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Silver Linings with The Old Gays
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The Old Gays: Queer icons. Viral sensations. Palm Springs royalty. And totally unfiltered! Robert Reeves, Jessay Martin, Bill Lyons, and Michael “Mick” Peterson reflect on the many lives they’ve lived and the lessons they’ve learned along the way. With over 300 combined years of experience, these four bear it all: illegal love, aging with grace, bad dates, great sex, heartbreak, chosen family, and everything in between. They’ve lived it all, and they’re still standing…and dancing! Don’t say we didn’t warn you. New episodes every other week.
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Romance Before Apps: “Boyfriends are something you have between lovers.”
2w ago00:39:40Summary readyAre we flirting now? Is this a thing? Today, we’re talking all about Romance and Relationships…from our first crushes and early days of flirting, to dating stories, and long-term love. When we were growing up, there were no apps, no swiping right, and definitely not the same d*ck picks we see today. We found our friends and lovers the old-fashioned way: a held gaze, a feeling in the air, and the kind of connection that could only happen in person. So in this episode, we’re looking back at the crushes that made our stomachs flip, the romances that changed our lives, the heartbreaks we survived, and the first times we dared to call someone “boyfriend.” From awkward flirting and unforgettable kisses, to love, loss, and lessons learned the hard way, let’s just say we’ve seen some things. And whether it lasts five minutes or twenty-five years, romance always has something to teach us.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
SummaryFrom The Closet to The Red Carpet (Queer on Screen, Part 2): “A lot of hot gravy over cold meat.”
4w ago00:31:00Summary readyIn Part 2 of this special “Queer on Screen” series, we’ll continue right where we left off…diving into queer representation in film and TV from the 1980’s to now, the chapter when things finally changed. From the impact of The Celluloid Closet and the AIDS crisis, to breakthrough media like The Birdcage, Will & Grace, and Brokeback Mountain, we’ll share the moments that made us feel seen, what missed the mark, and why some modern portrayals still don’t quite get it right. Look…Heated Rivalry is by no means the first hot gay love story, and it won't be the last either. Join us as grief and recognition lead to progress and possibility, as we reflect on how far we’ve come, and how much further there is still to go. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
SummaryMuscles, Drama, & Trauma (Queer on Screen, Part 1): “If there were no gays, there would be no Hollywood.”
Apr 2800:28:48Summary readyInspired by the world’s obsession with Heated Rivalry, this two-part season premiere has our fab four recounting queer film and TV moments from the past 100 years that were sexy, inspiring, confusing, and sometimes downright terrifying. The boys dive into over a century of queer representation in mainstream film and television…starting at the very beginning of film history. What did it mean to see gay characters on screen for the first time? From Ben-Hur’s secret backstory to cinema’s first gay characters to… gay cannibalism (!?), this episode sure has range. Part 1 takes us from the birth of film through 1981 and the publication of The Celluloid Closet, as The Old Gays reflect on the portrayals that shaped them, for better, worse, and everything in between.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
SummaryThe Old Gays Are Back! (Season 2 Trailer)
Apr 2100:01:54Summary readyThe Old Gays are back… and so are you. Viral sensations Michael “Mick” Peterson, Bill Lyons, Jessay Martin, and Robert Reeves return for Season 2 of Silver Linings, diving even deeper into love, sex, faith, identity, and everything in between.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
SummaryPride, from Protest to Parade: “As American as apple pie.”
Nov 400:26:29Summary readyFrom the first brick at Stonewall to flashy floats rolling down the main drag, Pride has always been part protest, part celebration, and part pure self-expression. To celebrate Palm Springs Pride, which lights up the desert every November, The Old Gays reflect on the unapologetic queer energy that makes this event so iconic. They get frank about every part of this global celebration, sharing hilarious and heartfelt stories from their earliest parades, the days of secrecy and resistance, and the culture's slow march toward the Pride festivals we know and love today. From getting royal treatment by the police, to one of our boys being carried down the parade on a stretcher (can you guess which one?), this episode is a love letter to the communal joy, queer resilience, and silver linings of Pride, here to remind us just how far we’ve come.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
SummaryEvolving Through The Mess ft. Brandon Kyle Goodman: “Permission to break the boxes.”
Aug 1900:46:07Summary readyFor the season one finale, The Old Gays are joined by their first special guest, Brandon Kyle Goodman: an actor, activist, and author, best known for their work on Netflix's "Big Mouth" and their iHeart Radio podcast, "Tell Me Something Messy." From family dynamics and queer visibility to butt plugs and the sex tip that landed Brandon in the Urban Dictionary, this episode weaves through many of our previous themes, this time through an intergenerational lens. What’s Brandon’s take on bathhouses and queer friendship? How do The Old Gays really feel about being local celebrities? And what are everyone’s practices when it comes to “self-love”? Through vulnerable truths and a lot of laughter, this episode is a heartfelt bridge between different generations, reminding us of the many reasons to connect and learn beyond the limitations of age.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
SummaryHealth, Maintenance Required: “I didn’t think I’d live past 40.”
Aug 500:28:07Summary readyWhat does it take to stay as healthy, spry, and sexy as The Old Gays? Turns out, it’s a glorious mix of daily habits, earned wisdom...and a whole lotta doctor’s appointments. In this week’s spirited episode, our four fab fellas share their perspective on health, aging, and getting real about what it means to care for your body, mind, and dignity as the years go by. Which Old Gay is color-coding his to-do lists? Who’s flossing like their life depends on it? And who has tried the weirdest health product? From hair loss and colonoscopies to anxiety and fitness routines, this group check-up is a heartfelt love letter to the joys of growing older in the one body you’ve got. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
SummaryQueer Spaces & Meeting Places: “Being around your people, that makes a difference.”
Jul 2200:30:39Summary readyWhether it's a curated bar, a crowded dance floor, a church basement, or an online chat room, LGBTQ+ spaces have long been sanctuaries for queer people. These are the places for meeting, connecting, and feeling celebrated as their true selves. This week, The Old Gays take us on a nostalgic tour of the queer spaces that helped shape them: from mafia-run bars in St. Louis and San Francisco’s video lounges, to the institutions of West Hollywood and a legendary (and illegal) bathhouse in Silver Lake. Along the way, they reflect on the racism in nightlife, the evolution of Pride & protest in these spaces, the refuge of gyms & saunas, and what it means to feel free in your body, identity, and community. What was Mick's notorious "dick patrol"? Which bathhouse had a circular urinal? And where in Palm Springs can you still buy greeting cards, dildos, and poppers under one roof? Uncovering these corners of queer life, this episode is a love letter to the many spaces and places that The Old Gays have called home.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
SummaryOur Experience: “The gay cancer.”
Jul 800:29:33Summary ready“ HIV swept across America.” “Our government did nothing.” In this deeply personal conversation, The Old Gays reflect on the HIV/AIDS crisis and the community that rose to face it. Robert and Mick, both living with HIV, open up about receiving their diagnoses and the stigmas they have endured. They also share how love and resilience carried them, and countless others, through various degrees of grief, connection, and acceptance. “I think every gay person looked at that obituary column to see who had died. And that column grew until it was a whole page in the newspaper.” From the heartbreak of friends lost to the power of protest, from daily meds to the healing magic of the desert, this episode honors the full weight of the epidemic and the generation it transformed. “If you can learn to harness the energy of your mind, you can deal with your body in physical ways that are astonishing.” This one’s emotional, yes, but also full of humor, tenderness, and the kind of hard-earned wisdom that only The Old Gays can provide. Come for the vulnerability and honesty, stay for the giant condom on Jesse Helms’ house.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
SummaryArt & Media, Mirrors of Ourselves: “You get more back than what you put in.”
Jun 2400:34:56Summary readyFrom opera houses to niche legends, LGBTQ+ culture has always gone hand-in-hand with popular media and the arts. Icons like Tina Turner, Keith Haring, and Lady Gaga aren’t just outlets for mindless entertainment; they’re beacons of self-expression and defiant confidence that shine across borders AND generations. This week, the Old Gays pay tribute to the icons and artists who shaped them, reflect on early memories of queer representation, and share heartfelt musings about their own creative ventures, including making their viral videos (naked or not). What do The Old Gays really think about social media and the internet? Which legendary diva got her start in a gay bathhouse? And how well can our four fellas decode Gen-Z lingo? Let’s just say: this week, The Old Gays “left no crumbs” on the mic.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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