Podcast
ADHD Mums
Hosted by Jane McFadden · EN
Being a mum is hard enough. Being a mum with ADHD — or raising neurodivergent kids — is a whole different level.
ADHD Mums is the unfiltered, science-meets-reality podcast hosted by Jane McFadden — an Autistic and ADHD mum with a Master's in Neuroscience and Psychology and certification as an ADHD and Autism assessor. This isn't another polished parenting show with 'ten easy tips'. It's real stories, confessions we're not supposed to say out loud, and the research that explains why so many of us are running on empty.
Every week you'll hear:
🎙️ Confessions — raw, anonymous truths from mums navigating rage, burnout, and survival.
🧠 Expert insights — from clinicians, researchers, and policy leaders on ADHD, autism, and mental health.
💬 Advocacy in action — exposing ADHD medication shortages, NDIS red tape, and the hidden costs mothers carry.
With over 1 million downloads from around the world, the podcast has influenced ADHD reforms in Australia, been featured in national media, and pushed politicians to answer the questions mothers are asking.
If you've ever screamed in the car, forgotten every form until the night before, or wondered if you're the only one falling apart — this podcast is your proof that you're not broken, you're just telling the truth.
New episodes weekly. Join the Facebook group: facebook.com/groups/adhdmumspodcast
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59. Trauma, EMDR, and ADHD: Jess's Story of Recovery
Jan 29, 202500:26:43Tap to summarizeFeeling like you’re carrying the weight of the world? Whether it’s the invisible scars of trauma, the daily juggle of ADHD, or the pressure to hold it all together, this episode dives into what happens when life gets overwhelming - and how to start healing.Jess shares her deeply personal journey from life in the ADF to facing PTSD, navigating ADHD, and rebuilding her life with the help of EMDR therapy. This isn’t just another survival story - it’s about breaking free from the cycle of burnout, asking for help, and relearning how to live a life that feels more like you.The ADHD Pre-Diagnosis Workbook: A Guide for Women and Mothers for if you're curious about self-diagnosis or preparing for an assessment. Important to note: This episode contains personal reflections on trauma, mental health, and brief mentions of suicidal ideation. Jess’s story is deeply personal and reflects her unique experiences in both her life and career. Please remember that individual journeys and circumstances vary. If you or someone you know is struggling, reach out to a trusted mental health professional or support service.In this episode:How Jess went from military service to healing through therapy.The challenges of balancing ADHD and parenting after trauma.What EMDR therapy really feels like - and why it might help you too.Tips for recognising when it’s time to ask for help.If you’ve ever felt stuck, exhausted, or unsure how to move forward, this episode is for you.Listen to Next: Episode - Where does the trauma start and ADHD begin? Listen on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Episode - Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria - Listen on Apple Podcasts or SpotifyEpisode - How ADHD Medication Revealed My Autistic Traits - Listen on Apple Podcasts or SpotifyJOIN THE COMMUNITY:Have questions or want to connect with other ADHD mums? Join our supportive Facebook group here and dive into the conversation. No question is too small, and I love answering in a group format!FOLLOW FOR MORE:Get daily tips, insights, and relatable content for ADHD mums by following me on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok or YouTubeLEAVE A REVIEW:Love this episode? Your review means everything! It helps other mums find this content and feel supported. Let’s spread the word and make a difference together.COLLABS:For collaborations or speaking engagements, email me at jane@adhdmums.com.au. MORE RESOURCES:Still unsure if ADHD or autism applies to you or your child? Take my recommended self-tests here.Mentioned in this episode:ADHD Pre-Diagnosis Workbook: A Guide for Women and MothersWondering if it’s ADHD or mum life? The ADHD Pre-Diagnosis Workbook is your survival guide, helping you untangle your thoughts and explore ADHD traits - perfect for those curious about self-diagnosis or preparing for an assessment. ADHD Pre-Diagnosis Worbook
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58. Struggling to Understand ADHD? Here’s What Your Partner Needs You to Know [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden
Jan 27, 202500:37:45Tap to summarizeFor many ADHD mums, explaining ADHD to loved ones can feel like speaking another language. Partners and family members might try their best but don’t always grasp the full picture - or might even feel overwhelmed or unsure how to help.This episode is for both ADHD mums and their loved ones - those who want to help but feel unsure about ADHD, feeling overwhelmed by what it means, or just want to provide better support.In This Episode:Understanding ADHD: Why ADHD isn’t about effort or being disorganised - it’s about how the brain processes and manages information.Validation Matters: The incredible impact of simply acknowledging someone’s experience.Tools for Teamwork: Shared strategies like visual schedules, body doubling, and clear communication to reduce tension.Moving Past Misunderstandings: Practical ways to address challenges like unfinished tasks and miscommunication without blame.Note: Every relationship and experience with ADHD is unique, and this episode is part of an ongoing conversation. The tools and insights shared here are designed to foster understanding and connection but are not a one-size-fits-all solution. If you’re an ADHD mum, listen to this episode and share it with someone who needs to understand your journey. If you’re a partner or family member, hit play with curiosity - it's a chance to hear how small changes can make life easier for everyone. Resources Mentioned: ADHD Planner & Values Workbook: Tools to help create routines that work for neurodivergent families.Episode - PMS and ADHD. Listen on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Episode - Feeling like PMS is taking over your life? It might be PMDD. Listen on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Episode - From Skeptic to Advocate: Medication for Children. Listen on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Join the ADHD Mums Facebook Community for support and connection.Barkley 2018: Executive Functions: What They Are, How They Work, and Why They Evolved linked HERE.JOIN THE COMMUNITY:Have questions or want to connect with other ADHD mums? Join our supportive Facebook group here and dive into the conversation. No question is too small, and I love answering in a group format!FOLLOW FOR MORE:Get daily tips, insights, and relatable content for ADHD mums by following me on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok or YouTubeLEAVE A REVIEW:Love this episode? Your review means everything! It helps other mums find this content and feel supported. Let’s spread the word and make a difference together.COLLABS:For collaborations or speaking engagements, email me at jane@adhdmums.com.au. MORE RESOURCES:Still unsure if ADHD or autism applies to you or your child? Take my recommended self-tests here.Key topics covered: This episode explores key topics like understanding ADHD in relationships, how to explain ADHD to your partner, and tools for managing ADHD as a couple. We cover communication strategies for ADHD families, the impact of Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD), and how masking affects ADHD mums. You’ll also learn about shared strategies, practical tools for ADHD couples, and the signs your partner might have ADHD too. Whether it’s emotional regulation, reducing misunderstandings, or building connection, this episode offers actionable insights to support ADHD mums and their loved ones. Perfect for anyone searching for ADHD-friendly tools for families or ways to strengthen their relationship while navigating ADHD.Mentioned in this episode:ADHD Planner & Personal Values Workbook: A System for ADHD MumsSimplify your chaotic ADHD mum life with the ADHD Planner & Personal Values Workbook. Designed to help you brain dump the chaos, prioritise what truly matters, and stop the guilt spiral, these tools are 100% fluff-free and built for real-life use. Start anytime, pick up and put down as needed, and create a system that works with your ADHD, not against it.ADHD Planner
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57. The NDIS Shake-Up and National Autism Strategy: What Jane Really Thinks [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden
Jan 22, 202500:32:29Tap to summarizeImportant Context: Some of the changes I discuss in this episode aren’t officially announced or reflected on the NDIS website. However, feedback from a large number of parents who completed my survey suggests these changes are happening as the NDIS plans are reviewed or when new applications go in. There is a huge amount of inconsistency within the NDIS with unclear definitions and varying levels of expertise from NDIS planners who make eligibility decisions. Providers are witnessing these issues firsthand, but some remain silent out of fear that speaking up could jeopardise their AHPRA registration, Medicare provider number, and the careers they’ve worked tirelessly to build.While the National Autism Strategy offers exciting long-term initiatives, many families are telling me through my survey that they’re struggling right now with reduced funding, shifting eligibility criteria, and the emotional toll of navigating these changes.What this episode covers:NDIS Reforms: What parents are saying about how these changes are affecting their children’s access to supports.The National Autism Strategy: Why it’s a positive step forward but doesn’t address the immediate needs of families.Early Intervention Gaps: How families are being left without support during a critical stage of development.Stories from Parents: Real experiences shared through my survey, highlighting the challenges and confusion around these changes.Advocating for Change: What we can do together to push for transparency and better support.What you can do:Share Your Story: Add your experience to my survey or join the conversation in the ADHD Mums Facebook Group.Write to Your Local MP: Advocate for clearer communication and better support for families.Spread Awareness: Share this episode and discuss these issues with your community.If you’d like to read more:Summary of NDIS Changes on 3rd October 2024 can be found HERE and I have a free resource HERE.Early Intervention Requirements FAQ linked HEREADHD Mums Jotform Survey is HERE JOIN THE COMMUNITY:Have questions or want to connect with other ADHD mums? Join our supportive Facebook group here and dive into the conversation. No question is too small, and I love answering in a group format!FOLLOW FOR MORE:Get daily tips, insights, and relatable content for ADHD mums by following me on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok or YouTubeLEAVE A REVIEW:Love this episode? Your review means everything! It helps other mums find this content and feel supported. Let’s spread the word and make a difference together.COLLABS:For collaborations or speaking engagements, email me at jane@adhdmums.com.au. MORE RESOURCES:Still unsure if ADHD or autism applies to you or your child? Take my recommended self-tests here.
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56. Setting Your ADHD Family Up for a Smoother School Year [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden
Jan 20, 202500:46:50Tap to summarizeWhether it’s the start of a new school year or a mid-term reset, managing routines and transitions as an ADHD family can feel overwhelming. From chaotic mornings to emotional regulation challenges, this episode is packed with practical strategies to support your family anytime you're looking to create a smoother school experience.This episode is here to help you:Reflect on what’s working and what needs adjusting.Simplify morning chaos with micro-routines and visual aids.Manage sensory sensitivities in uniforms, supplies, and environments.Build resilience and emotional strategies for kids and parents.Resources mentioned:Episode - How ADHD medication revealed my autistic traits. Listen here on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Episode - Raising Strong Children: How to Support Without Always Solving Their Problems. Listen here on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Surviving School Pick-Up: A Guide for ADHD Mums: 75-page guide full of scripts, strategies, and practical tips to navigate school pick-up as a neurodivergent mum.The Essential De-Stress Planner for Hyperactive Mums linked here.JOIN THE COMMUNITY:Have questions or want to connect with other ADHD mums? Join our supportive Facebook group here and dive into the conversation. No question is too small, and I love answering in a group format!FOLLOW FOR MORE:Get daily tips, insights, and relatable content for ADHD mums by following me on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok or YouTubeLEAVE A REVIEW:Love this episode? Your review means everything! It helps other mums find this content and feel supported. Let’s spread the word and make a difference together.COLLABS:For collaborations or speaking engagements, email me at jane@adhdmums.com.au. MORE RESOURCES:Still unsure if ADHD or autism applies to you or your child? Take my recommended self-tests here.
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55. ADHD Mum: What You Need to Know After Your Diagnosis [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden
Jan 15, 202500:17:39Tap to summarizeBeing diagnosed with ADHD can bring a mix of emotions - grief, relief, confusion, and a whole lot of questions. It’s a lot to process, and you’re doing the best you can.In this episode:Grief, overwhelm, and imposter syndrome.Practical strategies designed for ADHD brains.Unmasking, managing the mental load, and finding what works for you.Most importantly, you’re not failing - you’re learning how to thrive.Resources Mentioned:ADHD Planner & Personal Values Workbook: ADHD-friendly calendarA Guide to ADHD MedicationThe Gottman InstituteThis episode is here to share experiences, insights, and strategies, but it’s not a substitute for medical advice. If you have questions about your ADHD diagnosis or treatment, chat with a trusted healthcare professional. Take what works for you and leave the rest - this is your journey!JOIN THE COMMUNITY:Have questions or want to connect with other ADHD mums? Join our supportive Facebook group here and dive into the conversation. No question is too small, and I love answering in a group format!FOLLOW FOR MORE:Get daily tips, insights, and relatable content for ADHD mums by following me on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok or YouTubeLEAVE A REVIEW:Love this episode? Your review means everything! It helps other mums find this content and feel supported. Let’s spread the word and make a difference together.COLLABS:For collaborations or speaking engagements, email me at jane@adhdmums.com.au. MORE RESOURCES:Still unsure if ADHD or autism applies to you or your child? Take my recommended self-tests here.Key Topics Covered in This Episode:ADHD diagnosis as a mum Emotional impact of ADHD diagnosis Strategies for ADHD management Grieving after ADHD diagnosis Rejection sensitivity dysphoria (RSD) ADHD and emotional regulation Masking and burnout in ADHD mums ADHD friendly tools and systems ADHD and relationships Neurodivergent parenting challenges ADHD strengths and superpowers Tips for ADHD mums ADHD friendly calendar tools Practical advice for ADHD mums
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54. How to Talk to Your Child About ADHD: Empowering Conversations That Change Everything (Part 2) [Solo Episode] with Jane McFadden
Jan 13, 202500:30:25Tap to summarizeAre you unsure about how to talk to your child about ADHD? Feeling overwhelmed, second-guessing yourself, or worried you’ll get it “wrong”? Whether you’re just starting this conversation or fine-tuning your approach, this episode has the answers you’ve been searching for (plus the validation you didn’t know you needed).Download the free guide: “Explaining ADHD to Your Child: The Why and How” hereIn this episode: Age-appropriate explanations that just click.How to help your child own their strengths and explain ADHD confidently to others.Avoiding the “too positive” or “too negative” trap - get the balance right.Protecting your child from unsolicited advice and navigating tricky family dynamics like a pro.Why connection matters more than perfection - this is about building trust and self-acceptance.This isn’t just a “what to say” guide. It’s about laying the foundation for your child to see themselves as capable, worthy, and celebrated.Go deeper with my A Mum’s Guide to Supporting Your Child’s Diagnosis and Helping Others ‘Get It’: HEREListen to Part 1 Here: S02E53: Explaining ADHD to Your Child: Why It Matters (Part 1) Listen on Apple Podcasts | SpotifyResources Mentioned:A Mum’s Guide to Supporting Your Child’s Diagnosis and Helping Others ‘Get It’: Packed with practical tips, relatable stories, and strategies to make these conversations easier.Explore tools, books, and resources to support your child with ADHD HERE.S01E41: Camouflaging ADHD + Autistic Traits in Girls with Millie CarrListen on Apple Podcasts | SpotifyS01E65: From Skeptic to Advocate: Medication for ChildrenListen on Apple Podcasts | SpotifyS02E50: Stop People-Pleasing: The ADHD Mum’s Guide to Boundaries, Balance, and Breaking FreeListen on Apple Podcasts | SpotifyS02E51: How to Handle Family Criticism About ADHD: Boundaries and Keeping Your SanityListen on Apple Podcasts | SpotifyS02E8: How to Tell Your Child About Their Diagnosis: Essential Do's and Don'ts with Millie CarrListen on Apple Podcasts | SpotifyIf this episode resonated with you, share it with another mum who might need to hear it. Join our ADHD Mums Facebook community for support, or follow us on Instagram for more relatable content and updates. You’re not alone in this journey.FOLLOW FOR MORE:Get daily tips, insights, and relatable content for ADHD mums by following me on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok or YouTubeLEAVE A REVIEW:Love this episode? Your review means everything! It helps other mums find this content and feel supported. Let’s spread the word and make a difference together.COLLABS:For collaborations or speaking engagements, email me at jane@adhdmums.com.au. MORE RESOURCES:Still unsure if ADHD or autism applies to you or your child? Take my recommended self-tests here.Key Topics Covered in This Episode:How to talk to your child about ADHD Explaining ADHD to kids in simple terms Building confidence and self-awareness in neurodivergent children Empowering children with ADHD through honest conversations Strategies for discussing ADHD with your child ADHD and self-advocacy for kids Teaching kids about executive function and neurodiversity Supporting neurodivergent children in school and at home Managing family criticism about ADHD ADHD parenting tips and resources Practical advice for parents of children with ADHD How to normalise neurodiversity in everyday conversations
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