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Ep. 144: The Casket Maker's Secret to a Good Life | Marcus Daly
Apr 2400:30:42Tap to summarizeMy Wisdom Conversation with Marcus Daly What does a casket maker know about life? More than you might expect. In this deeply thoughtful conversation, Marcus Daly shares how a life spent building caskets has shaped the way he thinks about living, loving, and what ultimately matters. What begins as a conversation about craft and career unfolds into something far more meaningful—touching on loss, purpose, faith, and the quiet choices that shape a good life. A Bit More About Our Wise Guest Marcus is the founder of Marian Caskets, a husband and father of eleven. He's a former commercial fisherman and boat builder. A craftsman by trade and a student of life by disposition, Marcus brings a grounded, deeply human perspective to questions most of us tend to avoid. From a formative season in Alaska to a deeply personal moment that led him to build his first casket, Marcus offers wisdom that is both practical and profound. This episode doesn't feel heavy—it feels clarifying, even peaceful. Because at its core is a simple, searching question: Am I living in a way today that I won't have to run from later? What You'll Take Away Why thinking about death can sharpen how we live What most of us spend our lives worrying about (it doesn't matter) Two simple, practical steps to begin living differently—today Closing Thought A good life isn't built all at once. It's built one decision at a time—often in quiet, unseen moments—shaped by what we choose to value, who we choose to love, and how we choose to show up. And maybe, just maybe, the end of life isn't something to fear… but something that reveals whether we've been living it well. Wisdom Resources Marcus Daly's Podcast - "Die Human" on YouTube Website for Marian Caskets Short film documenting Marcus' work Episode Chapters 00:00 – Why Thinking About the End Changes How We Live Skip opens with wisdom, mortality, and the idea that a good death begins with a good life. 03:15 – Meet Marcus Daly: The Casket Maker Marcus is introduced, along with the unusual work and perspective he brings. 05:10 – How Marcus and Skip are Connected Skip and Marcus reconnect over their college days and Phi Sigma Kappa roots. 06:39 – A Podcast About Life, Death, and Meaning Marcus shares how his work led to deeper reflection through Die Human. 09:19 – Chasing Adventure in Alaska Marcus recalls commercial fishing and the pull toward hard, honest work. 11:41 – From Carpentry to Calling How working with his hands eventually led Marcus toward casket making. 12:34 – The First Casket: A Defining Loss Marcus shares the deeply personal story behind the first casket he built. 15:38 – What Death Reveals About Life How casket making reshaped his perspective on gratitude, priorities, and what endures. 17:44 - Marcus Reveals His Main Thing Wisdom 24:45 – Living It Out: Two Practical Steps Marcus offers simple, actionable ways to begin living differently. Credits Editor + Technical Advisor Bob Hotchkiss Brand + Strategy Advisor Andy Malinoski PR + Partnerships Advisor Rachel Bell Graphic Design + Social Media Chloe Lineberg Stay Connected with Us on Social YouTube @themainthingpod Twitter @themainthingpod Instagram @themainthingpod Facebook @TheMainThingPod LinkedIn How Can You Help Support the Growth of this Podcast? Become a subscriber. Share the podcast with one or two friends. Follow us on social media @TheMainThingPod Buy some Main Thing Merch from our Merchandise Store. Become a patron of the show and support us on Patreon with funding. Purchase a book from our curated collection on Bookshop.
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Ep. 143 - She Built Green Goo. Then It Was Gone | Jodi Scott
Mar 2700:37:14Tap to summarizeWhat happens when the thing you built gets taken away? Jodi Scott founded Green Goo with a simple mission: create clean, all-natural first aid products that actually work. What started in her kitchen grew into a nationally recognized brand. And then—just like that—it was gone. A financing deal fell apart. Ownership slipped away. And Jodi found herself on the outside of the very company she created. Most people would walk away. Jodi didn't. In this episode, Jodi shares the hard-earned wisdom from the fight to reclaim what was hers—and what that battle revealed about resilience, identity, and the courage to keep going when the outcome is uncertain. Podcast Resources & Links Learn more about Green Goo The Green Goo store on Amazon Connect with Jodi on LinkedIn Why This Episode Matters Loss has a way of stripping things down to the essentials. Sometimes, what you rebuild on the other side is stronger, clearer and more aligned than what you once had. In this episode you'll learn: Why losing something you built can clarify what actually matters The difference between ownership and identity—and why confusing the two is dangerous How to live a more present, focused life and why being (as opposed to doing) is vitally important today A Bit More About Our Wise Guest - Jodi Scott Jodi Scott is the CEO of Spry Life and founder of Green Goo, an all-natural first aid and body care company known for its commitment to clean ingredients and effective healing solutions. With a background in pre-med studies and a master's degree in health psychology, Jodi's work bridges science, plant medicine, and the mind-body connection. Her journey as an entrepreneur is marked not only by innovation—but by resilience, grit, and an unwavering belief in what she built. She joined us from her home near Denver, Colorado. Credits Editor + Technical Advisor Bob Hotchkiss Brand + Strategy Advisor Andy Malinoski Stay Connected with Us on Social YouTube @themainthingpod Instagram @themainthingpod Facebook @TheMainThingPod LinkedIn Support the Show Your support helps us continue to find, capture, and share wisdom that helps us all get better at life. Become a subscriber. Share the podcast with one or two friends. Buy some Main Thing Merch from our Merchandise Store. Buy a book from our curated wisdom collection on bookshop.org. Become a patron and support us on Patreon with funding. Episode Chapters + Timestamps [0:02:50] – The Moment That Proves It Works Immediate, real-world impact of Green Goo. [0:03:56] - How Skip and Jodi are connected An email that sparked curiosity and collaboration. [0:05:20] – From Kitchen Table to National Brand Jodi's origin story—family roots and early growth. [0:07:00] – Disruption and Pivoting to a New Business Model Grinding through challenges; fight or flight; being on high-alert. [0:09:50] – Best Laid Plans to Losing It All (and What That Does to You) The emotional and psychological weight of losing the company. [0:13:30] – The Power of a Great Coach (and The Fight to Get It All Back) The long, uncertain road to reclaiming Green Goo; Coach Tim's guidance [0:17:30] – The Transformation: A New Way to Lead, Think and Be Adversity reshapes how Jodi thinks, leads, and operates; from survival to sovereignty. [0:19:00] - The Turning Point Putting the pieces back together; emerging from the low point, resuming production. [0:21:45] - Changing the Business Model An alternative go-to-market approach without retail shelf space. [0:24:00] – Jodi Reveals Her Main Thing The central idea that reframes everything. [0:26:25] – Training the Mind and Body to Be Present Practical application—how presence is built; Hint - it's not about putting things on. [0:28:14] – A Daughter, A Test, A Moment of Proof A story that shows presence in action—and legacy. [0:29:40] - Pain Points What to look for in your life; common signs and struggles. [0:32:00] – SHAMAN: A Simple Framework for Living Well Jodi's memorable system: Sleep, Hydration, Antioxidants, Mindfulness, Avoid, Nature. [0:34:06] – What Adversity Is Really Giving You Skip's closing reflection—the oyster, the shell and the pearl.
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Ep. 142 - Seeing Life Clearly: Wisdom from Dr. Brad Lane
Mar 500:32:11Tap to summarizeWelcome back to The Main Thing Podcast — your wisdom podcast where we explore insights, stories, and ideas that help us get a little bit better at life. In this episode, host Skip Lineberg sits down with optometrist, author, and community leader Dr. Brad Lane for a thoughtful conversation about mindset, perception, and the power of intentional focus. Brad shares how a simple journaling practice reshaped his daily life, how gratitude and reflection can transform our outlook, and why the human brain often finds exactly what it is looking for. Drawing from both neuroscience and real-life experience, Brad explains the role of the reticular activating system—a powerful mental filter that influences what we notice, believe, and ultimately become. Podcast Resources & Links Get Brad's book "The Professional's Daily Balance Journal" on Amazon Grab a copy of Brad's book "Appalachian Son" [links coming soon] Learn more about Appalachian Eye Care Connect with Brad on LinkedIn Through stories from his upbringing as the son of a West Virginia coal miner, his journey into optometry, and his work serving communities across the region, Brad offers listeners practical wisdom about how to train the mind, shape perspective, and live with purpose and clarity. This conversation is both reflective and practical—filled with insights you can begin applying immediately. Press play and discover why seeing life clearly begins with choosing what you focus on. What You'll Learn in This Episode Why journaling can help clear mental clutter and set daily intentions How gratitude and reflection shape the direction of your day The neuroscience behind the reticular activating system and how it impacts your mindset Why negative self-talk can sabotage progress—and how to replace it A Bit More About Our Wise Guest Dr. Brad Lane is a business and community leader and the co-owner and operator of Appalachian Eye Care, a growing regional optometry practice serving communities in Princeton and Beckley, West Virginia, as well as Giles County, Virginia. A native of Mullens, West Virginia and the proud son of a coal miner, Brad earned undergraduate degrees from Concord University and his Doctor of Optometry from the Pennsylvania College of Optometry. He later completed both an MBA and a Master of Education. Dr. Lane is an active advocate for the optometry profession and has served in leadership roles with several professional organizations and councils. He is also a published author whose upcoming second book, Appalachian Son, is scheduled for release in early 2026. Beyond his professional work, Brad is deeply committed to community service. He currently serves as Vice Chairman of the Concord University Board of Governors and supports multiple scholarships and charitable initiatives throughout the region. Brad Lane joins us for this conversation from Princeton, West Virginia. Credits Editor + Technical Advisor Bob Hotchkiss Brand + Strategy Advisor Andy Malinoski PR + Partnerships Advisor Rachel Bell Graphic Design + Social Media Chloe Lineberg Stay Connected with Us on Social YouTube @themainthingpod Twitter @themainthingpod Instagram @themainthingpod Facebook @TheMainThingPod LinkedIn How Can You Help Support the Growth of this Podcast? Become a subscriber. Share the podcast with one or two friends. Purchase a set of our wisdom cards for inspiration. Follow us on social media @TheMainThingPod Buy some Main Thing Merch from our Merchandise Store. Become a patron of the show and support us on Patreon with funding. Purchase a book from our curated collection on Bookshop.
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Ep. 141 - Switching Microphones with Chip VanAlsburg
Feb 1900:23:38Tap to summarizeWhen the Mic Turns Around What happens when interviewer becomes interviewee? In this special role-reversal episode of The Main Thing, longtime friend Chip VanAlsburg steps in as host to turn the microphone on Skip Lineberg. Together, they explore the origin story behind the podcast, the deeper spiritual motivation driving it, and what it really takes to distill knowledge into wisdom that helps people get better at life. Pulling Back the Curtain on The Main Thing From childhood conversations with elders to the "Holy Spirit moment" that birthed the show. And from the unseen, labor-intensive work behind each 25-minute episode… Skip pulls back the curtain, as Chip presents his own brand of insightful, soul-piercing questions. On Light, Leadership, and the Long Game The duo also dives into: Why growth isn't for everyone (and why that's okay) What it means to live effulgently—radiating light and love Reframing "empty nest" into "spacious nest" The butterfly effect of sharing wisdom And how knowledge becomes wisdom only when it's lived and shared Last but not least, Chip shares his own emerging vision—an honest, heartfelt look at trauma, healing, storytelling, and what he calls "big medicine." If you've ever wondered why this podcast exists—or what wisdom is really for—this conversation will meet you right where you are. Press play. Reflect deeply. Share generously. A Bit More About Our Wise Guest-Host Chip VanAlsburg is a big thinker with a restless mind and a wide-open heart. He challenges assumptions, pushes boundaries, and rarely accepts "no" as the final answer—especially when curiosity or conviction is involved. Bold and unafraid, Chip has spent more than two decades leading in the media, technology, and telecommunications worlds, holding roles such as General Manager, Vice President, and most recently Director at Lumen Technologies in Pittsburgh. But titles only tell part of the story. Chip is a glutton for experiences, with a voracious appetite for life and learning. He's an avid user of emojis, deeply fond of laughter, and unashamed of tears when the moment calls for them. His ego is squarely in check, even as his irises stay cranked wide open in a lifelong quest for peace, perspective, and enlightenment. What makes Chip compelling isn't just what he's accomplished—it's how he shows up: courageous, curious, emotionally honest, and fully engaged with the world around him. He brings that same energy and depth to conversation, making him the kind of guest who doesn't just share insights—he invites reflection. Now, buckle up and get ready to join the duo in exploring the concept of living a good life by pursuing purpose with humility, resilience and faith. This episode was recorded in-person, face-to-face inside Parkwood Studios in Almost Heaven, West Virginia. Resources Podcast Website Sign Up for the Newsletter Learn About the Wisdom Cards Credits Editor + Technical Advisor Bob Hotchkiss Brand + Strategy Advisor Andy Malinoski PR + Partnerships Advisor Rachel Bell Marketing, Social Media and Graphic Design Chloe Lineberg Stay Connected with Us on Social YouTube @themainthingpod Instagram @themainthingpod Facebook @TheMainThingPod LinkedIn Help Support and Sustain This Podcast Become a subscriber. Share the podcast with one or two friends. Follow us on social media @TheMainThingPod Buy some Main Thing Merch from our Merchandise Store. Buy a book from our curated wisdom collection on bookshop.org. Become a patron and support us on Patreon with funding. Episode Chapters [0:00:00] — Intro [0:01:01] — Chip Takes the Mic [0:02:39] — Skip's Wisdom Origin Story [0:06:25] — Faith & Ministry Behind the Podcast [0:08:54] — Product Extensions - Newsletter & Wisdom Cards [0:11:03] — Effulgent: Light & Love [0:14:58] — Spacious Nesters Reframed [0:16:11] — Behind the Scenes of Podcasting [0:17:40] — Chip Shares His Vision and Big News ###
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Ep. 140: An Enlightened Look at the Southern Border – with Gil Gillenwater
Jan 2200:34:27Tap to summarizeWisdom, Perspective and Hope on the Border: A Wisdom Conversation with Gil Gillenwater Welcome back to The Main Thing Podcast. We recently engaged in a meaningful and transformative conversation with Gil Gillenwater, a trailblazing humanitarian leader. Gil has devoted his life to serving people in the U.S.–Mexico borderlands. This conversation offers listeners a deeper, more grounded understanding of the southern border, beyond headlines, politics, and talking points. Let's be clear from the outset: if you think this episode is about free handouts or opening up our borders to everyone, you are sorely mistaken. Your eyes will be dramatically opened when you listen to Gil's wisdom. What unfolds is a focused, human conversation about dignity, responsibility, faith, and hope—shared by someone who has lived and worked in the borderlands for decades. Podcast Resources & Links Rancho Feliz Charitable Foundation (Gil's nonprofit): https://ranchofeliz.com/ Gil Gillenwater's book — "Hope on the Border" https://a.co/d/ciQvuDI (From Amazon) Videos about Rancho Feliz https://youtube.com/@ranchofeliz?si=JctJeBTZSm2M2ycT Gil and Troy's Epic 1982 Journey - The Arizona Trail https://www.arizonahighways.com/archive/issues/chapter/Doc.1506.Chapter.7 A Focused Wisdom Conversation This episode invites listeners to elevate their perspective on one of the most complex and misunderstood issues in American life by hearing directly from someone with lived experience on the border. Gil shares what decades of service have taught him about humility, human dignity, leadership, and faith—offering insight that replaces assumption with understanding and reaction with clarity. What You'll Learn in This Episode How lived experience reshapes our understanding of the U.S.–Mexico border Why responsibility and dignity matter as much as compassion What long-term service teaches us about leadership and humility How faith can inform action without relying on easy answers More About Our Wise Guest Gil Gillenwater is the founder and president of the Rancho Feliz Charitable Foundation, an award-winning nonprofit dedicated to long-term, dignity-centered service in the U.S.–Mexico borderlands. His work has been recognized with Arizona's highest honor for volunteerism, as well as formal recognition from Mexican authorities. Gil is also the author of Hope on the Border, a deeply human account of life and service in the borderlands, highlighting both hard realities and quiet acts of redemption. Why This Episode Matters Few topics generate more emotion—and less understanding—than America's southern border. This episode is for anyone willing to have assumptions challenged and perspective expanded. Credits Editor + Technical Advisor Bob Hotchkiss Brand + Strategy Advisor Andy Malinoski PR + Partnerships Advisor Rachel Bell Marketing, Social Media and Graphic Design Chloe Lineberg Stay Connected with Us on Social YouTube @themainthingpod Instagram @themainthingpod Facebook @TheMainThingPod LinkedIn Help Support and Sustain This Podcast Become a subscriber. Share the podcast with one or two friends. Follow us on social media @TheMainThingPod Buy some Main Thing Merch from our Merchandise Store. Buy a book from our curated wisdom collection on bookshop.org. Become a patron and support us on Patreon with funding. Episode Chapters [00:00] — Wisdom, Perspective, and the Need for a Broader View [01:19] — Why the Southern Border Demands Wisdom, Not Sound Bites [02:03] — Meet Gil Gillenwater: A Life Devoted to the Borderlands [03:22] — Walking Arizona and the Power of Public Lands [05:43] — The First Trip That Changed Everything; Skipping Thanksgiving [09:01] — Dignity, Not Handouts: The Lesson That Reshaped His Mission [11:20] — What Americans Aren't Seeing About the Border [15:01] — Walls, Human Suffering, and Hard Truths [18:11] — Enlightened Self-Interest and the Power of Service [24:21] — Gil's "Main Thing": Service as a Portal to an Abundant Life [30:52] — Rancho Feliz and an Invitation to Participate [31:40] — A Parting Word on Interconnection and Shared Humanity
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Ep. 139 - Skip's Quips: The Worst Christmas Gift I Ever Recieved
Dec 2000:07:40Tap to summarizeThe Worst Christmas Gift I Ever Received Welcome, wisdom-seekers to Skip's Quips - a Holiday Special Edition! This week on The Main Thing Podcast, we're doing something a little different — and a little more intimate. No guest. No interview. Just you and me, gathered around a story that has stayed with me for nearly half a century. And it couldn't be landing at a better time. Today is a week before Christmas, and most of us are feeling the familiar holiday squeeze — the pressure to get it right, to pick the perfect gifts, to keep all the moving parts moving. Before the wrapping paper flies and the chaos peaks, let's pause to unwrap a story that surprised me… and eventually shaped me. This is the tale of the worst Christmas gift I ever received — and the unexpected wisdom it carried. About This Special Episode In this short Christmas reflection, I take you back to 1976, when ten-year-old Skip unwrapped a gift that left him confused, disappointed, and wondering what he had done wrong. But what I didn't know then — and what I can see so clearly now — is that the quiet gifts we don't understand often become the ones that shape our character the most deeply. This story is a reminder that: Some gifts grow on us slowly Love sometimes looks like preparation And the smallest objects can carry the largest lessons It's my Christmas gift to you today — a little wisdom wrapped in memory, gratitude, and hindsight. Where's the Special Guest and What's a "Skip's Quip?" We are doing something a little different. I'll be sharing a wisdom lesson with you—but there won't be a guest. Just me, sharing wisdom. A short wisdom lesson of less than 10 minutes total. We plan to do these about 6 times a year. We're calling these special editions - "Skip's Quips." Don't worry, we will still bring you wisdom conversations with our special guests twice a month. Additionally, you will receive "Skip's Quips" to supplement to our regular wisdom programming. Let us know what you think, and please share your feedback. You can do that via SpeakPipe. This special "Skip's Quip" will help you: Reset your heart six days before Christmas See gift-giving through a new, deeper lens Remember the shaping power of work, responsibility, and small tasks For More Information About Skip Lineberg Please visit our website. Credits Editor + Technical Advisor Bob Hotchkiss Brand + Strategy Advisor Andy Malinoski PR + Partnerships Advisor Rachel Bell Marketing, Social Media and Graphic Design Chloe Lineberg Stay Connected with Us on Social YouTube @themainthingpod Twitter @themainthingpod Instagram @themainthingpod Facebook @TheMainThingPod LinkedIn TikTok @TheMainThingPod Help Support and Sustain This Podcast Become a subscriber. Share the podcast with one or two friends. Follow us on social media @TheMainThingPod Buy some Main Thing Merch from our Merchandise Store. Buy a book from our curated wisdom collection on bookshop.org. Become a patron and support us on Patreon with funding.
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Ep. 138 - Connector Kathleen Walker Shares Timeless Wisdom
Dec 900:25:31Tap to summarizeIn this heartfelt and deeply meaningful wisdom conversation, I sit down with Kathleen Walker—a trusted friend of more than 25 years, a respected leadership consultant, an entrepreneur and one of the most compassionate people I know. Kathleen works with leaders, teams, and organizations to strengthen communication, clarity, and performance. But beyond her professional expertise, Kathleen brings a rare blend of empathy, insight, and lived wisdom that has shaped countless lives—including mine. This conversation is an invitation to slow down, look inward, and lead differently. Lead With Love – Leadership, Relationships & the Choice That Changes Everything We explore Kathleen's powerful "main thing" wisdom—lead with love—and how it applies in both leadership and personal life. From hiring and workplace communication to parenting, grief, friendship, and everyday relationships, Kathleen reveals how love can become a conscious, transformative choice instead of a reaction driven by fear or frustration. You'll be moved by stories of her father's influence, her journey as a leader and mother, and the simple daily practices that help her choose love again and again. This conversation is filled with encouragement, perspective, and practical insight you can apply immediately. What You'll Learn from Our Wisdom Conversation How love transforms leadership, feedback, and workplace culture The difference between reacting in fear and responding in love How relationships directly shape fulfillment, health, and longevity A Bit More About Our Wise Guest Kathleen Walker is the cofounder of Epiphany Consulting, a leadership and assessment firm serving individuals, teams, and organizations. Her professional background spans telecommunications, transportation, healthcare, law, and personal services. She specializes in communication, leadership alignment, hiring, and personal development. Kathleen is a South Charleston native, a devoted wife and mother of two daughters, and a lifelong encourager. She joins us from Charleston, West Virginia. Podcast Resources Learn more about Epiphany Consulting Credits Editor + Technical Advisor Bob Hotchkiss Brand + Strategy Advisor Andy Malinoski PR + Partnerships Advisor Rachel Bell Marketing, Social Media and Graphic Design Chloe Lineberg Stay Connected with Us on Social YouTube @themainthingpod Twitter @themainthingpod Instagram @themainthingpod Facebook @TheMainThingPod LinkedIn Help Support and Sustain This Podcast Become a subscriber. Share the podcast with one or two friends. Follow us on social media @TheMainThingPod Buy some Main Thing Merch from our Merchandise Store. Buy a book from our curated wisdom collection on bookshop.org. Become a patron and support us on Patreon with funding. Episode Chapters [00:02:45] - Why hiring & onboarding are frustrating; Kathleen's keys to success [00:04:48] - Kathleen's elevator pitch; why she loves what she does [00:05:21] - Understanding our communication styles; generational differences [00:06:15] - What she wanted to be when she grew up [00:07:05] - Assessments: key to understanding ourselves and personal impact [00:08:10] - One morning at the bagel shop; how Kathleen & Skip are connected [00:09:37] - Inviting you to support our mission of delivering wisdom to the world [00:10:40] - Kathleen reveals her Main Thing [00:11:11] - The impact of a mentor - Kathleen's father; wisdom + love in action [00:13:30] - Humanity; three things every human needs (and craves) [00:15:20] - Choosing love over fear [00:18:40] - Seasons of life, friendships and community [00:20:11] - Kathleen shares a parting thought; the butterfly effect [00:22:45] - Skip's final reflection on Kathleen's wisdom lesson
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Ep. 137 - Golf Pro Chris Breed Shares Inspiring Wisdom
Nov 2000:30:17Tap to summarizeIn this inspiring wisdom‑conversation, I sit down with Chris Breed. He's not only a top PGA-certified golf instructor, coach, encourager and faith‑driven leader, he is one of the most inspiring people I've ever met. FACE Forward - Encouragement, Focus & Faith We explore how Chris' coaching insights and spiritual perspectives combine to help us live wiser, bolder lives. Chris introduces his "FACE" framework (Focus • Attitude • Commitment • Effort) and shows how it applies not only on the green, but in our everyday journeys of growth and meaning. You will laugh and learn with stories from his golf career, lessons in resilience and encouragement, and practical tools to help you get unstuck, shift perspective and move forward. Chris' authenticity and positivity will leave you energized and full of confidence. What You'll Learn from Our Wisdom Conversation Tips on how to give feedback that sticks and helps improve performance Inspiration to apply when you're feeling discouraged How to find and rejuvenate our confidence when it seems to have disappeared Plus - an inside look at how our faith can spill over and fuel growth in other areas of life A Bit More About Our Wise Guest Chris Breed is a full-time golf professional who works at Berry Hills Country Club in Charleston, West Virginia. He has a passion for growing the game of golf and watching his students' skills grow through his instruction and guidance. Chris loves seeing his students shine on and off the golf course. At an early age, Chris developed a passion for teaching and coaching because of the influenced of his mentor, Ted Sheftic. Chris holds numerous PGA golf certifications. He was recently honored by Golf Digest as the #1 golf instructor in West Virginia for the 2025-2026 season. Chris resides in Charleston with his wife and children. He joins us today from the majestic grounds of Berry Hills Country Club. Podcast Resources Connect with Coach Chris Breed on social media— TikTok: @Chris.Breed7 Instagram: ChrisBreed85 Berry Hills Country Club website Credits Editor + Technical Advisor Bob Hotchkiss Brand + Strategy Advisor Andy Malinoski PR + Partnerships Advisor Rachel Bell Marketing, Social Media and Graphic Design Chloe Lineberg Stay Connected with Us on Social YouTube @themainthingpod Twitter @themainthingpod Instagram @themainthingpod Facebook @TheMainThingPod LinkedIn Help Support and Sustain This Podcast Become a subscriber. Share the podcast with one or two friends. Follow us on social media @TheMainThingPod Buy some Main Thing Merch from our Merchandise Store. Buy a book from our curated wisdom collection on bookshop.org. Become a patron and support us on Patreon with funding. Episode Chapters [0:01:35] - Meet Coach Chris Breed Introduction to Chris's personality, passion, and personal connection to Skip. [0:03:34] - Coaching with Purpose Chris's coaching approach and heart for personal growth. [0:06:25] - Golf as a Metaphor for Life True or false questions spark deeper life wisdom through the lens of golf. [0:08:49] - The FACE Framework Chris shares his powerful system for performance and mindset: Focus, Attitude, Commitment, Effort. [0:12:42] - Midnight Golf & Fatherhood Warm memories of learning golf with his dad and how that shaped Chris's passion. [0:14:03] - Coaching Styles & Learning Personalities How Chris adapts lessons to fit visual and feel-based learners. [0:16:21] - Coach Chris Breed Reveals His "Main Thing" Wisdom Chris shares his guiding principle in life — and how encouragement creates transformation. [0:20:35] - Coaching His Son Riley Lessons in expectations, patience, and the shift from "impress" to "bless." [0:24:46] - Faith Through TikTok Using social platforms for spiritual encouragement and sharing daily devotions. [0:26:37] - Anchored by Faith Chris reflects on God's guidance and staying grounded in turbulent times.
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