Podcast
Talking Toddlers
Hosted by Erin Hyer · EN
Calm, developmentally grounded guidance for moms of babies and toddlers.
As a mom of a baby or toddler, it can feel like everyone has an opinion - and very few answers that actually make things clearer. The noise is loud. The pressure is real. And the uncertainty can be exhausting.
Talking Toddlers is a podcast for moms who want calm, trustworthy, developmentally grounded guidance - without fear, guilt, or unrealistic expectations.
I’m Erin Hyer, a licensed speech-language pathologist with nearly 35 years of experience supporting young children and their families. I’ve spent my career on the floor with toddlers, partnering with parents, consulting with early educators, and training graduate students to understand how children truly grow, learn, and communicate - through relationships, everyday routines, and meaningful language experiences.
This podcast breaks down how the young brain learns, why certain behaviors or challenges show up, and how parents can gently support development before small concerns become bigger ones. I believe parents are in a powerful position — not to do more, but to understand more.
Each episode offers:
- Practical, real-life strategies you can use during everyday routines
- Gentle explanations of the why behind toddler behavior and development
- Supportive conversations that help you feel less alone and more confident
My goal is simple: to help moms feel empowered and toddlers feel supported - so learning, communication, and connection can grow naturally at home.
New episodes of Talking Toddlers are released weekly.
This is a space for clarity, connection, and courage - where moms come to slow down, trust themselves, and support their child’s development with confidence.
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What Your Toddler Needs to Express Themselves Clearly (Part 2) Ep 114
Jul 29, 202501:01:20Summary readySend us a textExplore how speech develops after the first words — and what to do if your toddler can’t express themselves clearly. Erin explains how to recognize delays in expression and speech sounds and gives practical, empowering strategies to support your child at home. 🎙 Part 2 of 2 in the “Building Blocks” Mini-SeriesIn Part 1, we covered the first two foundational 'pillars' of speech development: 1️⃣ Social Interaction – how connection fuels communication 2️⃣ Understanding Language – why comprehension must come before expressionToday in Part 2, we’re diving into: 3️⃣ Expressive Language Skills – why pointing, babbling, and even grunting matter 4️⃣ Speech Sound Development – what to expect, when to worry, and how to helpYou’ll learn:What real expressive progress looks like (and the red flags to know)Why gestures are often the secret sauce to early talkingHow to build clarity and confidence in your toddler’s speech — at homeWhen “he has his own language” is more than just a cute phaseThis episode will equip you with practical tips, developmental insight, and encouragement to support your toddler right where they are — even if words aren’t flowing yet.If you're a mom, dad, or caregiver wondering “Should my child be talking more?” — this is the conversation you need.👉 Tune in now — and don’t forget to share with a friend who’s walking the same parenting path.❤️ Ready for personal, purposeful progress?Join Erin’s Tiny Challenge — 1:1 support. 1 challenge. 1 week.Momentum begins the moment you say YES.CLICK HERE NOW - Tiny Challenge for Moms 👉 Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share with a mama who needs a reset.========Download the free handout so you can enjoy summer screen-free—and see what’s actually possible when we parent with intention.🎁 Free handout CLICK HERE NOW - Screen-Free Fun ActivitiesBuilding Vocabulary Guide - get it NOW!CONNECT WITH ERINcontact@HyerLearning.com===============================Podcast Disclaimer:This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your pediatrician or a qualified health provider with questions about your child’s development or health. The views shared are based on Erin Hyer’s professional experience and are intended to support informed parenting, not to replace individual consultation or care. Every child and family is unique—please use your discretion and consult trusted professionals when making decisions for your child.
SummaryIs My Baby’s Development Normal? Part 1: Understanding Milestones & Red Flags Ep 113
Jul 22, 202500:45:40Summary readySend us a textThe 4 Building Blocks of Speech Development – Part 1Long before your toddler says their first real word, two powerful foundations (milestones) must already be in place: interaction and understanding.These aren’t “nice to have” skills — they are non-negotiable building blocks for speech, language, connection, and future learning. Yet so many parents are told to wait and see, when in fact, there’s so much YOU can do now.In this episode, Erin shares:The first two building blocks of speech developmentWhy interaction (shared attention) is the starting lineHow understanding language comes before using itHow development is dynamic (not linear!)The red flags parents often missWhat to change at home right now if you’re noticing signs of delay (or just want to keep him on track)And how to recognize real progress — even before words appearYou’ll leave feeling more empowered, more aware, and ready to take action — not out of fear, but from a place of clarity and confidence.❤️ Ready for personal, purposeful progress? Join Erin’s Tiny Challenge — 1:1 support. 1 challenge. 1 week. Momentum begins the moment you say yes.CLICK HERE NOW - Tiny Challenge for Moms 👉 Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share with a mama who needs a reset.========Download the free handout so you can enjoy summer screen-free—and see what’s actually possible when we parent with intention.🎁 Free handout CLICK HERE NOW - Screen-Free Fun ActivitiesBuilding Vocabulary Guide - get it NOW!CONNECT WITH ERINcontact@HyerLearning.com===============================Podcast Disclaimer:This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your pediatrician or a qualified health provider with questions about your child’s development or health. The views shared are based on Erin Hyer’s professional experience and are intended to support informed parenting, not to replace individual consultation or care. Every child and family is unique—please use your discretion and consult trusted professionals when making decisions for your child.
SummaryWhy Toddlers Ignore "No" -- and What to Do Instead Ep 112
Jul 15, 202500:45:30Summary readyWhy does your toddler seem to completely ignore you when you say “no”? Are they just testing limits—or is something deeper going on?In this episode of Talking Toddlers, Erin breaks down what “no” actually means to children under three—and why their response is less about defiance and more about development. You’ll learn how to guide your toddler through this critical stage with firm but loving strategies that really work.Inside this episode:What toddlers truly understand about “no”The developmental stages of autonomy and initiative (and why they matter)Why overprotection can backfire—even when it’s well-meaningHow to reduce power struggles without giving in10 practical tools to help toddlers listen, cooperate, and grow with confidenceYou’ll walk away with a new perspective and feel more equipped to handle those “I said no!” moments with calm, clarity, and consistency.🍼 Ready to go deeper with 1:1 support? Sign up for the Tiny Challenge and solve one parenting challenge in just one week. Join Erin’s Tiny Challenge — a personal, fast-track solution for tackling your biggest toddler struggle. CLICK HERE NOW - Tiny Challenge for Moms 👉 Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share with a mama who needs a reset.========Download the free handout so you can enjoy summer screen-free—and see what’s actually possible when we parent with intention.🎁 Free handout CLICK HERE NOW - Screen-Free Fun Activities==========Building Vocabulary Guide - get it NOW!CONNECT WITH ERINcontact@HyerLearning.com===============================Podcast Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your pediatrician or a qualified health provider with questions about your child’s development or health. The views shared are based on Erin Hyer’s professional experience and are intended to support informed parenting, not to replace individual consultation or care. Every child and family is unique—please use your discretion and consult trusted professionals when making decisions for your child.
SummaryHow to Get Your Toddler to Listen Without Yelling: 7 Everyday Strategies Ep 111
Jul 8, 202500:41:10Summary readyIs your toddler always pushing back, melting down, or refusing to help? From messy playtime to getting out the door, you’ll learn how to: – Encourage turn-taking, even with babies – Turn cleanup into connection – Use routines and rules to reduce drama – Make transitions smoother – And raise a child who wants to help — without bribes, yelling, or power strugglesIn this episode of Talking Toddlers, Erin Hyer — speech-language pathologist with over 35 years of real-life experience — shares 7 simple, science-backed ways to TEACH cooperation in everyday moments.These are prevention-first tools every parent needs.👶 Ready for smoother days and more confident parenting? Hit play — then share with a friend.🎯 Want more 1:1 support? Join Erin’s Tiny Challenge — a personal, fast-track solution for tackling your biggest toddler struggle. CLICK HERE NOW - Tiny Challenge for Moms 👉 Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share with a mama who needs a reset.=====Download the free handout so you can enjoy summer screen-free—and see what’s actually possible when we parent with intention.🎁 Free handout CLICK HERE NOW - Screen-Free Fun Activities==========Building Vocabulary Guide - get it NOW!CONNECT WITH ERINcontact@HyerLearning.comWebsite:www.HyerLearning.com==========Podcast Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your pediatrician or a qualified health provider with questions about your child’s development or health. The views shared are based on Erin Hyer’s professional experience and are intended to support informed parenting.
SummaryWhat Every Toddler Needs: The Secret to Calmer Days Ep 110
Jul 1, 202500:56:16Summary readyWhat do toddlers really need?It’s not more toys, more stimulation, or more screen time. It’s something simple, powerful, and often overlooked: a predictable daily routine.In this episode of Talking Toddlers, Erin—SLP, early intervention expert, and prevention-first parent coach—explains why consistent routines are the foundation for calm, cooperation, and healthy brain development.You’ll learn:Why routines reduce tantrums and improve sleepThe brain science behind rhythm and regulationHow predictability helps toddlers feel safe, confident, and ready to learnA sample daily routine that you can adapt to your familyWhat to do when life throws off your routine (because it will!)Whether you’re struggling with chaos or just looking to smooth your day, this episode will give you clarity—and a calm starting point.🎧 Bonus: Learn how to take the Tiny Challenge—Erin’s 1:1 coaching experience designed to help you tackle ONE key area (sleep, eating, behavior, etc.) with intention and confidence. CLICK HERE NOW - Tiny Challenge for Moms 👉 Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share with a mama who needs a reset.=====Download the free handout so you can enjoy summer screen-free—and see what’s actually possible when we parent with intention.🎁 Free handout CLICK HERE NOW - Screen-Free Fun Activities==========Building Vocabulary Guide - get it NOW!CONNECT WITH ERINcontact@HyerLearning.comWebsite:www.HyerLearning.com
SummaryWhy ‘I’m Bored’ Is a Gift: The Power of Open-Ended Play Ep 109
Jun 24, 202500:41:46Summary readyIs your toddler bouncing between toys with little focus? Wondering what kind of play actually matters in these early years? In this episode, Erin Hyer, a seasoned speech-language pathologist and early intervention expert, breaks down the importance of open-ended play—and WHY it’s a game-changer for your child's brain, body, and emotional development. You'll learn what types of toys to prioritize, why less is more, and how play sets the foundation for true success.Instead of handing over a screen or buying more toys, try open-ended play setups that teach your toddler how to think, imagine, and stay engaged—on their own.✨ Don't miss the simple, science-backed magic of open-ended play—and why it’s the natural antidote to toddler screen time overload, boredom, and neediness. =======Download the free handout so you can enjoy summer screen-free—and see what’s actually possible when we parent with intention.🎁 Free handout + bonus invite inside!CLICK HERE NOW - Screen-Free Fun Activities=======Tiny Challenge—a short, focused 1:1 experience where together, we zoom in on one key challenge or desire in your parenting journey. We’ll uncover what’s working, what’s not, and map out simple next steps so you can feel more confident and connected—right away.This is the kind of support I used to give every day in private practice—tailored, real, and rooted in 35 years of experience.CLICK HERE NOW - Tiny Challenge for Moms==========Building Vocabulary Guide - get it NOW!CONNECT WITH ERINcontact@HyerLearning.comwww.HyerLearning.com
SummaryWhat Can I Do Instead of Screens? Is That Even Possible? Part 3 of 3 - Ep 108
Jun 17, 202501:23:44Summary readyTired of feeling stuck when your toddler reaches for a screen? Erin introduces a list of 10 screen-free activities that are practical, low-cost, and beneficial for cognitive, motor, and emotional development. Additionally, Erin provides 9 interactive games that can be played WITHOUT any tools, such as 'Name That Tune' and 'I Spy.' These are what’s trending among parents online and her go-to games from decades of real-life early intervention. These setups are simple, sensory-rich, and perfect for building language, connection, and calm.Download the free handout so you can enjoy summer screen-free—and see what’s actually possible when we parent with intention.🎁 Free handout + bonus invite inside!CLICK HERE NOW - Screen-Free Fun Activities=======Tiny Challenge—a short, focused 1:1 experience where you and I zoom in on one key challenge or desire in your parenting journey. We’ll uncover what’s working, what’s not, and map out simple next steps so you can feel more confident and connected—right away.This is the kind of support I used to give every day in private practice—tailored, real, and rooted in 35 years of experience.CLICK HERE NOW - Tiny Challenge for Moms==========Building Vocabulary Guide - get it NOW!CONNECT WITH ERINcontact@HyerLearning.comwww.HyerLearning.com
SummaryScreen Time Struggles: Why Boundaries Are a Gift, Not a Punishment - Ep 107
Jun 10, 202500:57:53Summary readyThe screen time struggle is real—but boundaries aren’t punishment - they’re protection. And they’re a gift your child will grow into. What if one of the hardest choices you make today becomes the one your child thanks you for a decade from now?In Part 2 of our screen time mini-series, we’re talking boundaries—the kind that feel tough in the moment but protect your child’s development for years to come. If you’ve ever wondered, "Am I being too strict?" or "Is this really such a big deal?"—this episode is for you.We’ll unpack what healthy screen limits actually look like in toddlerhood, why “just a little bit” often leads to more than you planned, and how to stay grounded when everyone around you seems to say “yes.” Erin shares her personal story, clinical wisdom, and a bold (but doable) recommendation for families who are ready to do what’s best—even when it’s not what’s easiest.This isn’t about guilt—it’s about courage. And it starts now.💡 Learn how to build your child’s attention, language, and emotional regulation—without relying on screens. 💪 Discover the power of intentional parenting in a distracted world. 🧠 Remember: the toddler years are your window. Boundaries today shape the brain—and the child—you’ll live with tomorrow.====CLICK HERE NOW - Tiny Challenge for MomsTiny Challenge—a short, focused 1:1 experience where you and I zoom in on one key challenge or desire in your parenting journey. We’ll uncover what’s working, what’s not, and map out simple next steps so you can feel more confident and connected—right away.This is the kind of support I used to give every day in private practice—tailored, real, and rooted in 35 years of experience.=======Building Vocabulary Guide - get it NOW!CONNECT WITH ERINcontact@HyerLearning.comwww.HyerLearning.com
SummaryWhen Screens Take Over: Why It Feels So Hard to Say No (and Why It Matters) Ep 106
May 28, 202500:35:12Summary readyWhy is it so hard to set screen time boundaries with toddlers? Is it just modern parenting—or is there something bigger going on?In this powerful first episode of our screen time mini-series, Erin walks you through the cultural shifts, industry influence, and developmental concerns that make screens a bigger issue than most parents realize. Drawing on insights from The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt, Erin challenges moms to be bold, clear, and proactive—starting now.🎧 In this episode:The real reason screens feel “unavoidable”What’s happening to our kids—and why it starts earlier than you thinkHow to stay strong in a culture that profits from distractionPractical encouragement to build better habits now—for fewer battles laterThis isn’t about shame. It’s about clarity and courage. The toddler years are your moment to lead—and this episode will help you do just that.====CLICK HERE NOW - Tiny Challenge for MomsTiny Challenge—a short, focused 1:1 experience where you and I zoom in on one key challenge or desire in your parenting journey. 40 mins / 5 daysWe’ll uncover what’s working, what’s not, and map out simple next steps so you can feel more confident and connected—right away.This is the kind of support I used to give every day in private practice—tailored, real, and rooted in 35 years of experience.=======Building Vocabulary Guide - get it NOW!CONNECT WITH ERINcontact@HyerLearning.comwww.HyerLearning.com
SummaryBabbling & Beyond: What No One Told You About Noisy Babies Ep 105
May 6, 202501:08:29Summary readyIs babbling just a cute stage—or a sign of something deeper? In this episode of Talking Toddlers, Erin dives into the often-overlooked world of prelinguistic development during your baby’s first year.Drawing on 35+ years of clinical experience, Erin explains how babbling builds the foundation for speech, how movement (yes, even tummy time!) connects to oral motor skills, and why quiet babies need your attention—not just patience.You’ll learn why consonants and vowels matter, how feeding and communication go hand-in-hand, and what those sweet squeals, grunts, and coos are really trying to tell you.Plus, get a sneak peek at what happens when screens disrupt this critical learning window—and why your baby needs you more than any device.If you’ve ever wondered “Is my baby on track?” or felt unsure about what babbling should really sound like, this episode is for you. Let’s connect the dots between sound, movement, bonding, and building a confident communicator.============Join the Waitlist CLICK HERE👉 Follow the show, and share this episode with another new mom who needs to hear it.🔔 Subscribe to the channel and follow the series so you don’t miss future episodes on screen time, speech development, and creating a connected, healthy home for your toddler.=====Building Vocabulary Guide - get it NOW!CONNECT WITH ERINcontact@HyerLearning.comwww.HyerLearning.comMentioned in Episode:Patricia Kuhl, PhD TEDxRainier 2010https://www.ted.com/talks/patricia_kuhl_the_linguistic_genius_of_babies
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