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mmhhh happy glorious Friday lovers.I wrote a poem about its origin…. Recently I have had many people send me reels with twangy Australian voices using the word cunt not unlike the consistent word of “um”……Australia as a nation has single handedly used, abused and totally tainted the beauty of cunt and made it become so common in its degrading. This does her no justice what so ever.Inside The Pleasure Studio with Melissa Louise is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.I thought I would do homage to who she truly is…and bring her back out of the gutter. Because that is no place for her at all.So I wrote a poem about her and thought I would share a little history to you all for your reading pleasure.The word cunt is one of the oldest known terms for the female genitalia actually predating patriarchal language systems. IN fact her earliest linguistic ancestors appear in Sanskrit: yoni (meaning “sacred source” or “womb of creation.”), in Proto-Germanic & Old Norse.. kunta or kunte, which denotes “woman” or “female power.” and the good ole Old English…..cunte, a neutral and descriptive word simply meaning vulva.Before the word was shamed and weaponized, it was a god damn title of reverence, associated with the goddess, creation, and the life-giving portal from which all beings are born.And the pure poetic essence of “Cunt” once meant the holy doorway, the temple gate through which life emerges.It was a word of worship, a name for the divine feminine, for the dark, wet, fertile mystery that births stars, souls and god damn rock stars! ( and the weavers, potters, farmers and pilots)..all of them truth be told 1It is the cave of creation,the sanctum of pleasure and power,the seat of intuition,the portal between worlds…death, birth, ecstasy, and rebirth.To speak it in its original vibration was to invoke the Goddess herself Kundalini, Kali, Isis, Inanna, the Great Mother.So…for this Friday morning I am just doing my own bit of reclaiming and i hope you like it.This is not about shock value ( although… maybe just a little ) but it is more about remembering.It is about returning the word to her rightful throne god damn it.from slur to spell,from shame to sovereignty.When spoken with awareness, cunt becomes a prayer, a dripping pulse and a reclamation of our erotic, creative divinity.Happy Friday loversAlways with PleasureM💋 This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit melissalouise.substack.com/subscribe

Lovers helloooHappy glorious Monday…and here I am finishing this month with some juice! I am so excited to share my latest podcast episode with you which was a raw, honest, and educational conversation with the one and only Mr Kevin Anthony. …Another great Sex, Love & Relationship Coach.Kevin Anthony is a Certified Sexologist, Tantra Counselor, NLP Practitioner and a Sex, Love & Relationship coach. For over 10 years he has worked with men, women, and couples to have the relationships of their dreams, and the best sex of their lives! He is also the host of “The Love Lab Podcast”, creator of the popular YouTube channel Kevin Anthony Coaching, and creator of the popular online course series “Power and Mastery” as well as other online courses for both men and women.We dive into one of the most taboo topics in sexuality: anal sex.This episode was sparked by one of Kevin’s recent reels about why many women say no to anal. But I couldn’t help but ask: Why is this conversation always centered on women, when every human has an anus? Why don’t we speak about men’s pleasure, fears, or shame in the same way?So I reached out to him and asked..would you be willing to chat with me about it?And he said …sure! So a few days ago Kevin and I explored topics such as✨ Why anal intimacy carries so much taboo, shame, and resistance✨ The myths vs. the actual science about sensitivity, nerve endings, and circumcision✨ How both men and women experience anal pleasure (and how it differs)✨ Safety, consent, and preparation for backdoor exploration✨ How anal intimacy can become a practice of vulnerability, healing, and deeper connectionThis is not just a “how-to” chat. It is a beautiful inquiry and somewhat of a reframe of anal intimacy as your ( everyones ) portal into trust, sovereignty, and even more expanded pleasure.So if you are curious, maybe even hesitant, or you just simply want to break through outdated narratives, this episode will open your eyes a little and make you giggle i hope. Because it is all meant to be fun. Maybe..just maybe ….it will inspire new conversations with your partner.HERE is the link to Kevin’s product page so you can get yourself the oy he spoke of!With pleasure,MelissaKevin’s links arehttps://www.kevinanthonycoaching.comHost of The Love Lab PodcastKevin Anthony Coaching Youtube Channel This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit melissalouise.substack.com/subscribe

Something so deep is happening within me.It is like a simmering fire that began with a small amount of tinder about a decade ago. Then when I moved into re-genopause and my body stopped bleeding every month, it was like I woke up with the flames licking at my feet.It was like ever bit of truth that had me nervous, unsure if I could speak about it, how to speak about it and unsure if I could deal with the punishment if I did - just became clear.It kind of feels like I woke up one day and felt, “Oh - I just don’t give a fuck really” In all the places I was concerned, I am just not.”And now that i can't reproduce more consuming minions for the hungry beast of the industrialized project, I am also ignored a little more. Not just a little more..like a lot. You know the drill. Older lady. Apparently has no idea about life..her wisdom was DHL ‘ed off somewhere…Which I kind of like a lot. As it is quieter over here. More peaceful. More space.It is a wonderful thing that I would recommend to EVERY woman.So gorgeous one,Let me tell you something—just by purely existing, you are fucking phenomenal. And if you exist outside the system and actually make the decision to love yourself, you are a radical, revolutionary threat to the patriarchal power that has tried to contain women for centuries.Just think about that for a moment.Truly loving yourself allows you to detach from the multi Billion dollar industry created just to keep women in the belief they are not good enough.It is quite the thing.…..Cutting bodies.Filling flesh.Removing skin.Reshaping labia’s…. I mean ….Then there is the way boys are raised, bullied and coerced to believe human emotions are weak, annoying and crazy, so they can grow up and be-little their female partners for it ( for basically being human ), let alone dismissing the actual need for men to cultivate the necessary powerful emptiness required for him to be present with those who birthed their children, who birthed them and birthed the nation..Anyways…It is all rather ludicrous.Insanely ridiculous, yet the all very common unspoken law in religions, government and households. - The feminine is dirty, inconvenient, unintelligent, crazy, unstable and not to be believed.Do you ever wonder why women have up to a fourfold increase in risk for autoimmune disease compared to men?I do.All the time.I peel back the layers of our masculine project led world that has women forcing themselves every single day to fit into a square box in order to “stay safe” whilst they are the beautiful round universe itself.You see the world does not fear a woman who follows the rules.They fear a woman who trusts herself so deeply that she no longer needs them.A woman who doesn’t look outside for validation, permission, or proof of her worth. A woman who knows her body is hers alone—her pleasure, her voice, her power, undeniable and untamed.That’s why the work I do is not just about intimacy, or sexuality, or relationships. It’s about liberation. True freedom in your system.When you reclaim your body, you reclaim your voice.When you reclaim your voice, you reclaim your truth.And when you reclaim your truth, the world shifts beneath your feet.Because a woman who remembers herself cannot be owned.She doesn’t shrink.She doesn’t wait to be chosen.She doesn’t barter for love, safety, or space.She takes up space. She softens into herself. She lets life move through her, for her, with her—because she is no longer gripping for control. She is no longer playing by their rules.This is why they fear a woman in her full radiance. A woman who surrenders to herself first—before surrendering to love, to a partner, to anything else.And this is what I want for you.To return home to yourself—to the wild, unshakable, undeniable force that was always yours.And this is why I created Surrender to do exactly that.This Saturday March 1st at 3 pm EET.Because my love, you are the revolution.Join us HERE.Always with PleasureM❤️ This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit melissalouise.substack.com/subscribe

Last week my manager and his gorgeous wife had a wild idea. He was booked to speak at a men’s online summit on the weekend and asked me to make a video for the men that he would show during his talk.When I woke on Sunday morning my phone was blowing up with messages about how amazing it went and that there were even tears shed by some of the men.So I thought I would share it here for all of you.We are all here trying our best to walk one another home in a society that is hell bent on keeping us separate from one another, exhausted and stretched to the max so that the only thing we are focused on is “scaling our businesses”.What about scaling our joy? Our happiness? Our depth in relationships?What is the point on scaling to millions if all you are doing is managing that beast?What is the point of scaling to immense wealth and you wake up to realize that the person you are with is someone you truly don’t know would actually be with you if it all fell apart because along the way money and deals had been the priority, not the cultivating of personal wealth in understanding, sex-ploration, absolute joy and internal happiness?What is the point of having the shiny head turning car when the woman who sits in the passenger seat is unable to experience deep life changing, bed shaking, neighbour complaining orgasms that change her skin, how she looks and cracks her heart so fucking wide open that she can barely talk for hours afterwards?Sure.If you want to just push through and lie to yourself that success means you can buy top shelf. liquor to fill the emptiness, that surface level conversations allow you to take the easy road and that if she is making noises that sound like an orgasm within 20 min then you must be “doing a good job”. If a man needs to ask his woman if she came, it is damn obvious she did not.If you are not having an internal negotiation wether to close the windows or invest in sound proof installation so that the neighbours don’t give you side-way glances as you mow your lawn each weekend, then honey, I need to let you know, she is not well fucked.And the top secret to scaling your business is having a well fucked woman. Sexual energy is creative energy. The secrets of how the universe, sex and money co create are well hidden and used in the places of power such as the Vatican ( another story for another time ). Meantime you have been had, lied to and manipulated in order for you to think that sex is not that important. ( if it was not so important then why does the P0rn Industry estimates a global annual revenue between $97 billion and $100 billion? )But ….. You can change all of that by joining us inside of Man In Control.My all mens group program is not just about a few tricks to wank better.It is a 6 week program that truly gives you the tools to know how to masturbate in ways that builds your stamina, your power, your trust worthiness when it comes to women and makes you more money as your partner or lover becomes more and more well fucked. Even if you are single it works.It also supports you to win your Jujitsu heats ( as per my recent client Matt experienced just within three weeks of us working together ).Men.You were born for greatness, not this mediocracy ho hum of existence of constant ground hog days, dissatisfying relationships, and accumulated exhaustion and shame as porn becomes the only insidious outlet for your arousal. Join us to actually create the change that you want in your life when it comes to your sex and intimacy.Click here to do so.We start Tuesday March 4thAlways with PleasureM💋 This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit melissalouise.substack.com/subscribe

Yesterday Diane and I had yet another juicy conversation ( I was interviewed on her podcast last week ) and by the end we were like..oh my goodness..we need to do a third one!This is what happens when two women who have a lot in common and are passionate about the same things get together.Dr. Diane Mueller, ND, DAOM, is a sexual wellness expert with dual doctorates in Naturopathic as well as Acupuncture and Oriental Medicine. She is the founder of the sex education center: MyLibidoDoc.com and hosts 'The Libido Lounge' podcast, blending personal experience with clinical expertise. And our chat yesterday was all about the truth of your Libido.I hope you enjoy it as much as we had bringing it to you.You can follow Diane in all the places below.Free Libido Quiz: Find the root causes (and solutions) for low libido: https://t.ly/NeKExHer Podcast "Libido Lounge" mylibidodoc.com/podcastHer website: MyLibidoDoc.comYoutube: Youtube.com/@mylibidodocInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/Revive Your Love Life Ebook Free Copy: https://mylibidodoc.com/revive-your-love-life/💋PS.. have you managed to check out what is in store this year “Inside of The Pleasure Studio” for the Inner Circle of Paid Subscribers? If not you can do so HEREThis coming Monday we have “Sex as Medicine” with Guided Self Pleasure practices for both hm and her… and if you happened to miss last weeks email it was All About Nipple play.Lovers you have until the end of tonight to lock in 2024 prices for my subscriptions.subscribe nowUntil next timeFill your life with PleasureM💋 This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit melissalouise.substack.com/subscribe

“Breasts are powerful. They nourish, nurture, and yet—they have been shamed, hidden, and weaponized against us. It's time to reclaim them"In this short video above both Serrita and I share what is the inspiration behind our TopLess Brunch. If you are here in Puerto Vallarta we would LOVE for you to join us for a sacred gathering of women—topless, unfiltered, and unapologetic. A space where we share our stories, shift the pain, and bring love and acceptance back to our own bodies.This is more than a brunch. It’s a revolution of self-love, body sovereignty, and feminine empowerment.“A woman’s body is not an apology, and her breasts are not an invitation for judgment.” – Sonya Renee Taylor”When a girl starts to move through into puberty her breasts become a significant factor to the world that she is changing. And this change can be one that signals to her that her behaviour must change, her clothing must placate the world around her and the growth of her breasts are often the centre of ridicule, bullying and conversation. Gorgeous woman. Are you showing off your breasts ? or do you just have breasts!!!Instead of learning how incredible our breasts are at alchemizing our life, reset our hormones and how to detoxify and look after them through massage and doaist practices, we learn to hide them, cut them, change them and be ashamed of them.It is our beautiful responsibility to honour and love them.The topless brunch is where this begins.Gorgeous woman.Come and be apart of a movement where we as women get to re write our breast stories.Sunday Feb 16th. 11amPuerto VallartaGet your tickets here ( US $ ) or if you want to pay in MXP..pls reach out to me and I will send you how.XXAlways with pleasureM This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit melissalouise.substack.com/subscribe

If you were following me on my old Insta account ( you know the one they took ..blah blah blah ) you may have been one of the lucky ones to have tuned into the “Cumming with Coffee” episodes I would have with Alex. THey were juicy, full of nuggets and we had so much fun having these profound conversations.Well…we are back,But this time…here in podcast and youtube video format.Here is our first episode for 2025. There is a reel going around ( THIS ONE ) that demonstrates how men are very often trying to share from their heart yet women are not realizing it and shut it down.In this episode Alex and I speak to the breakdown in communication and the differences to women’s and men’s communication style.We hope you enjoy our conversation and we look forward to be bringing you some juicy and thought provoking episodes this year.If you are a fan of both us and enjoy how we groove together…I have some exciting news. Both Alex and I will be presenting a weekend of in person workshops called RAVISH - A Journey into Sensual Mastery in London - April 26th-27th.Stay tuned for details how to book yourself in. It will be limited numbers so as to maintain the integrity of a group experience that is personal and attentive.We are both so juiced up and excited to bring this to you. All details coming to you in the next wk or so.💋Speaking of an awesome 2025.. have you seen what is in store for the inner circle of Paid subscribers this year? If not go ahead and check it out here2 x monthly bundles of content, coaching, practices and processes. ( bonus weeks with months that have 5 Mondays in it !)Private Telegram group for community inspiration, accountability and supportMonthly live Zoom calls where you can ask me anything.You can see what is on the calendar HERE my loves.Let's get real for a moment. My paid subscription isn't just content - it's your pathway to feeling alive, orgasmic & turned the fuck on. And more than just twice-monthly video coaching you have access to my extra love fests such as Coctober, Pussvember & Sexmas… You don’t need to settle for mediocre when you could be experiencing mind-blowing transformation. Presently you can get all of this valued at $5000 worth of pleasure wisdom. for $11 a month or $100 a yr….The new calendar has begun yet the price increase starts Feb 1st.To secure your subscription for this ridiculously low price do it now baby. It will be the best 100 bucks you spend this yr !!💋PS… MEN have you registered for my free class on Saturday 25th?Men often carry a heavy burden when it comes to their sexuality. From an early age, you are taught that your relationship with your own bodies, particularly your genitals, should be shrouded in shame. Self-pleasure is scoffed at, whilst masturbation is quick, guilt ridden and something to hide,, rather than a gateway to deeper self-knowledge and sexual mastery.But all this can change.In this transformative 2-hour masterclass, you'll learn powerful techniques that will fundamentally change how you experience pleasure and connection.The Hidden Power of Your Pelvis Learn a revolutionary 35-minute practice that:* Releases long-held tension in your pelvic area* Increases sexual sensitivity and control* Develops lasting stamina naturally* Creates more freedom in your movementThe Accelerated Evolution Process Experience a powerful integration technique that:* Dissolves mental blocks around performance* Releases old patterns that limit your pleasure* Builds natural confidence* Creates lasting transformationThe 5 Keys to Ejaculatory Mastery Learn about a proven framework that:* Develops precise arousal awareness and control* Unlocks full-body energy circulation* Eliminates performance anxiety* Creates choice over when to ejaculate* Transforms sexual energy into life forceThis Masterclass is Perfect for Men Who:* Want to last longer naturally* Desire deeper connection with their partner* Feel stuck in their sexual expression* Want to experience more pleasure themselves* Are ready to become better loversIs this you lover? If so sign up here. I look forward to having you with us.Always with PleasureM💋 This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit melissalouise.substack.com/subscribe

When a woman chooses to honour her dark moon - the sacred pause before menstruation begins - she is not only reclaiming her ancient wisdom that “modern” society has attempted to erase in its mission to de-value the feminine. She is also honouring her own autonomy of her body. Her cycle. Her experience and the vitals needs of her unique feminine system.This day is not merely a day of rest; it is a revolutionary act of self-sovereignty. In these quiet hours, when your body whispers its need to turn inward, you are claiming the permission for yourself to step away from the relentless demand of productivity and into the deeper current of your own cyclical nature. This my love, is when your intuition speaks most clearly, (especially as you are about to have DMT running through your cervix when you begin to bleed ) when your body prepares for its monthly renewal, and when your energy naturally draws back like the tide before the new moon.To take this time is your declaration that your womanly cyclical body is not a burden to be overcome, but a source of power to be honoured. When you rest during your dark moon, you are not just preventing exhaustion - you are actively resourcing from the power of your feminine wisdom. You are boldly stepping out of the linear, masculine energy that dominates our culture and into your own sacred timing. This isn't about asking for permission or apologizing for your needs. It's about recognizing that your monthly retreat is as natural and necessary as the earth's seasons, the moon's phases, and the ocean's tides.The entire human race was created inside of a woman’s womb. The world exists because she exists.Take the day my love, for humanity's sake.The ripples of this choice extend far beyond your unique personal wellbeing. When a woman fully embodies this practice, she becomes a living permission slip for others to honour their own rhythms. Her radical self-care disrupts the narrative that women must perpetually sacrifice their needs for others. Instead, it demonstrates that by deeply nourishing ourselves, we become more present, more powerful, and more capable of caring for those around us. A woman who honours her dark moon isn't being selfish - she's modelling what it looks like to be in right relationship with her body's wisdom, creating a new paradigm of feminine leadership that benefits everyone in her sphere.I created a dark moon diary prompt especially for you. In this free PDF I share what I do on my dark moon and give you two pages of prompts that support the cyclic nature of death, ideas, fruition and letting go.Download your gift copy here 🌑I have also created a juicy bundle aptly named “She The Oracle” An intimate journey into the mysteries of feminine cycles.When a woman governs her life through her cycle’s wisdom, she becomes an oracle of profound knowing. When her partner understands this rhythm, their relationship transforms from mundane to magical.This offering is only $47 and includes a PDF for “HIM” also where your partner can understand the four energies of your cycle.You can purchase that here.My love.It is your body..your rules.And you are governed by the moon..not the sun.A major component of my 1:1 coaching begins with this divine step. Honouring who YOU are as a woman. A woman’s libido is intrinsically connected to her ability to listen to her body, rest when required and enjoy her turn on from the deep nourishment of her unique self care. Our bodies are not mens bodies.Our hormones are not the same.Our physical needs are not like theirs…If this email is a sign for you to take the steps to becoming more autonomous in how you experience your needs for your sensual and sexual life, then I have a few openings for 1:1 clients to begin this month. Book your discovery call here I look forward to meeting and supporting you.This is your birthright my love. 💋 This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit melissalouise.substack.com/subscribe

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit melissalouise.substack.comMmmmmhhhhhhThat is the only way I can begin this email.As I soften into my chair, a huge smile spreading across my face, tingles in my belly ( & pu$$y) I am truly delighted to be bringing you this podcast interview which is a juicy dive between Alex and I into the realms of KINK.We share openly our experiences with KINK, what it means to both of us and how it effects our lives, we share honestly about the feminines nervous system and the need for men to create safety ad so much more.The interview starts at 1min &.12 secs and goes to 1hr & 12 min ( you cant make this stuff up !!! )AND THEN.For all you delicious sexy people who are paid subscribers ..you get the gift of witnessing a DOM/SUB scene that Alex and I created and entered yesterday. You will see the set up, the act ad the aftercare.I am still buzzing from it.It was so incredibly delicious.It was deeply nourishing.And It was a lot of sexy fun to be having early morning.In this demo you will see how powerfully you can create sensual and sexual containers even when you are on different continents.It is sexy as fuck.Do you know what else is sexy?All those that are subscribers and become subscribers in September get to be lifelong members at current price. I mean seriously…. $100 a yr or $11 a month…. is a steal for what you get privvy to.Subscriptions will be going up 1st pf October.Just saying.so if you want to lock in this incredible price for my work, then do so now..💋 😘

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit melissalouise.substack.comThe Kinky.As I mentioned earlier this week, what Kink means is what is taboo for you.For some that is having sex in different positions other than missionary, for some it can involve cutting of the skin, ropes, voyeurism, or the use of candle wax.Inside the kink blueprint, there are two kinds of kink.We have the Psychological kink. This is someone who is turned on by the mental aspectof power dynamics and power play. The control. The surrender. The Light. The Dark.Often this means one is playing dominance games.Where one person is controlling the other.The second kind of kinky is turned on by sensation.Sensation play involves impact, constriction, and even pain. On the other side of pain is pleasure.A submissive person is able to relax inside of their “taboos” when another has total control.And of course, you can have both where someone has psychological and sensation-based play at hand. ( note women ( ME ) sliding off her chair as she is writing this ) That is the permission inside of KINKThe superpowers of the Kinky Blueprint is endless creativity as the world of kink is massive.The breadth of play is endlessThe kinky, just like the energetic can orgasm without touch.The subspace is a place where one drops away, inhibitions have gone and it feels like a deep deep meditative state where one loses space, time and place. This is the Valhalla for the kinks. This is where they are trying to get to.This altered state of consciousness.The dark side of the Kinky is shame. Shame for their desires. Often people are searching for a reason from their past for why they feel this way or have certain turn-ons. And it is not this way for many at all. In fact in Psychological testing, those who identify as being Kinky are found to have the most resilience, most able to have very clear communication with their partners and score high when it comes to their ability to have boundaries as they are very clear about these important factors.Speaking of communication how did you lovers go with the practice I gave you yesterday?This way of communication is my favourite way of dropping into truth with vulnerability. It allows for a profound level of courage…. so … I dearly hop it served you. Make sure you make time this wk end to bring it into your connection with your beloved. 💋 Unfortunately in this world of KINK, many terms are misused and confused.In todays video, I start to decipher terminology inside of the KINK world.Understanding these terms is empowering and dismantles possible judgments.I also am giving you the second part of the questionnaire from yesterday. So if you are subscribed and have not taken that practice, then I implore you to do so. It is an eye-opener. We are here to discover more and more about ourselves. Life is not a static bench we sit on waiting to die……. so get yourself into a paid subscription and let’s go…. deeper and deeper into the world of sexuality, intimacy, and relationships.You can subscribe by hitting my button below lover.NOW is the perfect time to subscribe as you lock in this price for LIFE.Subscriptions will be rising in September (date to be released) so now is the time.$100. a year….. I mean lovers….. this is value-packed JUICE for a hungry!! as my street boys say.See you on the other side….hit me up on this subscribe button.💋 💋