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What's the Reality?
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What’s The Reality is your all-access backstage pass into the wild and unpredictable world of your favorite TV personalities and influencers.
Hosted by Amber Desiree (AD) from Love Is Blind and Perfect Match, every episode dives deep into love, relationships, breakups, makeups, and all the drama you didn’t see on screen.
From unfiltered interviews with your favorite reality stars and celebrities to pop culture hot takes, AD and her guests keep it real, fun, and unfiltered. Whether you’re a diehard fan or just love a little tea, this is where reality TV spills over into real life.
New Episodes drop every Wednesday!
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The Ultimatum's Ashley & Killian: Two Sides, One Messy Breakup
6d ago01:19:45Summary readyOn today's episode of What's The Reality, AD is giving both Ashley and Killian the chance to tell their side of one of The Ultimatum's most talked about breakups. In this special He Said, She Said episode, they each reflect on their time on the show, what viewers didn't see, the fallout after filming ended, and where things stand now. Two interviews. Two perspectives. One very messy breakup. Follow What's The Reality on Socials! Instagram: @whatstherealitypod TikTok: @whatstherealitypod Follow AD: @amberdesiree Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
SummarySpecial Bonus Episode: The Ultimatum's Jessica Grace Sits Down with AD Fresh Off the Reunion
2w ago00:22:11Summary readyIn this special BONUS EPISODE of What's The Reality, AD sits down with her close friend and The Ultimatum cast member Jessica Grace fresh off the reunion. Jessica opens up about her experience on the show, her proposal to Edris, and what really happened with their relationship after the cameras stopped rolling. She also reflects on their breakup and shares her thoughts on the reunion. If you've been following The Ultimatum drama, you won't want to miss this exclusive post reunion conversation. Follow What's The Reality on Socials! Instagram: @whatstherealitypod TikTok: @whatstherealitypod Follow AD: @amberdesiree Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
SummaryThe Ultimatum's Hayley Tells All: What Happened After the Show & Blake's Arrest
2w ago01:13:25Summary readyThe Ultimatum has been making headlines, and now Hayley is sharing her side of the story. Spoiler Alert: If you haven’t finished The Ultimatum finale and reunion yet, save this episode and come back once you’re caught up! On this week's episode of What's The Reality, Hayley sits down with AD to open up about her experience on the show, the reunion, and the behind-the-scenes moments viewers never saw. She breaks down how she and Blake ended up on The Ultimatum, what really happened during the experiment, those shocking group chat messages, and the drama that continued after filming wrapped. Hayley also shares her side of the breakup, the events that led to their final altercation, and what happened the night Blake was arrested. Hayley is setting the record straight on everything viewers have been talking about. Follow What's The Reality on Socials! Instagram: @whatstherealitypod TikTok: @whatstherealitypod Follow AD: @amberdesiree Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
SummaryWe've Lived It: Zaina & Aria React to the New Season of The Ultimatum
3w ago01:05:28Summary readyThe Ultimatum is back on Netflix, and the girls have thoughts! 👀 ⚠️ Spoiler Alert: If you haven't watched the first drop of episodes yet, come back after you binge! Season 3 stars Aria and Zaina join AD to break down the first batch of episodes from the new season and they do not hold back. From shocking moments and relationship red flags to behind the scenes insights that only former cast members can give, this recap is packed with hot takes and unfiltered opinions. Plus, the ladies catch up on life since the show, spill a little tea, play some fun games, and share updates you won't want to miss. Follow What's The Reality on Socials! Instagram: @whatstherealitypod TikTok: @whatstherealitypod Follow AD: @amberdesiree Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
SummaryFrom Love Is Blind to Perfect Match: Jimmy Presnell Sets the Record Straight!
4w ago00:57:40Summary readyThis week on What’s The Reality, AD reunites with her fellow Love Is Blind Season 6 castmate and friend, Jimmy Presnell! Jimmy reflects on how Love Is Blind changed his life, the viral moments that followed, and the personal growth that came from facing public criticism. He also opens up about his friendship with Chelsea and his infamous glow up post show! Plus, Jimmy dishes on his experience on Perfect Match, his relationship with Ally, what viewers didn't see, and where he stands today, both in life and in love. Follow What's The Reality on Socials! Instagram: @whatstherealitypod TikTok: @whatstherealitypod Follow AD: @amberdesiree Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
SummaryInside America's Sweethearts: Dallas Cowboys Cheerleaders with Chandi Dayle
Jun 2400:37:26Summary readyChandi Dayle from America's Sweethearts: Dallas Cowboys Cheerleaders season 2 joins AD, your host and fellow former pro cheerleader, for an honest conversation about life after DCC, rediscovering her love of dance, and her unfiltered thoughts on season three! The two bond over their shared experiences in the cheer world as Chandi opens up about the challenges of being a Black woman in dance, the progress she's seen in representation within the DCC organization, and what viewers don't always see about the demands of professional cheerleading. She also discusses recovering from hip surgery and navigating social media criticism. Plus, Chandi shares why she decided to speak publicly about her history with abuse, reflects on some of the season's most emotional moments, and discusses what's next for her after DCC. Follow What's The Reality on Socials! Instagram: @whatstherealitypod TikTok: @whatstherealitypod Follow AD: @amberdesiree Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
SummaryJimmy Sotos Thought Nick Lachey Was a Bombshell, Drops a Diss Track & Opens Up About his Post-Villa Depression
Jun 1700:47:53Summary readyJimmy Sotos joins AD on What’s the Reality? to talk about what really happened on Perfect Match. From not knowing who Nick Lachey was, to falling hard for Alison, to navigating the drama in the villa, Jimmy is sharing the stories viewers didn’t get to see. He opens up about his relationship with Alison, his mental health struggles after the show ended and why he may never get this lucky with a reality TV edit again. Oh…and he also drops a diss track live on the podcast and no one from his cast is safe! Follow What's The Reality on Socials! Instagram: @whatstherealitypod TikTok: @whatstherealitypod Follow AD: @amberdesiree Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
SummarySophie & Alison Reveal What REALLY Happened After Perfect Match!
Jun 1001:25:37Summary readyPerfect Match and Love Is Blind UK’s Sophie is here! She sits down with AD to spill all the tea from the finale and reveal what really happened after the cameras stopped rolling with her and Dave. Sophie opens up about the reality TV backlash she's faced, the moments she wishes viewers had seen, and why she's choosing to stay out of the online drama. Plus, now that the Perfect Match finale has aired, Alison is finally able to share everything. In part two of her conversation with AD, she gives an update on where things stand with Jimmy today, shares her thoughts on the finale drama, and reveals the surprising confrontations that happened after filming wrapped. Follow What's The Reality on Socials! Instagram: @whatstherealitypod TikTok: @whatstherealitypod Follow AD: @amberdesiree Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
SummaryFrom Perfect Match to Married: Marissa George Tells All
Jun 300:40:09Summary readyMarissa George is back on What’s The Reality, and a lot has changed since the last time. Our girl is married! 💍 Marissa joins AD to break down her whirlwind journey from Perfect Match to marriage and walks us through the timeline that led her to her happily ever after. Marissa also opens up about life after reality TV, why she doesn't pay attention to the outside noise surrounding the show, and what viewers didn't get to see in her relationship with DeMari. Plus, Marissa shares her unfiltered thoughts on that wild Perfect Match finale. Follow What's The Reality on Socials! Instagram: @whatstherealitypod TikTok: @whatstherealitypod Follow AD: @amberdesiree Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
SummaryPerfect Match’s Ally Lewber Tells Her Side of the Story
May 2800:50:18Summary readyThis week on What’s The Reality, Ally Lewber joins AD to spill behind-the-scenes tea from Perfect Match, react to that explosive finale, and share life updates post-show. 👀 The two talk about her time on Vanderpump Rules and even dive into astrology as Ally gives listeners a mini reading. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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