Podcast
Marriage and Martinis
Hosted by Danielle & Adam · EN
Marriage and Martinis is an attempt to present a real, authentic marriage at its core: the love, hate, teamwork, struggles, laughter, humiliation, and ever-changing dynamics that comprise spousal relationships. Join Danielle and Adam as they explore every hilarious, heartfelt, shocking, embarrassing, and completely inappropriate facet of marriage and parenting. It’s a bumpy ride, but it’s worth it.
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Do You Feel What I Feel? - An Episode About Support
Mar 3, 202501:05:26Summary readyIn this part follow-up to the post election episodes, part "how do we best support one another in hard times?" episode, Danielle highlights an obvious shift in Adam's overall attentiveness and sensitivity towards her recently. She wonders what has prompted this change, and how Adam feels since making it. What is Adam doing differently that Is totally making Danielle feel seen and heard in a way she never has before? She also asks whether or not he's still listening to Joe Rogan, and what he thinks about "bro culture" amidst the current state of things in the country. Additionally, as Adam is facing new endeavors in his business life, how can Danielle best support him? What methods of care and comfort are most effective for Adam from Danielle? Plus, we polled around 5,000 members of our audience about the current state of their relationship and mutual support at the present moment. Danielle reads the answers, and discusses what their audience thinks about how differing views of the current administration is affecting their relationships. Have you downloaded the FREE Marriage and Martinis' activist guide? Make sure you keep checking it, as it's being updated weekly with new ways to take action, more small business to support, and issues that need more attention. Share it with anyone you think might find it to be useful.Right now, while Danielle is putting her brand deals and affiliate programs aside to concentrate on content that's more relevant and necessary to the current events taking place, she would be so appreciative if you would BUY HER A COFFEE. The support helps ensure that she can keep working on free resources such as the activist guide, sharing important information on the Marriage and Martinis' platforms, and collaborate with other content creators to ensure they're offering the most helpful resources available to their audiences. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
SummaryMnM Vintage - The Challenge
Feb 24, 202501:13:48Summary readyDanielle and Adam have the opportunity to choose one challenge for each other to complete in the next thirty days. They discuss how they came up with these challenges, how they think one another should go about doing the work to complete them, and what the ultimate goal is for each.Start your challenge now! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
SummaryWhat does Danielle REALLY need?
Feb 17, 202501:30:10Summary readyFollowing up to their episode from two weeks ago, "What does Adam REALLY need?" it's Danielle's turn to discuss what it is she most wants and needs from a partner at this stage of life. Danielle and Adam discuss:What does "romance" even mean anymore?What's the difference between being "sweet" and being "romantic?" What did Adam ask Danielle for the first time a few days ago that he had never asked her before?Why "companionship" is taking on a more important role the older Danielle gets?In what ways has Adam really stepped up and showed he's finally listening to certain needs that Danielle has long expressed?Why "self-awareness" can help avoid so many issues in a relationship.Want to follow the same steps as Adam and Danielle when they were working on healing their relationship? Check out the 30 Day Challenge!Check out their wildly popular Date Night Questions book and ebook. Use code "Reconnect" to get 15% off!Make sure to follow Marriage and Martinis on Instagram to keep up with new events, episodes, and a whole lot of laughter! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
SummaryGet In, B*tches. We're Going To F*ck Shit Up.
Feb 12, 202500:47:00Summary readyIn this highly requested episode, Danielle gives her perspective concerning the current F*ckedupedness happening in our country. Things seem REALLY bleak. And yes, we have a sh*t ton of work to do. But Danielle also wants everyone to remember, that this HAS always been our country. This time, we just have no choice but to not look away. In this episode:Why Danielle is optimistic, while also enraged and of course, worried.How our upbringings as Gen-Xers and Millennials give us a false sense that our country is "more divided than ever."Her very philosophical comparison of Trump to Charlie and The Chocolate Factory.Why we CANNOT look away right now, and what we can do to stay motivated.Small ways we can make a different even while being exhausted AF.If you enjoy this episode, it would mean so much if you could support Danielle by buying her a coffee so she can keep doing the work and sharing with you! Also, if you enjoyed this episode, please take a moment to rate and review the podcast, on Apple and/or Spotify.CHECK INSTAGRAM STORIES or the blog for the guide to this episode, which will be available late in the afternoon EST. Also, make sure you subscribe to the podcast and sign up for emails if you want to receive updates on ways to participate and get involved.Know friends or family members who would love this episode? Please, share it! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
SummaryWhat Does Adam REALLY Need?
Jan 27, 202500:58:13Summary readyAfter what was possibly the most volatile year of their relationship, Danielle asks Adam what he truly, at this point in his life, needs from a partner. Also, how is Danielle doing satisfying these needs? How have his needs changed over the years? Some other things discussed:Why did Adam recently think Danielle might be cheating on him, and how did he react?What romantic gesture did Danielle make in an attempt to kickstart the two of them "dating" each other again?Adam's semi-viral text to their kids, and why Danielle calls it, "one of the sexiest things" Adam has ever done.Look out for next week's episode when it's Danielle's turn to tell Adam what she really needs.Looking for Valentine's Day ideas? Check out our Amazon Shop for all of Danielle's favorites, from fun decorating ideas, to romantic date night essentials. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
SummaryAnd on the 9th day he said, "Do not throw a DIY Bar Mitzvah!"
Dec 9, 202400:58:25Summary readyOne week after throwing their third child a "DIY" Bar Mitzvah, Adam and Danielle reflect on the process leading up to the event, and the service/party themselves. Some questions/topics include:What's involved with becoming a Bar/Bat Mitzvah, anyway?What untraditional practices did they decide to include, and which traditions did they not follow?How do they feel their family's connection to their religion might change moving forward?How much does a Bar/Bat Mitzvah actually usually cost?What were each of their favorite parts of the event?What parts were the most stressful/overwhelming?What advice would they give other parents planning any type of big celebration for their chil(ren)?If they had to do it again, what would they do differently?Looking for the perfect buzz without the hangover? Visit Drink Brez to check out their euphoric, calming, relaxing drinks, and use promo code "MARTINIS10" for $10 off your first purchase!Graze and DecorLive in the New Jersey/Pennsylvania areas and looking for an incredibly unique catering experience for your next event? Whether large or small, Graze and Decor will add creativity, personality, and deliciousness. Your guests will not be able to stop talking about the presentation, as they savor the versatile options offered. Follow this exceptional brand on instagram to see exactly what we're raving about!Time To PartyThere are so many party decoration services out there these days, it's truly hard to know which one to hire! Luckily, Danielle has done the work for you! Time To Party is above and beyond when it comes to everything from customer service, to creativity, down to the small but impactful details. This isn't your average party decorating brand, and your guests will realize that the second they walk into the room and are blown away! And follow on instagram to see just how phenomenal these masterpieces are.Need awesome gift ideas for the holiday? Marriage and Martinis has the best lists, and the only ones you'll need for everyone in your life! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
SummaryForty-F*cking-Seven (The Yearly Birthday Episode)
Nov 25, 202401:14:25Summary readyIn Danielle and Adam's yearly birthday episode, the two reflect on things from the past year, including accomplishments, funniest moments, what was lacking, and what they want to do more of in the coming year. Adam talks about what happened last night that reminds him he's been missing an important component of life and about which he wants to step up and make more of a priority. Danielle discusses the heaviness of the past year, and why it's been so hard to just find enjoyment in the everyday. Plus, what "finds" did they each discover that helped them get through, even if just a little bit.Check out the Marriage and Martinis Holiday Planning Kit, complete with date-night-questions specifically meant to tackle the overwhelm and lessen the overwhelming mental load that can arise from the pressures of the season. Plus, Thanksgiving table conversation starters, and other productive and fun activities and resources. Use code "KIT15" for 15% off.Need gift ideas? Check out the Marriage and Martinis Amazon storefront!Adam's best finds this year:Tanks: https://amzn.to/496Zk46Socks: https://amzn.to/3Z3c1IC Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
SummarySo Nice, We Had To Argue Twice (Post Election Part 2)
Nov 18, 202401:28:38Summary readyIn what was supposed to be a "tamer" follow-up to their first election episode, Danielle and Adam just can't seem to get on the same page concerning influential commentators, and the impact they think listening has on opinions and mindset. Adam feels like he can listen without being truly "affected" by what they say, while Danielle is frustrated that Adam doesn't understand that some voices are more intrusive and influential than we think. Some things they discuss:What personality does Adam reveal he listens to (besides Rogan) that shocks Danielle and makes her question Adam's motivation for supporting certain public figures?Why does Adam feel that Danielle needed to "get over" the election so soon after it was over?Why do so many women say it's such a turnoff for their husbands to listen to Joe Rogan"Why does Danielle feel that Rogan is so much more of a negative figure for Adam than he realizes?What public figure does Adam dislike that Danielle listens to?Buckle up. This episode is WAY bumpier and more intense than originally planned. However, it's also a conversation that will most likely be relatable to many couples. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
SummaryAfter the Vote: Navigating Elections in Relationships
Nov 11, 202401:14:37Summary readyFive days after the election, a tension has been brewing: in households, in friendships, and in society. While Danielle and Adam voted the same way, that doesn't at all mean they share the same experiences concerning politics and advocacy. Even though they've been together for 25 years, there have been a lot of times in which they felt differently concerning what type of role and voice they should each have in the world of social issues, engaging in social media, and even concerning their parenting. Danielle comes from a very political family. Adam does not. How have they navigated this terrain? They get into the deep reflection, and some extremely tense discourse, highlighting the differences they both face, and answering each others questions concerning:Why has Danielle gotten so much more political in the past ten years?Why does Danielle feel so much more strongly about politics and social issues than Adam?What role does the election play in The Mental Load?How do they navigate relationships with people in their life whom they know voted for the opposite party?What issues are most important to each of them?What frustrations do they each feel how each of them react to and engage in politics?How do they plan on navigating the holidays amidst such a contentious time?Make sure to tune in for part two next week, when they discuss what public figures and influences have negatively impacted the way they relate to one another concerning issues?What's the big deal about listening to Joe Rogan?What does Adam think about "feminism" and the role it plays in Danielle and Mia's lives?If you enjoyed this episode and gained something from it, please don't forget to rate and review on Apple and/or Spotify. Follow and subscribe to get all upcoming podcast episodes. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
SummaryFinance F*ckery
Oct 21, 202401:19:52Summary readyIt has taken over 22 years for Adam and Danielle to be able to have a conversation about the topic of finance without it ending in a fit of rage, resentment, and frustration. For the first time, they can each admit to their mistakes, and the ways they individually and cohesively have contributed to the mistakes they've made, and their negligence concerning preparing for the future. Yes, this is definitely a testament to the progress they've made and the incredible work they've done, but it doesn't change the fact that they'll be feeling the impacts of their poor decisions for years to come. This is a topic that is so seldom discussed by couples in a way that's so public and especially, so honest, that they weren't sure if they should edit some of it out. However, they decided not to touch it. Hopefully, their vulnerability will inspire other couples to have similar conversations, and even learn from Adam and Danielle's mistakes. More specifically, some of the issues they discuss surrounding money and finances in this episode are:How differently they grew up regarding money and spending.How being a stay-at-home-mom impacted Danielle's ideas about financial decision making within their family.The frustration of being the person in charge of buying the daily necessities for the household vs. the frustrations of being the one in charge of paying the bigger bills.How "keeping up with the joneses" has impacted them, especially regarding raising kids.How honest should we be with our kids about our financial situation? What has caused this shift in Danielle's mentality concerning budgeting, and being an active participant in solving their financial issues?How our past experiences, as well as expectations about spending/money affects our overall mindset about what we need/want/deserve regardless of whether or not we can afford it. Stay tuned for part two of this topic, in which we delve even further into these issues and so much more!Please don't forget to Rate and Review on Apple and or Spotify. A five-star rating truly helps us so much and only takes a minute.Want to have this type of dynamic, gentle, honest conversation with you partner? Purchase the Date Night Questions print version, and use code "MNMPODCAST" for 20% off plus free shipping. Or, download it immediately with the ebook version, and use code "RECONNECT" for 15% off. Trying to incorporate more gratitude, equity, and understanding into your relationship, use the framework that got Adam and Danielle to the place they are now as a couple, by purchasing the Small Change, Big Impact Challenge, and use code "SCBI15" for 15% off! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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