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Karma & Chaos with Kail Lowry & Becky Hayter
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Join Kail Lowry and Becky Hayter as these two rekindle their friendship and navigate the highs, lows, and hilarious in-betweens of life in their 30s. They’ll dive into the joys and challenges of raising families, staying true to friendships, and keeping up with pop culture - all while embracing the unpredictable mix of karma and chaos that life throws at them. With Kail’s unfiltered outlook and Becky’s infectious humor, Karma & Chaos is a refreshing, real, and relatable take on modern adulthood. New episodes every Tuesday!
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ENCORE: 36 Questions, 1 Podcast & 0 Filters
Yesterday00:58:56Summary readyENCORE: In a delirious (and low-key emotional) episode, Kail and Becky tackle the viral 36 Questions to Fall in Love - even though they're already trauma-bonded. They unpack everything from childhood wounds and love languages to dead dad jokes and embarrassing moments that still haunt them.Get your Fatherless Behaviour Tour Tickets hereFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! Our Place: Upgrade your kitchen with Our Place today. Visit fromourplace.com/KARMA and use code KARMA for 10% off sitewide. With a 100-day trial, you can try it completely risk-free.Biologica: Head to Biologica.com/KARMA to get started right now, subscribers can receive up to 32% off their purchase. Butcher Box: As an exclusive offer, new listeners can get their choice between chicken breast or top sirloin for a year OR ground beef for life, PLUS $20 off when you go to ButcherBox.com/karmaHERS: start your free online visit today at forhers.com/karmaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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INTRODUCING: For The Hayters | The Story MTV Never Told (Preview)
1w ago00:11:21Summary readyYou met Kail Lowry at 16, pregnant, on national TV. You never met the girl who came before her. This is a 10-minute preview of part one of my conversation with Kail on For The Hayters, the years no one was watching, told by a friend who thought she knew the whole story and didn't.Want the full episode? Search "For The Hayters" wherever you listen and follow along.For The Hayters is a podcast that normalizes hard conversations. Listener discretion is advised. TW: child neglect, addiction, sexual assault, abortion.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
SummaryKarma Keeps Receipts
1w ago00:52:24Summary readyKail and Becky record in real time from Indianapolis before the first tour show, and the chaos is already chaosing. From dirty soda obsessions and tornado warnings to travel confusion, technical difficulties, and the emotional aftermath of Kail’s For the Hayters episode, this one is messy, honest, and very on-brand.They also get into true crime documentaries, airplane seat debates, internet conspiracies, mystery whales, flat earth logic, and a wild “is it karma or is it chaos?” update that proves sometimes the universe really does keep receipts.Get your Fatherless Behaviour Tour Tickets hereFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! Tempo: Tempo is offering our listeners 60% your first box! Go to tempomeals.com/karmaProgressive: Try Progressive's AutoQuote Explorer® today at progressive.comVeracity: For up to 65% off your order, head to VeracityHealth.co and use code KARMA.DirectTV: Go to directv.com/genrepacks and sign up today.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
SummaryDaddy Ducky
2w ago01:04:06Summary readyKail and Becky are back with the kind of episode that starts with inflation, and somehow ends in grief, cheating, friendship, trampolines, and letting strangers throw a party at Kail’s house.Becky reflects on Father’s Day and the two-year anniversary of losing her dad while Kail opens up about how hard 2026 has been and parenting through big milestones. They also get into cheating, public perception, friendship standards, and why some people seem determined to stay mad no matter what.It’s heartfelt, chaotic, funny, and exactly what Karma & Chaos does best.For full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Get your Fatherless Behaviour Tour Tickets hereFollow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! Shopify: to sign up for your one dollar a month trial period head to shopify.com/karma Rocket Money: Let Rocket Money help you reach your financial goals faster. Join at RocketMoney.com/KARMAHERS: start your free online visit today at forhers.com/karmaProgressive: Try Progressive's AutoQuote Explorer® today at progressive.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
SummaryHot Girls Read the Room
3w ago01:07:09Summary readyKail and Becky are back in Blairstown recording in real time after a weekend together, and the chaos starts immediately. They get into tour plans, solo attendees, trademark drama in the book community, Patagonia vs. Patty Gonia, and why “Hot Girls Read” has everyone fired up. (After this episode was recorded Allie Rose Co put out a statement & is pulling her trademark)They also talk Beck's first birthday, Becky’s niece’s emotional sweet sixteen, lost-mail unboxings, dirty sodas, thrifting, and a wild surrogacy story from For the Hayters. Plus, Kail and Becky react to a listener’s relationship dilemma involving Plan B, body autonomy, and why men need to take more responsibility.Get your Fatherless Behaviour Tour Tickets hereFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! Quince: Go to quince.com/karma for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. RO: Go to ro.co/karma for your free insurance check. That’s ro.co/karma to see if your insurance covers GLP-1s for free.DirectTV: Go to directv.com/genrepacks and sign up today.Progressive: Try Progressive's AutoQuote Explorer® today at progressive.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
SummaryToddlers, Tour Buses & The Art of Protecting Your Peace
4w ago01:02:22Summary readyKail and Becky are back together and catching up on everything from Becky’s Mother’s Day bar crawl adventure to home renovations, tour prep, Pride Month, and the chaos of traveling together. Becky recaps her top-five day flying from city to city, meeting listeners, and debating whether she’s morally allowed to keep using her late dad’s military discount.Kail shares life updates from home, including the kids’ Michael Jackson obsession, Valley climbing out of her crib, Verse’s speech therapy progress, Elliot’s open mic performance and first short film, and the emotional reality of preparing for tour while trying to protect her peace. Plus, they talk LA memories, Harry Jowsey, friendship in the podcast world, downsizing before a move, book-to-movie disappointments, and whether restocking the snack cabinet is karma or chaos.Get your Fatherless Behaviour Tour Tickets hereFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! ARMA: We’ve worked out a special offer for my audience! Receive 30% off your first subscription order. Go to armra.com/CHAOS or enter CHAOS to get 30% off your first subscription order.BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your first month.Tempo: Tempo is offering our listeners 60% your first box! Go to tempomeals.com/karmaBooking.com: Head over to Booking.com and start your listing today. Get Seen. Get Booked on Booking.com.Biologica: Head to Biologica.com/KARMA to get started right now, subscribers can receive up to 32% off their purchase. Progressive: Try Progressive's AutoQuote Explorer® today at progressive.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
SummaryJust a Couple of Damaged Girlies
May 2601:12:40Summary readyKail and Becky wrap up their California trip with an episode full of honesty, chaos, and a few unexpectedly emotional turns. Becky opens with an important reminder to anyone struggling that help is worth asking for before things reach a breaking point.From there, the girls get into hot takes, friendship loyalty, life lessons from past relationships, remote work, motherhood, growing up, and the versions of themselves they’ve had to leave behind. Kail also opens up about defending Ike, what it means to finally have a supportive partner beside her, and the loneliness that can come with building a public life.Plus, Becky gets measured on-air, Kail spirals over being taller than expected, they talk gender selection, tour stops, For the Haters, and end with an emotional “Is It Karma or Is It Chaos?” about marriage, immigration, guilt, and the life choices that never feel simple.Get your Fatherless Behaviour Tour Tickets hereFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! HERS: start your free online visit today at forhers.com/karmaProgressive: Try Progressive's AutoQuote Explorer® today at progressive.comBooking.com: Head over to Booking.com and start your listing today. Get Seen. Get Booked on Booking.com.Butcher Box: As an exclusive offer, new listeners can get their choice between chicken breast or top sirloin for a year OR ground beef for life, PLUS $20 off when you go to ButcherBox.com/karmaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
SummaryBecky VS The Empress
May 1901:10:07Summary readyKail and Becky still in sunny California with podcast reviews, tour updates, and plenty of chaos. From audiobook narration and listener feedback to relationship independence, personal space, trust, and keeping your own identity in a partnership, they get into what it really looks like to balance love and autonomy.Plus, they react to wild stories about phrogging, a controversial surrogacy story involving a late son’s sperm, child support debates, Ted Lasso, movies that make them feel not smart enough, Brianna Chickenfry lore, and one Karma or Chaos submission about raising a troubled teen after a complicated family history.Get your Fatherless Behaviour Tour Tickets hereFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! Veracity: For up to 65% off your order, head to VeracityHealth.co and use code KARMA.Tempo: Tempo is offering our listeners 60% your first box! Go to tempomeals.com/karmaShopify: to sign up for your one dollar a month trial period head to shopify.com/karma Progressive: Try Progressive's AutoQuote Explorer® today at progressive.comBooking.com: Head over to Booking.com and start your listing today. Get Seen. Get Booked on Booking.com.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
SummaryCalifornia Chaos & Gluten Conspiracies
May 1201:03:52Summary readyKail and Becky are coming to you from California with hotel chaos, fine dining debates, and a very unexpected conversation about octopus, gluten, and why Kail may finally have answers about what’s been making her so sick.They also get into Beck's health update, the terrifying dead mouse situation, Becky’s upcoming move, Kail’s thoughts on possibly relocating, tour ticket updates, fan meetups, and why coming alone to a show might be less scary than you think.To wrap things up, they answer a listener question about parenting an 18-year-old through heartbreak, impulsive choices, and the kind of relationship drama that feels impossible to reason with in the moment.Get your Fatherless Behaviour Tour Tickets hereFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! BetterHelp: Visit betterhelp.com/KARMA to get 10% off your first month.Hiya: For 50% off their best selling children's vitamins head to hiyahealth.com/KARMA.Progressive: Try Progressive's AutoQuote Explorer® today at progressive.comQuince: Go to quince.com/karma for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
SummaryWhen Love, Parenting & Pressure Collide
May 501:06:47Summary readyKail and Becky are back with life updates, parenting chaos, and some honest conversations that hit deeper than expected. Kail talks Spanish immersion night, raising competitive kids, tour planning, the Webby Awards, and the frustration of navigating things she can’t fully share yet.Becky opens up about reconnecting with Leah after having Becks, working through the hard parts of new parenthood, and why empathy matters when people judge situations they haven’t lived. Plus, they get into family history, donor conception, Alex vs. Alex drama, school needing a social media update, and one unforgettable cow birth story.Get your Fatherless Behaviour Tour Tickets hereFor full videos head to patreon.com/kaillowry Follow Becky at Hayter25 and subscribe to For The HaytersThank you for supporting the show by checking out our sponsors! RO: Go to ro.com/karma for your free insurance check. That’s ro.com/karma to see if your insurance covers GLP-1s for free.Progressive: Try Progressive's AutoQuote Explorer® today at progressive.comBooking.com: Head over to Booking.com and start your listing today. Get Seen. Get Booked on Booking.com.Rocket Money: Let Rocket Money help you reach your financial goals faster. Join at RocketMoney.com/KARMADirectTV: Go to directv.com/genrepacks and sign up today.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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