Podcast
U Up?
Hosted by Betches Media · EN
U Up? is the definitive modern dating podcast presented by Betches co-founder Jordana Abraham and comedian Jared Freid, where they discuss their take on the ebbs and flows of the crazy dating world we live in. From interpreting dating app interactions and weird sexual encounters, to defining the relationship and everything in between - they’re here to make sure you don’t die alone. For more fun dating commentary, polls, and bonus content, follow @u.up.podcast on Instagram. Become a friend (with benefits) of the podcast and subscribe to receive early release and ad-free versions of all our new episodes, plus bonus subscriber-only episodes. To sign up and become a friend (with benefits) today head to: subscribe.betches.com
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Harry Jowsey Wants to Be a Stay-at-Home Husband
Today00:33:46Summary readyHarry Jowsey joins Jordana and Jared to talk about how he was engaged to 20 women at once for his new Netflix’s show, Let’s Marry Harry, what changed for him after losing his father and why dating is harder when it's played out on social media! Harry weighs in on listener questions where the guy asks for a first-date ultimatum and whether it’s ok to date multiple people at once, and why he’d rather text than call someone for a breakup. We learn a lot about Harry and how charming he is and why you should watch his new show! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
SummaryCan You be Engaged for Years without Getting Married?
2d ago01:08:19Summary readyJordana and Jared debate whether it’s okay for your boyfriend to go on a trip with his ex, especially when they still own an apartment together. They also decide if an ex was petty for showing his former girlfriend the engagement ring he bought for her, and whether a bad first kiss is enough to end a great date. Plus, they talk fanny packs, tasting-menu dates, and why some couples get engaged without planning to get married. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
SummaryWhat Do Men Actually Want on Their Wedding Night?
1w ago00:45:50Summary readyJared opens up about a fear of his when getting serious with his partner, figuring out how to balance love, family, and a career that keeps him on the road. Then J&J debate whether a husband should text his ex happy birthday and solve a bride’s very specific $10,000 wedding dress wedding night dilemma! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
SummaryJordana Is Looking for a New Sister-in-Law!
1w ago01:01:55Summary readyJordana and Jared get a visit from Jordana’s brother, Jon! He joins to pick up a toothbrush but ends up talking about dating in San Francisco, why he wants more banter and “relational chaos,” and whether Jordana can help him find a girlfriend. Then J&J play Second Date Yay or Nay after a three hour brewery date ends with a guy asking if a woman’s birthmark is an allergic reaction. It’s giving Nay. Also, Red Flag or deal breaker: your boyfriend refuses to like your IG post? They also discuss whether a boyfriend should offer to help when his girlfriend is overwhelmed by a new golden retriever puppy! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
SummaryHow to Survive Wedding Season Alone
2w ago00:43:49Summary readyJordana and Jared discuss a petty or prudent and whether a brutal Costco-inspired rejection text was justified? They discuss what singles mixers are really like and why SIMPLE first dates usually beat elaborate plans! They then help a listener who feels like the only single person at every wedding, sharing advice on surviving the wedding season, finding more single friends, and stopping the comparison trap. You have to find your people! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
SummaryThe Situationship Trap Nobody Talks About
2w ago01:21:42Summary readyJordana and Jared are back talking about what it means to feel successful, happy, and “content” while still chasing the next big thing! They break down the confusing world of dating labels after a Love Island conversation about situationships, exclusivity, and when someone is actually your boyfriend or girlfriend. Plus, they answer listener questions about a date who sent a questionable outfit text, whether to expose a cheating ex, and what is a dating “ick” and what is actually a deal breaker. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
SummaryDoes Cheating Justify Public Humiliation?
3w ago00:38:00Summary readyJared calls his parents with some BIG news about a very important award, and you won't believe their guesses! Then, Jordana and Jared get into listener questions, breaking down a woman posting flyers about her ex all over Indianapolis in the Are We Dating The Same Guy Facebook group, and a new website that only reconnects exes if they secretly choose each other. Would you try to reconnect with your ex on a dating app? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
SummaryWould You Date Someone Who Sees Their Ex Every Month?
3w ago01:21:01Summary readyJared and Jordana are talking about kids and whether Jared would actually make a good father, since icky things don't seem to phase him! Jared encourages people to be present this summer, delete the dating apps, and get outside. They then get into a listener question about hanging out with your in-laws: do you need your spouse to be there to spend time with your mother-in-law? Plus, they tackle some Red Flag or Deal Breakers, including never making your bed, co-parenting a dog with your ex, and a date who asks you to bring Adderall! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
SummaryHe Emotionally Cheated. Is That Enough for Divorce?
4w ago00:51:17Summary readyJared and Jordana begin today’s Friday Feels by talking about the viral memoir Strangers and why breakup books hit differently than breakup TikToks! They reminisce about their fully remote recording days and how pandemic dating advice was really different and its own time vault. J&J get into your dating questions, answering a petty or prudent: reporting your cheating ex to his college professor, and also can you rebuild trust after years of secret dating apps and lies? Sometimes searching for answers can keep you stuck in the wrong relationship! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
SummaryFive Dates, No Kiss. Now What?
Jul 1501:19:46Summary readyJared and Jordana are in the studio talking about their morning commute, which was delayed due to Taylor Swift’s Madison Square Garden wedding! They kick off today’s episode with Who's Your Hall Pass? Dua Lipa did not make Jared’s list! Then J&J continue with questions from you and have a Summer Lightning Round of dating questions, debating the right time to have the exclusivity talk, whether unmarried couples should send holiday cards, and after how many dates breaking up over text is no longer okay. They also discuss how to initiate a first kiss after five dates with no kiss and whether dating someone with different political views can actually work. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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