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Decisions, Decisions
Hosted by The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts · EN
Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love.
Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.
From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!
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You've Got Decisions: We’re Non Monogamous But He Made a Baby with Her!
Feb 1800:33:11Summary readySend us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
SummarySelective Ignorance: Ep. 51 | Bad Bunny, Ballers and Bum Bail
Feb 1701:42:52Summary readyIn this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and Jason “Jah” Lee for a wide-ranging conversation blending pop culture, sports, politics, and music industry insight. The episode opens with current events and trending pop culture moments that set the tone for a lively, humorous, and critical dialogue [00:55], before shifting into nostalgic concert experiences and how live music fandom has evolved across generations [06:00]. The crew breaks down a legacy pop concert performance and what it reveals about longevity, audience loyalty, and stagecraft [11:55], then pivots into political commentary surrounding ICE, immigration narratives, and how celebrity voices influence public understanding of policy issues [18:02], including reactions tied to high-profile artists and Homeland Security conversations [22:06]. Music industry perspective deepens with artist-focused insights and commentary on independence, messaging, and creative positioning [26:48], before the discussion widens into sports and broader cultural reflection [33:12]. A major segment of the episode centers on the artistic and cultural impact of Bad Bunny’s Super Bowl performance, with layered analysis of symbolism, staging, and representation on one of entertainment’s biggest platforms [40:57], followed by a technical and creative breakdown of performance art at the Super Bowl level [50:41]. The hosts then evaluate the highs and lows of NBA All-Star Weekend, calling it a mixed experience and debating whether modern formats have lost their original spirit [56:46], which leads into a broader nostalgia-versus-modernity debate around how major sports showcases have changed [01:04:36]. The conversation continues with discussion of dance team inclusivity and evolving standards in sports entertainment [01:12:26], athlete political expression and the fallout from press conference moments [01:19:54], and finally the internet’s reaction to a controversial Michael Jordan fan interaction, used as a case study in celebrity optics and viral judgment [01:30:00]. Blending humor, critique, and cultural analysis, this episode captures how music, sports, and politics increasingly collide in today’s media ecosystem and more. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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You've Got Decisions: Is it Because I'm Black?
Feb 1100:31:20Summary readySend us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
SummarySelective Ignorance: Ep. 50 | Black History Month: Mr. Morale & The Lemon Pepper Steppers
Feb 1001:13:51Summary readyIn this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and Jason “Jah” Lee for a timely deep dive into Black History Month, racist laws in America, cultural stereotypes, and modern racism, opening with a frank discussion about the legacy and ongoing effects of racist legislation and why historical truth still faces resistance today [00:53]. The crew connects these themes to their own personal education journeys and lived experiences with how Black history is taught — or omitted — in schools [02:46], leading into a candid conversation about ignorance, self-education, and the gaps many adults still have in understanding Black historical contributions [06:04]. They then unpack the controversy surrounding Critical Race Theory and curriculum limitations, examining how political pressure shapes what students are allowed to learn [08:55], before spotlighting key historical figures and their lasting social and cultural impact [11:49]. The discussion expands into cultural stereotypes and long-standing misconceptions about Black identity [15:02], followed by a nuanced breakdown of racial slurs, historical context, and how language evolves across generations [17:51]. From there, the hosts return to the structural level, outlining major racist laws and their real historical consequences [21:03], including miscegenation laws and the policing of interracial relationships [23:50]. The conversation then bridges past to present through examples of modern racism and current events [27:07], before shifting toward media analysis and the portrayal of Black culture in pop culture and entertainment [30:02]. Music is highlighted as a powerful tool of protest, preservation, and social commentary within Black history [32:47], with specific attention paid to controversial songs and their cultural ripple effects [36:03]. The episode closes with a direct call to action for listeners to pursue deeper education, cultural literacy, and historical awareness beyond performative celebration [38:52], reinforcing the show’s commitment to informed dialogue around Black history, race, education, and representation. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
SummaryEP 459: Anti-Galentine’s Day
Feb 901:03:25Summary readyThis episode of Decisions Decisions is a full chaos cocktail. Mandi B and Weezy are back with takes on Valentine’s Day, situationships, long-distance sex, celebrity mess, and relationship “goals” that are really just lies on Instagram. They kick things off with jokes, hair talk, Atlanta vibes, and confusion over who tf is actually famous anymore. From celebrity All-Star games to Grammy weekend FOMO, nothing is safe. They get into music debates, and why some movies from the 90s just hit harder than anything out now. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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I WANNA BOOTY EAT… MY MANS… BUT HOW!!?
Feb 400:29:10Summary readySend us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
SummarySelective Ignorance: Ep. 49 | Hablar Mucha Mierda!
Feb 301:19:39Summary readyIn this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B, joined by super producer A-King and Jason “Jah” Lee, open with emotional reflections on the current news cycle and its psychological toll on everyday life [01:11], leading into a candid conversation about whether shame still has a place in society and how accountability shapes behavior [04:31]. The trio examine the real-world consequences of inappropriate conduct [10:36] and the permanence of digital footprints in an era where online actions rarely disappear [12:55], before unpacking broader concerns around community trust and social responsibility [14:03]. The discussion turns urgent as they address the arrest of journalists and the implications for press freedom [22:41], followed by a deeper dive into the increasingly blurred lines between politics and pop culture [27:02]and the notable silence of hip-hop voices on major social issues [28:41]. Later, the hosts analyze Nicki Minaj’scontroversial political alignments [39:39] and critique Candace Owens’ polarizing statements [49:04], before shifting to a reflective conversation on Derrick Rose’s jersey retirement and lasting legacy [01:02:03]. The episode closes with broader reflections on the state of American society [01:06:36] and a spirited discussion around Cam Newton’scomments on platonic relationships and gender dynamics [01:07:04], reinforcing the show’s commitment to examining culture, politics, and accountability with nuance and honesty. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_pod See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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The Pee Pee Girls
Feb 200:58:03Summary readyDecisions, Decisions is back with Mandii B and WeezyWTF going SOLO this week, with Eddin in the building. This episode runs through riding a man you actually start to like, men judging other men for having ugly girlfriends, a wild deep dive into a couple that drinks their own pee (and why that’s dangerous), another round of Heauxetry, the 10 guys women should be with before finding the one, and getting clear on long-term dating goals. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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You've Got Decisions: Am I Stupid for Sticking Around?
Jan 2800:22:39Summary readySend us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
SummaryEp. 48 | Misogony Economy, Book Bans & Jingles
Jan 2801:21:11Summary readyIn this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and Jason “Jah” Lee for a wide-ranging, culture-forward conversation that blends humor, critique, and social commentary. The episode opens with reflections on a recent winter storm and the collective panic it caused, including questionable food preparation decisions and general storm-time ignorance [00:00–05:05]. From there, the discussion pivots into the evolving creator economy, unpacking what true ownership looks like through the lens of Kevin Hart’s licensing deal and Kavi Lamay’s groundbreaking AI digital twin, raising the question of whether everyone — and everything — is ultimately for sale [26:32]. The energy shifts as the crew dives into the lucrative and often-overlooked power of advertising jingles, sparked by a viral Dr. Pepper jingle that earned its creator a major payout, leading into a hilarious, improvised jingle-creation challenge that showcases the hosts’ chemistry and creativity [41:11–42:41], while also examining the fine line between catchy marketing and provocative advertising [47:22]. Balancing the fun with heavier topics, the conversation turns toward literacy and media access in prisons and why storytelling and education still matter behind bars [52:44], followed by a nuanced breakdown of Kanye West’s recent apology and how public perception, accountability, and redemption play out in real time [58:03]. The episode closes with a candid discussion on relationship dynamics, centered around Cam’ron and his ex, exploring communication, ego, and emotional maturity in modern relationships [01:11:39]. Altogether, the episode captures Selective Ignorance at its best — blending sharp humor, cultural critique, and thoughtful dialogue about ownership, media, and accountability in today’s attention economy. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @jaysonrodriguez @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_podSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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